Impress and Satisfy Your Partner with These Oral Sex Techniques

When it comes to intercourse, oral sex techniques are quite important and essential. It creates the perfect mood for exciting and enjoyable sex. Each person is stimulated differently and the same technique may not work on different women or men. However, when it comes to oral sex techniques the fun is in exploring the possibilities. Some methods can open a whole new level of satisfaction for your partner and make them want to grab you and just make you moan their name.

No matter what type of relationship you are into, how good you are at giving head speaks volumes. If you want to create a good impression on the other person, it is always advisable to learn some mind-blowing techniques.

Techniques to Satisfy Your Girl

 

Let’s start with men as understanding female oral sex is a little more complicated. The different parts like the vulva, labia, and clitoris may confuse you but do not worry, we have got you covered.

The build-up

When it comes to oral sex for women, you can get her wet even without touching her down there. The key is patience, women like to take it nice and slow. Start with her neck as it is one of the most sensitive areas on a woman’s body. Kiss her in the neck gently and softly nibble her neck and ears.

While your mouth is busy kissing her neck passionately, use your hand to cup her breasts and stimulate her nipples. This step is crucial when it comes to any type of sexual activity. Breasts are probably the second most sensitive area on a woman’s body after her clitoris. You can either massage her tits gently or just brush her nipples with your fingers.

Next, you will want to reach down there with your fingers. Keep her panties in and brush her vagina with your fingers. By now, you will be able to feel her wet over her panties. Slide the cloth to one side so that you can touch her and move your fingers softly towards her clitoris. You may still want to continue with the kisses as oral stimulation is necessary.

When you finally take off her panties, don’t try to finger her immediately. Rub her clitoris with your thumb and you can even stroke it gently with your fingers. When you feel her moaning or breathing heavily it is time to enter her. Slowing starts with one finger and depending on how she reacts to it you may move on to inserting fingers.

The Oral Sex

It is important to understand that for women, orgasm can be achieved in two ways. The first is through the clitoris and the second is through the G-spot. Most women enjoy clitoral orgasm more than the G-spot orgasm. During oral sex, the former is easier to achieve, and lucky for you it’s more pleasurable for your girl.

A common notion about men is that they do not know where the clitoris is, this has been proven to be true in several cases. The clitoris is the small protruding portion over the vagina.

1). Using the tongue and the clitoris:This technique is the easiest but is quite effective. This mainly includes stroking the clitoris gently with your tongue. Start slowly as you will need to build up the speed gradually. The main thing about this technique is to locate the clitoris accurately. Once you are sure about that, proceed to wet your tongue with your saliva and start licking her. You can also gently kiss her clitoris and suck it.

 

2). Tongue and vagina: The best part about female oral sex is that there is a lot of space for experimentation and exploration. The tongue can do a lot for women and using it tactfully is the best thing you can do for her. Extend your tongue and enter her vagina and watch her go crazy.

Use your fingers to gently rub the clitoris while you use your tongue to enter her vagina and go in and out. This movement is capable of creating a powerful orgasm and a magical experience for your girl.

 

3). Tongue and finger: The tongue and finger combination create the best orgasm for women if used properly. Start with licking her clitoris gently with your tongue, make sure you start slow and nice. While your mouth is busy with that, use your finger to enter her vagina. Don’t forget the dirty talk and choking.

However, make sure you know that your girl enjoys it. You can also use the finger and tongue interchangeably. The in and out motion of the finger inside her creates a stimulation for the G-spot while the tongue stimulates the clitoris. Build up the speed gradually to give her the most incredible orgasm.

 

4). Tongue and nose: Very few people remember to include the nose while giving a girl head. Yes, you heard it right, the nose can be quite a useful portion if used properly. While you are using your tongue to fuck her vagina, use your nose to rub the clitoris.

The best way to do this is to drag the nose from the bottom of her vagina to the top. Do this and watch your girl go crazy over you. Since this move is done by very few, it becomes quite an impressive thing, and it tells your girl that you are enjoying yourself as much as she is.

