11 Gay Sex Positions

Clothed Sex Positions
I hate two things in this world when it comes to sex, condoms and same, boring, old school vanilla sex. The first one is essential and I never think of not using it during penetration, therefore, there are two things to change which are either the position during intercourse or adding some nice adult toys into your sessions to spice them up. I assume that you’ve already had many toys but don’t worry if you have not, I’ll give you some tips on that case as well in my article but my main mission is explaining 11 Gay Sex Positions that I’ve chosen for you based on both my personal experiences and people’s comments on the positions as there are hundreds of different sex positions available. Speaking of mission, of course, we are grateful to basic positions like missionary or doggy style, however, it is time to move on. And also feel free to share these positions with your straight friends as well because the positions can be adapted easily into heterosexual partners. Last but not least, keep in mind that the positions are ordered by increasing difficulty and please don’t take action without the consent of your partner.

Folded Deck Chair

You can easily move into this one from the missionary position. Simply, the receiver lays on his back and lifts his legs up in the air then the giver gets down on his knees and gives a part of his weight on his hands under one or both of his partner’s knees. After getting into the position, the receiver is free to enjoy his partner’s thrusts without doing anything special, preferably, he can either rub his own penis or scratch/stroke his partner’s body for additional sensations during intercourse. Moreover, the giver can lean on his partner’s legs for deeper penetration or he can also lean back by grabbing onto the receiver’s thighs which allows him to thrust harder. If you think that the position is not good enough to hit the P-spot, you can put a pillow under the receiver’s lower back to provide different angles. In addition, the position allows the giver to use butt plug comfortably during penetration. There are plenty of different anal plugs on the market with or without cock ring and also vibrating ones available. Just have a look.
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions - Folded Deck Chair
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Folded Deck Chair

Fire Hydrant

Here we have another variation of Doggy Style. To get into the position, the receiver should get down on his fours and the giver will be kneeling behind him. While the giver’s legs are between his partner’s legs, he lifts one of his own legs upwards and places his foot on the floor to the receiver’s side. Then, the giver lifts the receiver’s leg and place it on top of his thigh. If the receiver is flexible enough, he can wrap his leg around his partner’s leg or waist and pull him closer to himself. On the other hand, the giver can lean over his partner, however, this puts additional pressure on the receiver’s leg, so the position must be well balanced by both partners. Additionally, it is time for the receivers to release their submissiveness inside them if any available. To help this release, you can use blindfold, mouth gag or something else you like.
Fire Hydrant Sex Positions
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Fire Hydrant

Scissors

In this position, the receiver lies on his side and lifts his leg then bends it so that there will be enough space for the giver to reach his partner’s anus. At this point, the giver also lies on his side but his head must be close to his partner’s feet. As a next step, the giver slips his lower leg underneath his partner’s lower leg right by his pubic and puts his own upper leg over his partner’s lower leg so that the receiver’s lower leg will be between giver’s legs. Finally, the receiver will be facing away from his partner and the giver will be facing towards his partner’s back. Lying on the giver’s thigh feels the receiver a bit uncomfortable but once you get into the position, all you need is harmonic thrusts in reverse directions together which means while the giver thrusts forth, the receiver thrusts back. Additionally, the giver needs to provide his own comfort as part of the receiver’s weight is on the giver’s leg, and also he is free to grab his partner’s upper leg to pull himself into the receiver during penetration.
Scissors Sex Positions
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Scissors

Bumper Cars

Just like in the Crab position, penis flexibility is the key point to this Gay Sex Position as well. So, it is recommended the giver to make sure that his penis is flexible enough prior to getting into the position. To check it, he needs to be able to point his penis downwards towards the ground comfortably while he is standing up and if everything is OK, it is time to strike a pose! The receiver lies down on his stomach with his legs straight and open wide, then the giver lies down on his stomach but facing in the opposite direction with his legs straight and open wide too. Finally, the giver penetrates his partner without overstretching his penis. The receiver’d better be still during penetration because of the delicate nature of this position. On the other side, it is hard to get into this position with small penis but please don’t let it put you off. There are heaps of penis extenders out there so have a look and pick one then have fun!
Bumper Cars Sex Positions
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Bumper Cars

