How to Bring Sex Toys into the Bedroom

Sex toys are intended to fill the gap between what we get from sex and what we want but don’t get from it. They’re the assisting hand you’ve been looking for. They appear to be a natural addition to your sex life. 

However, introducing sex toys into the bedroom first might be difficult. You aren’t the only apprehensive about transporting your sex toys from Solotown to the Land of Let’s Get It On. 

In many respects, sex toys are the final bedroom taboo. As a sex educator and coach, I can attest that they continue to terrify individuals, no matter how much we preach about the sacred vibrator’s doctrine.

Simple Steps to Help You Bring Sex Toys into the Bedroom

Follow these simple steps to spice up your sex life with your partner:

Make Your Relationship a Culture of Frank Sex Talk. 

Consider how much easier it would be to talk about bringing sex toys into your relationship if you and your spouse already talk about sex daily. 

Tell your lover how fantastic they felt when they did X the next time you’re doing a partnered sex act. Or how hot they appeared to be when doing Y. Ask them a question like, “How did it feel when I used that?” or “How did it feel when I did that?” “Is there anything I did that felt nice that I should do again in the future?” or “Is there anything I did that felt good that I should do again?”


Discuss the Use of a Sex Toy in Particular 

It’s time to introduce the concept of pleasure items once you’ve felt comfortable talking about sex. It’s not prudent to grab a vibrator from beneath your bed and hope for the best in the middle of a situation. If you search Adult store online UK on google, you will find numerous interesting toys. You both can choose the ones that fit your fantasy. 

Be Very Explicit About Which Toy You Want to Try

Vibrators alone come in various shapes and sizes, and dildos, strokers, nipple clamps, and floggers, to name a few, are all sex toys. So, if you’re not explicit in your talk, you might be picturing a sword-shaped dildo while your partner is picturing a vibrating cock ring when you agree to use a sex toy. As a result, you and your partner must agree on the type of toy you want to test together.

Take Some Time To Get To Know Your Toy

Please spend some time getting to know your toy now that you have it before bringing it to bed. “Can you tell me how to switch it on and off?” What is the best way to increase or decrease the intensity? How many different vibration patterns do you have? Which ones do I want to give a shot at?

Concentrate on Having Fun While Exploring

Do you have the necessary equipment? Great. Keep the play about you and your partner when you bring the sex toy into bed. Your best buddy will be verbal encouragement (read: nasty banter). Tell your spouse how turned on you are and how fantastic they make you feel. 

You want the toy to be a part of the experience rather than the main attraction. Remind your lover how attractive they are and how much you admire their penis/vulva/body.

Final Thoughts

Introducing sex toys can be entertaining, but it may not be appropriate for all couples. Sex toys can provide a variety of benefits, including expanding one’s horizons in terms of sexual positions, techniques, approaches, activities, and interactions. It can also open up new pathways to pleasure and generating conversation. 

The Secrets of the Foot Fetish!

A strong relationship is built on a strong foundation divulging the Secrets of the Foot Fetish. Being open and honest with your partner helps build trust, improve communication, and deepen your bond. This holds true both inside and outside the bedroom. 

Secrets of the Foot Fetish

There’s nothing sexier than sharing your deepest desires, fantasies, and fetishes with your significant other. Not only is your confidence in asking for what you want and need a total turn-on but most people get off on pleasing their partners. Chances are if you share what you want, your SO will be more than happy to deliver.

If you’re like 1 in 7 adults, your secret fetish may involve feet. Foot fetishes are wildly popular for a variety of reasons. From sexy footwear and accessories to the look, smell, feel, and yes, taste, of toes, ankles, and the like, people are obsessed with feet! If this describes you, it’s probably time to incorporate your foot fetish into your sexual routine.

Keep reading for 5 tips on indulging your foot fetish behind closed doors in ways that satisfy both you and your lover!

1. Practice the Art of Massage

Who doesn’t like a nice relaxing massage? While some people don’t enjoy having their feet touched because it tickles or gives them goosebumps, if you have a foot fetish, you’re probably DYING to either give or receive a foot massage. Ask your partner which one they prefer. If they’re interested, take turns massaging one another’s feet.

