Adultsmart Kogarah Experience

Adultsmart Kogarah Customer Review

Let me set the scene.  About my Adultsmart Kogarah Experience

It’s a late night, you and your partner are feeling a little kinky but you’re craving to try something different, something new. You talk to your partner about doing something naughty in a spot of the house that has yet to be “christened”. You talk about wearing something that might get the juices flowing or even trying some toy play. You think about for it for a second and you realise that nothing in your immediate vicinity is going to do the job that you know could be done if you had that something special. You discuss it for a moment and you remember that just down the road is a store that has all you’re wants and needs in the one place. You jump in your car and take a little trip, you turn into a dark and quiet street, secluded from the judgey eyes of those boring old regular people who just enjoy missionary for 10 seconds until the top busts a nut and it’s all over for another 2 weeks.

You park, step out of the car, and take a breath as you prepare yourself for what’s to come. You take your first steps in as you here a sound to notify the shopkeep of your arrival, as you walk through the doorway your taken aback.

The room hits you with shelf after shelf, product after product, everything your every fantasy could ever possibly desire, right there for you to see.

You hear a voice that says “Hey, how’s it going, is there anything I can help you with?” In this rich, beautiful South African accent.

You turn your head and there he is, my boy Eon. A beautiful, sophisticated man with the looks of a chiselled god, the knowledge of a scholar who’s studied every sex book you can imagine and the wisdom of a man who’s lived for centuries and will tell you it was HIM who told Adam and Eve they should embrace their beautiful, naked bodies as they frolic through the Garden, a true enthusiast of the natural form. As he talk, his voice washes away all the fear and worry you felt when stepping through those doors. You immediately feel safe, with no judgement upon you and you know that you’re home once more.

You say back to him “nah mate, just looking” as you and your partner take your first steps into a world you may never leave.

You don’t know where to begin, do you go left, do you go right, do you head straight for the glass box with a life sized naked sex doll in it (I did), options are limitless! To your right; silicon moulds, lubes of all types, butt plugs, butt plugs with tails, silicon boobies, silicon pussies (of every nation and pornstar you can think of!) To your left; dildos, vibrators, dongs and the wild shit, Bluetooth enabled vibrators, multi-stage vibrators, “rabbits” (dongs with little bits that vibrate on your clitoris), mini vibrators.

And then back of the store… let me tell you about the back of the store.

Monster dildos, shapes and sizes you could never imagine in your wildest dreams, whips of every type, chains, sounding equipment, cock cages, handcuffs, pussy and cock moulding kits, swings, masks, gags, ropes, costumes of all types and sizes, MORE DONGS, sex games, PARTY SEX GAMES the list just keeps going. By the time you’ve decided you’ve got everything you want for the night you realise 3 hours have past and between the amazing conversations you’ve had with the staff to seeing the incredible array of items, you’re ready to go home and absolutely destroy your lover!

This store isn’t just for those seeking a wild night with their partner or themselves, it’s for anyone looking to expand their knowledge of sex and sexual freedom and it’s for those seeking help with intimacy and find new ways to spice up their sex life. Don’t ever feel like you can’t shop at an adult store, because it’s places like these that can never be replaced by online shopping and it’s places like these that show you what’s really important and that’s you and your own body, mind and soul, which I know you will find something here to satisfy all.

Good luck and Safe Sex✌🏻

Short answer:
Yeah it’s sick. 10/10

 

Tabsky V

How to look good naked: post covid

Let’s be real, you’ve probably got a covid bod going or maybe it started long before the pandemic and want to make sure you look good naked.  Body dysmorphia has been a struggle for everyone at least once in their life and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. Confidence is difficult to earn and sometimes it’s harder to keep, especially when you’re stuck in quarantine with food delivery services everywhere.

 

The first step: achieving maximum comfort in the nude

This is probably the most difficult step.

I’m not saying you need to surround yourself with mirrors, this isn’t American Beauty and you may have a hard time picturing yourself like Mena Suvari covered in rose petals seducing Kevin Spacey on a ceiling. No, we’re not there yet, but get the rose petals anyway (just in case).

