I Only Came To Singapore To Dance

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I came here to dance. Nothing more. Nothing less.

This is what Geri would repeat to herself over and over. She only came to Singapore to learn the tricks of the trade in strip dancing. Nothing more. Nothing less.

Twenty-two-year-old Geri came to Singapore a year ago all the way from Australia, travelling over 2,000 miles in the hopes of being the best and most in-demand strip club dancer from her hometown. She was making lots of money back in the Land of Oz. But she felt that there has to be more she can do. All she wanted was to be number one.

Although Geri is doing great in Geylang, Singapore’s red-light district, making lots of money, she still feels as if there’s something amiss in her life. She’d often shrug off such feelings and dismiss them as homesickness.

But despite being lonely at times, Geri is committed to performing as best as she could for every client who books her. She’s also determined to learn from the best strippers in Geylang, Singapore to add an Asian flavor – an exotic flair – to her routine. This is why, instead of sulking over the fact that not one of her co-workers invites her to go out, she spends most of her time mastering the art of stripping the Asian way.

It was just another Saturday night and the premier strip club she was working for was jam-packed. Geri, though feeling all lonely, was determined to impress all her clients. She had four bookings for private shows that night. And she couldn’t wait to blow them away.

Geri danced with all her heart. Her body moved to the rhythm of the music. As her hands and hips move slowly and seductively, the men in the room were sweating following her every move. She was in total command. All eyes were on her. She was the star of the night. And she was happy. Exhausted, yes. But happy. All because she was finally realising her dream.

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Geri finished her last private show and she was quite exhausted. She was ready to call it a night when Mr. Lee, the club manager, called out for her.

“Geri, come here lah!”

“Geri, one more client for you. Okay?”

“Sure, Mr. Lee!”

“Client is waiting in VIP room. Don’t disappoint.”

Nodding her head, Geri headed straight to the VIP room. Before opening the door, she checked her reflection in the mirror. She took a deep breath and turned the knob to open the door. Then, she saw her client sitting alone on one of the couches in the room.

Although he was seated, she could see that he has long legs, broad shoulders, and strong arms. Geri said, “Hi” and went up on the small stage. He nodded his head without looking up and went on to use his phone.

As soon as Lana Del Rey’s “West Coast” started playing, the tall, dark gentleman lifted his head and met Geri’s eyes. She almost slipped when her eyes met his. There’s something in them that feels like he’s looking right through her soul. Geri tried to ignore it. She had to make a good impression to make him one of her patrons.

She started her routine, swaying her hips and moving her body in the most sensual way. And he was all eyes on her. He was looking at her with such intensity that almost feels like he’s caressing every inch of her body with those strong, strong arms. Something inside Geri is pushing her more to dance like she’s never danced before.

By the end of the private show, Geri glanced and smiled at her Middle Eastern-looking client. Never did she notice him clap or show any signs that he was pleased with her performance. The man looked her in the eyes and asked her to sit with him on the velvet couch. He offered her a drink. Geri politely obliged and started sipping on her margarita.

“Great show! Loved it.”

“Thank you. I’m glad you liked it.”

As Geri was thanking her shy client, she intentionally looked into his eyes. But he wouldn’t hold the gaze. He would look away or sip on his drink.

After guzzling down his glass of Patron, the client stood up. “It was a pleasure meeting you, Miss,” he said and extended his hand toward Geri. She stood up and reached out for his hand. As soon as their hands touched, she felt a tingling sensation in her spine.

Thoughts were racing through her head while she was making her way out of the VIP room. She’s never felt that way before with anyone. She has never been that interested in a client before.

Two weeks have passed and Geri is wondering whether she’d ever see that mysterious client ever again.

Maybe, never.

While preparing for another show, Geri couldn’t shake off thoughts about that handsome client with dark arousing eyes. Mr. Lee told her she has another booking at the VIP room. Geri was wearing a slashed sparkling pink mini dress over her pink bikini. Her tousled hair and makeup were looking perfect. She was ready to satisfy another patron.

She pushed the door of the VIP room and as soon as she saw who was waiting for her, her heart beat many times faster. She couldn’t even hear him say, “Hey, there!” All that matters to her now is that she’s looking at those sexy eyes again. She felt like her entire being is swimming deep in those hazel brown eyes.

Geri smiled. She made her way to the stage and started her dance routine. His eyes never left her. They were following her every movement. And she was feeling all weak from the intensity of his gaze.

After her dance number, Geri and the dazzling gentleman talked a bit. He asked where she was from and how she came to Singapore. Geri told him all about her life. But he doesn’t seem to share much about his, except that he’s not from Singapore. It was okay with her. What’s important is she’s with him now.

“I’d like to take you out on a date if you’d let me.”

“I’d love to.”

“I’m David. Just give me your number so I can call you.”

Geri gave David her number. He bid her good-bye and kissed her hand.

As his lips barely brushed the back of her palm, Geri blushed and felt her heart beat miles faster again.

