7 Surefire Ways to Enjoy Strap-On Sex

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Strap-on sex or pegging is something a lot of people want to try out these days. However, there are a lot of stigmas and misconceptions that are harming the strapon dating scene. Namely, there are a lot of people who are trying to label it as “unnatural”. And while there’s nothing unnatural about it, pegging is probably the most unique type of sex a man and a woman can experience together. The act of switching the roles in the bedroom turns people on, but you have to know what you’re doing in order to have strap-on sex in a proper and safe manner. With that in mind, we’re going to talk about the 7 surefire ways you can enjoy strap-on sex with your beloved partner.

Invest your Time and Money into Buying the Right Kind of Equipment

A positive strap-on experience may come with a hefty price tag.In other words, you need to invest in some quality equipment. However, finding good equipment isn’t as easy as you would assume. There are a lot of online stores and sex shops selling rubbish dildos you should never use with your significant other. All in all, the search for the perfect strap-on might prove to be a long and expensive one.However,it’s necessary, especiallyif you wishto find the kind the best possible equipment that will suit your needs.

Do Other Things with a Strap-On Before You Try Penetration

A lot of strap-on sex beginners go straight to penetration once they get their equipment. Now, this is a common mistake you have to avoid. It doesn’t matter if it’s your first time or not, you should never go straight to penetration. Your bodies have to relax and get used to this new sex toy. That said, you should probably try a lot of other things with a strap-on dildo before you try penetration. For example, you can cuddle and kiss while one of you wears the dildo. This way, you’ll get into the sexy mood and your bodies will get used to the equipment. Once you’re all relaxed and horny, you can “cut to the chase”.

Make Sure You Use a Lot of Lube

Having intercourse with your partner while they wear a strap-on dildo can be uncomfortable and painful if you forget to use a lubricant. Most of these dildos are very dry, so in order for your partner to enjoy being penetrated, you will have to use a lot of lube. Furthermore, these things can dry out additionally during sex, so you’ll have to ask your partner to tell you when to apply more lubricant.

Try All of Your Favorite Positions

The switching of the roles in the bedroom can be super fun because men and women sometimes want to see what sex is like for the other person. So, if you have a few positions you enjoy during regular sex, you should also try them out with a strap-on dildo. For example, if you and your lover enjoy the doggy style position, you have to try it with the switched roles. This will provide the girl with a feeling of power and it will show the man what it’s like to be a woman.

Make Sure to Communicate with Your Partner During Sex

As we said, strap-on sex can be uncomfortable, painful, and dangerous if you don’t know what you’re doing or how your partner is feeling. Therefore, we have to say that honest communication is paramount in these situations. If you’re penetrating your boyfriend with a dildo, he might be too proud to admit that he’s in pain. So, you have to ask him how he’s feeling every few minutes. Remember, communication during sex is crucial for successful and safe pegging.

Ask Your Boyfriend to Give You Thrusting Lessons

Considering you’re a girl, you probably don’t know how to thrust properly. Don’t be ashamed, this is not something a lot of women have a chance to do, well, not until they try strap-on sex. So, if you’re not good at thrusting, feel free to ask your boyfriend to give you some lessons. This way, you will know how to please him and you’ll feel very powerful doing it.

Talk About Your Impressions Afterward and Make Sure to Clean Your Dildo

If you want to be better and enjoy this type of sex for years to come, you have to talk about it afterward. Share your impressions and give suggestions to each other. Also, make sure you clean your dildo and strap-on equipment every time you finish using it. The strap-on equipment is very expensive, so you have to take good care of it. We suggest you read the instruction manual and follow the rules.

This Thousand Year Old Sex Trick Has Just Been Exposed

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Thousands of years ago, a sacred sex practice was founded, inspiring millions of couples all over the world to engage in lovemaking and boost their sex lives. What is this act? Tantra & Tantric massage!

You may have heard of tantric sex – after all, Sting has made this ancient act well-known all over the world. Tantric massage, however, is an intimate act which will set your loins on fire!

 

The definition of tantra is the weaving of sexual energy, which takes you on a part of spiritual enlightenment to a higher state of bliss. Improve your sex life and gain a closer bond with your partner with this thousand year old sex trick.

What is tantra and tantric massage?

You may be wondering what is tantra? The main goal of tantra is the balance and connection of sexual energy. Tantric massage is a stimulating erotic massage which can proceed slow and sensual lovemaking.