Suspended Congress

This last one is one of the tricky ones among all of the positions. There are many criteria to be fulfilled, for example the giver has to have strong muscles so that he can balance his partner and himself during intercourse. At this point, it is better for the giver to have a bigger penis than the average for easiness of insertion. On the other hand, the receiver has to be in certain limits of weight for the sake of his partner and he should be flexible enough to stay in the position for a long time. To get into the position, whilst the giver lifts his partner by holding his thighs or by locking his hands beneath his partner’s bottom, the receiver puts his arms around his partner’s neck and grips his partner’s waist by his own thighs. If you think that this position is too easy for to perform, try it in the shower which will be exceptional experience for you. However, I strongly recommend you to have a pair of locking suction handle just to prevent accidents due to slippery surfaces in that case.
Suspended Congrass Sex Position
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Suspended Congrass

Basset Hound

This position is similar to the gay sex position Doggy Style and allows for deeper penetration, so all you need to do is get down on your knees and hands if you are receiver. Then, lower yourself towards the ground by spreading your knees and pushing your buttock back, spread your elbows out as well to make your chest closer to the ground. Your partner will insert his penis easily when you are in the position. His knees can be placed to either side of your buttocks and also he can spread his knees to get low. You don’t have to do anything as a receiver in this position. Simply, get your position and enjoy his thrusts, you can push yourself back though for harder penetration if you like. He has a few things to do as a giver, for example he can elevate his waist by keeping his knees together so that he stimulates your P-spot more, he can rub your back during intercourse or he can pull you towards himself for harder insertion.
Gay Sex Positions
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Basset Hound

Superman

Taking your shirt off will not be enough to be a superman this time Clark, you had better be totally naked and please don’t mind the world, it has been f*cked already, so it’s your turn now. Simply, lie down on your stomach with your arms stretched in front of you and put your waist to the edge of the bed with your legs hanging over the side. Then, your partner will penetrate you while standing or sitting down on his knees. As a receiver, once you get into the position, it is pretty hard to take action during intercourse  as you are lying down on your stomach and your legs are in the air. Therefore, you can either try lifting your waist to change the penetration angle or use one of bed restraints, let your partner tie you up and literally do nothing. After this point, all your partner needs to do is thrusting in and out by using either his hips or his full body.
Gay Sex Positions
Book of Mormon Missionary Sex Positions – Superman

Launch Pad

In this position, the receiver lays on his back and the giver penetrates while he is on his knees facing the receiver. Then, the receiver lifts his legs upwards, brings his knees to his chest and puts his soles on his partner’s chest. After that, the giver can lean over his partner easily so that the receiver raises his buttock for deep penetration. Alternatively, the receiver can change his legs’ position like putting them over the giver’s shoulders or bringing both of them to one side. Even if it seems like the giver has the control, the receiver is the one who controls penetration in a way that he can control how deep and fast the penetration will be as his feet are on the giver’s chest. All the giver needs to do in this position is to thrust in and out, basically. However, he is free to adjust his angle to hit the P-spot better.
Gay Sex Positions
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Launchpad

Crab

The giver lies down on his back with legs stretched and the receiver sits down in his partner’s lap facing him. The receiver should lean backwards with stretched hands behind himself so that he can balance himself in the position. The most important thing is the flexibility of giver’s penis, so once you get into the position the receiver had better move back slowly to prevent any injuries and also the giver should use his legs to control how far the receiver leans back. Still, the receiver generally has the control in this sex position, he gently brings his body up and down and grinds on his partner by thrusting his own buttocks back-and-forth and also rotating his hips gives extra stimulation. Additionally, the giver can contribute to the play by thrusting and grabbing his partner’s hips, grinding him back and forward, and also, he can give hand-job to the receiver easily. The giver can use a masturbator to blow his partner away as this position is really suitable to use it.

Leg Glider

To get into this position, the receiver should lie on his one side again, lets say his left side. Then, he needs to lift his right leg towards the ceiling while the left one is stick to the bed and his leg must point the ceiling straightly. This means that the angle between his legs must be right angle if he is flexible enough to do that. Whilst the receiver’s right leg leans on his partner’s shoulder/chest, the giver sits on his knees by taking the receiver’s left leg between his own legs like riding a horse and he is free to use a whip at this point to hold the receiver’s horses.  The receiver should ensure that he keeps his position without any cramping during intercourse so warming up can be helpful prior to penetration. The giver can hold the base of his partner’s right leg to pull the receiver towards himself so that he can penetrate him deeply and also the giver can change his angle by leaning in all four directions to find the most convenient angle for themselves, however he should be careful about not hurting the receiver.

