Mutual Masturbation

Masturbation has long been proven to be an effective tool in our arsenal for self care, self exploration and all things considered.  Mutual Masturbation is very safe sex alternative.

 

Recently with social media, gaining trends and more positive discussion and open sexuality; masturbation is rising above the stigma that has unfairly surrounded it in the past decades. And so it should be, Masturbation is amazing.

 

A very under-rated facet of masturbation that does not get anywhere near enough of the spotlight is Mutual Masturbation.

 

When we think of mutual masturbation what first pops to head is long distance relationships, sharing that erotic phone call or scandalous skype/Facetime video call in nothing but your very intimate of wears. Or at least that is what most people thought of when I asked them as I went to write this article.

 

True.

 

These forms of mutual masturbation are very mutual and very sexy, hot and heedy. I love them, I love the ability that it brings to long distance relationships, or even not to long distance ones. Out for the night? Send something sexy and masturbate together. The principle of finding each other simultaneously arousing enough to bring you pleasure and climax even though you’re apart- bellissimo.

 

There are even more and more toys that are tailored to making the most of long distance masturbation like Lovense, Kiroo and We Vibe.

 

But that was not the type of Mutual Masturbation I am referring to. The type that definitely should be explored more, talked about more and definitely used more. Mutual Masturbation in real life involves more than one person enjoying themselves, together in the same room. It may sound like an oxymoron, but trust me, it isn’t. If anything, it may be one of the most intimate things you can do with your partner(s). It is watching your play partner giving themselves pleasure, while you give yourself pleasure, and they watch you.

Let’s start by looking at why this is such an intimate mode of sexual exploration. Yes, sexual intercourse is very intimate, it is the joining of your bodies, it is creating connection. When we masturbate however, we masturbate usually with thoughts or stimuli that turn us on. These can be various such as porn, videos, stories, memories, fantasies, dreams. How often can you say though, that the object of your arousal is in front of you, a breath away, watching you pleasure yourself, watching you get aroused by their presence?

Intimate right?

Mutual Masturbation also brings out that tiny little piece of us that some may be curious about Voyeurism and exhibitionism but without the crowded audience or public. Voyeurism is the act of watching others participating in sexual exploits, Exhibitionism is enjoying being watched.

Mutual masturbation is a brilliant avenue to learn about your play partner and for them to learn about you too. What better way to learn what a person likes, how they get off, what their spots are, how they like being caressed, then to actually see them doing so. To make matters even sexier, you can hear it too. No need to hold back, using your words to help tell the story, can only enhance your experience. Expressing gratitude at the sight, the sound, the enjoyment of the moment or the sight of certain things either of you are doing may be enough to tip you over the edge.

 

This can also be a wonderful foray into using toys. Have you been nervous about using toys during sex? Using toys during mutual masturbation may be the key. This is your time to showcase your tips and tricks, heck, if you wanted to, you could even request your play partner to use something. The reason this is a good and neutral ground to try out incorporating toys can be numerous. Some partners may feel intimidated by the use of toys in their usual repertoire, using toys during mutual masturbation will highlight the pleasure but also highlight that that pleasure is not taking away from the connection and the intimacy with your play partner. It is an extension. If you have been worried about the logistics, this is also a trial run in how you can figure out how to best incorporate the toys into your routine.

 

And just think, how sexy is it to say or hear “Oh I wish I could taste you while using this toy.” or “I want to feel you inside me while using this”. I can definitely see how a person would feel aroused at these prospects. Again, it is a beautiful and exciting notion that toys are an extension of our sexual intimacy, they are not replacements.

Mutual Masturbation doesn’t need to end here though, it can be part one, the first course. You don’t simply need to strictly never touch each other, that is the beauty of this. It may evolve organically into sharing the touch, sharing an orgasm, together, helping each other orgasm. Who says you can’t kiss while you share this intimate experience? There are no rules, you make them yourself. This is a type of exploration that demands more positive discussion.

 

This being said, it can be very daunting to expose yourself during your most private pleasures, even to your closest person. If you would like to try mutual masturbation but your play partner is hesitant, do not be disheartened. Take it slow, try broaching the subject such as would you like to watch me masturbate (or cum). You could try watching porn/videos together, reading salacious stories together and inviting them to show you what they like. Like all acts, consent is important, but it can also take time. Remember, we are coming out of an era where masturbation was still taught as bad, so for many people, masturbation was a private act and when they masturbated, they kept it private so that they would not be reprimanded or judged. Being public about masturbation, even in your relationship may be a big step for some people. Be kind. Be open. Be understanding. Show them this article, and let’s start the conversation and bring masturbation and mutual masturbation out of the darkness.

