Gay Online Dating

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Today, Online Gay Dating is easy for gay men to find partners with the help of online gay dating websites. It is important at the beginning to make proper searches about the gay dating website which you are thinking of joining. Find out if that website is suitable for you and can satisfy all your needs. Like Dating Apps such as Grindr, Scruff and Recon, you’ll notice that there are particular websites that cater to different types of men and fetishes. You will get a good overall result if you sign up to multiple various gay dating websites with the same interests as your own – you’ll generally find that you’ll then have something in common before you even start searching. When you do start searching through your chosen websites for potential partners and/or fuck buddies you can then spend a little time looking over them to know whether they suit your requirements or not.

The services offered by Online Gay Dating websites are mostly meant for both gay women and men but some websites do take care of the needs of male and female persons separately, or gay couples looking for someone of the opposite sex. Gay men have the opportunity to meet their future partner with ease. No matter whether you go for online dating websites for gays or to a website that has both homosexual and heterosexual sections, you just have to check out that the site offers singles a chance to hook up with someone of their predetermined choice. It is essential for you to look out for your benefits.

In case you as a gay man you are wondering whether to go for an Online Gay Dating or not, just think over the point of what will you do if you do not go to a gay dating website. Do you have any other options? If you’re a social individual and go to various social events throughout the year, you’ll have an even better chance of finding someone to settle down with.  Either way it is certainly worth it to try out a gay online dating website. Social restrictions and obligations take up so much of everyone’s resources these days so that there are people who do not have enough time and sometimes confidence to go out and meet a possible partner. Particularly those whom have only recently come out and find the scene a little too intimidating.

Today, Online Gay Dating websites have created a platform for all gay people to live a happy social life with other people while also having the chance on meeting their future partners. You can accept to meet someone without any obligation. You are free to find your future partner just like others, but you can also search for gay men any time since the websites are there for you 24/7. There are many gay dating sites that will allow you to be anonymous while you getting know of the person whom you met online.

Before paying for anything on any Online Gay Dating, it is recommended that you try out four to five websites to check their services and then make a decision. Many offer a free trial and it is advisable to do this first.  Some factors to consider are; the number of singles available in your section on different sites, your comfort zone, availability of your email accounts, and chat rooms and most importantly, location. After considering all these factors choose the website that is perfect for you and then you can pay for the services. It is better to use the free membership of other websites too because it will allow you to share your profile with new gay men out there. Today, gays seeking gays have found an easier way to find their future partners. It is as easy as checking your email account after you have joined up and wait for those messages to flow in.

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After you have decided to join a Online Gay Dating website like Gaydar or Just Say G’day and you need to write a profile. All online gay dating sites will have over thousands of unique personal profiles of gay singles listing their characteristics, likes, dislikes and personal preferences. Promoting yourself online can be challenging because you have to make sure that you will attract the guys you are interested and also make them stay and reply to your profile. The online gay dating community is very competitive so your gay personal ad has to beat the competition.

The most important thing is to know what you are looking for. Simply saying that you are looking to find a gay man for dating will attract all the gay men of the site. Imagine your profile getting bombarded by messages from tall, short, fat, bald and other gay men. You need to make your online dating experience better by eliminating the gay men you don’t like. Make a list of your preferences and qualities you want in a gay man, such as age, height, likes and hobbies. This may seem superficial, but why waste your time with people you don’t like? However, focus on the positives that you’d like in a potential mate and don’t list the things you do not want. This is limiting, and often comes across as arrogant, racist and insulting – as well as even if your preference is not a particular type of person, you may find that you’ll still fall for them anyway given all their other qualities and interests. The Gay Dating world is already harsh enough without adding to the pressure of being a particular type of Male.

Online Gay Dating websites like to maintain a certain level of anonymity, which means all gay men using the website, must have an online profile name. Be creative and choose a nice and creative name. BigTool4U may seem like a cool name, but you’ve just listed your big dick as your best quality, not necessarily the right impression you want to give on a dating site, though if you’re after instant sex it might serve you well!