Meditation

Tantric massage takes on forms of meditation via breathing techniques. Slow, deep breaths help to control the sexual energy between you and your partner. Take them to the edge of orgasm and ride the wave of arousal by focusing on your breath, in and out.

As a holistic therapy, tantric massage builds self-confidence, eliminates negative sexual emotions, and boosts stamina in the bedroom.

Sexual freedom

Tantra is all about sexual liberation. Anything goes in this practice, allowing you to explore new ways of pleasure. Discover your sexual freedom by finding new methods of satisfying yourself and your partner. Whether that’s playing out your deepest fantasies or teasing each other with role play.

Sexual freedom allows sexual energy to build up, move through the body, and culminate in an explosive ending. After a tantra session, you’ll feel a deeper state of bliss, fully rejuvenated and content.

Creating a spiritual connection

Tantra isn’t just about reaching orgasm – the spiritual connection creates helps you to connect with a partner on a deeper level. Couples suffering with intimacy issues use tantric massage to boost sexual energy and communication.

By taking a path of sexual enlightenment, you’ll find new ways of pleasuring yourself and your partner, helping you to feel more confident in the bedroom.

Unwind

If you have a stressful life and struggle to find time to unwind, making time for tantra will highly benefit you. Tantric massage helps you to relax like no other practice.

Start by taking a steamy shower with your partner to unwind. Create a comforting atmosphere by lighting candles, playing soft music and laying down soothing fabrics like silk. Use warm massage oil on your partner to build up sexual energy and invigorate the whole body.

Enlightenment

Tantric massage enables you to evolve as a person by taking you on a journey of sexual freedom and enlightenment. If you suffer with negative sexual emotions, intimacy issues, low confidence, premature ejaculation, or impotence, tantra can help you to alleviate these problems.

Tantra provides contentment and reassurance about yourself and your love life. Your personal relationship will be enriched, and you’ll be able to express yourself in the bedroom.

With tantra, you and your partner will experience a positive emotional and physical connection to heal your body and mind. While sex is considered sacred in tantra, new sexual experiences are welcomed so you can revitalise your sex life like never before. You’ll practice longer lovemaking sessions, and most people experience more intense orgasms.

How to do tantric massage with a partner

Turn down the lights and head to a comfortable environment with your partner. Play some soothing mood music and light a few scented candles. Start by standing and shaking your whole body to alleviate any blockages. Lie down with your partner and apply some heated body oil all over their nude body.

Use gentle, teasing strokes to gently caress their whole body. Work towards their genital area, playfully seducing them with every touch. Look into each other’s eyes to experience a deep connection. Breathe in and out slowly to start with.

Increase the skin on skin contact by using body to body movements to rub the oil into the skin. If you feel comfortable, slide into your partners lap and use gentle rocking movements as your move into penetrative sex.

If you prefer to have the expertise of a tantric massage girl on hand, Karma Tantric can provide a highly skilled masseuse to show you the correct movements to enhance your love life.

Eva II By Dame – Sex Toy Review!

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The “EVA II” is a unique hands-free couple’s vibrator. What makes “EVA II” stand out against other couples toys, is the shape of the toy as well as how you position it. The shape, in my opinion, is very similar to that of a beetle, a robust figure with two small “wings” coming out from either side. As mentioned what sets this vibrator apart from other couples toys is how it sits, most couples toys will have a U shape which will sit on the inside of the vagina providing stimulation to the G-Spot while the other side sits against the clitoris. The “Eva II” however isn’t inserted, the small flexible wings tuck under the labia which holds the toy in place with the body sitting against the clitoris providing a constant vibration stimulation. One can also use “Eva II” as a hands-free vibrator for solo masturbation!!

 

 

UNBOXING EVA II

Upon unboxing the “Eva II” you will be greeted with either a lovely and sleek Pink (Quartz) or Green (Fir) box depending on which of the two beautiful colours you have selected. Once you slide off the lid, the little Pink or Green “beetle” will be sitting next to the charging case, underneath these items is the instruction booklet, USB charging cord and a little discreet silk bag for you to keep your new friend in.

 

HOW TO USE EVA II

One of my favourite aspects of the “Eva II” is how easy it is to use!! Whether with a partner or by yourself, place the “Eva II” by gently pulling the labia majora over the wings one lip at a time. Adjust the placement of the toy according to what feels most comfortable for you, everyone is different as are their bodies, so keep that in mind when fitting the “Eva II”. You can also place the “Eva II” in different positions such as upside down, higher or lower or even sit the toy in the labia minora if this feels more comfortable for you! Once set in place you’re ready to go!! Press the small button on the top end of the toy to turn on, press again to cycle through the different vibration settings. The “Eva II” has three different vibration speeds to choose from, each time you press the little button the vibrations will intensify. Hold the button down in order to turn your toy off.