Teaspoons

This position is derived from Doggy Style so it is easy to get into this position from regular Doggy Style. Simply, the giver gets down on his knees wide open and the receiver faces in the same direction in front of him while getting down on his knees as well. If the receiver has his knees together, the giver can come closer behind him and wrap his arms around him. Therefore, we can easily say that the Teaspoons allows partners to have intimate moments. As a receiver, you can bounce up and down for more thrusts and you can also put your hands around his back or neck while kissing him. Leaning back against him is another option for more intimacy by feeling as much of his body as possible. As a giver, you can give a hand job to your partner during penetration and you can also kiss his lips, neck and back. Just remember, this position is all about intimacy, be gentle and prolong your ejaculation to have more time than usual. If you can’t make it by your own means which is absolutely OK and has a solution, get a cock ring for yourself either from one of our Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres or by ordering online on our website which is pretty easy, go back to our home page and write what you need into the search box at the right top of the page e.g. cock rings and get lost in heaps of different kinds of cock rings. Kidding, it is impossible to get lost, thanks to the other reviews about every single item that you can think of on our blog written by professionals in this area, for example cock rings again. There is that same search box on blog page too which means that all information about sex and sex toys is a click away.

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Stephen is a cis-gendered gay male who spends far too much time with his two cats and eating tim tams. A self-identified sex-positive advocate he cares deeply about gender equality, disabilities, sexual education and social issues. Opinionated and bold he isn’t afraid to speak his mind and say what others won’t. With a yearning for knowledge and experience in all things relating to sex, he is a prolific writer that has developed the content for a myriad of informative Sexual Health and Wellness websites.

Stephen’s articles and writings tends to focus on social issues, sexual education, queer issues and all things fetish and absurd. He comes qualified with the completion of a double Bachelor degree in Social Sciences and literature, and a Masters in Education.

Gay Online Dating

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Today, Online Gay Dating is easy for gay men to find partners with the help of online gay dating websites. It is important at the beginning to make proper searches about the gay dating website which you are thinking of joining. Find out if that website is suitable for you and can satisfy all your needs. Like Dating Apps such as Grindr, Scruff and Recon, you’ll notice that there are particular websites that cater to different types of men and fetishes. You will get a good overall result if you sign up to multiple various gay dating websites with the same interests as your own – you’ll generally find that you’ll then have something in common before you even start searching. When you do start searching through your chosen websites for potential partners and/or fuck buddies you can then spend a little time looking over them to know whether they suit your requirements or not.

The services offered by Online Gay Dating websites are mostly meant for both gay women and men but some websites do take care of the needs of male and female persons separately, or gay couples looking for someone of the opposite sex. Gay men have the opportunity to meet their future partner with ease. No matter whether you go for online dating websites for gays or to a website that has both homosexual and heterosexual sections, you just have to check out that the site offers singles a chance to hook up with someone of their predetermined choice. It is essential for you to look out for your benefits.

In case you as a gay man you are wondering whether to go for an Online Gay Dating or not, just think over the point of what will you do if you do not go to a gay dating website. Do you have any other options? If you’re a social individual and go to various social events throughout the year, you’ll have an even better chance of finding someone to settle down with.  Either way it is certainly worth it to try out a gay online dating website. Social restrictions and obligations take up so much of everyone’s resources these days so that there are people who do not have enough time and sometimes confidence to go out and meet a possible partner. Particularly those whom have only recently come out and find the scene a little too intimidating.

Today, Online Gay Dating websites have created a platform for all gay people to live a happy social life with other people while also having the chance on meeting their future partners. You can accept to meet someone without any obligation. You are free to find your future partner just like others, but you can also search for gay men any time since the websites are there for you 24/7. There are many gay dating sites that will allow you to be anonymous while you getting know of the person whom you met online.

Before paying for anything on any Online Gay Dating, it is recommended that you try out four to five websites to check their services and then make a decision. Many offer a free trial and it is advisable to do this first.  Some factors to consider are; the number of singles available in your section on different sites, your comfort zone, availability of your email accounts, and chat rooms and most importantly, location. After considering all these factors choose the website that is perfect for you and then you can pay for the services. It is better to use the free membership of other websites too because it will allow you to share your profile with new gay men out there. Today, gays seeking gays have found an easier way to find their future partners. It is as easy as checking your email account after you have joined up and wait for those messages to flow in.