“I’ll call you.”

“I’m looking forward to it.”

Geri couldn’t stop thinking about him. She couldn’t wait to see him and go out on an actual date with a man. Not just any man. With David.

Geri woke up to her phone ringing on her bedside table.

“Hello?”

“It’s me, David. Are you free tonight?”

Her heart was racing. His voice sounded sexier on the other end of the line. She couldn’t contain her excitement.

“Yes, I’m free tonight.”

“Great! Can I meet you at Keppel Bay around seven o’clock?”

“Okay. See you later.”

Geri opted to wear a red long-sleeved open-back bodycon dress and nude stilettos. When she got out of her condo, there was a hired car waiting to take her to where David told her to go. As soon as she stepped out of the vehicle, she saw him walk up to the car. He was dressed in khaki pants, light blue shirt with tiny dots on it, and a dark blue jacket. He was looking all gorgeous that she couldn’t take her eyes off him.

Her amazing date couldn’t stop looking at her, too. She was a vision in that red dress.

David kissed her hand. Geri just smiled and blushed. She was ecstatic. But she decided to keep it cool.

David took Geri to the marina where a boat was waiting for them.

“Did you really rent this for tonight? Are we really going out on that boat?”

“Yes.”

Oh my god! Is this really happening? Is he really taking me on a fancy date on this luxury yacht?

They stepped on the boat and they headed straight to the deck where a table for two was waiting for them. After they ate, David led her to the bridge. Then, he opened a bottle of Champagne and offered her a glass. Geri couldn’t be more excited to be taken out on this kind of date.

“Thank you. Thank you for all of this.”

“My pleasure.”

“You don’t know how happy you have made me.”

They were enjoying the night sky and the view of Singapore from the tour boat. They were talking about Geri’s life in Australia.

“What do you do, David? You haven’t told me much about yourself.”

“It’s best that you know little about me. I had a dark past. And I want to leave that all behind me now.”

Although she’s quite curious about him, she’s enjoying every minute with him and decided not to push it. That’s all that matters. After a few glasses of Champagne, she was starting to feel warm. And horny as hell. Little does she know that David was feeling the same way, too.

She didn’t want to make the first move. But as if David could sense how she’s feeling at the moment, he slipped his left hand behind her and started rubbing the small of her back gently. It was the gentlest touch. Geri’s body reacted. It wanted more. She turned to him and looked into those tantalising eyes. Then, David leaned in to kiss her lips. His breath was warm enough to make her hormones go wild.

He kissed her again.

She couldn’t get enough of his lips.

She kissed him back. They’re now torridly kissing. His gentle but strong hands were holding her waist. Geri flung her arms around his neck. She was playing with his hair. She could smell his musky cologne. It was suffocating. Pleasantly suffocating.

Please, don’t stop.

Geri’s body was screaming for more. It was anticipating every movement that his hands were making. He was kissing her quite hard now. His kisses are slowly trickling down her neck.

“I want you, Geri.”

David whispered in her ears. Geri became powerless. She didn’t want to protest at all. She let his hands explore her body. His left hand was holding her waist while the right is moving up and down her bare back. She couldn’t help it. She couldn’t understand what was going on. She let out a soft moan.

“Aah.”

It was music to David’s ears. He kissed her neck some more. Gently brushed it the tip of his tongue. And Geri moaned some more.

“Oh god!”

David let go of Geri and led her to the cabin. He sat on the edge of the bed and placed his hands on Geri’s waist. She cupped his head with her hands and kissed his soft lips. He let his hands slide down her butt. He squeezed them a bit that made Geri jolt. But she was too caught up in the moment that she didn’t stop kissing him.

Then, David slipped his hands under her red dress. His warm touch was enough to make her knees weak. Slowly, his hands made their way to her knickers. When he reached her panties, he began slipping them off. Geri could feel she’s getting wetter down there. And her nipples getting stiffer. Tingling. Her whole body trembling. But she had no intention of making him stop.

Geri took off her shoes and pushed her hot date gently on the bed. She took out her mobile phone from her purse and placed it on the docking station the bedside table. She picked Rihanna’s “Pour It Up” and played the song. David was just watching with anticipation.

Geri started grinding to the beat. She was teasing him. Confidently slowly stripping off her sexy lingerie. One by one. David watched intently as Geri’s plump breasts and pink and taut nipples were exposed for him to see. He was never taking his eyes off her. He was starting to feel his manhood become harder by the minute.

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As soon as Geri peeled off her thongs, he got up and pulled her on top of him. She could feel his stone-hard crotch under her. It made her all the more aroused. She kissed his neck. Licked it a little and he sighed in pleasure. She pushed him on the bed again and unbuttoned his shirt. She was kissing his bare chest. Then, his nipples. Her tongue played with each one. His moans are getting louder now. And she was enjoying every minute of it.

But she wanted him to want her so bad. She wanted him to pine for her.

Geri got up and admired the god-like figure in front of her.