 

CHARGING

The “Eva 11” comes with a discreet charging case. When the toy is on low battery the light will flash red to give you a heads up that it will need to be charged shortly. Plug the USB charging cable into the back of the charging case, simply place the “Eva II” wings down into the charging case and your toy will begin to charge. While charging, the “Eva II” will blink green and will stop blinking and stay green once the toy is fully charged. Once charging you can pop the charging cases’ lid on and go about your day without a worry! “Eva II” lasts for 5 hours straight on the lowest vibration setting and 1 hour on the highest vibration setting.

 

TRAVEL MODE

Another cool feature of the “Eva II” is that it has a “travel mode” setting. This prevents the toy from turning on and vibrating away in any bag or draw you might have placed it in. To activate this feature hold the button for 10 seconds, the “Eva II” will blink once for each second and then turn off. To turn this function off simply place your toy in the charging base.

 

FEATURES

Medical Grade Silicone (phthalate free), Water Proof (shower or bath), Hands-Free, Partner Use Optional, Travel Mode, 3 Speeds, Whisper quiet, Charging Case.

CARE

  • Do NOT overextend wings on “Eva II”
  • Clean regularly with Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner
  • Do NOT submerge charging case/base
  • Do NOT leave in extreme heat or cold

 

All in all, the “Eve II” is a great couple’s toy as well as a solo play toy. I’m very glad I was given the opportunity to test it out, the strong vibrations as well as the hands-free aspect make this toy a staple for any partner or solo play!!

Good Luck and Enjoy!!

 

Eva II by Dame is available through the Lifestyle Center Adult Shops.  Visit the nearest one near you!

First Time At A Fetish Club

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My first experience of going to a fetish club was back in 2015. Having recently turned 18, I was straight out of school and beginning to enjoy the adult life of going to bars and nightclubs.

 

In previous months I’d visited a few LGBTQ+ clubs on Oxford street and some more classier establishments like IVY. Unfortunately at those places I just didn’t feel a connection to the music, people or atmosphere.

 

Being sick of attending mainstream clubs, where I felt uncomfortable all night, groped repeatedly by gross men and listening the top 40 hits on repeat; I began searching online for some ‘alternative’ clubs. Having enjoyed listening to rock music and wearing my leather jackets with platform boots growing up I thought that would be my best bet.

 

During my search I stumbled upon a place called The Sydney Hellfire Club!

 

After reading through their Facebook page I found out that The Sydney Hellfire Club has been operating for over 25 years! Making it the longest running club night ever in Australia! They are open on the 4th Friday of each month with a wardrobe rule of no effort no entry.

 

Being known as the queen of fancy dress by my peers, I knew I had to put together something spectacular for my first visit to the club. The theme was ‘uniform’ and that could be interpreted as a police uniform, nurse costume, a sexy schoolgirl or any other uniform you could imagine.

Thinking outside of the box I decided to create a handmade Sailor Moon bra and panty set, my best friend joined me by sewing her own Sailor Mercury set in the same design. After concealing our clothes under some very suspicious trench coats and sneaking out the door whilst her parents slept, we made the trip into the city via train.

 

As we walked up Oxford street towards the former Midnight Shift Club (Now known as Universal Sydney) I could feel my heart start to race and my palms sweating. Why was I so nervous? I had been clubbing plenty of times! Did I not pre-drink enough? Or was it the fact that once I get to the club I would have to strip down to just my lingerie?! We got to the entrance of the club and paid the $30 admittance fee. As we walked up the staircase and into the first lounge area of the club my jaw nearly hit the floor! I was amazed by all the gorgeous women and men draped in skin tight latex and shiny metal spikes, the doms leading their subs around on collars and the bravery of everyone there for wearing their chosen outfits (or should I say lack thereof!).

 

We found the cloak room easy enough and finally revealed our Sailor Scout uniforms to the club. Multiple people came up and complimented us on our costumes. It was to nice receive genuine compliments instead of guys just telling me I looked sexy. I found that the people attending this club were very friendly and being a fetish club there was definitely an emphasis on consent. Men and women would ask if it was okay to talk or dance with me and they would instantly respect my response. This was something I had never experienced at a normal club and I really appreciated it.