What you need to include in the profile. Gay dating sites offer a section for members like you to upload their photos. A photo is the best way to promote yourself. Most gay men new to the online dating community seem to think that posting x rated pictures is the ideal way to attract attention. At the start you will receive a large number of responses, but are you looking for quantity over quality or are you looking to meet a nice guy. Think about that when selecting a photo to upload. Be mysterious and keep the X rated photos to the bedroom!

I advise you to also include a nice catchy profile headline because it can determine whether someone will read your profile or simply move on to the next guy. Gay men are looking for the one profile heading that will stand out above the rest so put some fantasy into it, making it interesting and as original as possible.

Finally, the text in your personal ad is the final step that will determine if someone will go on and meet you. To help you out with this, gay dating sites have gay men profiles which basically highlight characteristics such as height, weight, eye color, hair color and other specifications. So all you have to focus is to make sure your personal ad has useful, interesting information about yourself that will attract gay men interested in your profile. Be honest and truthful. By now you should be ready to write the perfect gay personal ad and find yourself a new partner. So for all gay men seeking love, use some of these tips to successfully get in the gay online dating community.

Stephen is a cis-gendered gay male who spends far too much time with his two cats and eating tim tams. A self-identified sex-positive advocate he cares deeply about gender equality, disabilities, sexual education and social issues. Opinionated and bold he isn’t afraid to speak his mind and say what others won’t. With a yearning for knowledge and experience in all things relating to sex, he is a prolific writer that has developed the content for a myriad of informative Sexual Health and Wellness websites.

Stephen’s articles and writings tends to focus on social issues, sexual education, queer issues and all things fetish and absurd. He comes qualified with the completion of a double Bachelor degree in Social Sciences and literature, and a Masters in Education.

Gay Sex On Premises Venues

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Gay sex on premises venues (SOPV) have been around in Sydney for a considerable time. The premise of these venues is fairly simple, you get charged a small entry fee and you enter the venue with minimal clothing looking for a hook up, some venues don’t even require clothing depending on the venue’s rules. Before you go to the venue you should read the rules.You need to follow the venue’s rules to respect everyone’s safety and privacy. Once your in the building you are provided a towel get changed in the change room and you’re good to go. Some venues provide communal showers, glory holes, booths, sling rooms and a variety of other sexual related rooms. Some venues, such as 357 even offer a fully stocked bar and lounge room where you can just relax and socialize. The quality of venues differs from place to place. Gay venues are a very important to the LGBTQIA community all over the world.

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What’s surprising about these venues, is the clientele. Many of the men that go to these venues during the day are actually, straight and married. I say this not to shame them, but to remind everyone about the fluidity of sexuality as people can not be classified into one sexuality. I’m not going to digress into social constructions around sexuality – however I will point out that there’s nothing wrong with engaging in different activities outside of the primary relationship so long as it’s done safely and doesn’t negatively impact the relationship. It is always recommended that people wear condoms, bring their best gay sex toys and bring their own personal lubricant for better sex. This will protect you and all the people you have sexual relations with.

Of course, the type of guys that frequent these places varies according to the time of the day. During the lunch rush, the city venues will see an influx of boys in suits of various ages. Towards the evening it switches towards young and older men and later tends to be the younger crowd. It is a good idea for beginners to go most when they feel comfortable. If you would like to go there when there are lower amounts of people, go there during working hours. If you would like to go there when there are larger amounts of people, you can go there before work or after work hours.

If you have more concerns, you are able to visit the venues website or talk to their customer service officer.If you are nervous you can also visit the venue with a friend. For your first time experience, you can cruise around the rooms, relaxing and socialising. Since most venues have bars you can have a social drink to relax you.

These venues provide access to safe sex in a secure environment and allow you to engage in various forms of sexual activity. There certain in built rules to these venues which must be followed.

