Choosing a penis plug can be a bit daunting the first time. What is even more intimidating is when you take it home and you are ready to use it the first time. A mixed wave of emotions comes over you as you anticipate in your mind what it is going to feel like. Do I go through with it? Was it just a silly idea dreamed up by some marketer who knows nothing about the urethral sounding joy you want to experience? Lets allay those fears with a true beginners penis plug guide.
We will go through a step by step tutorial on how to insert a penis plug that very first time. It’s the easy penis plug guide that you were looking for.
What is a Penis Plug?
First up, penis plugs or a wand or medical sound in most cases is a piece of surgical steel that is inserted into the urethra. It may, or may not, result in sexual stimulation and play.
Beginners Guide to Penis Plugs
Lets start off with saying your first attempt should be with a smooth, perhaps slightly tapered plug of no more than 100mm in length.
Do not listen to those that say it should be the slimmest size. As this may cause a piercing that will be very painful and may require medical assistance. A good safe thickness should be 4-8mm to start.
Now, for gods sake, purchase one from a reputable shop
Do not look around the house for a knitting needle or screw or something else to insert into your urethra. Look after your urethra. It is a very sensitive part of the body. If you do the things I am going to divulge to you now, it may also derive you great pleasures.
There are a multitude of different plugs in the market. But you do not want to start with a silicone one, or a wavy one, or a dominating sound of over 200mm in length.
Lets keep it simple for the first time. So we have adequately covered the basics, so lets get into the nitty gritty.
Coming From The Inside Out
You have heard all the wonderful things about cock plugs and the fabled ‘cumming from the inside out.‘ Your curiosity now has the better of you and it is time for you to experience this ‘holy grail’.
Well settle down a bit mister. A bit more work goes into it than purchasing the first plug you see and stuffing it down your cock that will make you reach your new sexual nirvana.
Perhaps you did not realize this but those that have experienced this majestic sexual enlightenment are/were not newbies. They took the time and effort to learn how to carry out their cock-stuffing in a safe and enjoyable manner first, and you must do too.
There are no short-cuts.
To achieve the incredible ‘cumming from the inside out’ you need to possess either of the following.
- A hollow plug.
- Or a cum thru plug.
- Pee thru plug.
All three are the same thing but those are the most common names for it. To cum you have to have a hollow tubed cock plug so that your semen can pass through. It’s inside out feeling is created because the flow of semen whilst ejaculated is hindered by the narrow channel.
So as you climax a small amount dribbles through the opening and the remaining backs up into your urethral canal. More you ejaculate, the more semen goes up your urethra, creating that inside out feeling.
BUT for Newbies Use Solid First
Unfortunately for you newbies it is my humble suggestion that you use a solid plug first.
A solid plug should have a stopper, safe bend or flare at the end to make sure that you do not put the whole thing up your urethra. And then have to rush to the medical center to have it removed.
I have a couple of recommendations for beginners plugs but the Ask Men Starter Penis Plug I feel is the perfect starter. You can pick it up for a measly $20AUD.
This plug is safe, especially for a newbie.
You will notice that the tip is rounded, no sharp edges and the plug is slightly tapered. Its end is curved so you will never have a problem with it going all the way in. A handle gives you greater control for bringing it in and out. This to me is the perfect training penis plug as it cannot be inserted to deeply or to shallow.
So you have taken my advice and gone out online or to your local shop and purchased the Ask Men Starter Penis Plug. You have unwrapped it, looking it and asking what now? Don’t worry my friend I am not going to leave you in the lurch.
As promised here goes my step by step guide
Step 1
When you receive your product have a look at it. Feel it to ensure that it is smooth, there are no irregularities or sharp bits on it.
Trust me you must do this as most penis plugs brands are hand-made. Although it has never happened to me I have heard of someone inserting a penis plug and slicing their urinary tract. You don’t want to explain that one to the doctor.
This step should be followed each and every time you use a plug. Even one you have already used. As it may have dropped and a dint or ridge may also cause damage.
Step 2
Once you have made sure that the plug is safe to use give it a wash using an antibacterial toy cleaner or placing the plug in boiling water. This will be going inside you so it is essential to make sure it is sterile.
