Femdom Dating: How to Attract Dominant Women

Most books, movies, and TV shows these days tend to portray women as submissive individuals who always do everything their man commands. Also, a lot of men in the real world are attracted to this type of women and they celebrate their obedience. However, there are guys out there who are not interested in submissive ladies. These fellas want to be with a girl who will dominate them in every aspect of life and that’s why they want to be with a lady from the femdom dating scene. Sadly, considering the nature of these unique women, attracting them is not always an easy and simple task. Therefore, if you’re interested in seducing a dominant woman, here are some of the tips that will help you with this endeavor.

You Need to Know What You’re Looking for

Before you decide to date a dominant woman, you need to define exactly what you’re looking for. Are you searching for a girl who is simply confident and outspoken during social occasions, a strong woman who is aggressive to her partner, or a gal who will be the dominant one in your bedroom? You have to know that these three things are very different. These women may seem the same to an untrained eye, but they are three completely different types of dominant gals. Why is it so important to know what you want in this situation? Well, if you choose the wrong type of dominant lady, you’ll have a very unpleasant experience with her. So, in order to attract the right kind of domme and really enjoy her company, you have to definite what you’re looking for and be honest about it when talking to these girls. This is the only way you’ll find someone who will be able to satisfy your needs.

Visit Local Clubs Where You Can Meet Dominant Women

After you’ve figured out what you want from a domme, it’s time to visit some of the BDSM locations in your town. Most of them are specialized “dungeons” with hired dominatrix women, but there are also certain clubs where BDSM enthusiasts and other kinky men and women can express themselves without being judged by others. Finding a dominant woman in a regular pub can be quite difficult and that’s why you should try your luck at a place that welcomes kinky individuals.

Show Your Interest but Don’t Make the First Move

Assuming that you know where these BDSM locations in your town are, now it’s time to teach you how to attract these dominant ladies. The best way to do this is by being submissive in front of them. These gals love to dominate a man, and if you’re able to display your submissive qualities, these women will notice you. The first thing you should do, when you find yourself in the presence of a dominant woman, is to show your interest, but let her make the first move. This way, you’ll give her control over the situation, and these women love to be in charge. A lot of men are impatient and they usually approach their date first. This is a mistake you should definitely avoid. Remember, all you have to do is smile at your date and wait for her to come to you. A true and experience domme will appreciate this type of submissive behavior.  

Ask Her Permission Whenever You Want to Do Something

Once you start talking and flirting with a dominant woman, it’s important to allow her to lead the conversation. For example, you shouldn’t ask her questions about her. Instead, you should only speak when she asks you something. Also, if you want to order her or yourself a drink, you should ask her permission to do that. Trust us, if you’re able to be this submissive, every dominant woman out there will be interested in dating you.

Find a Dominant Woman via Dating Site

We’ve already talked about the ways you can attract dominant women and places you can find them in your town. However, you should also know that these beautiful women are sometimes really hard to find. Ladies who are into BDSM are usually not very appreciated in today’s society, which means they have to know how to hide and flirt with men in a very discreet manner. Unfortunately, this means that recognizing them in public is not a simple task. Therefore, if you can’t find a domme on your local dating scene, you should definitely try finding one on many specialized websites out there. On these platforms, you can talk honestly about your fetishes regarding these gorgeous and unique women. These sites represent a safe environment where you can find yourself a perfect dominant woman to date.

 

Cumming Out – Erotic Story Part Two!

Cumming Out – Part One!

I felt so vulnerable with my legs apart and Mr Reynolds staring at my pussy with such a hungry look in his eyes. I began to softly moan, yearning for him to eat me then and there but to my surprise he stood up and took a step away from me.

 

“You can’t expect it’s going to be that easy do you Sarah?” he said through a smirk. “What are you talking about?” I asked feeling perplexed. One minute it seemed he couldn’t wait to taste me then all of a sudden he was backing away from me. I was stumped!!

 

“Well, first of all, you didn’t lock the door and that is very, very naughty of you. What if someone else had of come in?” he said, sounding stern all of sudden. “Well no one did come in, did they?!” I exclaimed, feeling frustrated and way too horny.

 

“Someone is acting like a naughty brat and needs to know that this is unacceptable” He swiftly shut the toilet lid, sat down and patted his thighs. “I need you to lie right here with your ass sticking out. Keep your panties down and pull your skirt up.” I giggled awkwardly, feeling a little intimidated at his assertiveness but did as he told me.