  1. No means no. It’s that simple. Consent is the most important aspect of these venues and you should never ever touch anyone without consent. If they walk away, avoid eye contact or give another form of ‘no’ then you need to move on.
  2. Everyone has different tastes and you shouldn’t take it personally. I’ve heard stories of this young Bel Ami model-like boy at one of these venues who would exclusively fuck octogenarian guys.
  3. Everyone has a taste, don’t take it personally.
  4. Safe sex. All of these venues should provide condoms and lubricant within arm’s reach of any form of sexual activity. Make sure that you use them both as safe sex is a must.
  5. Just because you’ve paid money to get into the venue – does not guarantee you sex. Some day’s you’ll be lucky, other days you might strike out. It’s the luck of the draw.
  6. Drugs are generally discouraged. The last thing a SOPV needs is a guy tripping out having a medical emergency. There’s no faster way to clear out a venue than this.

SOPV in Sydney are safer than beats. They’re monitored In controlled environments and you have easy (and free) access to the essentials. Whether you’re after a quick fix or simply an environment to explore a few things (in a sling or a glory hole fetish) they’re a fun and exciting way to blow off some steam.

Author: Stephen Smith – BA Of Social Sciences, M.Ed

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Stephen is a cis-gendered gay male who spends far too much time with his two cats and eating tim tams. A self-identified sex-positive advocate he cares deeply about gender equality, disabilities, sexual education and social issues. Opinionated and bold he isn’t afraid to speak his mind and say what others won’t. With a yearning for knowledge and experience in all things relating to sex, he is a prolific writer that has developed the content for a myriad of informative Sexual Health and Wellness websites.

Stephen’s articles and writings tends to focus on social issues, sexual education, queer issues and all things fetish and absurd. He comes qualified with the completion of a double Bachelor degree in Social Sciences and literature, and a Masters in Education.

Anal Sex Guide For Male Lovers!

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Anal sex can be inconceivably hot yet it is regularly misunderstood! You see, enjoying anal sex doesn’t make somebody gay or strange. Having anal sex simply implies that a person likes having anal sex or maybe you also like your prostate being massaged. In our anus we have thousands of nerve endings ao it is not such a shock that it is sensitive and people can derive pleasure from it! If you have not tried it before anal sex can be scary especially if it’s going to be your first time as a bottom or a top. Remember however that anal sex is not for everybody. If have no craving to attempt anal sex, then don’t. Much the same as any other sexual deviation, you should never be doing something that you aren’t happy with.

While its ordinary to be somewhat anxious to begin with, there are a few tips that may help facilitate your introduction into a different type of male sex play and anal sex to reduce any uneasiness you may have.  REMEMBER

relaxation is the key

and to guide you on the best approach to having some staggeringly hot and sexy ass whopping sex. Also give me a chance to be real here, I love anal sex however I generally approach it with a level of fear becauset for me there is always a bit of pressure when I first start (note, I didn’t say pain is said pressure) that goes far, far away and changes into something totally glorious once that hard cock or dildo is solidly planted in my ass.

You will need to consider health aspects when you have gay anal sex. There is bacteria in the anus which should not be spread in the mouth or in a penis, so make sure you use a condom and that the bottom cleans his anus well prior gay ass sex. One of the first things people are anxious about is what happens if I have something left up that passage. What you may have seen in anal porn, spontaneous ass sex, is to a great extent a dream. On-screen characters and performers prep for butt scenes, and that prep may include douching, enemas or even foreplay with a dildo to ensure all is clean. Douching and enemas are pretty straightforward and for me the safest way. You can either purchase a throwaway douche or get yourself and enema kit that you can use for years. When using use some luke warm water as there is nothing so shocking and will make you not relaxed as putting cold water inside you.

 

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Try adding some scented water or herbal water that will almost feel and give you a spa like encounter. You may need to do this a couple times until the removed liquid is clear. With that one worry off your psyche, and I know I’ve sufficiently changed diapers to know that the least stimulating thing for your lover or you is seeing and smelling crap, you may discover you’re now considerably more relaxed and excited to get going.