 

During the night they had a variety of performers doing acts on the mainstage. There was a drag king strip tease, a rope suspension demonstration and some other comedic fetish routines. It was amazing to see these artists creativity and interpretations of what fetish and BDSM means to them.

 

After having a dance and talking to a few of the other club goers I wandered over to the lounge area. In the middle of a circle of lounges stood a giant wooden structure, it sort of resembled an art easel but I wasn’t quite sure what it was used for? I asked the lady standing next to the structure and she said she could show me. She took both my wrists and restrained them with leather cuffs to the top corners of the wooden frame, she then brought out an array of paddles and floggers. She told me to relax and let her know if I wanted to stop at any time. She began with running the flogger up and down my back, arms and thighs. The first spank was a shock that sent a ripple of lightning throughout my entire body. She continued to spank me again and again whilst everyone in the circle of lounges watched on. It was an exciting and sensual experience which I will always remember.

 

To say my first time at a fetish club was one of the best nights of my life is an understatement. I have gone back to The Sydney Hellfire Club many times over the past few years and every single time the performances and costumes have blown me away. If you are curious about venturing out to a fetish club, I would highly recommend The Sydney Hellfire Club.

 

4 Hand Massage: The Ultimate Indulgence

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A 4 hand massage may be the perfect erotic treatment you’ve craving. This breathtaking massage involves two charming massage girls using their expertise to provide soft, soothing stokes to completely revitalise your mind and body. As one of the most mind-blowing massages on offer, you’ll be pleasantly refreshed after just one treatment. If you’re still not convinced, here are a few more reasons why you need to indulge in a 4 hand massage.

What is the difference between a 2 hand and a 4 hand massage?

Unlike a 2 hand massage which involves just one masseuse, a delightful 4 hand massage incorporates 2 stunning massage girls caressing you simultaneously until you reach feelings of pleasure.

What happens in a 4 hand massage session?

Participate in a 4 hand massage and get twice the pleasure with two amazing massage girls. The sensual touch of 4 hands is accomplished in synchronization so it has the same benefits as two full body massages. For the ultimate stimulation, this type of massage is highly recommended. Your masseuses will use slow and gentle movements alongside hard motions to keep you completely relaxed. You’ll be taken to the edge of climax and back again before reaching a happy ending.

The sensational movement of 4 hands means you’ll be able to fully let go and unwind as the treatment takes place.

What are the benefits of 4 hand massage?

Relieves anxiety and depression

Engaging in a 4 hand massage can help to relieve depression and anxiety. By unwinding with two professionally trained massage girls, you’ll be able to completely relax. With regular massage, your mood will start to improve and you’ll thoroughly look forward to each session due to the enjoyment you’ll feel during each treatment.

Relieves muscle tension

4 hand massage is a wonderful treatment for aiding muscle tension. The movements used help to work pressure points to break down the accumulation of tissue that results in muscle ache and inflammation. The deep tissue massage techniques increase blood circulation and soothe your muscles for a more relaxed state. If muscle tension has been preventing you from enjoying intimate moments in the bedroom, then 4 hand massage can be hugely beneficial.

Relieves stress

With regular 4 hand massage treatments, you’ll be engaged in a deeply fulfilling act that helps to relieve stress in your life. The strain of daily life can cause unhappiness, but with 4 hand massage, you’ll feel soothed as you reach a state of erotic bliss. Relieving stress will help you to sleep better and give you more energy for your love life or day to day activities.

Aids premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction

4 hand massage nourishes your mind and soul as well as fulfilling your erotic desires to aid premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. Your massage girls will use their sensuous touch to take you to the edge of climax and back again, helping you to balance your sexual energy. This balance will prevent you from an early release of sexual energy. The final happy ending helps you to fully enjoy this breathtaking treatment.

Boosts confidence

4 hand massage is an effective way to boost your confidence, especially in the bedroom. You’ll begin to view sexual acts in a positive way and an improvement in erectile problems will help you to become a better lover. If you are suffering with low body confidence, self-esteem or are stressed about your sexual performance, 4 hand massage will enable both your mind and body to become sexually stimulated in private environment that will increase your libido and your desire to engage in intimate acts.

Increases prolonged lovemaking

An erotic 4 hand massage retrains the mind to physical stimulation. The technique of edging, which uses stimulation to take you to the brink of climax and back again, enables you to experience multiple orgasms in the bedroom. Using the practice of 4 hand massage, you’ll find lovemaking more thrilling and you and a partner can both benefit from the techniques used in this incredible treatment. The deep cleansing massage will make you happier, healthier and more willing to participate in sexual activity.