First Time At A Fetish Club

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My first experience of going to a fetish club was back in 2015. Having recently turned 18, I was straight out of school and beginning to enjoy the adult life of going to bars and nightclubs.


In previous months I’d visited a few LGBTQ+ clubs on Oxford street and some more classier establishments like IVY. Unfortunately at those places I just didn’t feel a connection to the music, people or atmosphere.


Being sick of attending mainstream clubs, where I felt uncomfortable all night, groped repeatedly by gross men and listening the top 40 hits on repeat; I began searching online for some ‘alternative’ clubs. Having enjoyed listening to rock music and wearing my leather jackets with platform boots growing up I thought that would be my best bet.


During my search I stumbled upon a place called The Sydney Hellfire Club!


After reading through their Facebook page I found out that The Sydney Hellfire Club has been operating for over 25 years! Making it the longest running club night ever in Australia! They are open on the 4th Friday of each month with a wardrobe rule of no effort no entry.


Being known as the queen of fancy dress by my peers, I knew I had to put together something spectacular for my first visit to the club. The theme was ‘uniform’ and that could be interpreted as a police uniform, nurse costume, a sexy schoolgirl or any other uniform you could imagine.

Thinking outside of the box I decided to create a handmade Sailor Moon bra and panty set, my best friend joined me by sewing her own Sailor Mercury set in the same design. After concealing our clothes under some very suspicious trench coats and sneaking out the door whilst her parents slept, we made the trip into the city via train.


As we walked up Oxford street towards the former Midnight Shift Club (Now known as Universal Sydney) I could feel my heart start to race and my palms sweating. Why was I so nervous? I had been clubbing plenty of times! Did I not pre-drink enough? Or was it the fact that once I get to the club I would have to strip down to just my lingerie?! We got to the entrance of the club and paid the $30 admittance fee. As we walked up the staircase and into the first lounge area of the club my jaw nearly hit the floor! I was amazed by all the gorgeous women and men draped in skin tight latex and shiny metal spikes, the doms leading their subs around on collars and the bravery of everyone there for wearing their chosen outfits (or should I say lack thereof!).


We found the cloak room easy enough and finally revealed our Sailor Scout uniforms to the club. Multiple people came up and complimented us on our costumes. It was to nice receive genuine compliments instead of guys just telling me I looked sexy. I found that the people attending this club were very friendly and being a fetish club there was definitely an emphasis on consent. Men and women would ask if it was okay to talk or dance with me and they would instantly respect my response. This was something I had never experienced at a normal club and I really appreciated it.


During the night they had a variety of performers doing acts on the mainstage. There was a drag king strip tease, a rope suspension demonstration and some other comedic fetish routines. It was amazing to see these artists creativity and interpretations of what fetish and BDSM means to them.


After having a dance and talking to a few of the other club goers I wandered over to the lounge area. In the middle of a circle of lounges stood a giant wooden structure, it sort of resembled an art easel but I wasn’t quite sure what it was used for? I asked the lady standing next to the structure and she said she could show me. She took both my wrists and restrained them with leather cuffs to the top corners of the wooden frame, she then brought out an array of paddles and floggers. She told me to relax and let her know if I wanted to stop at any time. She began with running the flogger up and down my back, arms and thighs. The first spank was a shock that sent a ripple of lightning throughout my entire body. She continued to spank me again and again whilst everyone in the circle of lounges watched on. It was an exciting and sensual experience which I will always remember.


To say my first time at a fetish club was one of the best nights of my life is an understatement. I have gone back to The Sydney Hellfire Club many times over the past few years and every single time the performances and costumes have blown me away. If you are curious about venturing out to a fetish club, I would highly recommend The Sydney Hellfire Club.


4 Hand Massage: The Ultimate Indulgence

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A 4 hand massage may be the perfect erotic treatment you’ve craving. This breathtaking massage involves two charming massage girls using their expertise to provide soft, soothing stokes to completely revitalise your mind and body. As one of the most mind-blowing massages on offer, you’ll be pleasantly refreshed after just one treatment. If you’re still not convinced, here are a few more reasons why you need to indulge in a 4 hand massage.

What is the difference between a 2 hand and a 4 hand massage?

Unlike a 2 hand massage which involves just one masseuse, a delightful 4 hand massage incorporates 2 stunning massage girls caressing you simultaneously until you reach feelings of pleasure.

What happens in a 4 hand massage session?

Participate in a 4 hand massage and get twice the pleasure with two amazing massage girls. The sensual touch of 4 hands is accomplished in synchronization so it has the same benefits as two full body massages. For the ultimate stimulation, this type of massage is highly recommended. Your masseuses will use slow and gentle movements alongside hard motions to keep you completely relaxed. You’ll be taken to the edge of climax and back again before reaching a happy ending.

The sensational movement of 4 hands means you’ll be able to fully let go and unwind as the treatment takes place.

What are the benefits of 4 hand massage?

Relieves anxiety and depression

Engaging in a 4 hand massage can help to relieve depression and anxiety. By unwinding with two professionally trained massage girls, you’ll be able to completely relax. With regular massage, your mood will start to improve and you’ll thoroughly look forward to each session due to the enjoyment you’ll feel during each treatment.