He sighed in frustration. He wanted more. But this is what she wants. She wanted to frustrate him. To taunt him even more. To make him lust even more. She smiled feeling accomplished of the outcome.

Then, she undid his pants. His belt, first. Then, the button. Then, the zipper.

Once it was all undone, Geri pulled down his pants. He was wearing a pair of black briefs. She climbed on top of the bed and started grinding on David’s groin. She could feel David’s tool getting harder and harder. She pulled off his underwear and saw his beast outstretched in all its glory.

She could feel her nipples becoming stiffer and her groin aching between her legs. She couldn’t help it. She placed her hands around David’s manhood and slid them up and down.

Up.

Down.

He was moaning in so much ecstasy.

She wanted to please him. She wanted him to have the best romp he’s ever had.

She wanted to give it her all.

Geri knelt at the foot of the bed, bent forward, and started licking the purple head of David’s shaft. Her tongue circled the tip of his penis and then slid it along the side in a slow stroking motion. She was savouring the precum that came out of it, a promise of what’s to come.

She could hardly lock her lips around his cock. It was the largest she’s ever had.

She sped up a bit. Then, slowed down a little. She kept going until she could taste more of his pre-cum. She kept sliding his jimmy in and out of her warm, moist mouth until he was screaming in complete and utter satisfaction.

David pushed her gently. He didn’t want to cum inside of her mouth. Not just yet.

He laid her on the bed. Then, he started kissing her left foot. Then, his kisses slid up to her legs. Her knees. Then, to her inner thighs.

Geri felt herself getting wetter every time his lips would touch her skin.

David slipped his fingers between her thighs. It was so warm.

“Please don’t stop.”

David smiled. He knew his gorgeous date could hardly hold her arousal. But he wanted to go slow and give her the pleasure she will never forget. The kind of pleasure that will keep her wanting for more.

He slipped his fingers inside her.

God, she’s so wet.

She’s driving him crazy.

He’s driving her insane.

He lightly brushed her clit with a finger to excite her even more. He slowly slid his index and middle fingers in and out of her. His mouth tracing the contours of her thighs. Then, he let his fingers go back to her hardening clit. He sandwiched it with two fingers, squeezing and tugging it as gently as he could.

“Oh! Daviiiiiiiiiiid!”

He then moved his mouth towards her crotch area. He inhaled the sweet, sweet scent of her vagina. Then, he kissed it. Gently at first. Bit it a bit. Geri was twitching her body in so much need and desire. She pushed her head back, levelling her hips to David’s head. She wanted him to taste her. To eat her up and to never stop.

As if he could read her mind, he orally caressed her clitoris with his wet and warm tongue. He flicked it slowly. He played with it with his tongue. He let his tongue slide up and down her pleasure spot.

By the time his tongue reached Geri’s lips down there, she was screaming his name.

“David!”

He pushed his tongue inside of her as deep as he can. He kept flicking it even while inside her. He held on to her hips and butt to be able to push inside her even more. At this point, Geri was squirming and clutching on the bedsheet while moaning really loudly.

She couldn’t hold it any longer. Geri let herself cum in his mouth. He didn’t mind, though. He tasted every drop of fluid that’s coming out of her.

After she came, David smiled at the sight of Geri. He knew he did well.

Then, David parted her legs and positioned himself between her. He teased her wet vagina with the tip of his knob. It’s still so wet, making it easy for him to slide inside of her. He went in gently knowing he’s too big for her. Geri couldn’t understand how so much pain can be just as pleasurable. But she wouldn’t let him stop. Her elation made her forget the pain she felt when she was stretched out.

He was hitting the right spots. And every time he does, she would moan in a mixture of pain and euphoria. She was quivering. She was clenching and unclenching her fists. She was ecstatic to cum again. But she wants to cum with him.

David continued to thrust inside her. Deeper and deeper. She spread her legs even wider to accommodate him and take him deeper inside her. He is enjoying the moment. He couldn’t ask for anything more to be perfect than to be doing this with her right this very minute. His head is spinning. He is over the moon at the intense sensation that the moment is causing him to feel.

He went faster. Deeper.

He twisted his hips from side to side, stimulating every inch of her being.

He is about to explode.

She is about to cum. She is gasping for breath. She arched her back and screamed.

“I’m coming!”

“Oh! David!”

He came harder than he’s ever done before.

But he wasn’t done yet. She turned him into a lunatic who couldn’t get enough of her.

He pulled out.

“I want more.”

“Oh!”

That was all Geri could utter. Although she was a bit exhausted and was sweating profusely, she too wanted another round. She too couldn’t get enough of him.

David helped her bend over. Before he slid inside her from behind, he paused for a minute to admire her round ass. He slapped it a bit and bit on the right cheek.

“Ouch!”

Geri teasingly complained. David smiled and pushed himself inside of her.

Author Bio

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VIP Interview With Goddess Kitty A Professional Dominatrix!

