This Training Kit Will Have You In Raptures!

How mens orgasms feel like after a prostate massage

Topco Sales is a well-established company that has been manufacturing sex toys for over 40 years now.  Having had such experience they have produced some of the best-selling adult products in the world.  They have their own manufacturing plant that is approved by the FDA ensuring that the highest standards are maintained throughout the production process.

Topco were kind enough to send us the Climax Anal Rapture Training Kit that is suitable for beginners to experts.  The thing I love about kits is that you get a variety of options and if you are disappointed in one there is another one which may make it into your preferred options.  Luckily in this kit there are no bad options, they are all equally pleasurable just in different sizes.

Contained in the attractive clamshell packaging are three anal trainers that are categorized as:

  • Beginner – 3.5in – 9.1 cm long, 1.4in – 3.4cm diameter
  • Intermediate – 4.3in – 10.8cm long, 1.6in – 4cm diameter
  • Advanced  – 5.2in – 13.3cm long, 1.75in – 4.4cm diameter
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They come in various color options of blue, orange, red but the ones supplied are pretty in pink.  Made from 100% body-safe silicone materials they are hypoallergenic, non-phallic, phthalate free and come with a silky smooth surface that is temperature sensitive if you like your toys heated or chilled. The plugs have a flat base that could be used to place it whilst the shaft is slightly angled and tapered the narrowest being at the tip of the shaft and it increases in girth as you go lower. All three are identical in shape just in different size scales. Being hypoallergenic silicone there is no scent so they are odorless perfect for the most sensitive of skin and bodies.

My Experience With The Climax Anal Rapture Training Kit

With all anal toys it is essential that you use plenty of water-based lubricant.  After lubing up the ergonomically designed anal toy I easily inserted the beginners plug.  As the tip was tapered it took little effort at all.  It was easy and a delight to work in and as it was slowly inserted I could feel the girth expand and got a ‘fuller’ feeling.  The curvy tip of the prostate massager allowed me to easily find my prostate gland that with the flattened head was easy to massage.  It wasn’t long before I was extremely turned on and as I manipulated the prostate.  I began to get that familiar tickling feeling in my penis as my erection grew.

If you have not experienced a prostate milking before it feels like you are going to orgasm but the sensations come from the prostate as your sphincter muscles will clamp shut and open (I guess this would be similar to a vagainal orgasm when the muscles tighten and loosen).  Eventually the touch becomes far more enjoyable and just as you think you are going to cum through the penis your prostate beings milking and discharging a milky white liquid.

Personally I have never been able to achieve a semen ejaculation but some men (lucky them) do and it is described as being ten-fold plus more pleasurable than standard sex or masturbation.  In any event, my male G-Spot did not let me down and I achieved a prostate orgasm/milking.

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I experienced no pain or discomfort and afterwards the toy was easy to clean under some luke warm water and antibacterial sex toy cleaner.  The manufacturer states that the product is so robust it can simply be put into a dishwasher.  As with all silicone toys once you are finished lightly dry it with a towel then let it air dry. Store it in a silk toy bag or something similar and place it in a dry place.

This sex toy kit represents great value for money with an average price of about $50 for the set of just over $16 each.  They will last you a long time and they would be as suitable for a female or male.  Incorporate them in your couples sex play for added excitement.

The main tip for those wanting to use an anal trainer for the first time is to relax and breathe.  The first time has to be enjoyable otherwise you will be turned off anal sex forever whether you are a man or a woman.  Make sure that you have plenty of time, put on some light music, scented candles and mood lighting.  Relax and breathe, think of the pleasant things that have happened to you, have some dirty thoughts and begin to arouse yourself with gentle masturbation. Probably the first time it would be good to masturbate until climax.

Now that you have come and you are at ease begin to have these thoughts again, grab some warmed up lubricant and liberally apply it in and around your anus and to the anal trainer of your choice.  Tease your anus, perhaps masturbate simultaneously and apply a continuous but gentle pressure as long as you do not force it. Continue to breathe you will be surprised when the tip painlessly pops into your anus as your sphincter muscle clamps around it.