 

His confidence was so intoxicating. I felt like I was in school again getting in trouble but this time it felt strangely arousing unlike before. As I sprawled myself across his lap, I could feel the energy in my pussy building to even greater heights.

 

“I’m going to give you 5 spanks on each cheek. After I’m done, you must thank me or there will be more to come. Is that clear Sarah?” “Yes sir” I gulped, feeling a mix of apprehension & excitement at the impending spanking.

 

He placed his warm hand on my ass cheek and began to move it in circular motions causing a pleasurable heat on my skin. I stupidly thought he had gotten carried away and changed his mind but before I knew it he took his hand away and the first strike had come down causing me to shriek in pain. I wasn’t expecting him to hit me so hard!!

 

“How was that cheeky girl?” he asked, maintaining a sternness that was incredibly sexy. “It really hurt sir and my pussy feels even more tingly for some weird reason.” He began to laugh as his hand came off my ass cheek again & I braced myself for the next 9 spanks.

 

As they went on and despite the pain I felt myself getting more and more aroused. It was really confusing, especially as by the 8th spank I was almost begging for more. “You’re liking that aren’t you beautiful girl?” he sniggered. “I sure am sir” I managed to cry through my shrieks and moans.

 

When he hit my ass for the 10th time, I could feel my pussy juices dribbling down my inner thighs as I struggled to maintain all the turn on in my body. I turned to look him in the eyes and almost melted when I did-His look was one of pure satisfaction!! “Thank you so much sir” I blurted out. “You’re so welcome” he said as his hand began to run up my inner thighs towards my dripping wet cunt.

 

He stopped it just shy of my pussy lips and began to firmly massage my thighs. “What a tease” I thought as I looked back at him and gave the best doe eyed “more please sir” I could manage.

 

“Beautiful manners Sarah, how could I not oblige you now?” he said as his fingers made their way to my wanting clitoris. It had never felt this good before!! He ran his fingers up and down my pussy until I cried “I’m going to come.” Then came the most frustrating thing that could ever happen in that situation: he abruptly stopped!!

 

“What are you doing?!” I shrieked as I attempted to wiggle my pussy towards his hand before he pulled it away, “I was so close!!”

 

“See, there you go again, expecting it’s going to be that easy.” he smirked as he pulled me up off his lap and made me stand. “What do you mean easy? I let you spank me didn’t I?” I said as I bat my eye lashes in a half joking way. I was willing to do whatever he wanted, if only he would let me come!

 

“The reality is, I can’t fucking wait till you explode but you’re going to have to come home with me if you want more” he explained. “Ahh of course I’ll come home with you sir, let me just tell Hannah” I said as I bent down to pull my panties up.

 

“Don’t go doing that baby, take them off and give them to me” he said as he put his hand out ready to take them. I willingly did as he asked and handed them to him.

 

Panty Sniffer

“It’s going to be quite the sight having you sprawled on my bed fully naked and bound as I keep you on the brink of cumming all night” he winked as he brought my panties to his face and sniffed them. I stood there, feeling the heat rising in my cheeks and realized how glad I was to have gone out this night!!

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Kate’s Urethral Dilation Story – PART TWO

CONTINUED FROM PART ONE……

So Mark watched whilst I played with my pussy!  Now with the knowledge of how much I had sexually grown I was excited by this opportunity to show of my so called ‘wares’.  With all the little ‘friends’ I had gathered my pinky started to circle the urethra and within moments I could not help but cum.  Now that I got that out of the way I grabbed hold of my slim candle.  My juices were flowing and I felt so horny as it slowly slid inside me.  It was about 6 inches long and I had easily consumed 5 inches of it up that love canal.

Mark said, as he took off his clothing, ‘Can I try something new.’

I am an all in girl but even I was surprised when he pulled out his light and lit the candle – the wick less than an inch from my vagina and the candle rod deep inside my urethal canal.

He said, “Can you go to doggie position?”

“Sure”, I said.  Assuming the doggie position I could feel the heat of the flame on my ass.  Shortly the acrid smell of burning hair surrounded me and it was obvious that my poor little ass pubes had felt the brunt of this open flame.  Thought to self – a Brazillian is no longer required.

Mark spat on his fingers and then grasped the burning flame putting it out.  My pussy was almost literally on fire by now as he produced a tube of our now favorite Surgilube. Worming out the candle he grabbed hold of the toothbrush that was beside me liberally spreading the lube along its shaft and slowly inserted it into my pee hole.  Oh the exquisite and taboo feelings it gave me, in no time at all he had me cumming and then I could hold it in no longer and my bladder released all the pee that was in me.

