HELP! My Boyfriend Hates My Sex Toys.

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Did your lover want to use a vibrator to experience the ultimate climax? Are you worried that she will end up spending too much time with it at your expense? Research has shown that sales of vibrators for women have skyrocketed with even some celebrities like Rihanna spending thousands of dollars on them. With such soaring sales, it seems that women are depending more on toys to satisfy their sexual desires. As a man, this makes me worried and I can understand why most men are intimidated by these devices.

If you are a man and feel that vibrators for women are a threat to you, it is time you embarked in a completely new direction. If you are using a sex toy on her, you can stimulate her clit with your other hand or mouth so that you are involved in the action. You can also make a point of investing in toys that are designed for use by couples and take control while having sex. Have you ever thought about using a Cock Ring? It will send both of you to the heavens. A Cock Ring is used to increase the blood flow in the penis which will make your erection feel stronger and help you to last longer.

Sex toys are an excellent gift to give your girl for special occasions such as on Valentine’s Day or on a Wedding Anniversary. But it can prove to be quite trickier than you anticipate getting the right sex toy that will please her. It is very easy to choose something that she won’t like and if you are not careful, you might even end up offending her or upsetting her and this is the last thing you want to. So before you order a sex toy for her from an adult store, you must have an idea of exactly what she wants and then shop for it.

In any relationship, communication is vital, it is the only way to know exactly what she likes. If you manage to identify a sex toy that she wants, this will instantly jump start your sex life. First, you will need to be very attentive when having sex with your girl. Take your time to understand what gives her fast and wild orgasms. She may like clitoral stimulation, g-spot stimulation or she may like you to stimulate her g-spot and clitoris at the same time. Once you have decoded her desires and needs, you will know which sex toys to give her.

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Buying a cheaply made sex toy that is of poor quality will disappoint her and she will hate you for it. These toys not only fail to get the job done appropriately but they may easily break which means you will have to replace them. They can also cause allergic reactions while others might expose her body to toxic materials.

When giving your girl a gift, it is essential that you go for a high end or luxury sex toy that will surely impress her. A gift must be special and be a symbol that you really love her. These sex toys are made with higher quality features, functions and materials. Some of these sex toys may be whisper quiet, waterproof, having multiple vibrations modes and are often made with body safe materials that are phthalate free. They may be priced higher but you will never regret your purchase as you will definitely get the value for the money you spend.

I personally recommend buying a luxury sex toy made by the adult lifestyle brand LELO. My favourite vibrator from their range is the LELO Mona Wave which moves back and forth in a come hither motion. It is ergonomically designed to fit comfortably in the palm of your hand and is made using body safe materials. It has a travel locking feature so you are able to take it with you anywhere without the fear of accidently turning on. Within a few minutes of using the LELO Mona Wave, she will experience a mind blowing G-Spot orgasm.

Sex toys for adults have really transformed a lot over the past couple of years, you no longer have to buy products made from toxic materials. These days you are able to buy a powerful sex toy made with high quality materials and functions which will pleasure you. I recommend shopping at Adultsmart which is an online trusted sex toy shop which stocks a wide range of these wonderful products to ensure that your healthy sex life doesn’t start spiraling downhill. You will always find something that is perfect for the two of you. There are so many toys available that can make your sex life extremely pleasurable.

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Richard runs the marketing and social profiles of adultsmart and adultsmart blog. He has been in the industry just over 10 years and enjoys his role both in an administrative capacity as well keeping abreast of issues relating to sexual health and lifestyles.

My Vibrator Evolved!

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You know you’re working in a pretty amazing industry when you come in to work after a week and a half away and your boss hands you not one but two vibrators to review. Getting paid to write about my self-pleasuring experiences with sex toys sounds like a dream but it is very much my reality. I don’t have much to complain of that is for sure!! I was very grateful to take home the Evolved Rechargeable Slim and Pretty in Pink vibrators, two great products I am extremely happy to add to my growing sex toy collection.

We have an ever-expanding collection of Evolved Novelties products in the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres and their intention to provide great quality versatile sex toys is very welcome indeed.

“Our mission is to provide ground breaking, innovative sexual health products to improve the typical couple’s romantic life, a market which is growing exponentially fast.”

Their range includes affordable and good quality sex toys, with shapes and sizes to suit many people.

Vibrating bullets are one of the most popular vibrators we sell in store, a staple in many women’s sex lives. They are easy to use and simply designed, great to be included during solo masturbation and partnered experiences. Evolved bullet style vibes come in several different sizes, with the Rechargeable Slim and Pretty in Pink vastly different in size and shape.