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After you have decided to join a Online Gay Dating website like Gaydar or Just Say G’day and you need to write a profile. All online gay dating sites will have over thousands of unique personal profiles of gay singles listing their characteristics, likes, dislikes and personal preferences. Promoting yourself online can be challenging because you have to make sure that you will attract the guys you are interested and also make them stay and reply to your profile. The online gay dating community is very competitive so your gay personal ad has to beat the competition.

The most important thing is to know what you are looking for. Simply saying that you are looking to find a gay man for dating will attract all the gay men of the site. Imagine your profile getting bombarded by messages from tall, short, fat, bald and other gay men. You need to make your online dating experience better by eliminating the gay men you don’t like. Make a list of your preferences and qualities you want in a gay man, such as age, height, likes and hobbies. This may seem superficial, but why waste your time with people you don’t like? However, focus on the positives that you’d like in a potential mate and don’t list the things you do not want. This is limiting, and often comes across as arrogant, racist and insulting – as well as even if your preference is not a particular type of person, you may find that you’ll still fall for them anyway given all their other qualities and interests. The Gay Dating world is already harsh enough without adding to the pressure of being a particular type of Male.

Online Gay Dating websites like to maintain a certain level of anonymity, which means all gay men using the website, must have an online profile name. Be creative and choose a nice and creative name. BigTool4U may seem like a cool name, but you’ve just listed your big dick as your best quality, not necessarily the right impression you want to give on a dating site, though if you’re after instant sex it might serve you well!

What you need to include in the profile. Gay dating sites offer a section for members like you to upload their photos. A photo is the best way to promote yourself. Most gay men new to the online dating community seem to think that posting x rated pictures is the ideal way to attract attention. At the start you will receive a large number of responses, but are you looking for quantity over quality or are you looking to meet a nice guy. Think about that when selecting a photo to upload. Be mysterious and keep the X rated photos to the bedroom!

I advise you to also include a nice catchy profile headline because it can determine whether someone will read your profile or simply move on to the next guy. Gay men are looking for the one profile heading that will stand out above the rest so put some fantasy into it, making it interesting and as original as possible.

Finally, the text in your personal ad is the final step that will determine if someone will go on and meet you. To help you out with this, gay dating sites have gay men profiles which basically highlight characteristics such as height, weight, eye color, hair color and other specifications. So all you have to focus is to make sure your personal ad has useful, interesting information about yourself that will attract gay men interested in your profile. Be honest and truthful. By now you should be ready to write the perfect gay personal ad and find yourself a new partner. So for all gay men seeking love, use some of these tips to successfully get in the gay online dating community.

Stephen is a cis-gendered gay male who spends far too much time with his two cats and eating tim tams. A self-identified sex-positive advocate he cares deeply about gender equality, disabilities, sexual education and social issues. Opinionated and bold he isn’t afraid to speak his mind and say what others won’t. With a yearning for knowledge and experience in all things relating to sex, he is a prolific writer that has developed the content for a myriad of informative Sexual Health and Wellness websites.

Stephen’s articles and writings tends to focus on social issues, sexual education, queer issues and all things fetish and absurd. He comes qualified with the completion of a double Bachelor degree in Social Sciences and literature, and a Masters in Education.

My First Gay Massage

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This was around three years back or somewhere in the vicinity.  At the time, I was utilizing a neighborhood phone connect line extensively! it was free, so why not? One night I was on ‘the line’ and a voice advertisement for a wedded fellow searching for somebody for a man-to-man liaison came up. Being a dynamic lover of wedded men, I answered immediately.

It turned out he was a longshoreman on the docks up here in NY, working at getting a percentage of the great many compartment vans that go through our port consistently. He was brown haired and around thirty eight or so. He had been married for five years but fantasized about his boyish sexual encounters with his mates. I conversed with him for some time and found out that the sexual experimentation with his child-hood friends went no further than peeking at each others penises. He said it still aroused him and he wanted to experiment for the 1st time in a gay sex experience.
After chatting with him for some time I welcomed him over to my house for just a massage to see how things may progress as I work part time as a masseuse. I find that offering a massage is an extremely pleasant, nonthreatening approach to become more acquainted with somebody.

So he came over that first night, extremely apprehensive and uncertain about what he was doing, so timid and powerless. I gave him a brew and we sat and chit chatted for some time, and I could see him unwinding. At that point I took him down the stairs to where the massage table was situated up and instructed him to undress while I cleared out the space to get the oil and different necessities. When I got back, there he was on the table, absolutely stripped and spread out like a smorgasbord. Taking a gander at his ass and knowing nobody had ever been in there, I was salivating.