The membrane in the anus is really thin, so care should be taken at all times because it can get injured easily and bleed too. This is the main reason why STDs are spread this way. Always take precautions and go slowly. It is important that plenty of high quality lubricant should be used at all times. A great type of lubricant to use is silicone lubricant as it’s long lasting, perfect for Anal sex and doesn’t dry out. While the vagina self-lubricates, the butt does not, making lubricant flat out needed. Use a silicone lubricant for anal sex as your anus will soak up water based lubricants and will be dry very quickly. Break out the SuperSlyde lubricant. Forget that you’ve seen some porn star spitting on some porn star’s butt before smashing it home, for one, he may be pre-lubed and the spit is really is doing nothing, for two, he’s a sexual professional and you’re most likely not. I get off on porn yet I’d be more content if porn was introduced with a cautioning – warning these are experts and please do not try this at home.

Some thick, gels are also good and provide a cushioning on impact which makes them perfect for ass play. While you may know ipeople who try desensitizing creams for anal play, I don’t suggest it. Desensitizing your anus won’t help you relax and since these items numb the nerves, you won’t feel if it is going wrong so may be more susceptible to injury. Pain is your friend it tells you when something is going wrong and you should listen to your body. By desensitizing yourself, you can do yourself some serious harm and also – sometimes even more important desensitizing it will mean you will not experience the joys of anal sex fully.

I must also say that foreplay is very important for gay anal sex and also the use of lubrication through the whole process. It is best to bring him to an erection with some oral sex at first. This will help him relax and have endorphin’s released. Then use a finger and gently insert it in his anus. Take it slowly and do not try to rush him or go too fast. Be horny. It serves to be truly horny, so get prepared with huge amounts of foreplay. Whether you go down on one another, participate in some erotic rubbing or touching, it’s all great as long as it turns you on. Have a go at arousing the butt before making the plunge with fingers, toys or penises. The rear-end is apprehensive and if you rush it will force you back – remember relax and take your time.

Explore different avenues regarding butt plugs. Butt sex toys are an awesome approach to get ready for ass sex. Anal sex toys can be used by you or have your lover use them as foreplay. You can attempt different shapes and sizes and materials until you discover your ideal fit. Second, you may well observe that you like to wear your butt plug during the day only in light of the fact that it keeps you in an excited state. I wear a butt plug when I do Pilates and let me tell you it is an awesome turn on. Wearing it makes your anus more ready and willing when your lover comes knocking on your back door. No, you aren’t going to get a huge ass-hole; your muscles will loosen whilst the plug is in but will always go back to its natural state.

The next step is to slowly increase the size of insertion. At first you will want a thin, long sex toy or prostate massager. There are plenty of gay sex toys available, so just make sure it is designed for the purpose, preferably with a wide handle like base at the bottom so that you have control over it at all times. After this a larger butt plug should be used. Always make sure you have a pre assigned safety word just in case it is too much for him. Communication at all times is important. So respect your partner’s wishes and feelings.

Whenever some guy talks about gay anal sex, there seems to be the wrong perception as people start to go through their list of disadvantages. First of all they say that it is for the top man’s benefit (giver) and not for the receiver. This is not true if done correctly. Also others say that it is the type of sex that can spread easily STDs. This is true if you don’t take any precautions. Nothing is ever totally pain free, even normal sex if it’s done in a wrong way. However there are ways to make gay anal sex as pain free as possible. When men have a problem with anal sex it is usually either caused by an inconsiderate partner who does it wrong and hurts them in the process. Anal sex needs to be careful and slow, and at the pace of the Bottom. Also, it needs to be remembered that if the Bottom is not in the mood, it’s not going to be as enjoyable an experience as what it can be. The key is to not pressure your partner into it and take things at your own pace.