Now it is time to gently insert the toy.  If you are beginner it is probably better to insert it fully and once fully in begin to gently and with short motions bring it in and out.  Once you are loosened, still comfortable use the sex toy’s tapered tip to locate your Prostate Gland and begin to massage it.

Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

The Truth About Anal Shopping Experiences

Woman Shopping At A Sex Toy Store

It​ ​was​ ​7pm​ ​on​ ​a​ ​Wednesday​ ​night.​ ​As​ ​I​ ​carefully​ ​and​ ​meticulously​ ​cleaned​ ​the​ ​shining​ ​metal hook​ ​in​ ​my​ ​hands,​ ​the​ ​smell​ ​of​ ​disinfectant​ ​wild​ ​and​ ​acrid​ ​in​ ​my​ ​nostrils​ ​I​ ​gazed​ ​upon​ ​my surroundings​ ​and​ ​took​ ​in​ ​the​ ​sights​ ​and​ ​sounds.​ ​Wall​ ​after​ ​wall​ ​of​ ​beautiful​ ​multi-coloured​ ​sex toys covered​ ​the​ ​shelves,​ ​each​ ​of​ ​them​ ​silent​ ​and​ ​still,​ ​yet​ ​somehow​ ​with​ ​a​ ​life​ ​of​ ​their​ ​own.​ ​They called​ ​out​ ​from​ ​the​ ​shelves,​ ​beckoning​ ​with​ ​their​ ​textures​ ​and​ ​silhouettes,​ ​chanting​ ​into​ ​the​ ​still air.

I​ ​heard​ ​an​ ​alarm​ ​sound​ ​in​ ​the​ ​depths​ ​of​ ​the​ ​store,​ ​and​ ​it​ ​was​ ​in​ ​that​ ​moment​ ​that​ ​I’d​ ​realised​ ​a young​ ​girl​ ​stood​ ​before​ ​me,​ ​with​ ​willowy​ ​blonde​ ​hair​ ​and​ ​a​ ​curious​ ​expression.​ ​“Sorry,​ ​I​ ​didn’t see​ ​you​ ​there”,​ ​I​ ​apologised.​ ​“Would​ ​you​ ​like​ ​any​ ​help​ ​with​ ​anything​ ​today?”.​ ​She​ ​gazed​ ​up​ ​at me​ ​with​ ​intent​ ​eyes.​ ​“I​ ​would​ ​actually.​ ​You​ ​see,​ ​my​ ​boyfriend’s​ ​gone​ ​to​ ​Rome​ ​for​ ​a​ ​few​ ​weeks now​ ​and​ ​he’s​ ​returning​ ​tomorrow,​ ​and​ ​well,​ ​I’d​ ​like​ ​to​ ​surprise​ ​him.​ ​I​ ​know​ ​he​ ​loves​ ​a​ ​bit​ ​of​ ​anal play​ ​and​ ​I’d​ ​love​ ​to​ ​get​ ​him​ ​something​ ​that​ ​will​ ​stimulate​ ​his​ ​prostate…”​ ​she​ ​trailed​ ​off.

She​ ​seemed​ ​embarrassed​ ​to​ ​even​ ​say​ ​such​ ​a​ ​thing,​ ​and​ ​I​ ​assured​ ​her​ ​“There’s​ ​no​ ​judgement here,​ ​come​ ​with​ ​me​ ​and​ ​I’ll​ ​show​ ​you​ ​what​ ​we’ve​ ​got.”​ ​I​ ​guided​ ​her​ ​to​ ​our​ ​shelves​ ​of​ ​anal​ sex ​toys and​ ​asked​ ​her​ ​“Is​ ​your​ ​boyfriend​ ​experienced​ ​with​ ​anal​ ​play?”