 

5). Don’t forget her mouth: When it comes to women, the overall experience counts. For a great experience, try to include more of her senses while you are down there eating her out. The mouth can create quite a stimulation in the exciting process. Just do this simple move to drive your girl crazy.

After you have fingered her or before, make her suck your fingers and get them wet. This shows your girl who is in charge. If she likes to be the submissive female, then use this opportunity to fulfil her sexual desires. Choke her gently, this creates a sensation of pleasure as well as kissing her occasionally while you are giving her head.

 

Techniques to Satisfy Your Man

 

For men, it’s less about the foreplay and more about the hand job and blowjob. However, the most important part is to remember to not use your teeth. Women! Do not use your teeth while sucking his cock. This is not only painful for him but is extremely embarrassing for you. It instantly gives away that you have zero experience and failing to satisfy his needs may cause him to drift away from you.

It is not difficult to make your man cum as long as you use the correct techniques. Unlike women, oral sex for men is comparatively easier and the orgasm is also quick. Therefore, you will not have to work too much to make him fall head over heels for you.

What men want: Now, my ladies! Remember that men like to feel in charge while you are giving head. The best way to start with the blow job is to sit on your knees while he stands. However, it is essential to remember your boundaries. If it is your first time, you will most likely gag very often and may even throw up. So, talk to him beforehand about it and ask him to be gentle with you. Once you get that hang of it, there is no stopping him from moaning and screaming your name. Here are some quick and easy step-by-step instructions to understand the science of blowjobs.

1). Wet it out: The first step is to make sure that you wet his penis, skilling this step will make the whole process extremely painful for your guy. The foreskin does create a lot of friction if it is dry. Usually, the penis itself secretes precum which is enough to make him wet. However, the easiest way to achieve that perfect lubricated effect is to use your spit.

Yes! While you are still giving him a hand job and have not yet started sucking his dick, use your spit to wet him. You can take some on your palm or directly spit on his cock. While you are giving him that hand job, it is incredibly sexy to maintain eye contact. Do not forget to kiss him and make it a personal affair for the both of you.

2). Open wide: No, we are not talking about your legs, not yet. This has to do with your mouth, open your mouth wide and use your lips to suck his dick. Create a kind of vacuum within your mouth that mimics a vagina and gives him immense pleasure.

As mentioned earlier make sure you avoid your teeth. You can also occasionally use your hand along with your mouth while giving him head. If you feel your mouth and jaws getting tired from all that hard work, you can quickly switch to a hand job for a couple of minutes.

3). Use the tip wisely: The tip of the penis is probably the most sensitive area of his dick, so if you want to show him some good time, pay special attention to this pink area on his cock. Use your hands to stroke his dick gently and wise your tongue to lick the tip of the penis.

Another good way to include that portion into the process is to use your mouth to suck only the tip. You can also kiss it as you normally would. While you are on your knees during this whole process, do not forget to look up at night from time to time. This will make him go wild.

4). Don’t forget the balls: When it comes to oral sex for men, many girls forget the balls. This is quite an important portion that needs to be stimulated along with the dick. The process to do that is quite similar. You can start by licking his balls while you are still giving him a hand job.

Then slowly move on to sucking on his balls, one at a time. Switch between the balls and the dick to make him go crazy. You can also tease him and use your hands to play with his calls before starting the blowjob.

5). Be a good girl: During oral sex as well as sex in total, men like to play the boss and expect the dominant one. So let him be the man and try to understand what he wants from you. A very common move is holding the hair or your ponytail.

When you are down on your knees giving his head, it is natural for several men to hold the head of the girl to control the motion. Occasionally they like to thrust their duck inside you, mad love to hear the girl choke and gag on the dick.

Be careful

In some rare cases, oral sex may also lead to some sexually transmitted diseases, therefore stay safe when you are engaging in the act of oral sex with your partner. The above techniques are commonly used by several people and have been deemed efficient by many. Be it your girl or your man, do not forget to communicate with them during the whole process, because understanding each other is essential.