Start by setting the scene. Create a comfortable area for you to massage one another. You can do it sitting up or lying down in bed or another private area. Invest in some quality massage oil or lubricant. There are countless varieties to choose from including heated or edible oil. (Edible oil is ideal if you want to lick your partner’s toes clean once you’re done.) Play soothing music, light some candles, and get to work! Studies show that a relaxing foot massage can actually lead to sexual arousal, better sex, and more intense orgasms. Foot fetish or not, this sounds like something you should try!

2. Play Footsies (with ALL Your Body Parts)

Have you ever heard of a “foot job”? As the name suggests, it’s basically a hand job using your feet. If you’re a guy with a foot fetish, ask your girl if she’s willing to get you off using nothing but her gorgeous, soft feet. Ladies, if you have a foot fetish, giving a “foot job” can be extremely erotic, satisfying, and empowering. There’s something naughty about having your man in the palm of your hands (or should we say between the soles of your feet?). 

If you’ve never stimulated someone’s genitals using your feet, it’s important to start slowly and gently. Your feet aren’t quite the same as your hands, which means it may take you a little longer to gain control over the pressure and technique you use. Nothing kills the mood faster than an accidental kick to your lover’s nether regions. Take your time and communicate with each other. Let your SO know what feels good and where and don’t forget to explore other body parts as well. 

3. Put on a Fashion Show

Do you love the look and feel of feet in high heels, sneakers, thigh-high boots, sandals, or even ballet slippers? Why not put on a footwear fashion show in the bedroom? Add accessories, costumes, and lingerie. If your partner is the one with the foot fetish, they’ll love seeing your gorgeous tootsies all dressed up. Coordinate your footwear with your outfit or use these accessories as naughty inspiration for some role-playing activities. Get creative and leave your shoes on during sex, make your lover take them off with their teeth, or put on a sexy strip tease. Play around with other accessories as well like fishnet stockings and socks, toe rings, ankle bracelets, and fake tattoos.

4. Check Out Feet Pics Online

For someone with a foot fetish, looking at and buying feet pics online is the equivalent of viewing pornography. In recent years, an increasing number of websites have popped up that are dedicated specifically to buying and selling feet pics. Websites like FunwithFeet let you browse by category so there’s no shortage of content to choose from. 

Head over to one of these platforms and start looking! Ask your partner to join you or send them links to particularly sexy feet pics that turn you on. Showing your SO exactly what you like helps them better understand your foot fetish and gives them the knowledge they need to meet your naughty needs. You can also partake in your own photo shoot. Take sexy pictures of your own feet in different poses and positions or use props and accessories. Send them off to your lover as part of your sexting game. Be sure to add plenty of details about how the pictures make you feel and what you want to do with them later. You can also ask your partner to return the favor and snap a few pics of their own. 

5. Experiment with Foot Bondage 

Now let’s talk about the kinky side of foot fetishism – foot bondage. BDSM is one of the most popular and widely recognized fetishes. It includes everything from a dominant and submissive relationship to mild spanking, handcuffs, blindfolds, and more. The activities you choose to engage in are all based on your comfort level and personal preferences. 

Foot bondage falls under this category and involves wrapping a person’s feet using different restraints like ropes, tape, or cuffs. Foot bondage is actually an art form that requires practice and technique. There are various ways to bind a person’s foot for both physical and aesthetic pleasure. You can start off with something basic like cuffing your partner to the bed by their ankles while teasing and pleasing their feet and gradually progressing to more intricate knots and methods of foot binding. Just make sure your lover is comfortable with this practice. 

Taking the First Step to Indulge Your Foot Fetish

If you have a secret foot fetish, you’re not alone. It’s time to let the world (or at least your significant other) know about your naughty needs and interests. Once you divulge your foot fetish, try these beginner techniques for incorporating foot play into your sex life. From erotic massages and roleplaying to more intense BDSM play and bondage practices, you can explore every level of your foot fetish from the comfort of your bedroom. 

Mutual Masturbation

Masturbation has long been proven to be an effective tool in our arsenal for self care, self exploration and all things considered.  Mutual Masturbation is very safe sex alternative.


Recently with social media, gaining trends and more positive discussion and open sexuality; masturbation is rising above the stigma that has unfairly surrounded it in the past decades. And so it should be, Masturbation is amazing.