Relieves muscle tension

4 hand massage is a wonderful treatment for aiding muscle tension. The movements used help to work pressure points to break down the accumulation of tissue that results in muscle ache and inflammation. The deep tissue massage techniques increase blood circulation and soothe your muscles for a more relaxed state. If muscle tension has been preventing you from enjoying intimate moments in the bedroom, then 4 hand massage can be hugely beneficial.

Relieves stress

With regular 4 hand massage treatments, you’ll be engaged in a deeply fulfilling act that helps to relieve stress in your life. The strain of daily life can cause unhappiness, but with 4 hand massage, you’ll feel soothed as you reach a state of erotic bliss. Relieving stress will help you to sleep better and give you more energy for your love life or day to day activities.

Aids premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction

4 hand massage nourishes your mind and soul as well as fulfilling your erotic desires to aid premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. Your massage girls will use their sensuous touch to take you to the edge of climax and back again, helping you to balance your sexual energy. This balance will prevent you from an early release of sexual energy. The final happy ending helps you to fully enjoy this breathtaking treatment.

Boosts confidence

4 hand massage is an effective way to boost your confidence, especially in the bedroom. You’ll begin to view sexual acts in a positive way and an improvement in erectile problems will help you to become a better lover. If you are suffering with low body confidence, self-esteem or are stressed about your sexual performance, 4 hand massage will enable both your mind and body to become sexually stimulated in private environment that will increase your libido and your desire to engage in intimate acts.

Increases prolonged lovemaking

An erotic 4 hand massage retrains the mind to physical stimulation. The technique of edging, which uses stimulation to take you to the brink of climax and back again, enables you to experience multiple orgasms in the bedroom. Using the practice of 4 hand massage, you’ll find lovemaking more thrilling and you and a partner can both benefit from the techniques used in this incredible treatment. The deep cleansing massage will make you happier, healthier and more willing to participate in sexual activity.

Spice Up Your Sex Life!

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The idea of spicing up ones sex life can be a tad daunting for some, as one person’s spice may be mild for the other, or might in fact be too hot! But that’s the point!!  Take-away or add as much spice as you need in order to make your sex life tasty. Here’s a few ideas (that aren’t toys) that will sizzle in the bedroom without burning your tongue.



A delay sprays main purpose is to pro-long sex by enhancing ejaculation control, this is often done by desensitisation. Desensitisation does not mean lack of sensation!! A slight desensitisation of the male sex organ gives more control to the user, avoiding pre-mature ejaculation and allowing longer, stronger erections. A top product in the delay spray range at our stores is the “Adam & Eve: Marathon Prolonger”. “Marathon Prolonger” is specifically designed as an erection aid, is water-based so it’s latex safe and contains “Benzocaine” to gently numb sensitive tissues without completely taking sensation away! After applying don’t forget to wait 5-10 minutes before starting as you don’t want to desensitise your partner!!



Arousal gels are as the name suggests, gels (or oils) that are used to enhance arousal. The most popular arousal gels we carry in store would be the “ON” range. The “ON” range comes in both oils and gels, both products have the same effect with the main difference being consistency. The gels are water-based and have different options such as flavoured gels like coffee cake or “ICE” which creates a cold buzzing sensation as opposed to a warm sensation like the natural gel or the arousal oil. The purpose of this product is to cause quicker orgasms (as in when they happen not how long they last), longer-lasting orgasms and more frequent orgasms as well as enhancing overall arousal.

Both the gels and oils creates a warm buzzing sensation, this creates a stronger blood flow to the now very sensitive area causing an instant arousal and moistening effect.




Mood mists are designed to fill a room with a decadent scent that enlightens ones soul spiritually and sexually. The main purpose of mood mists are to elevate the mood of the person or people smelling it. “Wildfire” has a very popular range of mood mists that include: “Feels like Love” which combines sandalwood &rose geranium to create a strong passionate fragrance to put you in the mood. Depending on the fragrance mood mists can often help in regards to lack of sleep, relaxation and much more. These mists can be used to fragrance a room, or spray on clothes or linen to create a passionate aroma wherever you may be.




Board games are a very fun way to spice up your sex life, and I’m not talking about monopoly. The board games I am referring to are played to keep you from being bored in the bedroom, most sex related board games will have challenges or tasks that pertain to the world of sex. Depending on your style of pleasure these board games can be BDSM related such as “Domin8” which sees the players use the same type of game play as dominos, but with the element of fantasy and control, oh and winning is much more satisfying. OR you could try “The Game of Perfect Partners” which follows a different route and is designed to see how well you know your significant other. The game does so by having question cards that ask three sets of questions under the categories of: Revelation, Quandary and Intimate. Try and guess what your partners answer will be to gain points, the more open and honest you are the more points you will get, a great way to open up and perhaps discover some things you might not have known about your partner, in a good way!! Whatever game you choose it will be sure to spice up your sex life.