There may be some boundaries for your partner, understand what they want and what they do not before you try out anything new. Make sure they feel safe and consent is extremely important. Respecting your partner’s boundaries is sexier than anything else. It is also a well-known fact that you will get better with time, so do not be too rough on yourself. Make sure you stay in practice!

Impress and Satisfy Your Partner with These Oral Sex Techniques

When it comes to intercourse, oral sex is quite important and essential. It creates the perfect mood for exciting and enjoyable sex. Each person is stimulated differently and the same technique may not work on different women or men. However, when it comes to oral sex the fun is in exploring the possibilities. Some methods can open a whole new level of satisfaction for your partner and make them want to grab you and just make you moan their name.

No matter what type of relationship you are into, how good you are at giving head speaks volumes. If you want to create a good impression on the other person, it is always advisable to learn some mind-blowing techniques.

Techniques to Satisfy Your Girl

 

Let’s start with men as understanding female oral sex is a little more complicated. The different parts like the vulva, labia, and clitoris may confuse you but do not worry, we have got you covered.

The build-up

When it comes to oral sex for women, you can get her wet even without touching her down there. The key is patience, women like to take it nice and slow. Start with her neck as it is one of the most sensitive areas on a woman’s body. Kiss her in the neck gently and softly nibble her neck and ears.

While your mouth is busy kissing her neck passionately, use your hand to cup her breasts and stimulate her nipples. This step is crucial when it comes to any type of sexual activity. Breasts are probably the second most sensitive area on a woman’s body after her clitoris. You can either massage her tits gently or just brush her nipples with your fingers.

Next, you will want to reach down there with your fingers. Keep her panties in and brush her vagina with your fingers. By now, you will be able to feel her wet over her panties. Slide the cloth to one side so that you can touch her and move your fingers softly towards her clitoris. You may still want to continue with the kisses as oral stimulation is necessary.

When you finally take off her panties, don’t try to finger her immediately. Rub her clitoris with your thumb and you can even stroke it gently with your fingers. When you feel her moaning or breathing heavily it is time to enter her. Slowing starts with one finger and depending on how she reacts to it you may move on to inserting fingers.

The Oral Sex

It is important to understand that for women, orgasm can be achieved in two ways. The first is through the clitoris and the second is through the G-spot. Most women enjoy clitoral orgasm more than the G-spot orgasm. During oral sex, the former is easier to achieve, and lucky for you it’s more pleasurable for your girl.

A common notion about men is that they do not know where the clitoris is, this has been proven to be true in several cases. The clitoris is the small protruding portion over the vagina.

1). Using the tongue and the clitoris:

This technique is the easiest but is quite effective. This mainly includes stroking the clitoris gently with your tongue. Start slowly as you will need to build up the speed gradually. The main thing about this technique is to locate the clitoris accurately. Once you are sure about that, proceed to wet your tongue with your saliva and start licking her. You can also gently kiss her clitoris and suck it.

 

2). Tongue and vagina:

The best part about female oral sex is that there is a lot of space for experimentation and exploration. The tongue can do a lot for women and using it tactfully is the best thing you can do for her. Extend your tongue and enter her vagina and watch her go crazy.

Use your fingers to gently rub the clitoris while you use your tongue to enter her vagina and go in and out. This movement is capable of creating a powerful orgasm and a magical experience for your girl.

 

3). Tongue and finger:

The tongue and finger combination create the best orgasm for women if used properly. Start with licking her clitoris gently with your tongue, make sure you start slow and nice. While your mouth is busy with that, use your finger to enter her vagina. Don’t forget the dirty talk and choking.

However, make sure you know that your girl enjoys it. You can also use the finger and tongue interchangeably. The in and out motion of the finger inside her creates a stimulation for the G-spot while the tongue stimulates the clitoris. Build up the speed gradually to give her the most incredible orgasm.

 

4). Tongue and nose:

Very few people remember to include the nose while giving a girl head. Yes, you heard it right, the nose can be quite a useful portion if used properly. While you are using your tongue to fuck her vagina, use your nose to rub the clitoris.

The best way to do this is to drag the nose from the bottom of her vagina to the top. Do this and watch your girl go crazy over you. Since this move is done by very few, it becomes quite an impressive thing, and it tells your girl that you are enjoying yourself as much as she is.