She​ ​shook​ ​her​ ​head.​ ​“I​ ​know​ ​he’s​ ​had​ ​an​ ​ex-girlfriend​ ​who​ ​loved​ ​anal​ ​play,​ ​but​ ​whether​ ​he’s gone​ ​there,​ ​I​ ​couldn’t​ ​tell​ ​you”.​ ​I​ ​nodded​ ​and​ ​said,​ ​“If​ ​he’s​ ​inexperienced,​ ​he’ll​ ​want​ ​to​ ​start​ ​off with​ ​something​ ​small.​ ​Often​ ​times,​ ​people​ ​misjudge​ ​the​ ​size​ ​of​ ​objects​ ​they​ ​can​ ​take;​ ​and what’s​ ​the​ ​point​ ​in​ ​him​ ​having​ ​a​ sex ​toy​ ​if​ ​he​ ​can’t​ ​even​ ​insert​ ​it?”

She​ ​picked​ ​up​ ​a​ ​set​ ​of​ ​anal​ ​plugs,​ ​a​ ​set​ ​of​ ​three​ ​starting​ ​from​ ​very​ ​small,​ ​to​ ​medium​ ​to​ ​a​ ​larger size.​ ​“What​ ​do​ ​you​ ​think​ ​of​ ​this?”​ ​she​ ​asked.​ ​“It’s​ ​good”,​ ​I​ ​said.​ ​“​ ​However,​ ​wouldn’t​ ​you​ ​rather something​ ​vibrating​ ​so​ ​that​ ​it​ ​can​ ​hit​ ​his​ ​prostate​ ​just​ ​right?”

She​ ​looked​ ​at​ ​me​ ​thoughtfully​ ​and​ ​said​ ​“What’s​ ​the​ ​deal​ ​with​ ​guys​ ​and​ ​their​ ​prostates​ ​anyway?” I​ ​inhaled​ ​and​ ​pondered​ ​where​ ​to​ ​begin​ ​and​ ​how​ ​to​ ​explain​ ​the​ ​prostate.​ ​“I​ ​suppose​ ​the​ ​easiest way​ ​to​ ​explain​ ​it,​ ​is​ ​it’s​ ​the​ ​male​ ​equivalent​ ​of​ ​the​ ​female​ ​g-spot.​ ​It’s​ ​about​ ​the​ ​size​ ​of​ ​a​ ​walnut and​ ​feels​ ​rougher​ ​and​ ​firmer​ ​than​ ​the​ ​rest​ ​of​ ​the​ ​anal​ ​cavity.”

Image Of The P-Spot
Diagram: The Location Of The Prostate Gland

“But​ ​why​ ​would​ ​you​ ​want​ ​to​ ​explore​ ​your​ ​prostate​ ​if​ ​your​ ​penis​ ​does​ ​a​ ​good​ ​enough​ ​job orgasming?”​,​ ​she​ ​asked.​ ​“Because,​ ​girl,​ ​the​ ​penis​ ​is​ ​limiting.​ ​Why​ ​have​ ​one​ ​type​ ​of​ ​orgasm​ ​for the​ ​rest​ ​of​ ​your​ ​life,​ ​enduring​ ​the​ ​same​ ​feeling​ ​over​ ​and​ ​over​ ​when​ ​you​ ​can​ ​expand​ ​your capacity​ ​for​ ​pleasure?​ ​Women​ ​are​ ​killing​ ​the​ ​orgasm​ ​game,​ ​by​ ​the​ ​way.​ ​I’ve​ ​heard​ ​you​ ​can have​ ​three​ ​types​ ​of​ ​orgasms”.​ ​She​ ​laughed​ ​and​ ​said​ ​“I​ ​think​ ​it’s​ ​more​ ​like​ ​11.”