Thus, I gave him one of my best and most sensual massage, and he was just about murmuring when I moved him back over on his belly, he was putty in my grasp. I had him spread his legs a little and simply plunged face first onto his cock and then slowly working my way down to his rosebud. I figure nobody had ever rimmed him and as I began to do my specialty his legs lifted off the table allowing me to get my tongue into him sweet asshole, He was squirming everywhere and groaning with delight, twisting his ass and making it move down into my face like a dog in heat. When he was so hot he could scarcely talk, I slid a small tongue right into his rose bud and moved him back over and drew him until he was about to cum when I put his cock down my throat and he came in immense spurts down my throat. He simply laid there quiet for some time, attempting to rest and making small groaning clamors. I was still in my sweats and muscle shirt. I figured it would be less demanding for him to trust me as I wasn’t attempting to do him that first time. In the wake of clarifying that nothing had ever felt so great to him, he let me know what his available calendar was while he got dressed, and as he exited the entryway, he swore he’d be back.

Early the following week I got a call from him. His wife was going away, it appeared, and he needed to come over and see me once more, and “Would it be OK if I spend the night? I’d truly like that.” Hell better believe it, that would be okay, I let him know.

That Thursday, he appeared at my doorstep once more. He gave me an embrace and laid a sweet kiss on me. We talked for some time, however he appeared to be exceptionally eager and fretful, so I took him down the stairs for another massage.

When I got him downstairs it was obvious he wasn’t there for another massage, if his erect cock was any guide. I ate him out again until he was verging on crying, and peeled my garments off while I was going down on him. With a little lubricant, I got my fingers into him and began to finger him in and out and he was groaning continually and his ass was contracting on them. I slowed down my fingering and moved my mouth to his ear and said, “Do you need me to top you?” I inhaled into his ear. “Would you like to get fucked by a man?”

“Hell yeah!” he replied, I was hard as stone from listening to him groan and his words simply made me harder. I got the Superslyde lube and put it on my cock then moving up on the table and settled between his legs. I pulled at his hips till me was up on his knees with his face still on the table, and I gazed down into the totally gaping ass. His hole was a bit red and swollen from the fingering I’d effectively done, and sparkling in the low light with the lube I’d put there. It looked like heaven’s door to me and he was moving his hips forward and backward, and his gape opening and closing, it was winking at me, opening and shutting automatically as he knew what was about to happen to him. I grasped my cock at the base and swiveled my hips forward, and my cock head touched the glow and wetness of his rear-end, simply kissing his gaping ass.

“Alright, I’m going to slide in. Push out, similar to you’re taking a dump.”

He kindly pushed, and when I saw his little gap pooch out, I quickly squeezed forward knowing this would be his very first gay massage. I felt the resistance, and afterward I felt it giving way, giving me a chance to slide into him, his little gap opening and tolerating the head of my prick into him. When I popped through, he snorted like he’d been punched, and halted totally still for a minute, and afterward his hips began moving once more, pushing into me and allowing me to put a great many inches of me into his cherry butt. He was whimpering a bit under his breath, and his back was secured with sweat, yet he was taking it, inspiring himself back onto it deeply.

When I bottomed out in him, my balls tight against his ring and my pubes scratching all around his butt cheeks, he simply groaned and gasped for a moment or two, and I kept still and absorbed the mind boggling warmth and tight hold of his virginity. I ran my hands up his sides and down his spine, calming and unwinding him and getting him prepared. I was going to ride his virgin ass hard, however I needed him in the interest of personal entertainment, needed him to always remember the hot sentiments he was having at this moment. So I stayed still until he began to move under me, and after that I slid out only an inch and once more into him, again socketed deeply and simply resting in his hot, hot ass grasp. After two breaths, out and afterward back in, and his groaning began to go up a touch of, then a snort when I hit bottom once more. A bit farther on the following stroke and right once more into him, with a throaty snort when I rammed my cock right up into his pelvis once more into his virgin cheeks. He was beginning to move his butt once again onto me now, countering my strokes into him and I saw his back break out in shivers.