Evolved Rechargeable Slim Features

The Evolved Rechargeable Slim is a classic shaped 5 inches tall and 0.9 inches wide vibrator. It is made from smooth ABS material and is fully rechargeable with a USB cable.  The Slim features a sleek design with no texture, ribbing or raises which is great for those looking for a plain design. It is 100% waterproof so can be submerged in water-a great companion for pleasurable bath or shower fun. The outlet on the vibrator where the charger is inserted into features a plug which must be closed off especially when submerged. Otherwise you will be looking at a water damaged toy.

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I am not a huge fan of the patterns of vibrators, preferring just a regular buzz however the Rechargeable Slim features 7 vibrating functions which is plenty to keep one person occupied if they enjoy mixing it up. The vibrations are powerful however I find slightly ticklish. I am a deep and rumbly kinda woman however tickly vibes are something that appeals to some people. My experience working in the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres have highlighted that the higher end vibrators provide the deeper vibes so it didn’t come as much of a surprise that they are this way in the Evolved Slim.

The Evolved Novelties Pretty in Pink Vibrator is a compact bullet with a rounded tip, measuring 3.4 inches in length and 0.9 inches width. It is very discreet and would make a great travel companion if room is an issue for you (I recommend keeping it in a satin pouch in your handbag in case the opportunity arises to make use of it). Like the Rechargeable Slim, the Pretty in Pink is waterproof with a plugged charging outlet and features 7 different vibrating functions. I found the vibrations of the Pretty in Pink slightly deeper than the Slim which could very well be the case considering the smaller size.

There were several qualities of the Evolved bullet vibrators that I found to be down falls.

I recommend people buying sex toys choose toys that are non-porous. This includes high quality silicone, steel and glass. These vibrators are made from ABS plastic which is definitely not my first go to considering there are plenty of other bullet vibes in this price range made from good quality silicone.

Sex toys with cracks and creases are not something I like to recommend and the Evolved Slim and Pretty in Pink have the charging outlet space which could potentially be a harbour for bacteria. The Pretty in Pink design also has a crease all around the entirety where the plastic is joined together. I understand that this is something that cannot always be avoided especially in the lower price range toys but considering that there exist plenty of other similar toys without these, I would recommend people wanting a body safe clean design to choose a vibrator that is completely sealed with a magnetic charger. That way there are no spaces that are difficult to keep clean. I would recommend using a foaming toy cleaner with these vibrators so that those tricky spots receive a thorough cleaning-just ensure the plug is placed properly in the charging outlet.

The Evolved Rechargeable Slim and Pretty in Pink vibrators feature a 5-year warranty to cover any mechanical or material defects. To claim this warranty is a process made simple by the clear and easy to complete online form. Just be sure to hold on to your proof of purchase in order to make the most of the warranty if anything was to happen.

Conclusion

Despite some flaws, I find the Evolved Rechargeable Slim and Pretty in Pink to be very good options for those looking for an affordable and quality toy. The fact that they are rechargeable means you will avoid annoying battery changes and when taken care of properly, have the potential to last you a long time (Obvious due to being covered by the 5 year warranty!).

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

This Fun Toy Makes My G Pop!

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The best surprises come when you take a toy home that you had no idea you had been looking for. What I mean is you buy something to try and it turns out to be your new favourite. And this surprise came for me in the form of the Fun Toys Gpop Plug! This little guy flew completely under my radar. I must admit when I first saw its packaging the design nerd in me got a bit excited. The plug comes in a tube like box which is nearly seamless. A seamless circle! That’s so cool. The Fun Toys Gpop is so unique that it’s designed to work for both female G-Spot stimulation and the male P-Spot or prostate gland. I don’t know why, but this might have been one of the reasons I over looked this Gpop plug. Assuming as most should that because the anatomy differences between the location of the G-Spot and the P-Spot how could one toy work so well for both?

I am always on the hunt for new and stimulating plugs, in the past, I have never found much satisfaction from vibrating toys. (Think my P-Spot needs a bit more “unf” if you know what I mean?). I am very pleased to say that after using the Fun Toys Gpop I will be giving a few more vibrating toys a second venture.

When I review any product I like to include both the up and downs for the product as things can always be improved on. This review will be a bit different as I don’t have anything negative to say about the Gpop. I am also not saying its “Perfect” just that anything the Gpop is lacking can be found in another of the Fun Toys “Pop” series.

It’s Fun Size!

This Gpop is the perfect size to start your sexual adventures with. The tiniest bit of a good water based lube like the “WICKED Toy Love” Lubricant found at Oh Zone stores and the Adultsmart website. It really just needs a little bit, this toy is so smooth it slides right in. But you can use whatever your favourite is. Keep in mind that as the Gpop is a silicone toy it will be best used with water based lubes!