​I​ ​stared​ ​at​ ​her​ ​in​ ​disbelief​ ​and​ ​shook​ ​my​ ​head,​ ​not​ ​yet​ ​ready​ ​to​ ​deal​ ​with​ ​the​ ​injustice​ ​that​ ​had just​ ​been​ ​revealed​ ​to​ ​me.​ ​“Just​ ​to​ ​let​ ​you​ ​know​ ​how​ ​it​ ​feels,​ ​it’s​ ​basically​ ​like​ ​a​ ​new​ ​type​ ​of pressure.​ ​Like​ ​that​ ​post​ ​orgasmic​ ​feeling,​ ​but​ ​deep​ ​in​ ​your​ ​pelvis.​ ​And​ ​once​ ​the​ ​orgasm​ ​does hit,​ ​it​ ​feels​ ​like​ ​a​ ​stream​ ​of​ ​cum​ ​and​ ​a​ ​continuous​ ​orgasm​ ​instead​ ​of​ ​a​ ​pulsing​ ​one.​ ​You​ ​could probably​ ​give​ ​your​ ​boyfriend​ ​head​ ​while​ ​this​ ​happens​ ​and​ ​he​ ​would​ ​love​ ​it.”

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“I​ ​want​ ​one​ ​for​ ​myself​ ​now.”​ ​she​ ​muttered.​ ​We​ ​laughed​ ​and​ ​that’s​ ​when​ ​we​ ​spotted​ ​Sir Richard’s​ ​Prostate​ ​Massager.​ ​It​ ​was​ ​a​ ​smooth,​ ​decadent​ ​black​ ​box​ ​spurring​ ​intrigue​ ​and mystery​ ​for​ ​both​ ​of​ ​us.​ ​We​ ​simultaneously​ ​reached​ ​for​ ​the​ ​packaging​ ​and​ ​knew​ ​then​ ​that​ ​we had​ ​to​ ​discover​ ​the​ ​contents​ ​of​ ​the​ ​box.​ ​It​ ​was​ ​better​ ​than​ ​we​ ​could’ve​ ​imagined;​ ​the​ sex ​toy contained​ ​two​ ​motors.​ ​One​ ​on​ ​the​ ​base​ ​meaning​ ​perineal​ ​stimulation​ ​and​ ​one​ ​at​ ​the​ ​top,​ ​to stimulate​ ​the​ ​prostate.

“The​ ​shape​ ​is​ ​so​ ​sleek​ ​and​ ​smooth,”​ ​she​ ​commented.​ ​I​ ​nodded​ ​and​ ​said​ ​“And​ ​the​ ​shape​ ​is perfect​ ​for​ ​stimulation.​ ​Do​ ​you​ ​see​ ​these​ ​two​ ​grooves?​ ​At​ ​the​ ​narrowest​ ​point​ ​of​ ​the​ ​grooves, your​ ​asshole​ ​will​ ​clench,​ ​letting​ ​you​ ​know​ ​how​ ​far​ ​in​ ​the​ ​sex toy​ ​has​ ​gone.​ ​And​ ​it​ ​has​ ​the​ ​added bonus​ ​of​ ​rubbing​ ​against​ ​your​ ​prostate​ ​perfectly.”

“And​ ​so​ ​it’s​ ​just​ ​the​ ​prostate​ ​and​ ​the​ ​perineum​ ​that​ ​provides​ ​pleasure?”​ ​she​ ​asked.

“As​ ​a​ ​gay​ ​man,​ ​I​ ​enjoy​ ​the​ ​sensation​ ​of​ ​feeling​ ​full​ ​from​ ​anal,​ ​if​ ​that​ ​makes​ ​sense.​ ​I’m​ ​not​ ​sure​ ​if this​ ​would​ ​apply​ ​to​ ​your​ ​boyfriend.​ ​But,​ ​the​ ​erogenous​ ​zones​ ​are​ ​generally​ ​the​ ​anus​ ​ring,​ ​the perineum​ ​and​ ​the​ ​prostate.”