 

1st Gay Sex Experience
My First Gay Massage with Happy Ending

 

At that point my cock head was in him all the way in, full length yet at the same time I was moderate and delicate, yet with somewhat more power – I needed him to realize that it was a man in his rear end, that he’d been taken and there was no retreating. He angled his bum up into my groin and bore the stroke with a higher pitched groan, and again that little snort when I hit bottom. He was somewhat more free now, his virgin gap taking me somewhat more effectively, and it was beginning to feel great, that those floods of joy were beginning for him, and I knew the time had come to turn up the power a bit. I lifted up a little on the following stroke, raking over his prostate and he made a startled sound and moved once again into me, and I pushed somewhat harder back in. His head was swung to the side, and his eyes were shut however his mouth was open and a little dribble was spilling out the side of his lips and wetting the sheet. I went into him quicker and harder this time, and his body shocked under the blow, yet he kept right on groaning.

Still marginally above him, I beat in hard and his head lifted off the table somewhat and he groaned louder. I came to back with one hand while adjusted on the other and got his prick he was rock hard and spilling intensely with pre cum. I spread his outpouring everywhere on his cock head with a tight grasp and he shivered intensely, and his head yanked back hard when I pummeled into him this time.

After a few more hard strokes, I hauled out of him, whispering sweetly as he made disillusioned sounds and dragged himself off the table and I pushed him down over it, kicking his lower legs apart and afterward sliding once again into his rosebud with one hard stroke. I could stretch around and jerk his throbbing prick with his own pre-cum as lube.

I fucked his butt for the following 20 minutes, blending short hard thrusts and long moderate strokes, ceasing now and then to simply hold it in him the distance and pounding my hips around. He adored it all.

At long last, his groans got louder and higher pitched and he began striking once again into me harder on ever stroke. His head was going here and there on every stroke I fucked harder into him and his prick swelled significantly harder, and it knew it wouldn’t be much longer. I wasn’t too far away myself, I could feel that my nuts were tightening, that humming that lets you know it will be a huge cum.

All of a sudden he was there. I was bowed forward over him, beating my hips into him and jacking him hard, and with a a more profound snort, his prick spasmed in my grasp and he raised his head back and he spurted and spurted all his breeding seed over my massage table. His butt held me as firmly as it had when we’d initially begun, and he was discharging cum out everywhere throughout the side of the table, his entire body writhing like a snake and his ass spasming on my cock.

I beat two more strokes into the tight grip his ass had on me, and afterward held myself hard and somewhere down in him, hammering out a hot, substantial load myself. I was shivering and gasping, sweat smooth and as yet flexing in him, draining out the last drops of my ejaculation. I had him tight in my arms, one hand around him and laying on his midsection between his tits and the other down and measuring his balls. I lay forward over his back and simply inhaled into his neck for a minute, rubbing my facial hair against the delicate skin there for a minute.

When he turned his head and took looked at me, he wore the grin of a fulfilled man – a bit timid, however extremely fulfilled.

That was the way the wedded longshoreman lost his cherry for the very first time.

 

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Gay Sex On Premises Venues

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Gay sex on premises venues (SOPV) have been around in Sydney for a considerable time. The premise of these venues is fairly simple, you get charged a small entry fee and you enter the venue with minimal clothing looking for a hook up, some venues don’t even require clothing depending on the venue’s rules. Before you go to the venue you should read the rules.You need to follow the venue’s rules to respect everyone’s safety and privacy. Once your in the building you are provided a towel get changed in the change room and you’re good to go. Some venues provide communal showers, glory holes, booths, sling rooms and a variety of other sexual related rooms. Some venues, such as 357 even offer a fully stocked bar and lounge room where you can just relax and socialize. The quality of venues differs from place to place. Gay venues are a very important to the LGBTQIA community all over the world.

Two Men Kissing
Two Men Kissing

What’s surprising about these venues, is the clientele. Many of the men that go to these venues during the day are actually, straight and married. I say this not to shame them, but to remind everyone about the fluidity of sexuality as people can not be classified into one sexuality. I’m not going to digress into social constructions around sexuality – however I will point out that there’s nothing wrong with engaging in different activities outside of the primary relationship so long as it’s done safely and doesn’t negatively impact the relationship. It is always recommended that people wear condoms, bring their best gay sex toys and bring their own personal lubricant for better sex. This will protect you and all the people you have sexual relations with.