 

5). Don’t forget her mouth:

When it comes to women, the overall experience counts. For a great experience, try to include more of her senses while you are down there eating her out. The mouth can create quite a stimulation in the exciting process. Just do this simple move to drive your girl crazy.

After you have fingered her or before, make her suck your fingers and get them wet. This shows your girl who is in charge. If she likes to be the submissive female, then use this opportunity to fulfil her sexual desires. Choke her gently, this creates a sensation of pleasure as well as kissing her occasionally while you are giving her head.

 

Techniques to Satisfy Your Man

 

For men, it’s less about the foreplay and more about the hand job and blowjob. However, the most important part is to remember to not use your teeth. Women! Do not use your teeth while sucking his cock. This is not only painful for him but is extremely embarrassing for you. It instantly gives away that you have zero experience and failing to satisfy his needs may cause him to drift away from you.

It is not difficult to make your man cum as long as you use the correct techniques. Unlike women, oral sex for men is comparatively easier and the orgasm is also quick. Therefore, you will not have to work too much to make him fall head over heels for you.

What men want:

Now, my ladies! Remember that men like to feel in charge while you are giving head. The best way to start with the blow job is to sit on your knees while he stands. However, it is essential to remember your boundaries. If it is your first time, you will most likely gag very often and may even throw up. So, talk to him beforehand about it and ask him to be gentle with you. Once you get that hang of it, there is no stopping him from moaning and screaming your name. Here are some quick and easy step-by-step instructions to understand the science of blowjobs.

1). Wet it out:

The first step is to make sure that you wet his penis, skilling this step will make the whole process extremely painful for your guy. The foreskin does create a lot of friction if it is dry. Usually, the penis itself secretes precum which is enough to make him wet. However, the easiest way to achieve that perfect lubricated effect is to use your spit.

Yes! While you are still giving him a hand job and have not yet started sucking his dick, use your spit to wet him. You can take some on your palm or directly spit on his cock. While you are giving him that hand job, it is incredibly sexy to maintain eye contact. Do not forget to kiss him and make it a personal affair for the both of you.

 

2). Open wide:

No, we are not talking about your legs, not yet. This has to do with your mouth, open your mouth wide and use your lips to suck his dick. Create a kind of vacuum within your mouth that mimics a vagina and gives him immense pleasure.

As mentioned earlier make sure you avoid your teeth. You can also occasionally use your hand along with your mouth while giving him head. If you feel your mouth and jaws getting tired from all that hard work, you can quickly switch to a hand job for a couple of minutes.

 

3). Use the tip wisely:

The tip of the penis is probably the most sensitive area of his dick, so if you want to show him some good time, pay special attention to this pink area on his cock. Use your hands to stroke his dick gently and wise your tongue to lick the tip of the penis.

Another good way to include that portion into the process is to use your mouth to suck only the tip. You can also kiss it as you normally would. While you are on your knees during this whole process, do not forget to look up at night from time to time. This will make him go wild.

 

4). Don’t forget the balls:

When it comes to oral sex for men, many girls forget the balls. This is quite an important portion that needs to be stimulated along with the dick. The process to do that is quite similar. You can start by licking his balls while you are still giving him a hand job.

Then slowly move on to sucking on his balls, one at a time. Switch between the balls and the dick to make him go crazy. You can also tease him and use your hands to play with his calls before starting the blowjob.

 

5). Be a good girl:

During oral sex as well as sex in total, men like to play the boss and expect the dominant one. So let him be the man and try to understand what he wants from you. A very common move is holding the hair or your ponytail.

When you are down on your knees giving his head, it is natural for several men to hold the head of the girl to control the motion. Occasionally they like to thrust their duck inside you, mad love to hear the girl choke and gag on the dick.

 

Be careful

In some rare cases, oral sex may also lead to some sexually transmitted diseases, therefore stay safe when you are engaging in the act of oral sex with your partner. The above techniques are commonly used by several people and have been deemed efficient by many. Be it your girl or your man, do not forget to communicate with them during the whole process, because understanding each other is essential.