 

At your Service,

Tiffany

OhZone Sales Consultant, Educator and Promoter of Masturbation

Covid Safe Adult Shopping NSW 2021

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Covid Safe Adult Shopping In Greater Sydney 2021

UPDATE COVID SYDNEY 2021

Adultsmart Kogarah Australia’s premier online adult store will continue to service and dispatch online orders throughout Greater Sydney and Australia. Adultsmart also offers a click and collect and phone in advance services from it’s shop and warehouse at 12 Production Ave, Kogarah. Contactless purchases are allowed and collection of purchased items is available outside the front entrance of the shop/warehouse.
From 11.59pm on Saturday 17 July A raft of new restrictions have been announced for NSW after the state recorded 111 new local cases of COVID-19.
These include Retail premises (including adult retail stores) will be required to close (‘click and collect’ can still operate). It is with sadness that we announce that both the Caringbah and Penrith stores will be not trading until July 31.
No customers will be allowed to enter the store.

OUR CONTACTLESS IN STORE OPTION WILL RECOMMENCE ON JULY 31 SUBJECT TO FURTHER COVID RESTRICTIONS.

At first, we were unsure how to face the Covid-19 pandemic, and we have already had our fair share of challenges. However, we have learned how to adapt to the situations that CoVid-19 has created. We have adopted new habits that keep us safe from Covid. In NSW, it has not been an easy journey, especially now that Sydney is on lockdown at least till July 30 and beyond.

However, it does not mean that people in NSW cannot take part in online shopping and goods will either be delivered to their door or they will be able to click and collect from our adult warehouse at 12 Production Ave, Kogarah.

After July 30 subject to current Covid Restrictions being eased people can do their shopping, so long as they ensure that they safely conduct their shopping for specific items and they are not just browsing. To do that end, one has to follow the Covid safety guidelines laid out by the government. These guidelines are;

Wearing a mask

If you are in NSW, you must cover your nose and mouth using a mask when in certain areas. When you are shopping, taking a plane, travelling, in beauty parlours, and in other outdoor centres where you face the risk of Covid infection, you should wear your mask. The only exceptions to this general rule are children under the age of 12 and any other person who has a mental or physical condition that makes wearing a mask unsuitable.

Spitting and coughing

Spitting and coughing are some of the ways how Covid is rapidly spreading. Under the government guidelines, one guideline is that you should not use cough or spit or cough at a public official or worker intentionally. You should note that even though the government only talks about public officials or workers, one should never spit or cough at anyone intentionally as it may lead to the spread of the virus.

Working from home

If it is practicably reasonable, all employers should ensure that their employees work from home. The rule does not apply to Sydney but applies to the whole of NSW.

Stay at home rules in Greater Sydney.

In Greater Sydney, people are expected to stay at home unless they have reasonable excuses. These good excuses include;

• Getting food, goods, and services- Only one family member should go to get food or goods, and browsing shops is not considered a reasonable excuse.

• Getting to work or accessing education if doing it online is impossible.

• One may also exercise outdoors in groups of not more than two persons, and these recreational activities should be done within ten kilometres of where you live.

• You are accessing medical supplies, including the Covid vaccine.

One should always follow the government guidelines concerning Covid to stay safe amidst the pandemic. When shopping, you need to be on high alert on how you conduct yourself in public and from which shop you get your food and goods. Only choose a shop that offers excellent service, support while taking care not to spread the virus to its customers.

One characteristic you need to be on the lookout for is a contactless and counterless system. At our shop, we provide this as we understand the importance of safety in the current situation. We offer a flawless design, and in the shop, you need not worry about following the restrictions since we are here to help you.

In our shop, we do not accept cash but accept credit and debit cards only. Our system can be broken down into the following steps;

i. You come into the shop, select the items you want to purchase and take them to the counter.

ii. A staff member responsible for scanning your items will check them using fresh gloves.

iii. After scanning, the friendly staff member puts the items in the bag and places them on a pickup table.

iv. You pay the due amount using your card, and after paying for the items, you can pick your items.

The system has proven to be effective, and our customers give us outstanding reviews and recommend their friends to try out our shop. Do not be left out; try out our shop now.

Bottom Line

Covid has changed the way we live, but we are now adapting to new habits that keep us safe. One needs to follow all the rules set out by the government since they are sanctions put in place and one does not want to be caught breaking these rules. Being safe is an individual’s decision, and following the rules and selecting a suitable shop for your shopping activities is one way to start.