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I​ ​showed​ ​her​ ​how​ ​to​ ​turn​ ​on​ ​the​ ​sex toy,​ ​properly​ ​clean​ ​it​ ​and​ ​helped​ ​her​ ​choose​ ​a​ ​water-based​ ​lube to​ ​use​ ​with​ ​the​ ​sex toy.​ ​She​ ​thanked​ ​me​ ​profusely​ ​and​ ​promised​ ​to​ ​return​ ​on​ ​her​ ​next​ ​sexual adventure,​ ​seeking​ ​new​ ​ways​ ​to​ ​push​ ​boundaries​ ​and​ ​diversify​ ​pleasure.​ ​As​ ​she​ ​left​ ​the​ ​store, sex toy​ ​in​ ​tow​ ​and​ ​a​ ​wide​ ​smile​ ​on​ ​her​ ​face,​ ​I​ ​couldn’t​ ​help​ ​but​ ​feel​ ​envious​ ​of​ ​her​ ​boyfriend​ ​and​ ​the world​ ​of​ ​pleasure​ ​he​ ​was​ ​about​ ​to​ ​find​ ​himself​ ​in.

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Richard runs the marketing and social profiles of adultsmart and adultsmart blog. He has been in the industry just over 10 years and enjoys his role both in an administrative capacity as well keeping abreast of issues relating to sexual health and lifestyles.

Nona’s Recipe For The Best E-stim

The Electrastim Silicone Noir In Black

Working in an Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre, my job is never boring from the weird and wonderful people who come through the doors to the weird and wonderful products I get to see and sometimes review.

Today I am reviewing a fairly standard sex toy, an e-stim G-spot probe nothing weird about that, but often companies are very hit and miss with their products presentation be it the shape or colour of the product itself (psst enough shocking pink and hideous shades of purple already) or the name and slogan for a sex toy, Womanizer I’m lookin’ at you.

Today we have Nona an e-stim vaginal probe (which can also be used as a butt plug because of its flared base!) from the silicone NOIR range.

Box Of The Electrastim Silicone Noir
Sex Toy: Electrastim Silicone Noir Nona In Packaging

About The Electrastim Silicone Noir Nona

Nona, a name perhaps inspired by the Roman deity, one of the Parcae, the three personifications of destiny. Nona, whose name means “ninth”, was called upon by pregnant women in their ninth month when the child was due to be born…. perhaps not.

I think some of you reading may already know why I find this name to be so amusing and just oh so wrong, but those of you who don’t please allow me to explain:

  • Silicone – a very common body safe material that most high-quality sex toys are made of.
  • Noir – a very specific film genre or in French it can mean Black (ethnicity), colour in general, drunk/inebriated and dark/darkness
  • Nona – Nonna (spelt with two n’s) in Italian means Grandmother.

Now I don’t care that it isn’t spelt with two n’s I read this box as “Silicone Black Grandma” and I can’t un-see it. These words are common enough knowledge that I am absolutely sure the United Kingdom based company Cyrex who makes ElectraStim products has at least 1 person who knows Nonna means grandma in Italian (they clearly know what noir means as the whole NOIR range is black) I want to know what depraved and honestly hilarious individual let the name go through and for this to be printed on the box:

“Lavish your G-spot with attention when you get intimate with Nona…”

I just can’t deal, it’s too funny.

Name aside this sex toy is excellent in fact Nona won the 2015 ADULTEX Award for best product design. Nona is made of premium grade silicone and is a 3.5 inches (8.8cm) insertable length and has a 4.3inch (10.9cm) circumference it is a good size for both g-spot and p-spot stimulation.

How To Use The Electrastim Silicone Noir Nona

Nona and other sex toys from ElectraStim require one of the ElectraStim stimulator control panels to power it. The ElectraStim Stimulator (control panel) and all of their e-stim range use universal 2mm pin connections for all of our stimulation units and electrodes are used, so rest assured all the ElectraStim products will work with the control panel and vice versa. The other items in the NOIR range include a dildo, beginners butt plug, prostate massager, kegel balls and another 3 different sized butt plugs. They all have normal names like Ovid, Aura, Sirius, Lula and Rocker. (Ovid is an Italian name by the way, very suspicious 😂)

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Now, Nona is a bit of a dust collector so make sure you store her in a bag or container of some kind, we can’t have ol’ Nona getting dusty now. Cleaning Nona is also really easy, just make sure you use hot water and a good sex toy cleaner and leave her to dry in the sun before you put her back in storage.