A very under-rated facet of masturbation that does not get anywhere near enough of the spotlight is Mutual Masturbation.


When we think of mutual masturbation what first pops to head is long distance relationships, sharing that erotic phone call or scandalous skype/Facetime video call in nothing but your very intimate of wears. Or at least that is what most people thought of when I asked them as I went to write this article.




These forms of mutual masturbation are very mutual and very sexy, hot and heedy. I love them, I love the ability that it brings to long distance relationships, or even not to long distance ones. Out for the night? Send something sexy and masturbate together. The principle of finding each other simultaneously arousing enough to bring you pleasure and climax even though you’re apart- bellissimo.


There are even more and more toys that are tailored to making the most of long distance masturbation like Lovense, Kiroo and We Vibe.


But that was not the type of Mutual Masturbation I am referring to. The type that definitely should be explored more, talked about more and definitely used more. Mutual Masturbation in real life involves more than one person enjoying themselves, together in the same room. It may sound like an oxymoron, but trust me, it isn’t. If anything, it may be one of the most intimate things you can do with your partner(s). It is watching your play partner giving themselves pleasure, while you give yourself pleasure, and they watch you.

Let’s start by looking at why this is such an intimate mode of sexual exploration. Yes, sexual intercourse is very intimate, it is the joining of your bodies, it is creating connection. When we masturbate however, we masturbate usually with thoughts or stimuli that turn us on. These can be various such as porn, videos, stories, memories, fantasies, dreams. How often can you say though, that the object of your arousal is in front of you, a breath away, watching you pleasure yourself, watching you get aroused by their presence?

Intimate right?

Mutual Masturbation also brings out that tiny little piece of us that some may be curious about Voyeurism and exhibitionism but without the crowded audience or public. Voyeurism is the act of watching others participating in sexual exploits, Exhibitionism is enjoying being watched.

Mutual masturbation is a brilliant avenue to learn about your play partner and for them to learn about you too. What better way to learn what a person likes, how they get off, what their spots are, how they like being caressed, then to actually see them doing so. To make matters even sexier, you can hear it too. No need to hold back, using your words to help tell the story, can only enhance your experience. Expressing gratitude at the sight, the sound, the enjoyment of the moment or the sight of certain things either of you are doing may be enough to tip you over the edge.


This can also be a wonderful foray into using toys. Have you been nervous about using toys during sex? Using toys during mutual masturbation may be the key. This is your time to showcase your tips and tricks, heck, if you wanted to, you could even request your play partner to use something. The reason this is a good and neutral ground to try out incorporating toys can be numerous. Some partners may feel intimidated by the use of toys in their usual repertoire, using toys during mutual masturbation will highlight the pleasure but also highlight that that pleasure is not taking away from the connection and the intimacy with your play partner. It is an extension. If you have been worried about the logistics, this is also a trial run in how you can figure out how to best incorporate the toys into your routine.


And just think, how sexy is it to say or hear “Oh I wish I could taste you while using this toy.” or “I want to feel you inside me while using this”. I can definitely see how a person would feel aroused at these prospects. Again, it is a beautiful and exciting notion that toys are an extension of our sexual intimacy, they are not replacements.

Mutual Masturbation doesn’t need to end here though, it can be part one, the first course. You don’t simply need to strictly never touch each other, that is the beauty of this. It may evolve organically into sharing the touch, sharing an orgasm, together, helping each other orgasm. Who says you can’t kiss while you share this intimate experience? There are no rules, you make them yourself. This is a type of exploration that demands more positive discussion.


This being said, it can be very daunting to expose yourself during your most private pleasures, even to your closest person. If you would like to try mutual masturbation but your play partner is hesitant, do not be disheartened. Take it slow, try broaching the subject such as would you like to watch me masturbate (or cum). You could try watching porn/videos together, reading salacious stories together and inviting them to show you what they like. Like all acts, consent is important, but it can also take time. Remember, we are coming out of an era where masturbation was still taught as bad, so for many people, masturbation was a private act and when they masturbated, they kept it private so that they would not be reprimanded or judged. Being public about masturbation, even in your relationship may be a big step for some people. Be kind. Be open. Be understanding. Show them this article, and let’s start the conversation and bring masturbation and mutual masturbation out of the darkness.