All we’re doing in this step is living without clothes, and preferably in our bedrooms away from housemates and family (this isn’t a social thing), but if you live alone or with a partner who works different hours to you; nipples to the wind, baby!

 

Some tasks you can do during this time could be, but definitely not limited to

  • Housework (e.g. vacuuming, dusting, dishes, laundry, etc)
  • Watching television or playing video games
  • Work from home (make sure there aren’t any zoom meetings scheduled)
  • Exercise (busty babes be careful)
  • Online shop
  • Wash the dog
  • Start a new hobby (knitting in the nude has a nice ring to it)

 

The point of this exercise is to be yourself, but naked. This means doing house-chores in the nude, and lounging about with a tit out. It’ll feel weird and you’ll want to put something on but resist. The more you see your fleshy bits, the more you’ll be desensitised to caring about what you look like (sounds easier than it is). Avoid mirrors and reflective surfaces at the beginning, it’s easy to give up after seeing yourself, it’s confronting and can do more damage than good.

This step isn’t a one-off, loving yourself takes time and each person is different, it all depends on you. Try and intertwine this practice daily or weekly. Make the time for yourself; no excuses! It’s 2022, if we aren’t attempting to think of our bodies as holy temples, then what are we doing with our time besides continually hating ourselves. We cut off toxic people, but what if we’re what’s toxic? Try and be kind to yourself, negatively thinking of your body isn’t going to change the fact that it’s yours.

 

The second step: acceptance

It’s okay to accept yourself at this current phase in your lives. If this isn’t the body you want, that’s okay too. It’s not about ‘liking’ yourself, it’s about realising you’re more than cellulite and caring less about what you or others think of your appearance. The goal is; going to a nudist beach and feeling like a king (this means not being embarrassed or feeling shame).

You’ll know you’ve reached this step when you look in the mirror and your reaction is more of “meh” instead of a “ew”.

 

When you spend less time worrying about your appearance, the better quality of life you’ll have. Remember, Rome wasn’t built in a day, your dream rig is going to take time, and the sooner you stop overthinking and worrying about trying to squeeze into those jeans you desperately want to keep from 2010 (please just donate them, it’s not worth the reminder of what you were and what you wish you could be. It does more damage mentally and it doesn’t matter how much you spent on them or if they’re designer labels~ let it go).

 

Now that you’ve accepted your current body and cleared out your wardrobe, start living (you can wear clothes this time). This means enjoying things you always had to stress about before; treat yourself to that ice cream or go to the beach shirtless/in a bikini. You’ll feel like all eyes are on you, but try to remember that those people are more concerned about themselves and how they look. We all have our internal struggles and shortcomings, the only way to change how you react is purely through building confidence. The more you walk about being yourself in all your glory (please keep in mind public nudity is illegal), the more normal you’ll feel. Confidence isn’t given, it’s made.

 

The third step: enjoying yourself

This is the BIG one. We’ve spent the time, and we’ve done our best at loving our bodies on our own. Now it’s time for someone else to love your body.

Regardless of what you may think of yourself, you are wanted. Put yourself out there and start talking to people. Remember; nothing ventured = nothing gained! If you’re on a dating app, I highly suggest bad pick-up lines. It’s an easy way to break the ice and can set you up with a good first impression. Flirting out in the wild can be a bit intimidating and if you get turned down- please keep trying with other people. It can be disheartening at first but life isn’t like the movies and that’s okay. Just keep swimming around this crazy world until you hook someone worth keeping.

 

Not ready to let another person raid your holy temple? That’s fine, no rush. Luckily technology has come a LONG way from basic masturbation routines. Give yourself a break and get to your nearest adult store (adult stores will often give you more advice and better suggestions than shopping online). We’re all different and it’s important to find something worth your time.

Remember; you’re finding a toy/toys that’ll make YOU feel like a KING. Save your money by avoiding the cheaper/low quality items and invest in yourself. Sex toys are supposed to be fun and easy, sex shouldn’t be complicated unless you want it to be.