Of course, the type of guys that frequent these places varies according to the time of the day. During the lunch rush, the city venues will see an influx of boys in suits of various ages. Towards the evening it switches towards young and older men and later tends to be the younger crowd. It is a good idea for beginners to go most when they feel comfortable. If you would like to go there when there are lower amounts of people, go there during working hours. If you would like to go there when there are larger amounts of people, you can go there before work or after work hours.

If you have more concerns, you are able to visit the venues website or talk to their customer service officer.If you are nervous you can also visit the venue with a friend. For your first time experience, you can cruise around the rooms, relaxing and socialising. Since most venues have bars you can have a social drink to relax you.

These venues provide access to safe sex in a secure environment and allow you to engage in various forms of sexual activity. There certain in built rules to these venues which must be followed.

  1. No means no. It’s that simple. Consent is the most important aspect of these venues and you should never ever touch anyone without consent. If they walk away, avoid eye contact or give another form of ‘no’ then you need to move on.
  2. Everyone has different tastes and you shouldn’t take it personally. I’ve heard stories of this young Bel Ami model-like boy at one of these venues who would exclusively fuck octogenarian guys.
  3. Everyone has a taste, don’t take it personally.
  4. Safe sex. All of these venues should provide condoms and lubricant within arm’s reach of any form of sexual activity. Make sure that you use them both as safe sex is a must.
  5. Just because you’ve paid money to get into the venue – does not guarantee you sex. Some day’s you’ll be lucky, other days you might strike out. It’s the luck of the draw.
  6. Drugs are generally discouraged. The last thing a SOPV needs is a guy tripping out having a medical emergency. There’s no faster way to clear out a venue than this.

SOPV in Sydney are safer than beats. They’re monitored In controlled environments and you have easy (and free) access to the essentials. Whether you’re after a quick fix or simply an environment to explore a few things (in a sling or a glory hole fetish) they’re a fun and exciting way to blow off some steam.

Author: Stephen Smith – BA Of Social Sciences, M.Ed

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Stephen is a cis-gendered gay male who spends far too much time with his two cats and eating tim tams. A self-identified sex-positive advocate he cares deeply about gender equality, disabilities, sexual education and social issues. Opinionated and bold he isn’t afraid to speak his mind and say what others won’t. With a yearning for knowledge and experience in all things relating to sex, he is a prolific writer that has developed the content for a myriad of informative Sexual Health and Wellness websites.

Stephen’s articles and writings tends to focus on social issues, sexual education, queer issues and all things fetish and absurd. He comes qualified with the completion of a double Bachelor degree in Social Sciences and literature, and a Masters in Education.

Anal Sex Guide For Male Lovers!

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Anal sex can be inconceivably hot yet it is regularly misunderstood! You see, enjoying anal sex doesn’t make somebody gay or strange. Having anal sex simply implies that a person likes having anal sex or maybe you also like your prostate being massaged. In our anus we have thousands of nerve endings ao it is not such a shock that it is sensitive and people can derive pleasure from it! If you have not tried it before anal sex can be scary especially if it’s going to be your first time as a bottom or a top. Remember however that anal sex is not for everybody. If have no craving to attempt anal sex, then don’t. Much the same as any other sexual deviation, you should never be doing something that you aren’t happy with.

While its ordinary to be somewhat anxious to begin with, there are a few tips that may help facilitate your introduction into a different type of male sex play and anal sex to reduce any uneasiness you may have.  REMEMBER

relaxation is the key

and to guide you on the best approach to having some staggeringly hot and sexy ass whopping sex. Also give me a chance to be real here, I love anal sex however I generally approach it with a level of fear becauset for me there is always a bit of pressure when I first start (note, I didn’t say pain is said pressure) that goes far, far away and changes into something totally glorious once that hard cock or dildo is solidly planted in my ass.

You will need to consider health aspects when you have gay anal sex. There is bacteria in the anus which should not be spread in the mouth or in a penis, so make sure you use a condom and that the bottom cleans his anus well prior gay ass sex. One of the first things people are anxious about is what happens if I have something left up that passage. What you may have seen in anal porn, spontaneous ass sex, is to a great extent a dream. On-screen characters and performers prep for butt scenes, and that prep may include douching, enemas or even foreplay with a dildo to ensure all is clean. Douching and enemas are pretty straightforward and for me the safest way. You can either purchase a throwaway douche or get yourself and enema kit that you can use for years. When using use some luke warm water as there is nothing so shocking and will make you not relaxed as putting cold water inside you.