There may be some boundaries for your partner, understand what they want and what they do not before you try out anything new. Make sure they feel safe and consent is extremely important. Respecting your partner’s boundaries is sexier than anything else. It is also a well-known fact that you will get better with time, so do not be too rough on yourself. Make sure you stay in practice!

Kissable, Blow Job proof lipstick

lip service

Let’s talk about lipsticks for a little bit.

 

There is something infallible and sexy about 1950s pinup red lipstick, or dark gothic pout anything really on soft plump lips as they press up against yours, bite down against your skin or seal tightly around your…

 

Sorry, imagination got away from me there.

 

My point is, lipstick is an amazing accessory on anyone who wants to wear it. Many of our wonderful customers have been asking about my lipstick lately and if it comes off during kissing and other more lucrative activities

 

What isn’t necessarily as sexy, is the smudge left over. Sure a perfect kiss mark left on your play partner’s skin in the shape of your lips is pretty hot. Smears of red up and down their body, across their face and across your own somewhat can look a little more like a crime scene or  scene from Twilight or Vampire Diaries.

 

It can be a sad and harsh reality that because of this, some people tend to forgo their hot and sexy lips to avoid the hassle. So In my travels I have found some very very promising lipsticks that stay on during the steamy make out, the sloppy kisses and leave no trace during an oral ordeal.

 

Websites often demonstrate lipsticks durability using the paper towel method, the tissue kiss or the collar transfer. We are going deeper than this. These lipsticks have been tried and tested on meals, and night outs, drinks and dinners, parties and partners and for the good of research, many kisses and extra curricular activities to ensure that you have the best advice when it comes to stay proof, smudge proof and kiss proof activities. These lipsticks, what I adore about them, is that they apply once and leave at home kind of products. No need to touch up. They last on any good girl.

 

Maybelline Super Stay Matte Ink

 

My number one all time favourite! It is accessible, it isn’t costly and it stays and stays and stays! There are so many amazing colours to choose from and this baby stays with you all through the day and the night and if you fall asleep chances are it won’t come off on your pillow while you sleep as well. Say goodbye to the awkward smears and rings on the body when you play. The trick is two layers of this bright colour but make sure each layer is dry before you apply the next.

 

Stila Stay All Day Liquid Lipstick

 

Found at Sephora this beauty comes in the most beautiful fiery red that is sure to dazzle any retro lover. Long wearing and very kissable, this beautiful shade will get you through nearly every single kiss and scene. Unfortunately Stila is not Oral proof, but will definitely last a steamy make out.

 

LipSense -Sene Gence

 

The ultimate in stay proof everything proof lipstick. This lipstick is on another lipstick to anything I have ever tried. There is a reason this sheek and sleek addition always has a display at Sexpo and comes highly recommended. It is so “stay proof” that you need a special remove to take it off. Does that make it worth it? If you’re like me and hate Lipstick getting all over each other during scenes then yes, yes it is.

 

Mac Lip Pencil

 

Though not a lipstick, this gives a much more defined look and stays on and on and on. Because it is a pencil it is not as easy to apply in the sweeping fashion but the results are worth it as again, you will not need to retouch, so that means this stays at home when you go out. Amazing shades and choices.

 

Nyx Professional Liquid Suede Cream Lipstick

 

Another super accessible good one to know about that is relatively cheap and found everywhere in so many different colours. My biggest tip is let this one set. Thin layers and if you’re really unsure, use a hair dryer to help it set. The oils keep your lips unbelievably supple and smells amazing.

 

Tips to keep lipsticks on for longer:

  • Exfoliate lips once a week using a lip scrub to remove dead flaky skin and give a smooth even surface to work with.
  • Moisturise your lips at night with a melting lip balm or carmex to seal in nutrients and replenish your lips.
  • Don’t bite or chew on your lips.
  • Avoid using lip balms over your lipsticks, this will cause the super stay ingredients to separate their bond and run.
  • Place a thin 1ply tissue over your lipstick and dust with translucent powder to keep your lippy in place for an extra matte hold.