Roughly, this can cost you anywhere from AUD $150-$500 and should be a one-off purchase until you’re ready to explore yourself/others further. Stay away from battery operated and non-waterproof toys; they don’t last long and generally gather gunk/other nasties around the battery seal. If you can’t justify the purchase for yourself; think of it this way- you’d roughly spend that much on someone you love but not on yourself? Seems like a double standard to me… Let’s crush the stigma of ‘wasting money’ on yourself and see it as a necessary need. Would you buy a car or laptop knowing it’ll die within a few months? No, so why start now with a trash toy? Remember to explore your options and try to be open with new experiences. Tap into your inner-hedonist and get freaky!

 

Hopefully after following these three big steps you’ll see yourself in a new light and if you don’t then go back to step one and take it slow. You’re worth the time and effort, don’t rush yourself. Please be safe and don’t let negative comments undo the hard work you’re achieving. This is meant to be a slow process, the point is to rewire your mental attitude from years of body dysmorphic damage. Now get naked and comfortable, you got this!

How Weight Affects Your Sex Life

Our body weight affects Your Sex Life and health and performance in multiple modes. Having a healthy and better sex life is linked to both emotional and physical health. Amongst many biological reasons that affect sex between couples, weight is one o the common uttered issues. Being overweight can disturb not only the quality of life but also the sex life. And the good news is, it can be treated. Desire, pleasure, sex drive, and performance all are linked to obesity and body weight. Excess weight can hamper sex life and also create psychological obstacles during sex.

Now keeping this in mind, let us know about how weight actually affects sex life between couples:

It Can Limit Your Positions

Trying out a variety of different positions during sex works wonders for relationships. There is difficulty in trying out and exploring new positions during intercourse. By being overweight, experiencing physical limitations hinder sex and intimacy. If one of the partners has obesity or excess fat the other can feel uncomfortable, and the sex should not be uncomfortable in any way. What happens is both the couple due to overweight find difficulty in getting to the climax which may lead to very decreased or no sexual satisfaction. Thus, losing weight by having proper healthy lifestyle habits might help to enjoy every sense of it.

Erectile dysfunction

Another main and common effect weight has on men is erectile dysfunction. It is believed that body fat lowers testosterone levels in men which can cause erectile dysfunction. Although it can be treated easily. In fact, low levels of testosterone can also cause a high risk of cortisol and estrogen which can lead to impotence, lower libido, and hair loss. And the best and healthy way to restore erection is to lose weight. Eating less and working out more can bring drastic changes to sexual activity.

Heart risks

All excess weight increases your risk of cardiac disease, even if you’re otherwise healthy and don’t have other risk factors such as high blood pressure and high cholesterol. People with cardiac diseases are often very concerned about their sexual performance. The primary fear they have is that they might cause a heart attack while having sex. Moreover, cardiovascular diseases affect men’s ability to achieve orgasm and both partners find it hard to experience sexual pleasure in a broad range. In order to cope with this and promote better heart health, supplements may be useful and convenient. Mitchelle Morgan, whose articles published on popular health news sites pointed out that the ingredients present in some supplements not only enhance cardiovascular activities but also trigger the body’s natural metabolism to promote weight loss.

Low sex drive

When it comes to sex drive our body weight can impact a lot on overall sexual performance. As mentioned above an increased weight decrease the testosterone level which is a sex hormone in males and thus, libido drops drastically, which leads to low or poor sex drive. And it is believed that both men and women who go through a weight loss journey have relatively improved sexual function and experience. Weight sabotages the sex life which is vital for a relationship. Apart from weight, stress, chronic illness, injury, intoxication, or hormonal balance also temporarily decrease sex drive.

Lack of intimacy

Intimacy is having a deep personal connection with a sense of belonging. And this intimacy can be affected by a variety of reasons such as trust, dishonesty, abuse, lack of self-esteem, and one major reason is being overweight.

Being overweight or weight gain can influence even penis size as well due to fat forming near genitals. People who are overweight quite often scrutinize their body, and it’s not always about the weight and other factors, how one feels about the body and body image also matter a lot. Being overweight or also somehow associated with other diseases as well such as diabetes and heart ailments which not only adversely affects the sex life but also the quality of life.