How To Make Yourself Last Longer During Lockdown

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What do most men do in their spare time? Masturbate and everyone wants to take the opportunity to Last Longer During Lockdown. We all know as men, that if you have the house to yourself or we are sitting down for a profuse amount of time either procrastinating or doing nothing, our mind starts to wonder and we start to fantasize. We start to get horny which generally leads to us chasing a little dopamine hit by masturbating. However, over the course of our life, most men masturbate as quickly as they can so that they can 1. Get that sweet dopamine hit straight away and 2. Get it over and done with so no one awkwardly interrupts them (Either though the thrill of getting caught is pretty hot). Without even realising it, this simple act of trying to get it over and done with quickly, becomes a habit that can severely hinder how we perform in the bedroom. Ejaculating as soon as you get aroused becomes a habit, which becomes a problem.

 

A major theme that COVID has taught the majority of humanity is to slow down and to embrace the moment, to appreciate your downtown and to use your spare time to better yourself. So how can you use your spare time to improve your sex life and conquor your bad relationships with ejaculating pre maturally? It’s simple. These methods that I am going to provide you will help you without having to spend a single dollar. They will also give you a long term solution rather than just put a bandaid on it for now (The problem with the bandaid solutions as it makes you overthink, especially when you want to have spontaneous sex and the bandaid is no there). So here they are:

Masturbating

less but masturbating for longer periods: One of the most powerful things in this world is the power of self discipline. Being able to control your mind and body can lead you to do some great things and in this case.. Have some great sex! By cutting down the amount of times that you masturbate and picking and choosing when you do, this sends a signal to your mind that you are in charge of your urges. You will not be a slave to your sexual desires. This in itself will play a big role in your ability to control your climax and ejaculation. Why should you masturbate for longer periods of time? Well this all comes back to habit. By slowing down your mastubation process, edging yourself and playing with yourself for a solid 15-20 minutes at a time, for a minimum of 3 month period, will teach your body and your mind that in order to ejaculate; you will need prolonged stimulation. This one habit in itself will play a big role in helping you conquer quickness in the bedroom.

Mantak Chia’s method

Shower scrub method: Mantak Chia is one of the worlds best spiritual teachers especially when it comes to the area of masculine sexuality. In his interview with Brian Rose from London Real, he discusses that in order for men to last longer, we must give our penis constant stimulation to get ourselves used to the feeling. To really feel into our bodies. The best way he explains to do this is, whilst in the shower you have to pull your penis in a downward motion 50 times from the base to the tip of the shaft. Then upwards 50 times in the same motion. To the left 50 times and to the right 50 times. By doing this everyday for 3 months. This will begin to program the mind and the body to sustain continuous amounts of pleasure. The shower scrub method isn’t for the faint hearted. This method is great for men who are not circumcised. See your foreskin actually protects the penis head making it more sensitive. Those men who are circumcised are constantly having their penis head desensitized because it is rubbing up against the underwear all day long. The best way to desentize the penis head is whilst in the shower, get a body scrubber and slowly for 2-3 minutes twist it on the head of the penis. Do not do this hard however do it with enough pressure that you can feel it. By doing this everyday for 3 months you will notice a difference.

 

The pull out method

One of the oldest tricks in the book. The pull out method if you don’t want to do point 1 and 2, if applied right… will never fail you! So this method is used when you’re having intercourse or in the middle of foreplay. You’re getting too excited and heated, instead of ejaculating. You pull out. You bring all the attention back to your partner. Continuing to stimulate them. Continuing to arouse them. Whilst your body slowly calms back down. What this will also do is showcase that you are a generous lover and you aren’t just about your own pleasure. It shows that you can hold your urges and have enough self control to prolong your ejaculation.

 

Using affirmations

The power of affirmations have been promoted for years and all across the globe. Constantly telling yourself a thought will soon implant it into your subconscious and then showcase through your actions. A few great affirmations to say every single day to yourself will help you in the bedroom without even realising it:

  • I am able to always control my ejaculation

  • I am able to have amazing sex for long periods of time

  • I am surging with sexual energy and testosterone

  • I am amazing at pleasing my partner and giving them the pleasure they deserve

  • I am a sexually confident male

 

These 4 methods if applied and completed consistently will not only supercharge your confidence but they will prolong your ejaculation which ultimately will allow you to perform better in the bedroom and please your partner for longer periods of time. I think that is a win-win for both parties.