Try not to let this poor name choice deter you from this fantastic e-stim g-spot probe, it really is a high-quality device that is sure to bring a lot of electrified pleasure, check out the ElectraStim range at one of our Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centers today. If you would like to find out more information, be sure to read a sex toy review on the ElectraStim product range.

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Releasing Hot Passion With Katrina

Prostate Massager By Sweetoy

I was introduced to this next sex toy with very few details. I was handed a beautiful light grey tone bag, and told to “Have fun with Sweetoys new Prostate Massager”, I was excited, to say the least. Katrina was provided for review by our friends at Dongguan Sweetoy Co Ltd which is a brand that is made by the manufacturing company Wang Shing Sex Toys Co Ltd. You won’t be disappointed in any products from Sweetoys. This was not going to be my first Sweetoy, but this one was new and different!

What’s In A Name?

I waited till I got home to open and inspect it thoroughly. Upon inspection I was in awe over this beautiful Prostate Massager, a remote was also included “exciting” says my partner glancing at the new sex toy. The bag also contained a small pictographic manual, nothing with a name? Hrmm? What am I supposed to call my new friend? I like to know the names of whom I’m getting intimate with. I searched the sex toy itself. Re looked through the Pictographic manual, it just explained the odd looking forked end to its Massager. I had already guessed how the soft Bident end of the base to this massager worked. It’s a two tine fork almost that runs along the base of this Sweetoy. It’s actually pretty genius; each of the soft silicone ends add the most tantalising sensations to the perineum and scrotum. You simply slide the scrotum in-between the easily spread forked end and let yourself enjoy the incredible sensations this sex toy provides. I could go on about the fun to be had with this sex toy, but I needed to know its name.

I had to email the big bosses to see if someone could offer me an introduction to this sex toy. I had found out that Sweetoys had just recently updated their packaging to display the product’s name in rose gold letters clearly on the front with a classically beautiful black box. The Prostate Massager is carefully placed inside the box in a tray and it also includes a flannelette bag so you can store the sex toy safely away. But to be honest, I was slightly disappointed with the name it was given. This Prostate Massager was called “Katrina”, yes Katrina? It just didn’t make sense, why this name, isn’t Katrina the loudest girl at every party?

I have always enjoyed the names that Sweetoys have come up with in the past. I don’t know why I questioned this one so much, but it did. I started looking into the meanings and origins of the name Katrina. After a little digging, it is a really fitting name for this particular sex toy, perhaps a bit deep but fitting.

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The Features Of Katrina

Katrina is a German name, the fact it is German speaks about this Prostate Massager’s perfect design. From its smooth seamless silicon body to the shape and form it takes with the body during use. Katrina offers approx 3.5 inches of insert-able vibrating pleasure, the ridges along the insertable shaft are ensuring your prostate a good time.

Katrina is said to experience extremes in fortune and spirituality. Fortune hits right on the money. When you first look at Katrina the sleek black silicone is paired with rose gold accents. Yes, you read that right, rose gold accents, this sex toy is next to Tiffany Show Room ready. Even as a man the rose gold and black combo is truly eye catching. It will make any user feel special.

The name Katrina is said to be intuitive, idealistic and versatile, and Katrina the PM is all of those things indeed. Katrina is said to understand the laws of harmony and has a desire for balance. When you insert this sex toy, it’s like a key. Fitting exactly where it’s supposed to. The design and shape of this sex toy ensure your personal pleasure zones are not only engaged but experiencing the real pleasure. The vibration settings take the user on a journey to places of pleasure they might be unfamiliar with, but with this PM they are sure to enjoy it and even want to come back again and again.

Katrina is said to feel incomplete without a someone to share with. Just like the name the PM plays so well with a partner. The remote for one, it’s a great sex toy to hand your partner, giving them total control of the sex toy’s vibrations.

I had no place to question the name sake of this wonderful Prostate Massage Tool. Katrina fits in every way. My partner and I will both have to get comfortable when we invite Katrina into our bed.