Goddess Kitty A Professional Domme

Goddess Kitty is a professional Dominatrix who enjoys enjoy all forms of BDSM and fetish play.  Having worked in this field for over 10 years throughout America, Goddess Kitty has attained a wealth of experience which will bring you to your knees with power, control and pleasure.   Her specialties include rope bondage, role play, whipping, corporal punishment, hypnotism, disciplinarian, CBT and so much more.  Her wise range of skills allows clients to explore their deepest desires and fantasies by relinquishing both their bodies and souls to her.  She has her own personal dungeon full of BDSM gear including a slave cage, metal rack bed, paddles and whips. Visit The Goddess Kitty Website for more information on how to contact her and a detailed list of what services she will provide.  She was kind enough to do an interview with the Adultsmart Blog.

Tell me about yourself

I go by Goddess Kitty. My website is www.GoddessKitty.com. I own a medical office in Florida as well as being an active professional Domme. I am from Latin descent, I was born in Florida and I am Cuban/Colombian. I call it the Pitbull/Shakira effect. You can see that I’m more sensual in my style but just as fierce.

When, why and how did you realized you wanted to be a Mistress?

I was 6 years old and my mother burst into my room at 10 in the evening, admonishing me watching Benny Hill. I loved it but it stayed with me that I was different and that I liked to have the power that those women possessed over Benny Hill. Hew was a true submissive, appreciating the sex of women of wishing that he could worship them. He was obsessed in their essence.

What inspires you?

The mold was broken when I was created, I’ve never really met anyone to think the way I do, or at least be so verbal about it. I believe in the religion of Humanity. There is a passion for mankind and a need to care about everyone; to know their pain and their prejudices. I feel bigger than life, I know I am a Goddess because I care about my fellow man. I practice my personal religion by helping those that cross my path by showing compassion, love and generosity in my time and energy. I will stand up for those who cant and I will bless those who can.

Marquis de Sade, Anne Rice, Clive Barker, Dean Koontz, The Conquering of Sleeping Beauty – Book , The Story of O – Book, Elvira Mistress of the Dark, Cher, Barbie (Ken was such a sub), Wonder Woman (I had the underdogs, bike, shoes, doll, and socks branded), are some of the inspirations that cemented who I am.

I have a passion for the arts, I love museums, from sculptures to photography, I love to lose myself in the art. It feels as if a reset button has been pushed.

What do you love about being a Mistress? What are the perks?

I love everything about being me. I can’t separate the two, it’s who I am and my identity. Denying my existence would be depressing my soul. I cannot and will not be untrue to myself.

Wine, Champagne, Clothing, Roses, Gardenias, perfume, restaurants, operas, shoes, purses, exotic trips, interesting eclectic and/or eccentric people, interesting adventurous situations, videos, photographs, and fans are all some of the perks that I personally receive as a Dominatrix. Its not the same for everyone.

I’ve received many gifts and I’ve never met the senders.

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Photo: Goddess Kitty With BDSM Equipment

What personal characteristics do you need to be a Mistress?

I wouldn’t want to generalize or assume that certain characteristics are needed to dominate. If you truly are dedicated, you learn the characteristics that you need, you can’t help but change in your personal life as well as in your professional life. Even if you feel like a meek, virginal girl; if you have the desire to become a Dominatrix you will find yourself developing into the woman that you want to become.

You don’t need a characteristic, you need the desire.

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Why did you choose Goddess Kitty as your name?

My Name is Cathy and my friends and family call me Cat. I thought it was a natural progression, besides I there’s only one Goddess Kitty.

What services do you provide?

I teach couples how to have adventurous sex, I teach women how to dominate, I dominate submissives in a variety of methods from sissy training to golden nectar drinking. I dominate couples, ladies and males.

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Why do people enjoy surrendering, obeying, serving, pleasing and amusing a Mistress?

I take my submissives to a

“play space”

where they are safe and no longer themselves. All of my submissives do well in their lives and need to release that control. I can easily take it from them, as a matter of fact I can see it on them. When a submissive walks through my door I can see their fear, it’s a trained response from years of dominating. I take them to their subjective ecstasy, and the addiction begins.

Why do some people like being financially dominated?

Money is a funny thing. Some people enjoy being financially dominated because they feel guilty for something that they have done and they feel that they need to be punished. Some people enjoying helping their Goddess, it’s a tithe. Some like to be threatened with being revealed to family members as submissives that give away their money needlessly. Some people feed off the feeling of living on the edge and enjoy being restricted monetarily, it’s a huge turn on for them.  The psyche for financial domination is not a set one, its ever changing as technology.

What fetishes do you find most people have?

I find that most fetishes are: foot worship and variations, sissy play, spanking, whipping, queening, humiliation including small penis (especially if it isn’t), CBT-Cock and Ball Torture, Nipple Torture, Electro-Torture, to name a few are the favs amongst submissives.

What does it feel like to be in complete control of another person?