The final step for a great experience of gay anal sex is about entering him with your penis. Ideally you will want him on all fours, with something supporting his torso. Then cover your condom with a lot of lubrication and go slowly, moving at his pace. If you did everything correctly and he is really turned on, anal orgasms and hands free ejaculation is possible, but not everyone can manage it. This is the part where gay anal sex can be good for both of you.

 

 

Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Gay Electro Sex Fury

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‘So you want to experience some Gay Electro Sex Fury?’  I say.  “On your knees” I command as the door closes. You obediently drop down and assume the position. “Suck my cock.”  You fish out my hardening cock and stare at it. “You like that ‘pierced cock’ don’t you?”

“Yes sir, I love your hot, pierced cock.”

“Then suck it!”  Taking it into your hot mouth you concentrate on playing with the PA ring with your tongue, moving it back and forth through my cock head. Although it feels fantastic, I soon take your toy away.

“You can have more of that later. Get undressed and present yourself.”

“Yes sir!” you reply.

After you’ve shed your clothes I inspect the goods. “Good, you followed my instructions to shave your balls and around your cock” I say. “If the electrodes can’t sit tight against your flesh it burns instead of tingles.”  Grabbing both of your balls with one hand I stretch them down as far as they will go.  “These should do nicely. Just perfect for a little electro play.”

“Oh, please” you moan.

“What?”

“Oh please wire up my cock sir!”

“Don’t worry, we’ll get to that” I reply. “But first let’s pay some attention to these nips.” Releasing your balls, I begin to tweak and chew on your nipples, getting them nice and hard an eliciting a low moan. Releasing them from my mouth I coat them with some lube and place snakebites on them. As I squeeze then release the the snakebite you feel it sucking on your nipple.

“ah… ah… AH…” you moan.

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I get out my LA Pump and begin using it and by the second pump it heightens the sensation as the vacuum increases. “That should make sure those bad boys are ready for some serious play later” I say as you feel your nipples, swelling bigger than you’ve ever felt them before. Moving down your body I stretch a cock ring tight around your cock and balls. “That should keep them at attention for a while” I say. “Better be sure you’re good and hard before we start.” I bend down and slide your cock into my mouth, causing another involuntary moan to escape from your lips. Working my tongue around the head to get it good and wet, I move forward and take your whole cock into my throat in one smooth motion.

“Oh god!” you gasp. “Don’t stop.”

I stick out my tongue and lick your balls, making you moan. To make sure you don’t get carried away I grab your balls and stretch them out until you gasp. Taking my mouth off your cock I sit you down for your electro session. “Ready to have your cock shocked?” I ask with a mischievous smile.

“I’ve been ready since the first time you e-mailed me and mentioned electro. Since then I’ve woken up at night with my hard cock throbbing thinking about it. I’ve driven past my house because I was distracted thinking about it. I’m way past ready already.”

“Good! We’ll start with this electrode. It will make it seem like your whole groin is vibrating.” I say as I lube and wrap a rubber electrode around your balls and the base of your cock. I lubricate a second electrode that looks like a metal ball on a rubber stick. “This one will sit right on your prostate. I guarantee you’ve never felt anything like it before in your life” I say with a smile as I slide it into your ass.

“I can’t believe this is going to actually happen!” you say as I hook the electrodes to the power box.

“Oh it’s happening” I reply with a smile. “But first some ground rules. If you want me to stop at any time just say the word ‘stop’ or ‘off.’ If you want me to back off the power say ‘back off.’ ‘More’ should be self explanatory. Are you ready?”

“Damn straight I’m ready – bring it on!”

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I flip the switch on. “Everything feel OK?” I ask.

“I don’t feel anything yet”

“Oh don’t worry, you will. Just let me know if there are any hot spots or places where it stings more than others” I say as I turn up the power. “Let me know when you start to feel it.”

“I’m feeling a little tingle.”

“Now it’s more of a buzz.”

“Wow – that’s amazing!”

“You want more?” I ask.

“More” you beg. “Harder sir… Please shock my cock harder!”