 

What are your favourites? Drop us your suggestions or tips to keep your lipstick on.

 

At your service.

 

Tiffany

OhZone Caringbah Adult Shop Sales Assistant, Educator and Lip Stick Fanatic.

Tips for a Pleasurable Quickie

Quickie Sex

Sometimes you want to do it so badly, but your tight schedules don’t permit it. Most times, you wouldn’t take no for an answer until you’ve gone under the sheets with your partner. Sex has evolved beyond the regular ‘bedroom’ thing. It is now an activity that is done anywhere, anytime, and anyhow. Sex creates that connection between you and your partner regardless of the time spent. Even if you are rushing out to work, a few seconds of intense pleasure can be achieved. How does this happen? Quickies, of course. 

Because of quickies’ nature, partners may ditch penetration and settle for fingering and oral sex, but it’s all for the same goal – pleasure, that is. Whatever form a quickie takes, you can make the best out of it as you’ll do in traditional sex. What do you want out of sex? Can you achieve it in a few minutes? Yes, you can. This article shares quick tips to help you achieve a pleasurable quickie. 

Here are tips to help you have a satisfying quickie:

Consider an appropriate location.

Where is the most appropriate location to have a quickie? Well, you can do it anywhere except for the bedroom. The whole idea of quickies means that both partners are in a hurry yet want to explore simultaneously. Your location ensures that you mix things up and add freaky moves to your pleasure. Well, a sex couch allows you to try as many sex styles as possible, even more than you think. Sex on a couch increases intense passion such that your partner deletes the thoughts of moving to the bedroom. Most of the sex couches available online are designed so that partners can explore as many positions as they want. 

Wear the right clothes

In planned sex, your partner takes their time to undress you because that’s where the intimacy starts. For quickies, things are different. Your partner doesn’t want to spend the whole day undressing you. Even if they love to see you wear those colorful panties they bought for you, it may not be necessary during a quickie. Why not wear a mini skirt without panties? Or wear a loose one? A g string is perfect too. Your dress ensures easy passage just in case there’s an urgent need to thrust in and out. Leave out the tight jeans – this isn’t sexy at all. Trust me, by the time your partner forcefully gets out the skinny jeans from your body; they’re already tired. It would be best if you didn’t risk that. 

Lube up

Since there’s no foreplay, the chances are that you may not get wet within a few seconds. If you want to go down pretty fast, you shouldn’t forget a lubricant. Most people have time to masturbate before a quickie, and that’s fine. If you didn’t plan for one and your partner asks for it, quickly get a lube to reduce friction and the pressure down there. And hey, you should have a pack of lube in your bag most of the time (if not all the time) because you may never know when you’ll be called upon. 

Know the best positions

There are some sex positions specially reserved for quickies. With these positions, two minutes feels like forever. However, don’t feel too pressured to try out all the styles at the same time. Simply do what works for you at the moment and wait for another opportunity to unleash your skills. If you haven’t thought of an appropriate position, consider the following styles: the hot seat, fast doggy, heir to the throne, face race, the elevator, sneak-a-peak, etc. And yes, you can decide to keep it 100% oral. 

 

While romance is an excellent choice, you shouldn’t beat back the idea of having a quickie occasionally. To improve your sex life, don’t fold your arms and wait for full-blown sex when you can have it in bits. What would an ideal quickie set up be for you? What’s the weirdest thing you’ve done during quick sex? Would you mind sharing with a friend?

6 Couples Sex Toys Which Will Transform Your Love Life

toy sex

So the time has come where you have decided to step things up in the bedroom, whether it is to heighten your own personal pleasures or you and your partner want to explore your sexual connection through trying out some new things. Many couples find themselves at a point where the idea of introducing sex toys and accessories is somewhat intimidating however; we have put a sensual list of sex toys together to help you feel more comfortable and get excited for the surge of intriguing pleasures that come with adding a little spice into your love life.

Evolving in the bedroom is an exciting commitment which can boost your own understanding of how you would like to receive or experience pleasure as well as opening up an adventurous side to your relationship. So let’s get saucy with this list of six couples toys which will transform your love life and bedroom into a boudoir of heightened arousal and sensual connection.