Disrupts hormonal balance

The main hormones that affect and influence sex drive are mainly cortisol, testosterone, estrogen, and thyroid hormones. Hormones basically act as signaling molecules that have a greater contribution to the maintenance and overall well-being of the body and involve almost all aspects of the body. Men, due to weight gain are more likely to face low testosterone levels and low fertility. With weight, certain lifestyle habits and diet can also eventually affect hormonal balance. The food we eat and the diet we follow can immensely affect our health. This piece www.healthcanal.com/life-style-fitness/best-diets-for-weight-loss presents the best weight loss diet plans and one can easily tailor it according to their preferences.

Conclusion

Our body goes through a lot of changes while gaining weight. It incredibly has a serious impact on our body and overall health. And with the top of it, sexual experience also has a great effect on both the couples. Obesity can affect sex and sexual performance dampening the desire for better and pleasurable sex. Excess body fat can take a toll on both physical and mental well-being which is a bad sign altogether. Therefore, a good healthy weight is important for a better and improved sex life. Although some changes in lifestyle would help toward better sex drive and arousal. And if the conditions are more worsen, then getting treatment or consulting a good doctor regarding sexual health would be a much better option.

The Sex Industry

The Sex industry (sometimes known as the sex trade) is made up of companies that provide sex services, as well as adult entertainment. Prostitution, strip clubs, host and hostess clubs, and sex-related pleasures including pornography, sex-oriented men’s publications, sex movies, sex toys, and fetish are all part of the business. Adult movie theaters, sex stores, peep shows, and strip clubs are all part of the sex business, as are sex channels for television and pre-paid sex movies for video on demand.

Prostitution is a major part of the sex business, and it can happen in a brothel, a prostitute’s facility, a client’s hotel room, a parked automobile, or on the street. This is frequently arranged through a pimp or escort service. A prostitute or sex worker provides commercial sexual services to a customer in the form of prostitution. In certain situations, the prostitute has the freedom to choose whatever sort of sexual activity she would engage in, although forced prostitution and sexual slavery do exist in various parts of the world. There are a variety of reasons why someone can become a prostitute.

Poverty, repressive capitalistic systems, and patriarchal cultures that exclude individuals based on race and class have all been highlighted by socialist and radical feminists as causes for the ongoing prevalence of prostitution since these factors all work together to sustain oppression. Displacement as a result of conflict or war is another factor. The preponderance of sex workers who are Black or other people of color has been attributed to institutionalized racism in the United States, which leads to inequity and a lack of resources.

Meaning of sex work

Sex job entails providing sexual services in exchange for money or commodities. Women, men, and transgendered persons who get money or commodities in return for sexual services and who intentionally characterize such actions as income-generating activities, even if they do not consider sex work to be their career, are referred to as sex workers.

Comparing the past and the present

Carol Leight, a sex worker activist, invented the phrase “sex worker” in 1978. Following the release of the anthology Sex Work, its use grew more widespread. The phrase “sex worker” has subsequently gained widespread acceptance, appearing in academic journals, NGOs and labor unions, as well as governmental and international organizations like the World Health Organization.

Compared to some years before, thousands of sex workers have little choice but to keep working, putting their health and lives at danger in order to support their families. Sex workers are more likely to agree to meet with customers they don’t trust or to discuss safety measures like condom use if they are in a financial bind. Clients are more likely to haggle over rates or demand services without condoms since COVID-19 restrictions were implemented in their nations, according to sex workers.

Nowadays, Communities are increasingly stigmatizing sex workers, who are seen as vectors for the spread of COVID-19. Over-policing and punitive actions connected to the execution of COVID-19 rules put sex workers at risk, especially those who are transgender, migrants, or women of color. The epidemic has also raised the bar for sex workers reporting abuse, creating an environment of impunity and increasing the danger of violence.

 A big part of this industry is nowadays online. You can fine a lot of women, men, sex workers online on lot of difference social media platforms. One of them is OnlyFans. If you want to find your favorit girls check myygirl or jamesbabes.

To protect sex workers from abuse and exploitation, decriminalization-the elimination of criminal sanctions for purchasing and selling sex-is crucial. It’s also a necessary step in bettering the health of sex workers, their families, and their communities. This is especially true in the event of a worldwide outbreak. The epidemic of COVID-19 illustrates how critical it is.