At your Service,


OhZone Sales Consultant, Educator and Promoter of Masturbation

The art of using a dildo for maximum pleasure

Dildos are abundantly available in attractive varieties and there is an art to using a dildo for maximum pleasure. Not many people experiment and discover these exciting ways of enjoying them. This blog brings out some simple tricks to make your dildo playtime utterly satisfying.

Dildos in India  come in sleek steel, colourful silicone, and shining glass. These are just the tip of the iceberg. There are so many fascinating varieties that remain unexplored. Perhaps you’ve purchased one and are excitedly ready to embark on a pleasure ride, full of breath-taking orgasms. Even if you’re a pro, there are always new tricks to learn to keep your playtime amazing and not fall back to a dull routine. Perhaps you have discovered that imitating sex doesn’t activate your G-spot or take you to the moon. We’ll provide you with the thrill-inducing movements to carry out, making your masturbation session a carnival of pleasure.

Before it begins

Set the mood

Changing the ambience influences your mood. If you’ve tried closing the blinds, turning off the lights, and lighting a few candles, you may have noticed the soothing environment enhancing the sensual vibes. The same applies when you are chasing the sexual high flying solo. Dim the lights, light a candle, put on some sexy music, and lose yourself to sexual ecstasy.

 Choose the right dildo

The only important consideration while picking a dildo is, it should suit your needs and desires. If you enjoy intense stimulation, select a hard glass, steel or wooden dildo available in attractive designs. If you desire an extra sensation from the movements, go for the vibrating dildos. If you fantasize about being stretched, go for a larger or inflatable dildo.

Studies have given out fascinating insights about the dildos. Most dildos sold are about the average size of a man’s penis. It suggests that the average size is what most people are looking for. If nerve tingling stimulation is what excites you, choose a rabbit style vibrator.

Never forget the warm-up

Before you get the intimate act started, you might need to warm up first. Initiate manual masturbation, have an orgasm or two. Use your fingers for deep satisfaction.

If there is not enough natural lubrication produced, there are always lubes to grab. Lubes benefit you in unimaginable ways. They increase arousal, sexual pleasure, and physical comfort. 

 The extremely pleasurable dildo techniques include:

 Deep thrusting

This technique of passionately pleasuring yourself is exactly how it sounds. Deep thrusting along the entire length of your pleasure centres provides arousing stimulations. A textured dildo will generate sensations that are intense and fulfilling.

For serious thrusting, pick a toy with a core that’s firm enough not to bend, it doesn’t have to always be rigid. Overly soft dildos make this action difficult. If you find the heavily textured toys overwhelming, opt for a smoother or curved dildo to have comfortable rides.

 Short and shallow

Most of the sensitive nerve endings that generate and circulate the thrills exist in the first one-third of your vagina. You don’t have to go all the way in to get those exhilarating sensations. Short and rapid strokes can be a slick tactic to get you on a sexual high. The action won’t barrage your cervix or butt, but it’ll be easier on your wrists.

Just because your dildo is seven inches long doesn’t mean it has to go all the way in. The extra shaft length is to get a better grasp on the dildo.

 Rock it out

Just because your dildo is shaped straight doesn’t mean you don’t have to be creative in trying new things. In this technique of rocking your dildo, you move it back and forth at an angle so that its tip is applying pressure at the bottom of your opening. If you are lying on your back on the bed, the dildo should be pointing towards the bed when you carry on the movements.

You’ll experience rousing sensations similar to that of thrusting. The technique also works its magic by providing the ultimate stimulation. Rocking works best with dildos made of silicone or with curved toys intended for dual clitoral, anal, and vaginal stimulation.

 Keep it turning

This turning technique sends out twisters of pleasure. It involves turning them around after being inserted. Most dildos work for this motion, there shouldn’t be a sharp angle that makes you uncomfortable.

 Milk the g-spot

To milk your G-spot partnering with your dildo, you’ll have to drag the top part of the dildo across your G-spot while pulling it outward. You then push the dildo against the top part of your vagina or butt as you slide it back in. To incite riveting sensations, use rigid toys made from glass, wood, or metal. There are also special dildos with a curve particularly meant for G-spot stimulation.

The surprising thing is, this technique can be similarly utilized to stimulate the prostate.