Being in complete control of another person is absolutely a sexual, orgasmic high. I am extremely turned on every time I am dominating and even after, the power exchange alone rushes through my body piercing me with hot temperatures getting my endorphins and adrenaline pumping. I become an absolute beast and I absolutely love it.

 

Once again thank you Goddess Kitty for allowing us to interview you and providing such honest and detailed information that the readers of our blog I am sure are going to love.

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Sexpert is our resident full time sex blogger. Having successfully owned and managed a number of blogs relating to women's lifestyle, she easily blended into her role as chief blogger of the Adultsmart Blog. She is in a long term relationship with her boyfriend. She also runs Good Girl Guide, a sexual lifestyle blog.

VIP Interview With Isabelle Deslauriers President & Founder Of Désirables Expérience Design Inc

Isabelle Deslauriers From Désirables Expérience Design Inc

Désirables Expérience Design Inc is a design company founded by Isabelle Deslauriers in 2011 who create all their products with love, passion, inspiration and integrity. Désirables specialises in designing adult lifestyle products that are made from ceramic, which is an environmentally friendly material that is also body safe. The sex toys they design are made with the well-being of people in mind – each and every products is finely handcrafted with ergonomic designs that are incredibly functional. Their sex toys use the idea that you are able to control the precise amounts of pressure to stimulate your erogenous zones. This is a VIP Interview with Isabelle Deslauriers president and founder of Désirables Expérience Design Inc.

Tell me about yourself?

Hello, my name is Isabelle Deslauriers and I’m the president and founder of Désirables Expérience Design Inc, better known as “Désirables”. I’ve studied interior and industrial design and I have a certificate in business creation. I’m from Quebec City, a gorgeous French & historic city in Canada. Apart from Désirables, my passions revolves around lots of good food, yoga and gaming on my PS4 every now and then. My father founded his company at our house when I was very young so I’ve always been interested in starting my own company.

What did you learn about the adult lifestyle industry when you studied Industrial Design at the University of Montreal?

I must say, the adult lifestyle industry is NOT something that you usually learn in Industrial Design, though I think you have a special program in Australia focusing only on sex toys. I had to learn more about this industry because I chose this subject as my final year project: How to create a bridge between design, sexuality and intimacy.

The first thing I learned was that there is really a style, an aesthetic appeal for everything. The industry is so huge that you have products for everyone in terms of looks and feel. I had to dig a little deeper to find the problems that I try to resolve with Désirables. With such a diversity in terms of materials, I wanted to know which one is perfect for internal use. That’s when I discovered the issue around Phthalates and “toxic-toys”. I also discovered some possible issues with repeated usage of vibrations. If you study sexuality as a phenomenon larger than just the act itself, you understand pretty quickly that you could learn something new every day for the rest of your life, because sexuality includes notions of biology, sexology, intimacy, spirituality and even neurobiology.

Did you always know you were going to create sex toys?

Until my last year of University I never tough of creating a sex toys business. With that said, during all my years as an industrial design student, I always found myself criticizing sex toys that I saw in design newsletter. So in my third year, my friends dared me to create sex toys for my final year project, the project that would represent me in all the design community. I like to tackle challenges and I’ve always been very curious about everything surrounding sexuality, especially since we don’t have a lot of basic sexual education in Canada.

What inspired you to create your own business?

The health issues that I found convinced me that I should use this project to start my own business, my solutions needed to be out there in order to give a healthier, more ethically responsible solution to everyone who would like a sex toy, especially people who needed to reconnect and rediscover their sexuality.

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What was it like applying for grants?

I actually applied for grants while I was studying business creation, first because my teachers said that I could actually win this thing. But also because I’ve learn that if you don’t try the only reply you will receive is NO, but if you give it a shot there is a tiny possibility that you might receive a YES. Luckily enough, that year I received 3 grants that gave me the money and confidence to start my first production.

What was it like starring in Dragon’s Den? Was it scary? Would you do it again?

It’s definitely an experience I would recommend to any entrepreneur. I must admit that I wasn’t scared at all, after applying for grants and some contest I was already comfortable to do a pitch in front of potential investors. I think that what scared me the most was the reaction of the general public. The reaction was amazing and 3 years later, I still meet some people who recognize me from this show. Sex Toys Company presented by a young mid-twenty woman is definitely unusual. I would do it again, though we are actually thinking about starting a Crowd founding campaign for our next project revolving around pelvic floor health.

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What is your design process like? What is your favourite part of the design process?

I love books and I love research, so the biggest part of my design process is research. I like to have a little information from every part of the “big picture” when I design. I must admit that at the time, I didn’t do enough research with actual people, I just asked everyone in my program what were their issues and what prototype they liked best. If I had to redo it, I would definitely talk to more people.