1: GOOD VIBRATIONS

 

The stimulating sensation of a vibrator and introducing it into the bedroom can certainly spice up your sexual experiences; whether you are focusing on yourself or bringing it into your relationship. It is recommended to start small when introducing sex toys into your boudoir therefore opting for a sleek and sensual bullet vibrator or perhaps even a vibrating cock ring for your male partner; you are bound to experience heightened external and even internal climaxes. The vibrator is designed to stimulate the clitoris and with so many various types on the market, from the design to the materials they are made from; it is best to do some research and see what you and your partner feel comfortable with and what types of vibrators will intrigue you both the most. Remember, this is all in the name of experimenting and exploring one another so there is no need to shy away from what could potentially bring you both closer in pleasure.

2: ALL ABOUT THE DOWN UNDER

 

For those who enjoy oral sex but tend to have limited experiences in the bedroom due to a partner not being quite comfortable with the idea or perhaps not entirely experienced enough to pleasure you down under; then looking into the oral sex stimulators and simulators is an exciting new avenue to embark on in the bedroom. With almost any sex toy imaginable on the market, it is no wonder that now you can find a toy that helps simulate the experience of oral sex whilst keeping within the boundaries of your partner. Although the real deal will always be the best deal, especially as it is all about connecting and exploring your partner and their sexual desires, there is no harm in finding alternatives that work for you both. Oral sex is always better with a partner but at least going down under can be a pleasurable solo experience too.

3: WET ‘N WILD

 

So you and your partner have booked a weekend getaway and of course, you booked the lodge with a private hot tub. There is something so sensual about getting sexy in water, whether in a swimming pool or Jacuzzi but if you have already been there you will know that sometimes the water can actually limit the experience and how it feels. Adding silicone into saucy mix will not only keep you wet where it counts most but it will certainly keep you and your partner going for longer. As silicone lube is hypoallergenic, using it will provide a silky smooth application, perfectly suited for those who tend to be a bit more sensitive at the naughty bits.

4: A SEXUAL BOND(AGE)

 

So you might have heard the term bondage or perhaps BDSM, which for beginners, can be somewhat intimidating. This is why we recommend starting out with a light tough and a little restrain. Grab yourself and your partner a funky or sexy leather pair of hand cuffs and experiment with tying one another up. Most handcuffs are adjustable, so you can pick and choose how tight you may want it or feel comfortable with. This is a great way to push one another boundaries, tease and tantalize your way to a climax whilst strengthening your bond, so to speak.

5: GETTING UP, CLOSE AND COMFY

 

Up until this point, some of you might have already tried out one of the sex toys we have recommended or perhaps you are not quite there in the relationship to introduce vibrators and cock rings. Why not try out a little interior decorating with a twist in the bedroom by bringing in a sexy chair or couch. If you are not quite sure how to go about choosing the right chair or perhaps you are interested in finding out a bit more of the various types and how they can be used to spice up your love life, then see these reviews for some of the top rated chairs and couches. You can use them to encourage different sex positions, experience other forms of climaxes as you maneuver your body around and on some sensual furniture.

6: FUN FROM BEHIND

For the couples who have reached ultimate comfort levels with one another or who are keen to push their boundaries to the backdoor; getting up close and personal with anal sex is a great way to take your love life and sexual relationship to the next level. There are a variety of anal sex toys available for personal desire or for couples who want to add a bit of vibrating thrill to their anal pleasures. From beginner or entry level prostate massaging vibrators to the more advanced anal plugs or beads. Find out what works for your comfort level and of course, what feels good because at the end of the day; exploring can only lead to new discoveries.

 

Some of the above mentioned sex toys can seem a bit out of your comfort zone or perhaps you are intrigued but you are not sure how to get your partner on board. Why not start with a little research, just like reading this article, and get yourself excited first. See what tickles your fancy, consider what yours and your partners’ comfort levels are and engage in an open discussion about how you both are ready to take your love life and transform it into the fantasy you’ve both desired.