 Filling feeling

You can freely enjoy your dildo without any kind of motion. You can choose one that’s comfortable when inserted. Keep it there and focus on stimulating your erogenous zones to have a fantastic orgasm. The toy has the power to enhance your orgasm even if it remains inserted comfortably in your vagina or butt.


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Impress and Satisfy Your Partner with These Oral Sex Techniques

When it comes to intercourse, oral sex techniques are quite important and essential. It creates the perfect mood for exciting and enjoyable sex. Each person is stimulated differently and the same technique may not work on different women or men. However, when it comes to oral sex techniques the fun is in exploring the possibilities. Some methods can open a whole new level of satisfaction for your partner and make them want to grab you and just make you moan their name.

No matter what type of relationship you are into, how good you are at giving head speaks volumes. If you want to create a good impression on the other person, it is always advisable to learn some mind-blowing techniques.

Techniques to Satisfy Your Girl


Let’s start with men as understanding female oral sex is a little more complicated. The different parts like the vulva, labia, and clitoris may confuse you but do not worry, we have got you covered.

The build-up

When it comes to oral sex for women, you can get her wet even without touching her down there. The key is patience, women like to take it nice and slow. Start with her neck as it is one of the most sensitive areas on a woman’s body. Kiss her in the neck gently and softly nibble her neck and ears.

While your mouth is busy kissing her neck passionately, use your hand to cup her breasts and stimulate her nipples. This step is crucial when it comes to any type of sexual activity. Breasts are probably the second most sensitive area on a woman’s body after her clitoris. You can either massage her tits gently or just brush her nipples with your fingers.

Next, you will want to reach down there with your fingers. Keep her panties in and brush her vagina with your fingers. By now, you will be able to feel her wet over her panties. Slide the cloth to one side so that you can touch her and move your fingers softly towards her clitoris. You may still want to continue with the kisses as oral stimulation is necessary.

When you finally take off her panties, don’t try to finger her immediately. Rub her clitoris with your thumb and you can even stroke it gently with your fingers. When you feel her moaning or breathing heavily it is time to enter her. Slowing starts with one finger and depending on how she reacts to it you may move on to inserting fingers.

The Oral Sex

It is important to understand that for women, orgasm can be achieved in two ways. The first is through the clitoris and the second is through the G-spot. Most women enjoy clitoral orgasm more than the G-spot orgasm. During oral sex, the former is easier to achieve, and lucky for you it’s more pleasurable for your girl.

A common notion about men is that they do not know where the clitoris is, this has been proven to be true in several cases. The clitoris is the small protruding portion over the vagina.

1). Using the tongue and the clitoris:This technique is the easiest but is quite effective. This mainly includes stroking the clitoris gently with your tongue. Start slowly as you will need to build up the speed gradually. The main thing about this technique is to locate the clitoris accurately. Once you are sure about that, proceed to wet your tongue with your saliva and start licking her. You can also gently kiss her clitoris and suck it.


2). Tongue and vagina: The best part about female oral sex is that there is a lot of space for experimentation and exploration. The tongue can do a lot for women and using it tactfully is the best thing you can do for her. Extend your tongue and enter her vagina and watch her go crazy.

Use your fingers to gently rub the clitoris while you use your tongue to enter her vagina and go in and out. This movement is capable of creating a powerful orgasm and a magical experience for your girl.


3). Tongue and finger: The tongue and finger combination create the best orgasm for women if used properly. Start with licking her clitoris gently with your tongue, make sure you start slow and nice. While your mouth is busy with that, use your finger to enter her vagina. Don’t forget the dirty talk and choking.

However, make sure you know that your girl enjoys it. You can also use the finger and tongue interchangeably. The in and out motion of the finger inside her creates a stimulation for the G-spot while the tongue stimulates the clitoris. Build up the speed gradually to give her the most incredible orgasm.


4). Tongue and nose: Very few people remember to include the nose while giving a girl head. Yes, you heard it right, the nose can be quite a useful portion if used properly. While you are using your tongue to fuck her vagina, use your nose to rub the clitoris.

The best way to do this is to drag the nose from the bottom of her vagina to the top. Do this and watch your girl go crazy over you. Since this move is done by very few, it becomes quite an impressive thing, and it tells your girl that you are enjoying yourself as much as she is.