Oh!  What a relief.

There was no fooling around with Mark now that he had his head up of steam and he quickly removed the toothbrush shaft and inserted a finger in my wee-hole.  I could not tell which one it was as I was still in the doggie position but loved and he slid it in and out of me.  He then asked me to turn over and assume the gyno position again, which I willing obliged.

Gynecology position
Kate’s gyno position

My poor little urethra remained gaping about ½ a cm.  It was so cute and erotic.  In Mark’s hand I saw him bring a container and he said, “This is Xylocaine.  It is a numbing cream that I am going to put up your urethra.  Let me try and get two fingers up there.”

I was not going to say no but I did say, “Mark just take it slow and careful.  I don’t want you to rip me.”

He smiled his loving and reassuring smile and I knew I was in good hands – or fingers as the case may be.

Mark was admiring my tiny gape and I could see he was turned on by his erection that was hard and his cock head pink.  Almost reluctantly he applied the Xylocaine and then after a few minutes began to insert his finger and then fingers.  It was number so I felt no pain whatsoever more a pressure. Mark is quite a big lad and his fingers are not exactly small so when I looked down I was a bit shocked to see that he had managed to insert his pointer and rude finger up to the second joint.  This was the widest my urethra had been stretched and it was still turning me badly on.

He then began to put his fingers in and out of my urethra whilst rubbing my butt hole with his other fingers gently inserting a couple of fingers passed my sphincter muscles.  He was butt fucking and urethral pounding me at the same time.  He began to turn his fingers around my butthole – rose-budding me with them and I did not know if I was Arthur or Martha anymore and which hole to cum from.  Finally, my body decided double was more fun and I had a blended orgasm – urethal and anal.

My shouts and screams were lucky not to rock the foundations and I saw a look of concern on Mark’s face probably worrying about the neighbours.

This session was the start of many ‘finger fucks’ I experienced with Mark over the next few weeks.  I must say that I thought I was a sexual beast before but nothing had prepared me as to how much this sort of freaky sex would turn me on.  As time drew on my pee-hole continued to dilate and eventually I was above to insert small vibrators in it.  My vagina became second fiddle to my urethral desires that would culminate in my emptying my bladder over fingers, sex toys or Mark.

This is when Mark discovered urethral medical sound kits – he purchased a hegar – and our aim was to graduate to the largest sound in the set.  With all my practice it did not take long and the surgilube got a huge dent put into it.  We incorporated mirror play, anal sex whilst sounding and all sorts of variations.  Wow, this was a good time that both mark and I experienced taboo sex I had never dreamed of

This is my urethral story.  I am Kate.  Hopefully you will not think me too sick or twisted – a girl just wants to have fun!!!!

Kate’s Urethral Play Story – PART ONE!

Urethra Foreplay

Hey all, my name is Kate! Sex with my long term partner Mark has been really great. Considering that we have been married for a couple of years now. We sometimes get into a routine and things can get some what boring. This does not imply that our sex life is boring as the two of us made sure of that! We make love, explore different options and test boundaries with each other. We have attempted pretty much every sex position and tried every opening that is conceivable.

Sex toys like vibrators and dildos have been a part of our love making regime for quite some time now.  It has probably been around two years when Mark first introduced a lady called “Ty” to me.  I think he probably saw a few photos on the web of her too.  She is certainly not the most attractive porn star out there. He showed me a photo of her. She is what is known as a gaping queen and inserted objects into her urethra or as Mark likes to say her ‘pee gap’. He was so excited about the whole concept. I recollect him saying that he wished his little finger would fit into my urethra a number of times after watching her on screen.

 

Catheter with urine bag
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After several weeks he surprised me by bringing home two catheters which I had never seen before and did not know much about.  He told me he had bought them online, they were foley catheters in two sizes.  One was relatively small and the other a bit thicker – they were in sterile packaging.  When I went to unwrap them Mark told me not to touch them until we were ready to use them as this would help to avoid the catheters getting any dirt or bacteria on them.

I am a woman who has never experienced urethral play before so I was excited yet a little scared when the night came and I saw Mark put on some sterile white latex gloves to try out one of the foley catheters. He asked me to spread my legs wide with my knees bent similar to the position when women are placed in stirrups at the gynecologist’s surgery.  He stood between my legs and carefully unwrapped the smaller of the two catheters.  With a simple, ‘here we go’ he began to test my pee gap with the tip of the catheter and within moments had inserted it an inch or so up inside me.