Where To Find Katrina

Katrina has not made her debut into the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres yet, I was very lucky to get a sneak preview. But Katrina is a must for anyone and any couple who incorporate a little anal play into their fun. The remote really adds a fun dynamic for you and your partner.

Keep your eyes open on the Adultsmart website for the availability of the Katrina Prostate Massager from Sweetoy, you don’t want to miss it!

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Patrick Kriz has a Bachelor Degree (Honours) in Psychology – Human Sexuality. Patrick is a wonderful man that has a wealth of knowledge and is happy to share this with those around him. He is articulate, educated and the provider or interesting and educational writings.

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The Untapped Pleasure Of Spotty

Nomi Tangs Anal Sex Toy Spotty RC

A little while ago I was extremely lucky to receive a Spotty RC by Nomi Tang. In all honesty, I’d not heard of the brand before I got my hands on the box and I was very curious. At the time, being the curious soul that I am, I opened it up had a look at what it could do and was really excited to get it home and give it a whirl. This, on first impressions, looked different. It looked awesome. And it looked fun!

Let me tell you, that it’s really difficult to get a good prostate massager – and in my time working with sex toys and as a sexual educator I have tried more than several. They’ve each had their flaws though which after a couple of times meant that they just didn’t work for me, or they were a great shape but were just boring. Times change though, and technology gets better and now, I’m really happy to announce, that I have found one that works really well for me. It’s not perfect – but it hits the spots, it hits them well, and I have enjoyed every single minute of this sex toy inside me. So for that, I’d like to say thanks!

What’s Included With The Spotty RC

So with that in mind, let’s get this review started. The box is pretty simple, and masculine. Black with silver writing. The box, doesn’t give too much away in the sense that it’s pretty sparse and simple, but you will instantly realise that this prostate massager uses a remote control. Now if you’ve ever had something shoved up your ass between your legs when your hands are lubed up and you’re desperately trying to maintain THAT position where it’s hitting the right spot but you need more power – then you’ll know exactly how handy that remote is going to be. Scrap handy, it’s a god send – and by god send it’ll be an – oh my god send. Or something like that. More on that later on. The box is great because it can double as a storage box as well – but to be honest for my purposes where I don’t have a lot of space, I’d rather put it in my own little bag altogether – I’m still a massive fan of included storage bags and was a little disappointed that there wasn’t one.

First Impressions Of The Spotty RC

You open the box, there nestled among the packaging is the prostate massager, the remote, the cord and a book. Pulling out the prostate massager I cradled it in my hands. It still looked pretty awesome, and now it felt pretty awesome as well. I loved the fact that I didn’t need to be an anal pro and that the insertable shaft was of reasonable proportions. I was a little confused by the handle – I’m still not sure why they all point backwards so you still have to do that whole reach around to grab hold of it – but I liked that that it was made of silicone. I love the silicone material, it wasn’t too soft, it wasn’t too slick and it still had a nice bit of grip to it. Most of all though, I loved the ‘softness’ of the tip. It wasn’t rock hard, it had a little give on it. Which was awesome, because in this little head was the feature that I was most excited about.

It rotated. It moved. It was going to massage my prostate.

For once, I was going to be in a position where I could simply lean back, turn the remote control on, and have the sex toy vibrate. Not only that, but it was going to massage my prostate as well – and the prospect of that thrilled me. Sure, call me lazy. Call me a starfish – but I move around in sex. I have other sex toys that work my muscles and work out my PC muscles – I wanted a lazy sex toy. I wanted a sex toy that did the work for me – and I’ll tell you straight up – it does that, mostly.