 

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Try adding some scented water or herbal water that will almost feel and give you a spa like encounter. You may need to do this a couple times until the removed liquid is clear. With that one worry off your psyche, and I know I’ve sufficiently changed diapers to know that the least stimulating thing for your lover or you is seeing and smelling crap, you may discover you’re now considerably more relaxed and excited to get going.

The membrane in the anus is really thin, so care should be taken at all times because it can get injured easily and bleed too. This is the main reason why STDs are spread this way. Always take precautions and go slowly. It is important that plenty of high quality lubricant should be used at all times. A great type of lubricant to use is silicone lubricant as it’s long lasting, perfect for Anal sex and doesn’t dry out. While the vagina self-lubricates, the butt does not, making lubricant flat out needed. Use a silicone lubricant for anal sex as your anus will soak up water based lubricants and will be dry very quickly. Break out the SuperSlyde lubricant. Forget that you’ve seen some porn star spitting on some porn star’s butt before smashing it home, for one, he may be pre-lubed and the spit is really is doing nothing, for two, he’s a sexual professional and you’re most likely not. I get off on porn yet I’d be more content if porn was introduced with a cautioning – warning these are experts and please do not try this at home.

Some thick, gels are also good and provide a cushioning on impact which makes them perfect for ass play. While you may know ipeople who try desensitizing creams for anal play, I don’t suggest it. Desensitizing your anus won’t help you relax and since these items numb the nerves, you won’t feel if it is going wrong so may be more susceptible to injury. Pain is your friend it tells you when something is going wrong and you should listen to your body. By desensitizing yourself, you can do yourself some serious harm and also – sometimes even more important desensitizing it will mean you will not experience the joys of anal sex fully.

I must also say that foreplay is very important for gay anal sex and also the use of lubrication through the whole process. It is best to bring him to an erection with some oral sex at first. This will help him relax and have endorphin’s released. Then use a finger and gently insert it in his anus. Take it slowly and do not try to rush him or go too fast. Be horny. It serves to be truly horny, so get prepared with huge amounts of foreplay. Whether you go down on one another, participate in some erotic rubbing or touching, it’s all great as long as it turns you on. Have a go at arousing the butt before making the plunge with fingers, toys or penises. The rear-end is apprehensive and if you rush it will force you back – remember relax and take your time.

Explore different avenues regarding butt plugs. Butt sex toys are an awesome approach to get ready for ass sex. Anal sex toys can be used by you or have your lover use them as foreplay. You can attempt different shapes and sizes and materials until you discover your ideal fit. Second, you may well observe that you like to wear your butt plug during the day only in light of the fact that it keeps you in an excited state. I wear a butt plug when I do Pilates and let me tell you it is an awesome turn on. Wearing it makes your anus more ready and willing when your lover comes knocking on your back door. No, you aren’t going to get a huge ass-hole; your muscles will loosen whilst the plug is in but will always go back to its natural state.

The next step is to slowly increase the size of insertion. At first you will want a thin, long sex toy or prostate massager. There are plenty of gay sex toys available, so just make sure it is designed for the purpose, preferably with a wide handle like base at the bottom so that you have control over it at all times. After this a larger butt plug should be used. Always make sure you have a pre assigned safety word just in case it is too much for him. Communication at all times is important. So respect your partner’s wishes and feelings.

Whenever some guy talks about gay anal sex, there seems to be the wrong perception as people start to go through their list of disadvantages. First of all they say that it is for the top man’s benefit (giver) and not for the receiver. This is not true if done correctly. Also others say that it is the type of sex that can spread easily STDs. This is true if you don’t take any precautions. Nothing is ever totally pain free, even normal sex if it’s done in a wrong way. However there are ways to make gay anal sex as pain free as possible. When men have a problem with anal sex it is usually either caused by an inconsiderate partner who does it wrong and hurts them in the process. Anal sex needs to be careful and slow, and at the pace of the Bottom. Also, it needs to be remembered that if the Bottom is not in the mood, it’s not going to be as enjoyable an experience as what it can be. The key is to not pressure your partner into it and take things at your own pace.

The final step for a great experience of gay anal sex is about entering him with your penis. Ideally you will want him on all fours, with something supporting his torso. Then cover your condom with a lot of lubrication and go slowly, moving at his pace. If you did everything correctly and he is really turned on, anal orgasms and hands free ejaculation is possible, but not everyone can manage it. This is the part where gay anal sex can be good for both of you.

 

 

Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

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