CLICK AND COLLECT AVAILABLE FOR ADULT PRODUCTS SYDNEY JULY 2021

Adultsmart Kogarah Australia’s premier online adult store will continue to service and dispatch online orders throughout Greater Sydney and Australia. Adultsmart also offers a click and collect and phone in advance services from it’s shop and warehouse at 12 Production Ave, Kogarah. Contactless purchases are allowed and collection of purchased items is available outside the front entrance of the shop/warehouse.
From 11.59pm on Saturday 17 July A raft of new restrictions have been announced for NSW after the state recorded 111 new local cases of COVID-19.
These include Retail premises (including adult retail stores) will be required to close (‘click and collect’ can still operate). It is with sadness that we announce that both the Caringbah and Penrith stores will be not trading until July 31.
No customers will be allowed to enter the store.
OUR CONTACTLESS IN STORE OPTION WILL RECOMMENCE ON JULY 31 SUBJECT TO FURTHER COVID RESTRICTIONS.

Oh Zone Safe Contactless Purchases During COVID 2021

UPDATE – OUR CONTACTLESS IN STORE OPTION WILL RECOMMENCE ON JULY 31 DUE TO COVID RESTRICTIONS.

From 11.59pm on Saturday 17 July A raft of new restrictions have been announced for NSW after the state recorded 111 new local cases of COVID-19.

These include Retail premises (including adult retail stores) will be required to close (‘click and collect’  can still operate).  It is with sadness that we announce that both the Caringbah and Penrith stores will be not trading until July 31.

Adultsmart Kogarah Australia’s premier online adult store will continue to service and dispatch online orders throughout Greater Sydney and Australia.  Adultsmart also offers a click and collect and phone in advance services from it’s shop and warehouse at 12 Production Ave, Kogarah.  Contactless purchases are allowed and collection of purchased items is available outside the front entrance of the shop/warehouse.

No customers will be allowed to enter the store.

Oh Zone Safe Contactless In Store Purchases

Though Greater Sydney will remain in lockdown until 11:59pm on Friday 30 July, that does not mean that there aren’t safe and socially distanced ways to purchase essential goods. A contactless counter checkout option is exactly the way to do this, so we’ve dedicated time and effort into making sure our new checkout system works safely and efficiently.

We understand that this is still a very challenging time for our customers and team members alike, but we want to continue to do our bit for the community by providing a convenient way for you to shop for your essentials while respecting the current COVID-19 guidelines.

We have made every effort to ensure that our store is adhering to the COVID safety plan as laid out for retail establishments by the NSW government. This means that we have been providing staff with information and training on COVID-19, including the importance of masks, social distancing, and cleaning, and also preventing staff and customers who are feeling unwell from entering the premises.

Our capacity will also not exceed the greater of one person per two square metres of space in the store, and we will support 1.5 metre distancing and aim to avoid congestion wherever possible. We have hand sanitiser at key points around the store, keep our bathrooms well stocked with soap, disinfect frequently touched indoor surfaces, and open windows to increase the circulation of fresh air. Our record keeping is also up to scratch so we can inform staff, customers, or contractors within a 28-day period should a COVID-19 case be brought to our attention.

Oh Zone Store Locations

Caringbah  

1/322 Kingsway, Caringbah 2229 NSW

Mon – Sun  New Covid  Hours 10am-8pm (02) 9524 1170

Kogarah

12 Production Ave, Kogarah NSW

Mon – Sun  New Covid  Hours 8am-10pm  (02) 9553 6995

Penrith

1/478-482 High St, Penrith 2750 NSW

Mon – Sun  New Covid  Hours 10am-8pm  (02) 4732 4475

New Contactless Check Out System

Ultimately, our main goal is to keep our business running smoothly while also ensuring the good health of our customers and staff alike. That is why we have introduced contactless pickup in store, as well as items that can be purchased online as well as install. This new checkout system will keep things running at a good pace so that the chances of congestion and a break in social distancing are severely limited.

This new contactless counter is only available to those with in store N.B. credit and debit cards, and the process is very simple. You may select the items that you want to purchase as you normally would and then bring them to the checkout table near the counter. Here, one of our friendly members of staff will scan your items for you and place them in a bag on the pickup table. And rest assured that our team will all be masked and changing into fresh gloves before touching items brought by the next customer.

The ‘contactless’ part of contactless counter refers to the quick and easy way to pay at this station. Simply tap your card or mobile card app onto the reader to complete your payment, then pick up your items and depart the store. This system not only allows you to pay using the contactless option, but also greatly minimizes the need for contact between the customer and staff member. And though both will be wearing masks and our staff members wearing gloves, a contactless interaction when purchasing items is the surest way to maintain social distancing and keep everyone safe.