And now for the exciting part. The Gpop may appear small and slightly underwhelming to anyone more familiar with anal play, however, its design fits perfectly into that ever so favourable P-Spot. For the first time in a while, I was very appreciative for the smaller size of this plug, even the handle fit comfortably between the cheeks. I could have worn it for much much longer, and will be in the very near future. Now I mentioned earlier I haven’t been a fan of vibrating toys in the past that changed in a moment with this toy! Its design, and I know I* have mentioned the design already, but it really sits on the P-Spot, and then the vibrations begin!!! The vibrations are almost focused on the P-Spot and not aimlessly vibrating the hollow of the anal cavity like I have experienced in the past with other vibrating toys.

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Vibrations And Controls

The power button and vibration variation control is an easy to reach button located on the top of the loop ring handle. Makes it easy for you to reach around and press to adjust the variations and speeds, and easy for a partner to switch it up for you as well. Gpop has 3 speeds with 6 variation patterns. There is one particular pattern 3rd or 4th on the settings that acts like a crescendo of vibrations and it was pretty great! While some other vibrating plugs come with more power and more settings to your enjoyment, the Gpop form and fit to the inner workings of the body make this a stand out plug!

Shower And Bath Time Friendly

The Fun Toy Gpop also says its fully shower and bath time friendly. I’m not normally one to take time for a human skin soup soak, but the idea of sitting back and letting the Gpop work its magic in the warm embrace of a tub does seem very appealing.

Why I Love The Gpop Plug

Another reason the Gpop has made an impression with me is while I might be more anal-centric my partner is not. And while it’s fun for him to play with toys on me, it’s also fun when we can both enjoy the collection of toys together. ( Please remember if you are ever sharing toys even with a consistent partner it’s still important to make sure they are cared for and cleaned (The toys… and your partner too I guess. I like to have the WICKED Foam toy cleaner from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres handy). The unique loop ring handle on the Gpop makes this toy very easy to use as a vibrating wand, tantalising and massaging… really any part of the body. The smooth Silicon surface means for a friction free glide around those intimate and perhaps more delicate areas. He was truly impressed with the impact and sensations this little plug gave us! There are many prostate massage tools available but I really love the Fun Toys Gpop Plug!

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We-Vibe 4 Plus The Number 1 Couples Vibrator

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Well… what can I say, what an incredible little device We-Vibe has come up with.

Let’s Start With The Colour Range The We-Vibe 4 Plus Comes In

“Pink for those who have unconditional and romantic love, compassion and understanding, nurturing, romance, warmth, hope, calming, sweetness, naiveté, feminine and intuitive energy.”

“Purple for those who are unusual and individual, creative and inventive, psychic and intuitive, humanitarian, selfless and unlimited, mystery, fantasy and the future.”

“Grey for those who are reliable, conservative, dignified, neutral, impartial, professional, mature, intelligent, classic, solid, stable, calming, subdued, reserved, elegant, formal and dependable.”

The We-Vibe 4 Plus is named the number 1 couples vibrator as it can be controlled via an app on your phone in the same room or on the other side of the world. This nifty little toy can also be controlled by a wireless remote. I love how you can use it whilst having sex, for your own pleasure or even a bit of fun – for example wear it out to dinner or in the shops and your partner could be getting you off the whole time (we all knows he’s not really playing candy crush), sounds like crazy fun to me!!

The We-Vibe 4 Plus, gives her the extra stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot and together you both share the vibe.

Steps To Use The We-Vibe 4 Plus

1. Get the We-Vibe ready by applying Water based lube to the G-spot stimulator.

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Image: We-Vibe 4 Plus Lubricant Application

2. Set it up by turning the Vibe on via the app or wireless remote.

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Sex Toy: We-Vibe 4 Plus App
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Sex Toy: We-Vibe 4 Plus Options
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Sex Toy: We-Vibe 4 Plus Modification

3. Gently put the G-spot stimulator into the vagina, resting the clitoral stimulator on or near the clitoris.

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Sex Toy: We-Vibe 4 Plus Insertion

4. Go and have sex in your favourite positions and enjoy the vibe. Discover the movement and pressure that gives the most pleasure. It is recommended for doggy style or anal as the clitoral stimulation allows for deeper and pleasurable sex.

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5. After you’re finished clean your We-Vibe 4 Plus with sex toy cleaner and warm water.

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6. Store your We-Vibe away in its compact, discreet storage and travel case.

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Sex Toy: We-Vibe 4 Plus Case

Why I Love The We-Vibe 4 Plus

  • The We-Connect application is free to download for Google and Apply devices. It can be used with a smart phone which allows you to customize your vibes and have distance play from all over the world.
  • The compact, body-hugging form- stiff mid-section to stay right where you need it.
  • No Wires when in use.
  • The storage is compact and discreet with a little storage and travel case.
  • 100% waterproof.
  • Body Safe- as for someone like me I’m allergic to latex, so it’s amazing how the We-Vibe is free from harmful phthalates, latex and BPA and it’s made from Medical grade silicone.
  • Eco-friendly, carbon-neutral manufacturing and a USB rechargeable battery.
  • Fast recharging – charges fully in 4hours and lasts up to 3hours of play time.
  • Has 1 year warranty.