5). Don’t forget her mouth: When it comes to women, the overall experience counts. For a great experience, try to include more of her senses while you are down there eating her out. The mouth can create quite a stimulation in the exciting process. Just do this simple move to drive your girl crazy.

After you have fingered her or before, make her suck your fingers and get them wet. This shows your girl who is in charge. If she likes to be the submissive female, then use this opportunity to fulfil her sexual desires. Choke her gently, this creates a sensation of pleasure as well as kissing her occasionally while you are giving her head.


Techniques to Satisfy Your Man


For men, it’s less about the foreplay and more about the hand job and blowjob. However, the most important part is to remember to not use your teeth. Women! Do not use your teeth while sucking his cock. This is not only painful for him but is extremely embarrassing for you. It instantly gives away that you have zero experience and failing to satisfy his needs may cause him to drift away from you.

It is not difficult to make your man cum as long as you use the correct techniques. Unlike women, oral sex for men is comparatively easier and the orgasm is also quick. Therefore, you will not have to work too much to make him fall head over heels for you.

What men want: Now, my ladies! Remember that men like to feel in charge while you are giving head. The best way to start with the blow job is to sit on your knees while he stands. However, it is essential to remember your boundaries. If it is your first time, you will most likely gag very often and may even throw up. So, talk to him beforehand about it and ask him to be gentle with you. Once you get that hang of it, there is no stopping him from moaning and screaming your name. Here are some quick and easy step-by-step instructions to understand the science of blowjobs.

1). Wet it out: The first step is to make sure that you wet his penis, skilling this step will make the whole process extremely painful for your guy. The foreskin does create a lot of friction if it is dry. Usually, the penis itself secretes precum which is enough to make him wet. However, the easiest way to achieve that perfect lubricated effect is to use your spit.

Yes! While you are still giving him a hand job and have not yet started sucking his dick, use your spit to wet him. You can take some on your palm or directly spit on his cock. While you are giving him that hand job, it is incredibly sexy to maintain eye contact. Do not forget to kiss him and make it a personal affair for the both of you.

2). Open wide: No, we are not talking about your legs, not yet. This has to do with your mouth, open your mouth wide and use your lips to suck his dick. Create a kind of vacuum within your mouth that mimics a vagina and gives him immense pleasure.

As mentioned earlier make sure you avoid your teeth. You can also occasionally use your hand along with your mouth while giving him head. If you feel your mouth and jaws getting tired from all that hard work, you can quickly switch to a hand job for a couple of minutes.

3). Use the tip wisely: The tip of the penis is probably the most sensitive area of his dick, so if you want to show him some good time, pay special attention to this pink area on his cock. Use your hands to stroke his dick gently and wise your tongue to lick the tip of the penis.

Another good way to include that portion into the process is to use your mouth to suck only the tip. You can also kiss it as you normally would. While you are on your knees during this whole process, do not forget to look up at night from time to time. This will make him go wild.

4). Don’t forget the balls: When it comes to oral sex for men, many girls forget the balls. This is quite an important portion that needs to be stimulated along with the dick. The process to do that is quite similar. You can start by licking his balls while you are still giving him a hand job.

Then slowly move on to sucking on his balls, one at a time. Switch between the balls and the dick to make him go crazy. You can also tease him and use your hands to play with his calls before starting the blowjob.

5). Be a good girl: During oral sex as well as sex in total, men like to play the boss and expect the dominant one. So let him be the man and try to understand what he wants from you. A very common move is holding the hair or your ponytail.

When you are down on your knees giving his head, it is natural for several men to hold the head of the girl to control the motion. Occasionally they like to thrust their duck inside you, mad love to hear the girl choke and gag on the dick.

Be careful

In some rare cases, oral sex may also lead to some sexually transmitted diseases, therefore stay safe when you are engaging in the act of oral sex with your partner. The above techniques are commonly used by several people and have been deemed efficient by many. Be it your girl or your man, do not forget to communicate with them during the whole process, because understanding each other is essential.

There may be some boundaries for your partner, understand what they want and what they do not before you try out anything new. Make sure they feel safe and consent is extremely important. Respecting your partner’s boundaries is sexier than anything else. It is also a well-known fact that you will get better with time, so do not be too rough on yourself. Make sure you stay in practice!

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