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The design process for me was this:

  • State the issue that you want to tackle, do research to see if this is really the issue that people have (At the beginning I thought that the aesthetic of sex toys was the biggest issue).
  • Research.
  • Redefine the problematic with the new information we gathered.
  • Propose 3-4 different solutions for the problematic.
  • Choose 1 that inspires you the most, today I would use the Value Proposition Canva to help me choose what solution is the best to solve my customer problem.
  • A lot of sketches, then you select between 5 and 10 that you like the most.
  • Clay prototypes, because ergonomics in small scales objects is really essential. We wanted to create product that could be used by everyone at every age so we had to think about arthritis.
  • After that I would choose my final form and print it with a 3D printer to see the final details. You can also more easily validate the product once it is in this form.
  • We’re always in the design process even after a product is produce, for example, the Dalia that we are selling now is the fourth version since our launch. We take into account all our clients reviews and new technologies available.
  • In the end, I didn’t have to do a lot of back and forth with my initial designs because the research was so thorough that every seemingly aesthetic decision I made was based on research.
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Image: ADORI Sex Toy Manufacturing Process

For all our projects, for example every time we have to create a new packaging for the product, we print them in order to compare them and make our final selection. Never stay with your first idea folks; this is not how you can create real change/value.

What quote/s inspire you?

For Desirables, a quotes from Charles & Ray Eames always comes to mind:

“Take your pleasure seriously.”

Personally… I love the sarcasm of Oscar Wild:

“Be yourself, everyone else is taken.”

They inspire me because it is sometimes hard to stand by your ideas when these decisions are hard. We chose to make all our production here in Canada with local ceramist, most business advisor would tell us to go product in China in order to make more profit. In the entrepreneurial life, you definitely need some quotes to help you keep your authenticity because it’s easy to make a decision based on the money over the quality of life, ethics are hard to visualize in an excel sheet.

What materials are your products made from?

Our products are made in… PORCELAIN! This material is really underestimated in the sex toy industry. It has every feature you would like in a great toy: heat transfer capabilities (you can cool it or warm it), super easy to clean, non-porous (It’s been cooked twice between 1000 and 1400°C), hypoallergenic, body-compatible, it gives a gorgeous and luxurious look, and most of all…It can last a lifetime (and more).

Most people think that porcelain is very breakable, it’s only partly true. Porcelain is fragile to “shocks”, if you drop it on the ground it will shatter. But, in use it’s one of the strongest materials out there. That’s actually what dentist uses for replacing teeth, and now they even use it to replace bones because the body doesn’t reject is as much as the one made of medical stainless steel. Because we are such big believers in the power of porcelain and because we know that an accident can happen with your toys, we offer a 5 years warranty, no questions asked, on all our porcelain products.

Désirables Expérience Design Inc products are vibration free – Why is it important to use toys that do not have vibrations?

We discovered that excess vibrations can create problems for the user, gradual desensitization that create what it’s called a “Plateau” effect.  This means that with time, if you use vibrations regularly, you need to increase the strength of the vibrations in order to experience de same amount of pleasure. This is cause by the over stimulation of the nerves ending at the end of the clitoris. Vibrations are not inherently bad, it’s just the lack of information surrounding the use of vibrators that can cause harm in the long term. The mission of Désirables is to create tools to help people discover their body and take more time to experience pleasure. For me, vibrations carries a “performance issue” that place the achievement of orgasm above the pleasure of sexual encounters.

There are multiple benefits:

  • Firstly, for G-spot stimulation there is no nerve endings that could be stimulated by the vibrations. To orgasm from the G-spot, pressure is the key.
  • The absence of vibrations means that you will actually take the time to discover what brings you pleasure. Your partner cannot satisfy you if you don’t even know what you like.
  • You don’t have to upgrade to a new toy after a few months because the original one isn’t strong enough anymore.

What are your best sellers?

Our best seller is definitely the Dalia, our porcelain dildo. When I started, I was sure that our massage stones would be the biggest seller because it’s such an innovation. We discovered that it’s so far from what people are used to see that they don’t understand at first glance what their function is. In stores, our massage oil is definitely a big seller too, its fragrance is so complex and delicate that some people actually want to buy it as perfume! The texture is pretty amazing too. Like our porcelain product, our massage products are design to be hypoallergenic, without any additive.

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Désirables Expérience Design Inc had founded the Design & Intimacy Project – What is this project? How would you recommend couples communicate and use tools to explore their bodies for a better sexual lifestyle and relationship?

Actually this project is my Final Year project in Industrial Design, the project that started Désirables. You can find most of our findings in our booklets which are in every porcelain product box. In those, we give information about intimacy, sharing fantasies, the importance of using your 5 senses and even some yoga poses to help you release tension in your pelvic area.

What is your favourite moment from running Désirables Expérience Design Inc?

My favourite moment are definitely when I meet a customer in an event and they tell me how much my products helped them with their problems. From new moms to recently divorcees, I even had an older lady who just recently lost her husband and wanted to rediscover her sexuality. When I started this project I could never have imagine how much good design and a caring attention to details could really make a person’s life better.