I turn up the power until your cock is bouncing with each jolt of electricity exciting the nerves of your cock and balls. I play with the power and frequency to keep you on edge. “You like that?”

“Holy shit!” you exclaim as as your brain struggles to comprehend the pleasure washing over your groin.

“Time to up the ante.” I say as I back off the power to let you catch your breath. Meanwhile I prepare to add another electrode. I take some sterile lube and squirt it directly into your slit and work it down inside your piss hole, running my hand down your cock to force it lower into your dick. After you’re lubed up I line the electrode up with your slit and slowly slide it in until the base is resting on your cock-head. “If you liked it before, you’re going to LOVE this!” I exclaim. “Ready?”

“Hell yeah” you say as I turn the power back on.

“Aaaaaah” you call as you struggle to catch your breath.

“Want more?”

“More”

“Good – I knew you could take it. Let’s see how much of a shock your cock can take. I’m going to slowly turn it up” Grabbing the power box I reduce the time between shots to zero. It is know just one continuous buzz across your cock and ass. Then I start to turn the power up. “Let me know if you need me to turn it down or off” I remind you.

“Let… Me… Have… It” you say, each word punctuated by a sharp breath as you have to concentrate on speaking due to the strength of the sensations coming from your cock and ass. “…Harder!” “Unghhhh!” you gasp as waves of pleasure and pain roll over you as your cock, bouncing with the waves, drips pre-cum. It’s like your whole being is vibrating and buzzing, rendering you incapable of rational word or thought. There’s nothing in the world but your cock – it’s like your entire body’s been turned into one giant cock. Moving up your body I take a snake bite off and start sucking on your engorged nipple, biting it harder as I turn up the power.

“Aaaaaargh” you moan as you lose yourself in the moment. The buzz in your ass, the zing all up and down your cock, the squeezing in your nuts, and the sharp shots of my teeth on your nipple do their work and you experience an out of body moment. It’s like you’re floating above the scene, awash in pleasure. Another twist of the knob brings you back to earth as even more power is applied across your prostate and up the length of your cock. “Ah… ah… ah…” you stutter as your orgasm starts to build. “I’m going to… to…. to… CUM!!!!” you shout as shot after shot of hot cum forces it’s way past the intruding electrode and shoots into the air. “Aaaargh” you gurgle as I reduce the power back to a light tingle then turn it completely off.

“How was that?”

“Fucking incredible! Even though it’s turned off I can still feel the buzzing as if it’s still going”

“Don’t worry, it will go away. In the mean time get over here and clean my cock. I’m leaking so much I’m making a mess.”

“Instead of cleaning it up, why don’t you work it up my ass?”

“I like the way you think” I reply. “You know I’ve always wondered what it would be like to have my cock up an ass while it’s having spasms from an electro onslaught to the cock and balls. Maybe next time we’ll try that.”

“Um – sounds great!” you say as my cock slides into your ass and the PA hits your prostate.

“Sounds absolutely great! And thanks for the Gay Electro Sex Fury!

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Anna has been writing original erotic works for quite some time and specializes in Asian fantasies. When you have a few minutes and want to relax by reading some FREE original hard core adult stories you are welcome at the adultsmart blog.

Craigslist for Gay Sex!

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Perfect Gay Sex With Craiglist

All of the best how-tos and don’t-dos are included in this article series. I include some of the lingo, posts to stay away from and how to get through the best responses in Craigslist personals section during your search for anonymous gay anal sex. First, you need to understand that Craigslist is perfect for gay people.  Straight people have it way easier than gay people in most aspects. They can get legally get married, they aren’t hated by many religious groups and each of their days seems to pass smoothly. However, when it comes to getting anonymous online sexual hook ups, gay men have it much easier than straight men. Most women just don’t go looking for anonymous casual sex like men do, most likely because they can get it fairly easily if they’re looking for a man. So while there are sections for straight people, even for a casual encounter they will be likely expecting dinner and appearance before sex.