Abbey is a consultant at the Adult Lifestyle Centers the best adult stores in Sydney.  Pop into one of their convenient locations to view these products and many more.

Guide To Best Brothel Services

People hold different opinions regarding prostitution and the brothel industry. The legality of prostitution also varies depending on the countries, where few countries legally allow prostitution and in another few, it is illegal to trade. Despite different opinion conflicts amid the modern civilization regarding the legalization of the brothel industry, it is a fact that physical intimacy is a primitive nature of human being and it sells from ancient time. This is why across the planet brothel industry one of the chief profit-oriented industry which is flourishing.


What to Look for While Searching for Best Brothels?

Clients visit the brothel to attain physical pleasure and to fulfill their fetishes and fantasies of sex. If you have not visited this premise earlier and wondering what are the things that to consider while searching for best brothels, here’s a guide for you. While you are preparing for relish the adult pleasure consider the following aspects will ease your ride.


1) Opt for a Licensed Brothel


While you are planning to visit a brothel is always advisable to opt for a licensed one. Searching for best brothels is a major aspect one should keep in mind. A licensed brothel stands for a legal brothel following the essential rules and other norms of the country that are implemented in the brothel industry.


2) Consider the Behavior of the Sex Workers

Usually, the best brothels comprise of sex workers who know how to behave with the client. They are well behaved, warm, skilled and welcoming because sex is about pleasure. They are experienced and trained to craft an atmosphere where the client feels comfortable. The sex workers working in the brothels come from the diverse section of the community and they are client friendly.


3) Be Transparent Regarding your Desire

Always be clear regarding your desire. Avoid the mindset that you can attain whatever you want simply because you are paying. Each and every brothel has their rules and regulation and it is always advised to abide by them during your visit. Furthermore, the different sex workers in the brothels are associated with different services, hence it a wise step to be transparent about your need so the particular staff can attend you. Also while proceeding to attain the services always use protection.


4) The Atmosphere of the Room Matters

To enjoy the moments in the brothels the environment of the room matters. In fact, it plays a vital role in creating the mood. Best brothels are encompassed with lavish rooms with a mesmerizing interior to incline the mood for physical intimacy. In addition to their elegant rooms, these brothels also contain Nude sauna, sex toys and many more where one can literally relish their fantasies.


5) Skilled Sex Workers and A Diverse Range of Sexual Exploration

Best brothels have sex workers who are trained as well as experienced. These brothels also provide diverse packages to help the clients to attain the different experience of physical intimacy. On the basis of the packages requirement, these workers engaged the client to attain the sensual experience. These brothels give utmost priority to the satisfaction of the clients.

The ranges of brothels vary depending on the services they offer. There are five-star exclusive brothels, strip clubs, etc. To avoid legal chaos secret brothels are often disguised under the names of bars, spa parlors, studios, strip clubs, and many other such related names. The increasing demand of the clients to meet the demand, various best brothels are integrating dance club in their service list. In countries like Brazil, Netherland the brothel owners are welcoming this tactic to attract young clients.

Open Letter For Oh Zone Penrith

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Dear staff at Penrith Oh Zone,

I’ve been coming to the Penrith store for a few years, more so recently since my new partner loves to mix things up.

I love the new changes in the store. It’s so much easier to find stuff when you guys are busy with other customers. It was weird at first, but only because I was used to how it was. It makes sense now though. All the vibrators in one area, flowing from bullets to straight vibes to rabbits. Cock rings close to masturbators, followed by a wall of anal toys, dongs and strap ons. And of course, they’ve still got the best fetish range for miles around.

And the place is so bright and clean! If your idea of a sex shop is still a dark, dirty dingy shop full of magazines and shitty cheap toys, do yourself a favour and check out Penrith Oh Zone!

But most importantly, the staff have been so friendly. In fact, that’s why I thought I’d finally write in to you. My partner and I came in the other evening and the lovely young girl behind the counter took a good deal of time helping us out. She showed us a great range of couple toys, and as always, it’s a lot easier to make a decision when you can feel each of the demo toys on display. Even the toys that didn’t have a demo model, she took it and us back to the counter, we all put on some gloves, and could feel what they do.

The gloves may not sound like much, but unfortunately I have been to a shop before where they didn’t use gloves to handle the toys. Suffice it to say, I didn’t purchase anything from them!

We ended up with a B-Vibe Rimming (the regular, not the petite, though it was a close call – again, being able to hold and see them side by side made a huge difference). We both love the toy and can see why it was voted couple’s toy of the year!

She also explained about which lubes to use with toys, especially for anal toys, as well as a great toy cleaner. Who knew there was so many differences between lubes! I can see why they keep them behind the counter, not to counteract against theft, but to make sure they can talk to you to make sure you’re getting exactly the product you need!

And of course, we checked out what was new in the fetish section. We topped up our Japanese rope collection, and picked up a Wartenberg wheel and some candles. A leather sensory-deprivation mask, and we were all set.

Expect to see us both again soon! So much more to get (so glad you have ZipPay)!


Thanks again.


N.B.  From editor – Please don’t forget our other adult store locations at Caringbah and Kogarah.