Male and Female industry

Female sex workers, on average, charge less for in-call work and more for out-call employment. Male sex workers, on the other hand, charge modest rates regardless of whether the work is in call or outcall. It is obvious from these price distributions that they are not regularly distributed. They don’t follow the bell curve.

However, if we overlay each price distribution with a normal distribution, an intriguing pattern appears. In compared to men who acquire sex from female sex workers in interior settings like street prostitution, the tetrad characteristics may be more frequent among men who purchase sex from female sex workers in outdoor example, street prostitution settings like escort agencies.

Sex in cars!

 

So, let’s paint a picture here, you and your partner are going for a drive, enjoying date night so why not experience Sex in cars. Then suddenly a small kiss turns into a big one, now you don’t want to wait to get home to have fun. You pull up somewhere quiet and you’re ready to seal the deal. It hits you; you have no idea how? You try improvise but they keep hitting their head, you keep slipping boom, bad end to a good night. Well lucky for you, you found this nice little guide to help you. By the end of reading this, that won’t be you!
so, before you get into it, you always have to be ready. Don’t get ready always be ready. Start by always having condoms on your person. If you leave them in the car the heat will melt the condoms and ruin their strength. Accidents with cars course injury, accidents in cars course children. Protection is key, this also makes clean up super easy, nobody wants cum stains in their car, it’s so hard to clean out. Try explaining to your family what that stain is in your car. If you’re a person who likes toys make sure to hid one in the car on date nights. Not only do some partners like it when your prepared can make it a lot more fun. Can even get partner to use it during the car ride to increase anticipation and suspense. (I’m talking about passenger do not use sex toys while driving!)  and always make sure you have consent.

 

First things first. You’ll need to find an isolated but safe area. You don’t want to violate any laws here. Make sure it’s close enough in case of an emergency but some where you can’t be seen. Some good places are: late night look outs, almost empty parking lot, empty show grounds or an a bended road. Now what to wear. This if a date spontaneous event. Maybe a bit hard to prepare something to wear but if you’re thinking it might happen, skirts, dresses and lose cloths are your best friend, flick them off, do the deed, done, now on your way to McDonalds for ice cream. Also really hand in case someone dose catch you. Despite your super stealthy hiding spot. Something no one considers is lighting! Make sure you turn on the light in your car or even use a phone torch. In tight spaces it’s easy to hit your head, elbow or even knees on something. Helps if you can see what you’re doing. If you’re a person who likes it in the dark though. Just be extra mindful of yourself and your partner. You don’t want to break them in a bad way. It also helps if you use a bigger car! Or at least one with lots of cabin space. This will give you more room to move around and try more fun and different positions. Something you will need to be aware of is the windows! Make sure you have those bad boys cracked open. It can get very warm during sex, put that in a small space my friend you have a recipe for feeling gross and sweaty. Not everyone wants that.

 

Now all the little tips and tricks are out of the way. Let’s add some awesome moves to your arsenal of fun. These are just some of the basic moves. Feel free to add some more or tweak them to your enjoyment

 

  • Car girl: male partner sits on seat lent back a little bit. Then female partner staddles male, legs bend. Basic car moves but sometimes simplest is easiest you can even brace on the dash board for extra support while grinding
  • Backwards car girl: same concept as car girl just in reverse. Female partner may find it better to spread their legs to ither side of the seat for more comfort. Can use dash board for support. Great for g-spot simulation and for enjoying the view both inside and outside of the car
  • Backseat doggy: this is basically doggie style but you in the back seat. Great deep penetration, great g-spot stimulation!
  • Seashell by the sore: this position is great for saving space, female partner bends her legs are close to her head as possible. This makes great deep penetration and easy access to the clit. Perfect for g-spot stimulation. If it helps rest legs on partners shoulders
  • Reverse parked scoop: this a great position if you like being closer to your partner. Simply lay down on back seat facing each other and get really close so he may enter you. This is probably the position your lest likely to hit your head
  • Car spider: this one’s a little difficult but very rewarding. Simply lay with both legs facing each other, slowly come together till penetration happens, this can help you get a full view of the person’s body.

 

There are just the basics, your imagination can and will take care of the rest! Always communicate to your partner before trying new ways. This is your new mission if you chose to accept it!

Zach is a consultant at the oh zone adult stores.

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