Say NO to Urinary Tract Infections!
Step 3
If you placed it in boiling water let it cool down. Although many people prefer to slip the penis plug in whilst it is still warm.
Step 4
Bring out the lubricant. Many urethral insert enthusiasts carry on about getting a Surgilube, or only use water based lubricant. These are great lubricants don’t get me wrong. But if you like extended play the urethra actually absorbs water so you will be regularly having to re-lube.
I personally use Superslyde which is a silicon lubricant, however many say that using silicon lubricant may cause a UTI. It has not with me but it may with others. So I will allow you to make your judicious decision on that one. Start with use the water based ones.
Step 5
This to me is as important for a newbie as step one. Put on some of your favorite beats, relax, do some gentle breathing. Relax some more. Have happy thoughts as you put some lube on, and if you can in the eye of your penis.
DO NOT FORCE IT.
If it does not go comfortably…relax. Do some gentle breathing, relax some more, have happy thoughts…. Once your are lubed up lube up the insertible shaft of your plug…
Step 6
Take it slow…. Did you hear me??? SLOWLY!!!!
Slowly slide it down the eye of your pee hole. If you have relaxed enough and you are doing it slowly it should slide in with no resistance and little or no discomfort.
If you force it I almost guarantee you will never do it again. You will think that all of us that love this male sex toys play are nuts. I got news for you, we are not nuts. You are a chump for not following these steps that will addict you to this fantastic fetish.
I cannot stress this enough.
If you experience resistance or it is feeling very uncomfortable STOP and .relax. Do some gentle breathing, relax some more, have happy thoughts….
I liken this step is a bit like breaking your virginity. If you do it right the first time you will enjoy it and every time after that will be better and you can begin your urethral explorations.
Step 7
Now you have inserted the plug into your urogenital canal, sounded professional I did then (pat on back whilst LOL). You will be feeling aroused but probably have not got a full erection.
Starting very slowly begin to pull the plug out (if you have the Ask Men with the handle) and insert again slowly. Do this, you can slowly pick up the pace. But being a first time user not too fast. You will have plenty of time to experiment at a later date.
Ensure that you are comfortable and experience no pain. For a novice user I would limit it to a maximum of 5 minutes.
Step 8
Remove the plug, check your pee-hole. If you can, go to the toilet and urinate. First time you do some cock-stuffing there may be some spotting in your urine. This is common so do not stress as long as there is no pain or discomfort.
Clean and sterilize your plug.
Now That Wasn’t So Bad Was It?
Whilst you were stroking the plug inside your urethra you will probably have achieved a full erection. You would have felt extremely pleasurable and different sensations to normal sex.
After you have urinated you will probably want to jerk off as it has turned you on. All those things are fine but you must give yourself at least 24 hours before you try more penis plug play. This is for your safety.
Slowly Work Yourself up to a Comfortable Level
The next day you can try 7 minutes, and the next 9. Slowly work yourself up to the level that you are most comfortable and enjoy the most. My advice is not to expand your penis plug range for at least a few weeks and more prudently a month.
Then it is time for the fun to begin.
Try the different penis plugs, cock wands, medical sounds until you find the style that best suits you. You may enjoy masturbating whilst a sound is inside your urethra. Or getting a hollow plug with a glans ring that you can cum thru (inside out).
Some men like to wear them whilst they are having sex and other wear them for extended periods.
This fetish is very adaptable
There are heaps of different penis plugs on the market. Solid ones, cum-thru, smooth, corkscrew, tapered, double ended, stepped and more for you to discover. You can even use them with your trusted fleshlight sex toy.
So there you have it.
Always remember cost is not always everything with these type of intimate products and buy from a reputable store. Saving yourself $10 or $15 and ending up at the local hospital is no saving at all.
Be safe and be well!
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When the first time I tried, there was small amount of blood and the post removal there was burning pain when I pee.
After that, the joy comes. I now could insert 20 cm long plug and this is really a very sexy toy.
Don’t forget to clean your hand before inserting this magical toy.
Not sure if I want to stick something up there!!!!