Feeling it slide inside me caused me no stress or pain however my clit became harder and a wonderful pins and needles feeling began inside my pee gap. It was enjoyable so I asked him to place it further inside me.  As he did, I had the incredible urge to pee. Not being able to control myself I relieved myself all over the bed. Luckily, Mark had the foresight to place a towel underneath me. I looked up at his smiling face and I could see that when he watched me urinate it greatly pleased and aroused him.

Foley catheter erotic story
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The catheter was now about 3 inches inside me and the urination stopped so he gently began to push it further in. He filled a little plastic syringe with sterile water that connected to the catheter and began to squeeze the liquid through the tube. I could feel a little bag expanding just past the entrance of my bladder.  It was a weird but in no way an uncomfortable experience. Mark said “It’s in now.  Get up, have a walk around.”

I got up and walked around the bedroom with the catheter hanging out of my you know what. I was fascinated by the bizarre feeling. We kept it in for about an hour whilst Mark vigilantly brought me glasses of water to drink until eventually I felt the incredible urge to pee but could not.  Mark mischievously opened a small valve and we watched as the bag quickly filled with my urine. The relief I felt was overwhelming.

Knowing that Mark now had the power over whether I would urinate or not made me extremely horny and I began playing with my clit. In just a few strokes I orgasmed. I could see that Mark also played with his bulge through the front of his pants. This was our first foray into catheter play and I have to say I was already a fan.  There was no pain and I hate pain. Needless to say we had a big sex session afterwards and both my holes were well accommodated by his hard and thick cock.

About a week had passed when Mark asked if I would like to try catheter play again.  Of course I was interested and even more so when I saw that he had brought the thicker one into the bedroom. This time I noticed that he also had a large bottle of lubricant with him. I was more turned on than the previous week as I knew what was about to happen and felt much more comfortable.  I assumed the position wondering if this would go in as easily as the first one. Mark quickly unwrapped the catheter, generously put lube all over the tip and began to very slowly worm the catheter into my urethral opening.  My urethra dilated to allow access to the catheter and I climaxed before it was even an inch inside me, I gushed all over Mark’s face and hands.

This was so weird, he had not even touched my clit but I had an earth shattering explosion of an orgasm. When I orgasmed, I yelled out how much I loved my husband. After I had finished orgasming I could not hold back and eagerly grabbed Mark’s cock and put it in my mouth. I grabbed his buttocks and forced him to thrust his hard cock in my mouth, I did my best to encourage him to throat fuck me.  I deep-throated him and in minutes he shot his load down my eager throat. Now we both had cum.

I asked Mark to test how far he could stretch and go up my urethra with this thick catheter. Now, I have to be honest, part of this was for me but I also wanted Mark to realize his fantasy of sticking his finger in my urethra just like in the amazing adult video we watched of Ty the porn star.  I thought to myself what a feeling that would be as I knew how much of a turn on this would be for him.

Over the next few weeks we trialled a whole heap of different things in my urethera (always making sure they were sterile) like a toothbrush handle, a pen and even a texta. Each item had a different feeling which all ultimately lead to sexual satisfaction for the both of us. He would insert one of the items and take it out with a smooth and gentle thrusting motion. On many occasions for reasons that are unknown to me I would orgasm through the urethra. It would set off a blended orgasm and my sphincter would go into spasms of delight.

It was such a turn on that I began to experiment when Mark was not home with some solo play. It was not long before I managed to graduate to some pinky play where I would finger fuck my urethra.  The only drawback with my pinkie finger fucking was that it was not long enough so I began to experiment with my other fingers slowly graduating to thicker and longer fingers until I could fully insert my index finger all the way up to the knuckle. It took a few of these sessions till I finally came clean with Mark to let him know what I had done. At first I thought he may be a little angry with my solo sexual escapades but he surprised me by being all the more enthused and asked if he could watch. This has opened my eyes up to the world of urethral sounding for women!

CONTINUED TO PART TWO ………

My Cock Trap Story

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Sheila was supposed to be his wife… and care for him.. for them to have a life together.  But soon he found out after getting married that she was a FemDom and only wanted him as a cuckold.  It wasn’t long before she had him in chastity and only let his ‘peewee’ out on special occasions.  How could he have known.    What was his life going to be like now that Shiela Set His Cock Trap….

 

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