The Cheating Housewife!

As a sexpert on adultsmart blog, be warned to buy your wife flowers on mothers day and pay more attention to her. This is a anonymous letter we received from one of our blog readers:

Opening the Mother’s Day card a year ago from my husband David my heart sank. We’d been married for over 10 years, and I was the mother of his kids yet he hadn’t even thought to purchase me some flowers or anything. From reading the short writing on the card, he had made a small attempt as this really frustrated me as it was not the first time it had happened. I was scared of becoming a house wife whose husband would never buy her anything special. I saw on television a story on the news about peoples husbands who would cheat on their wife with prostitutes. The men said

“using prostitutes saved my marriage”

and the prostitutes were receiving very expensive gifts. They were receiving Chanel, Gucci and Tiffany products, which I had never received from my husband – how unfair.

The entire run-up to Mother’s Day had been disappointing. It made me feel old and like I was losing my sexiness. My marriage was trapped in an endless cycle. We’d gotten together when I was fresh out of college. Things were incredible at first however they began to come apart when our children arrived. David is just 34, but acts like he is in his 80’s — he’s always irritable, drained and unmotivated. We have sex about once a week however I never climax and it’s like he simply makes

‘just enough’ effort.

The day after Mother’s Day this year, I set up a profile on Tinder.

I’d had a bit to drink and was feeling mischievous, so I wrote about how I was a busty brunette looking to have an unsanctioned romance. Within minutes, I had matched with a few men, including a man called Michael who had a wife and five children. He was 42, a Doctor and his marriage was significantly more useless than mine by what he was saying. He wasn’t sleeping with his wife at all.

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I met him a week later for lunch, at a cafe about 40 minutes away from each of our homes. We wound up having a lots of fun, drinking wine, and getting to know each another. We continued to message each other, and met up again for coffee. Two weeks later we ended up under the covers of a bed in a Hotel room. It was romantic and lovely, he’d had flowers and champagne set up in the room before I arrived. The sex was extremely close and enthusiastic however despite everything I never orgasmed. Truth be told, I never have. However the second and third go I think I came closer to one than I ever had before.

Despite the fact that it was a major thing for me to have an affair I didn’t feel like I was doing the wrong thing. I finally felt alive and I was feeling sexy again – my husband had lost interest. I didn’t tell anyone, not even my closest friends. It felt great keeping the secret and mystery all to myself. I also felt like a better mother, because I wasn’t as frustrated at home or with David.  He could be awkward and moody whilst I breezed through feeling sex and desired.

Thing’s got a little more interesting late last year with Michael as we delved into a bit of bondage play, I found out that I love to be being blindfolded. Michael and continued to meet up for sex about once a month for six months, but after a while he began to go missing on me, cancelling last minute and giving me excuses. After 6 months of sleeping together, i had developed passionate feelings for him. I never let him know, because I knew that despite the affair, his wife and children were what mattered to him. Inevitably, we stopped seeing each other.

After Michael, I have since met and had affairs with two other men because of my profile On Tinder, and I’m currently talking online with a couple of other guys. David and I, despite everything are still married and continue to have sex once a week. The sex with David hasn’t made any improvement, but now that I have my other relationships, it doesn’t trouble me as much. If I have gained anything from these affairs and the whole experience, it has taught me that mothers need to spoil themselves and have more fun, and if they aren’t getting it at home, they should get it somewhere else! I don’t feel like a bad wife for cheating, if anything, cheating on my husband has made me a better wife.

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