The reason so many straight men indulge their bi-curiosity on Craigslist is that they simply get fed up looking for women only to get scammed over and over again. Most posts by men under ‘men are looking for women’ section go ignored or are only answered by hookers and webcam girls. Most women actually looking for sex on Craigslist really aren’t the type to socialize beyond a certain point or even know to look past a certain aesthetic level. It is not impossible to meet an attractive woman on craigslist, but it is 99% difficult. Don’t expect success on your first try, your second or your third. In the meantime, there are plenty of gay guys on

‘men are looking for men

section who might be happy to take care of your needs. And you don’t even have to make them the dinner.

Secondly, it is important to know the craigslist terminology. We live in an age of abbreviated words and phrases, mostly due to the internet, which is still something new for many of us. There are several craigslist shorthand terms, but I’d say these are some of the essentials. For example, NSA means No Strings Attached. DDF means drug and disease free while M4M encounters mean men for men encounters. HWP is Height/Weight Proportionate and ISO mean is In Search Of. After you learn the lingo everything is easy. It’s really just about making a post, including a picture and waiting for men to send you a message. Having a picture on there is really important, as a lot of people ignore submissions that don’t have photos.

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By the way, if there is one Craigslist abbreviation that you want to avoid, it would be PNP. PNP, in Craigslist terminology, stands for

“party ‘n play”

which stands for sex while high on drugs. If you’re a bottom, one of the problems hooking up with drunk or gay men under drug influence is that they last long and drugs prevent them from finishing quickly. So they can fuck you, turn it over and then fuck you even harder until the condom literally breaks and then you’ve just had unprotected intercourse with a junkie. A thing to keep in mind is that anyone using a random capital letter T in an ad is looking to get high. For example: LeT’s have sex tonighT mean let’s get high and fuck all night

Looking For Generous Men Means Prostitutes

Another third and important thing on craigslist is that people who are looking mostly for generous men are prostitutes. Whenever you see an ad on craigslist advertising someone looking for “generous men” or just “gen,” it can only mean that the person is a prostitute, and “generous” is just a code for “give me money.

Age is important buy if there is one place where it can be ok to lie about age, its craigslist. If you’re 25 and look 25, then post your real age in your ad. But general Craigslist rule is that you post as the age you think you look like, not the age you actually are. It’s not like you want to show to strangers your ID anyway. The one time that is not okay to lie about your age is when you’re underage and posing as an adult. You can ruin someone’s life that way or get in trouble.

Lying about your race also is ok sometimes. For example if you’re a Latino but you look more like a European guy for example, just say white in your ad. Aesthetics are about visuals not about facts. This isn’t a survey so post what you look like, not necessarily what you really are. Sadly, when using craigslist one must expect that a lot of people won’t show up to their dates or be all that reliable. Lots of people get off on the thrill of setting up an anonymous sexual encounter, but while they get turned on by the thrill of this search they often have zero intention of actually meeting. Or maybe they freak out at the last minute. Whatever the reason, it happens a lot. Most of the times these people never have the courtesy to even email you or text you with a simple sorry.

Craigslist is a game. For every sexy gay man you might meet you may get a fun time or equal numbers of people not showing up. Just know this fact when writing an ad on craigslist. It never stops being annoying, but it helps you to get ready for the real arrangements that can offer you sweet time. If you’re really looking to give this a try, assume that everyone is just as nervous as you are. Craigslist is a great place for gay men to find other men for anonymous gay sex.

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PJ Weir was employed at the Gay Exchange for over a decade and was a regular contributor to the blog. He is a gay activist and an advocate for same sex marriage. PJ is proud of his aboriginal descent and has remained in a long term relationship with his partner Darren.
PJ left work in late 2014 as his mother fell ill. He has moved to Queensland where he has become her full time carer.
Unfortunately the iconic Gay Exchange, Sydney’s first all gay adult store closed down in June of 2017 as the building was taken over by the State Transit Authority to build the new rail.