Adultsmart would love to thank Isabelle Deslauriers for this amazing interview who is such a passionate inventor and entrepreneur. If you would like to find out more information about their company, be sure to check out Désirables Expérience Design Inc’s blog.ThankSave

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Sexpert is our resident full time sex blogger. Having successfully owned and managed a number of blogs relating to women's lifestyle, she easily blended into her role as chief blogger of the Adultsmart Blog. She is in a long term relationship with her boyfriend. She also runs Good Girl Guide, a sexual lifestyle blog.

The Mystery Behind The G-Spot Revealed!

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While the G-Spot has always been there it is only in recent years that attention is finally being paid to this area of the female body. This article will explain the what, where and why of the G-Spot and will also recommend some specific toys that will pay special attention to this sometimes elusive erogenous zone.

What Is The G-spot?

The G-spot (also called the Grafenberg spot- named after German gynaecologist Ernst Grafenberg) is a particular position within a woman’s vagina with increased sensitivity that reacts when rubbed, touched, penetrated etc.

There has been much debate (since around the 1940’s) as to whether the G-spot is real or not. Scientists have had difficulty defining the G-spots structure and make up as well as what it could be connected or linked too. Many say the g-spot could be linked to the clitoris while others say it is a female prostate.  Another issue is the ability to “test” and “prove” the g-spots existence. Most “proof” available is known as anecdotal (meaning that it is individual stories and accounts not a scientific study that can be recreated to prove results.) This doesn’t mean that the G-spot isn’t real, it just means that scientists aren’t able with the current technologies to confirm its existence.

Side Note: Some studies using ultra sound have found physical evidence of the g-spot in women who can achieve orgasms through vaginal intercourse.

Now while it may only be anecdotal evidence I can say that the sheer number of women who came into our stores looking for products that focus on the g-spot an claiming not only its existence but how it has changed their sex life, is well… a lot, and that’s all I need to know. When it doubt I always trust the person who owns the equipment to best know how to use it.

Where Is The G-Spot?

This is the million dollar question that has everyone wondering. Generally (and I mean generally it may be different for you) the G-Spot is located about 50-80mm inside the front wall of the vagina. For those of us who don’t want to get a ruler out during sex that is roughly the length of a female middle or index finger (yes I did measure my finger to double check.)

If you are unsure where it is, the best advice is, with clean hands do some personal investigation. It is very important you become familiar with your vagina, vulva and where your G-spot is. If you don’t know how can you give directions to anyone else? Once you have located your g-spot find what is pleasurable for you, is it tapping and penetration? Is it gentle massage? Or is it something completely different? Take the time to learn what your G-Spot likes so you know where it is, so you can pick toys that work for you and give partners direction.

Why The G-Spot?

So you’ve read all this and are thinking “OK but what is the point of all this?” The short answer is it will make your sex life better. The stimulation of the G-spot can increase sexual arousal, give you more powerful orgasms and may even allow women to ejaculate (squirt). Now as we discussed earlier there is varying scientific proof but the anecdotal (stories from people who have experienced it) it is overwhelming and most people who have experienced G-spot stimulation agree that all this can happen when the G-spot is used.

Where the G-Spot is Located
Diagram: Showing the G-Spot

A case study in 1981 reported “that stimulation of the anterior vaginal wall (where the G-Spot is located) made the area “grow” by up to 50% and that self-reported levels of arousal and orgasm were “deeper” when the G-spot was simulated.” What this suggests is that stimulation of the G-spot increases blood flow to the area and the increased blood flow heightens sensitivity resulting in a more powerful sexual experience.

Side note: I do want to take a moment to say that some women are unable to find or claim not to have a G-spot. Without understanding the G-Spot completely it is hard to understand why this may be. However I do believe that every woman owes it herself to at least investigate your g-spot.

Toys That Love Your G-Spot

OK now we know the what where and why of the G-Spot it is time to talk about some of the toys that will help you further explore this pleasure zone.

Nu Sensuelle G Massager Sex Toy Photo
Sex Toy: Nu Sensuelle G Massager

Brand: Nu- Toys for adults

Name: Sensuelle G

G-Spot Function: As well as being a vibe this toy has a rolling ball massager that creates intense G-Spot stimulation. With 3 speeds and 10 different functions this is a great toy for G-Spot beginners.

Svakom Trysta Sex Toy Photo
Sex Toy: Svakom Trysta

Brand: Svakom

Name: Trysta

G-Spot Function: A beautiful toy that also employs the rolling ball massager function. The Trysta is a compact little gem that also has a clitoral stimulator and is waterproof. Great for those who know what they have and how to use it.

Gigi 2 By LELO
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Brand: Lelo

Name: Gigi 2

G-Spot Function: The Gigi has a flattened tip which is perfect for exploring the G-Spot. It is waterproof and can be taken in the bath or shower. The Gigi is for the G-Spot that likes some focused vibrations.