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How I Used The Spotty RC

So after charging it up – I turned it on and fiddled with the remote. It’s remarkably simple, you press the buttons on the base of the sex toy – and once it’s on you can control it with the remote. Simples! After fiddling, and playing with and getting accustomed to the settings (and after mesmerizingly watching the prostate massager twirl around against the air and not on me) I couldn’t take it anymore and just had to jump right on it. Lubed it up with my favourite water-based lube – got down and dirty. The silicone, once lubed up, glides effortlessly and I was really content with how easily it slipped it in, and I was even more content with how it sat. Sometimes, you’d slip in a massager and it looked right, and it didn’t sit right and it didn’t matter which angle you were at, it just wasn’t going to work. I liked this. I didn’t particularly like how the angle I was on (on my back) meant that the handle was hitting the ground and changing the position and pressure of the massager, however, a pillow and raising the hips upwards fixed that. I could still be the starfish. Once comfortable, I turned it on and almost stripped the sheets off my bed. It wasn’t the most powerful of vibrators I’d had before – but it was definitely a shock to the system. A pleasurable shock. It felt good. The dual motors were exactly where they needed to be and the vibrations were happily rumbling through my body.

The first part of the prostate massager worked really well – but I was curious to see how the rotating head would work. So, gritting my teeth I cycled through the settings to get where I needed to be. Which, actually, is one of the little issues I have about this product. I can’t control the rotations and vibrations separately and am limited to pre-set functions. Which on one hand is really simple. But on the other, lacks variety. But it’s a small issue – and if they ever decide to upgrade the sex toy adding another button would be simply amazing. Hint hint, nudge nudge.

After turning on the rotations, I sat there. I must say I was a little disappointed. Whilst they were good – they weren’t as earth shattering as I thought it would be. Having the sex toy on the rotate only setting was actually pretty dull for me. I could see that if I sat there long enough and wriggled a little bit that I could probably induce a prostate orgasm, but for me personally, the arm just wasn’t quite there. The motor at this point was noticeably louder, but didn’t detract from my experience. It’s not something that I would use if it was late at night and with thin walls, but it’s certainly not a mack truck.

A little disappointed but determined, I flicked the vibrations on and this is where it was again, magical. The vibrations with the little tickle, provided the intensity that I was seeking and after turning up the vibrations again – it wasn’t long before the orgasm hit and the sheets were being pulled off the bed in that oh my god moment. An experience which was momentarily disturbed when I twisted and knocked the handle again which took a slight edge off. But hey – I got there and it was good.

In summary my disappointment with this product concerns two things. Firstly, the shape and direction of the handle and secondly the rotations by themselves.

You can’t wear this sitting down and doggy style on all fours with your ass in the air and letting gravity provide that extra pressure – whilst fucking amazing – takes away from the lazy experience I was seeking. I really dislike the handle and the limitations It provides on the positions I can use it in. The rotations also weren’t my best friend by themselves – but they were an awesome addition when they came to the party with the vibrations. Maybe I just wasn’t being patient enough – or maybe my body just responds well to intensity. I can definitely see that there’s great potential for people that want to sit back, and experience stroke after rhythmic stroke against their prostate that it’ll do wonders for their slow climaxing – but it’s not for me.

Why I Love The Spotty RC

What I love about this prostate massage tool is the vibrations. The strength. The intensity. The way the motors pound my ass into orgasm, screaming and roaring every single inch of the way. I also love the material and the size. It’s perfect for those that aren’t size queens that like prostate play and for me – the perineum arm was well shaped. Once in, it stayed there. For those looking for a new prostate sex toy that fits outside of the mould, and does that pretty well, then I would definitely recommend the Spotty RC by Nomi Tang.

Please note that this video is of the Nomi Tang Spotty (not the RC).

Author: Stephen Smith – BA Of Social Sciences, M.EdSave

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Stephen is a cis-gendered gay male who spends far too much time with his two cats and eating tim tams. A self-identified sex-positive advocate he cares deeply about gender equality, disabilities, sexual education and social issues. Opinionated and bold he isn’t afraid to speak his mind and say what others won’t. With a yearning for knowledge and experience in all things relating to sex, he is a prolific writer that has developed the content for a myriad of informative Sexual Health and Wellness websites.

Stephen’s articles and writings tends to focus on social issues, sexual education, queer issues and all things fetish and absurd. He comes qualified with the completion of a double Bachelor degree in Social Sciences and literature, and a Masters in Education.

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