It must be reiterated that we are only open to servicing essential adult needs in order to adhere to all COVID policies. We want you to be able to get everything that you need during this lockdown, but we are prioritizing the safety of our community above all else. We aim to provide relief and aid the wellbeing of those who have been further isolated by this lockdown, so know that you can rely on us to provide any essential items that you need as well as a safe, sanitary place to shop for them.

We hope that you will find our new contactless counter checkout system to be useful and that it makes your shopping experiences quicker and easier in these still uncertain times. It is a relatively small addition to our store but one that we think fits perfectly in the current climate of social distancing. We are doing everything we can to aid our community and support both customers and staff on the road back to normality.

Click & Collect Shopping CoVid Safe Shopping At Adultsmart

Adultsmart is conveniently situated at 12 Production Ave, Kogarah in Sydney’s South.  The telephone is (02) 9533 7217 and the Covid trading hours that are subject to change are 9am-10pm Monday to Sunday.

Click and Collect Services allow you to order and pre-pay for your purchases online.  You can browse at your leisure when visiting an online store and choose the items that you could otherwise not do in store because of Covid restrictions.  It also allows contactless purchases if you choose to utilize a service like the Adultsmart Contactless Click and Collect Option,

Best Vagina Tightening Exercises to Strengthen your Pelvic Floor

Have you met a hot guy on the best hookup sites 2021 and want to surprise him in bed by vagina tightening? A woman who has learned to control her vagina muscles can give her beloved incomparable pleasure and experience a bright vaginal orgasm. In addition, it has been proven that the tone of intimate muscles, as an endless source of vital and sexual energy, keeps a woman young and attractive for a long time, makes her confident, radiates joy, and attracts love. Strong pelvic floor muscles improve intimate health and help to cope with some problems. Are there sexual intimacy exercises for partners? Do you want to learn more?

There are specific sexual exercises for sexual performance and strengthening the vaginal muscles. Here are the most effective ones.

Exercises for Beginners

First, you need to determine your intimate muscles and control them. To do this, try stopping urination when you go to the bathroom. If you can tighten these muscles without using the glutes and abdominal muscles, then start training. If, along with the vaginal muscles, the gluteal and abdominal muscles work, first learn to separate and tighten these muscle groups one by one.

What exercises can you do in bed? You can perform the first step anywhere you want. The first week: Tense muscles rhythmically for 8-10 seconds, 5-10 sets 6 times a day. The second week: 50 sets 6 times a day. After a month of regular training, you can reduce your exercise frequency to 25.

When you have achieved a certain skill in the previous sexual exercises for sexual energy, get vaginal balls (for a start, choose silicone with minimum weight and a diameter of 1 inch). Disinfect and lubricate it before use. Insert it inside and try to hold for at least 1 minute at first, gradually increasing the exercise duration to 5 minutes. However, do not overdo it. Extra-tight vaginal muscles can lead to condom breakage, pain in the partner, or difficult childbirth.

Then you can move on to pushing out. To do this, push lightly and combine these exercises with tightening, but do not overdo it, as this is dangerous by organ prolapse. 5-10 times a day are enough.

Advanced Mode

Take a kegel ball or special egg. Do the exercises while standing. Imagine your vagina muscles, divide them into three parts:

  • The lower part is the muscles at the opening of the vagina.
  • The middle part is the muscles of the vagina itself.
  • The upper part is the uppermost part of the vagina (where the cervix is).

Tighten the muscles of the first section. Then take a deep breath and squeeze the muscles of the second section, holding the ball. At the initial stage of sexual exercises for sexual desire, the number of repetitions should not exceed 7-10 times; later, you can try 20-30.

When the previous exercise becomes easy, try to learn how to move the ball up and down and from side to side (5-10 times a day).

The next step is to tighten the third section. Try to hold the ball with the lower section and push it out with the upper one.

Hone your skill with the following sexual exercises: Insert two balls into the vagina and try to push them against each other (start with 3 times and move to 15 times a day.)

For best results, you should do 150 sets daily (in different combinations). You need to come to this gradually – starting with 5 exercises 6 times a day, adding 5 exercises every day.

Conclusion

Check with your gynecologist before exercising. Vaginal muscle training is not recommended for pregnant women, women with acute or chronic diseases of the genitourinary system, tumors, STD, and any diagnosis in which sex is temporarily prohibited.

With regular sexual exercises, you can tone your vaginal muscles, which will certainly improve your intimate health and make your sex more intense. Make training a part of your self-care!

Have you tried to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles? Please share your experience in the comments below.