Lelo Mona Wave Photo
Sex Toy: Lelo Mona Wave

Brand: Lelo

Name: Mona Wave

G-Spot Function: Where the Gigi brings the vibrations the Mona brings the “wave” function. This function simulates penetration and is designed to rise and plunge like “lovers fingers.” The Mona is for the G-Spot who doesn’t mind a bit of pressure.

ShareVibe By Fun Factory
Sex Toy: Fun Factory ShareVibe

Brand: Fun Factory

Name: Sharevibe Couple Toy

G-Spot Function: Amazingly shaped and flexible the Sharevibe isn’t specially made as a G-Spot toy (nor is it specifically made as any kind of toy) but it will do the job. The beautiful silicone toy has the ability to work on many different spots and on many different people. The Sharevibe is for the couple who knows the value of the G-spot but doesn’t want to ignore anywhere else either.

Loki Wave By LELO
Sex Toy: LELO Loki Wave

Brand: Lelo

Name: Loki Wave

G-Spot Function: OK hear me out! This is technically a prostate massager but just looking at this thing you know any G-Spot would love it. The Loki has the same “wave” motion as the Mona but also has a smaller vibrating shaft that would provide amazing clitoral stimulation. The Loki with a little imagination could be a great HIS AND HERS toy for those who want a little more luxury in their lives.

About the author: Jamie is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Water Bottle Douching Techniques!

A heat wave had struck the city. Down in the streets below, t-shirts clung to the backs of the people passing by, an old man stood by a telephone booth fanning himself with a newspaper and a car honked as it almost slammed into an unruly cyclist trying to escape the heat.

Upstairs a barrage of deep tonal beats played throughout the air and an alarm sound resounded deep within the store; a young man with short cropped black hair, baggy jean shorts and a white singlet walked through the door.

He seemed very calm, serene like a drop of water dissipating deep within an ivory well. Beneath the surface there was curiosity, tumultously crashing over a perspicacious disposition. I approached him and asked if there was anything specific he was looking for, to which he replied; “Yeah mate, I need a douche you got one of ‘em?”

“Yes, right this way”, I mandated demurely. As I lead him to our douche stand, I pondered the intricacies of the young man’s situation. “Is this douche for yourself?” I asked him.

“Aw yeah mate, yeah I’m a bottom and I’ve got a partner like, he’s a top and so what that means in the gay community, like, is that during anal play, the top is usually the giver, and the bottom is the receiver so-to-speak. D’you know what I mean?”

“Yes, absolutely. And before any session of hot anal play it can be an absolute necessity to douche, to make sure that the sex is hygienic and that all flows smoothly and according to plan.” I replied.

“Too right, mate”, he grinned. “Poop and sex don’t mix for me, but hey, I don’t judge.”

“I’m glad you don’t judge, as this is a judgement free zone, as well as an Oh-zone.” I chided and we laughed boisterously.

I bent down to pick up some of the latest douches we had in store, packaged in clean, crisp white boxes with smooth designs and grooves. “Here we have the Adam & Eve EZ Anal Douche. It has a typical Anal Douche design, a bulbous lower section and a tube attached to the top with a fine nozzle. I believe it’s a 0.5” flexible and detachable plastic tip so you can remove it when you’re sucking water into the lower body of the douche, and reattach it when you need to insert the nozzle into your ass.”

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“Well, mate, the problem is I’m on the dole and I can’t afford to spend all my dollarydoos on a douche, like, I’ve got maybe 20 bucks to spend.” He said, scratching his chin.

“Ah”, I sighed. “When they say you pay for quality, and what you get is what you pay for, they couldn’t be closer to the truth. You could spend a decent $45 on this douche, have the maximum comfort possible for an otherwise discomfortable task or you could do what some of my friends have done in the past – And I really shouldn’t be telling you this – But in an emergency, a plastic water bottle works adequately as a douche. You’d fill up the bottle with water, place the bottle neck to your anus and …” I trailed off.

He winced sympathetically at the idea of placing a ridged bottle neck in or near a sensitive area like his anus. “Mate, y’ave convinced me, I’m gonna buy that douche but ya owe me a VB for what I’m dishing out.”

“I can’t promise anything, but I can promise that you’ll love this Adam and Eve EZ Anal Douche, and your partner will love you even more for it.” I winked. He laughed and as I packed away his douche for him, a soft fog rolled in from downstairs, lazily creeping up the stairs, signaling that night had arrived and the heat of the day had passed.

He waved goodbye to me and as the alarm sounded to signify his leaving, the deep tonal beats within the shop changed to a soft tempo jazz, saxophones blaring into the foggy ambience. I wiped clean the counter in front of me, slowly, precisely and the soft warbling of siren-song from the speakers shrouded me, superfluous and subdued.

About the author: Isaac is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Richard runs the marketing and social profiles of adultsmart and adultsmart blog. He has been in the industry just over 10 years and enjoys his role both in an administrative capacity as well keeping abreast of issues relating to sexual health and lifestyles.
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