Things I Don’t Love About The We-Vibe 4 Plus

  • It sometimes disconnects from the app when inside you by can still be controlled via the wireless remote so you can still play on.

Overall, I would definitely recommend the We-Vibe 4 Plus as it’s an amazing little piece of technology that every couple, or single ladies should invest in. There really are countless benefits when you use couples sex toys!

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

The G-Kii Is Not Perfect – BUT – It Is Perfect To Reach My G!

Je Joue G-Kii Sex Toy

The Shape of the Toy Is Perfect To Reach Your G-Spot

Tonight, I laid my eyes on the curved G-Kii by Je Joue. I got a particular love for g-spot vibrators and this one represents 100% how a g-spot or a-spot vibrator should look! G-kii comes in a very classic packaging I must say (this one is in black and white with the image of the toy) but inside, there is a nice black case that should be ideal for storage. When I finally have in my hands the famous G-Kii, I’m a bit surprise by the size. For some reason, I thought the sex toy would be a bit smaller/lighter but I’m not disappointed, it’s actually a good thing. This toy measures 17 cm long and has an insertable length of 11 cm. Its head that is very curved has a diameter of 3.4 cm. We get to enjoy two motors (the base, is the biggest motor, and there is also one in the curved end, for the g-spot).

The waterproof G-Kii exists in 4 colours, black, white, plum and pink, I opened the last one that we had, the black.  I am not really a big fan of this colour for sex toys (especially all black for a toy is just not impressive and sexy for me). It’s a silicone toy, its quality is great however in the manual, Je Joue recommend us to use “plenty of lubricant” when using G-Kii. Also, there is a larger silicone button on the side, made to be able to adjust the curved part. At the bottom of this vibrator, you’ll find 3 buttons: a “+”, a “-” and a “~”. The “+” and “-” are metal and made to increase/decrease the intensity of vibration while the third button is made of silicone and is made to change the different vibrations mode. Je Joue has been clever with the position of these buttons, once the toy is inside of us, it shouldn’t be a hard time to play with. There are 5 vibration levels according Je Joue, which is weird cause I can feel 7 different ones:

  1. Subtle continuous vibrations
  2. Faster continuous vibrations
  3. Powerful vibrations but strongest come from the base motor
  4. Lighter pulsating vibrations
  5. Slow and controlled pulsations
  6. Stronger pulsations
  7. Fast pulsations

Well maybe that’s what they meant when they wrote “5 power levels and 6 different pulse patterns” but I wasn’t the only one to be confused apparently.

 

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Sex Toy: Je Joue G-Kii

 

Not Impressed With The Vibrations

I have to admit that I’m not totally impressed with the vibrations for two reasons. First of all, I had an annoying time to feel a big difference between mode 1 and 2 and second, the seven chosen could have been better or should have been more than 7 modes. However, I’m happy with the vibrations intensities! Quite powerful if wanted.

Like I said previously, this curved vibrator is adjustable in 3 different options. Let’s say that you have possibility to adjust it from really bent, to half and “slightly” bent. It’s totally according your preferences! When fully bent, the biggest motor should reach your clitoris, and allow you to get at the same time a clitoral stimulation! It’s amazing! Because when you see this toy, you don’t realize straight away that this option is possible! I feel like it’s a really great option and they should have wrote it somewhere on the packaging as it’s another great point to buy this toy!

The only thing that I regret is the fact that the change of the sex toys form can’t easily happen when the toy is placed inside… Unfortunately, the “adjustable” button is not enough to go through the option; You’ll need to adjust it at the same time the curved end if you want it more bended inside (you should never adjust the toy without clicking on the “adjustable” button, or you’ll damage it). Same for the base, you’ll need to push it toward yourself to be able to enjoy clitoral stimulation.

Everything Is Not Perfect But You Wont Go Wrong With It!

However, even without this adjustable option, the toy would be as good for me. The basic shape of the toy is more than perfect to reach your G-Spot, if that’s why you bought G-Kii in the first place!

When it comes to noise level, it’s quite low. Even when using the maximum intensity level, I’m not annoyed by the noise. Other than that, G-Kii is rechargeable but not only that, the charger has a magnetic end that makes it easier to recharge the toy! The light should flash when charging and when fully charged the light will stay on. Moreover, Je Joue offers 1 year warranty.

I could recommend this toy without hesitation if you want a great g-spot vibrator! I feel like its curve is one of the best I saw among the g-spots vibrators. Obviously, everything is not perfect about this toy but you shouldn’t go wrong this one!

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!
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