8 Tips To Be The Perfect Gay Orgy Guest!

The coveted

Gay sex party’

invite is one to be appreciated and not taken very lightly. Once you become introduced to these events you quickly realize how enjoyable they are better than going to gay bars and clubs. Usually, they are not advertised online or stamped on flyers stuffed under windshield wipers. These parties are informed by invite only or spread by mouth to mouth events that don’t come often but are usually worth the wait. Through experience, you will learn a handful of rules of etiquette to attending a “gay sex party” that will ensure you get invited to many more over the years. The following are some of the rules I have learned over the years and I am going to share them with you in this article series.

Step 1: Don’t invite others to someone else’s party

Unless given permission by the host, don’t invite every gay person in your contacts. It can be tempting to forward that text message to all of your gay friends, but don’t do it. You never know who those people will forward the text to and some gay sex party hosts may not want random unknown people walking around their homes. However, people hosting gay sex parties do occasionally want a few new faces included into the crowd, so most of the time it is okay to invite a close friend or two, only if they arrive to the party with you. This rule mainly applies to uninvited guests who do not personally know the hosts of the party.

Step 2: Don’t bring a complaining antisocial friend

You know the type I am talking about. This is the guy that complains from the minute he walks into the party. He complains about the music, the crowd, the men and doesn’t let himself and others to party. He’s more of a home gay and would rather be somewhere else. No matter the reason, I suggest you keep away your lame gay friend from this party. Seriously, why bring this guy to a gay sex party just to have him drag down the good time of you and others. Most gay sex parties aren’t overcrowded fraternity parties like from the movies where they are packed like night clubs. Gay sex parties are usually intimate meetings with a group of less than 50 people. At these gay sex parties, people stand out. That lame friend can typically be seen looking at people having a good time from across the room and if anyone dares to speak to this lame guy, he either gives short apathetic answers to innocent questions or he fills up the conversation explaining why he’d rather not be there. Next time, leave him home with his internet porn and masturbator while you have fun socializing in person with actual people.

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Step 3: Bring a bottle of alcohol to the party

While great gay sex parties typically don’t charge a fee, they still aren’t free. Someone actually spent time and money to organize the event and opened up their home for your enjoyment. The great rule of gay sex parties is for each attendant to bring a bottle of alcohol. This still works out cheaper than most clubs considering the entrance charge and the cost of drinks you’ll pay in those venues. Walking into a gay sex party with a bag of good liquor not only gains you good impression, it also helps to keep the drinks flowing even to the late hours. When you go to gay sex parties where men don’t follow this rule, you will see that the alcohol will eventually ran out mid party. Unless it’s a small gay sex party or you are close friends with the host and want to impress, don’t buy the most expensive liquor. It’s not necessary. But don’t get the lowest quality liquor you find in front of you either, you have to at least appear to have a bit of class. So what should you bring with you at a gay sex party?

Well, if it’s a party full of young college black gays; get a cheap bottle of Smirnoff. Most young black gay men drink vodka and cranberry and fruity liquor filled daiquiris. If it’s a party mixed with older black gay men, you can bring a good quality vodka, rum or tequila. I wouldn’t bring anything under $30 unless it’s a great brand on sale. New quality vodkas could be a great option for this gay sex party. Also, here’s the most important thing about this rule. Always show or give the bottle to the host of the party. This is the equivalent to waiting until the server behind the bar to see you place down the tip so that you can get credit for it and make good impression. You want the host to know you put your brick into the party, which will encourage him to not only invite you to his next party, but also invite you to others he hears about.

Step 4: Introduce yourself to the host

If you’re one of those unknown “friends of the invited friend”, make sure you find out who the host is of the gay sex party and introduce yourself. You’re in another man’s home, respect him by making yourself no longer a stranger. This helps on multiple levels as he also may now be encouraged to personally invite you to his next gay sex party since you took the time out to speak to him. Even if you don’t exchange any information with the host, you have now broken the ice making it easier to not feel like a stranger in the party for the rest of the night.

Step 5: No taking extreme photographs. 

Some gay guys still have insecurities and feel uncomfortable when it comes to their sexuality. This insecurity includes the oddity of being comfortable enough to go to a gay club, bar or gay sex party but not being comfortable enough to be photographed at one. Stop trying to take wide shots of the party people or group selfies to include the sexy muscular masculine gay guy standing behind you. If you keep up like this, soon gay sex parties will have more people taking photographs and will end up with a rule like in many strip clubs where you will need to leave your camera at home. Plus, you need to consider their privacy and where those photos can end up. Always respect peoples right to privacy.

Step 6: Wipe up any bathroom splash

Men can be disgusting. There is no better proof of this than when you see that in most bars and club restrooms around 12 am on a Saturday night. Poorly aimed piss all over the floor and toilet paper stuffed toilets are a common view. This is not the case with gay sex parties. There is no restroom, only bathrooms. Bathrooms that the person living in the home will likely want to continue to use long after his party. You’re in someone’s home. Show a little respect and courtesy by wiping up any urine splash or any mess made by you.

Step 7: Don’t get drunk

The only thing more embarrassing than watching your friend get drunk and loud in a club is to watch your friend get drunk or passed out at a gay sex party. Especially if your said friend wasn’t even personally invited – it’s a poor reflection on the company you keep and may even lead to you not being invited back! If you want to get that wasted, go to a straight up bar or club and not someone’s home. Gay sex parties are much more intimate events, so if you or your friend becomes the wasted guy, everyone will notice. Another unintentional consequence for not knowing your limits and being obnoxious is you or your whole group of friends will cease to be invited out to these events as your reputation builds for a man that can’t hold his liquor.

Step 8: Leave long before the host starts cleaning up the mess

Once the gay sex party breaks down from being completely full to half full, it is time for you to either start prepping for your drive home or start finding out where the after party will be. If you’re still around long enough to see people packing up the food, drinks or making to go plates, you have stayed way too long. Now is the time to go. If you’re anywhere near the time where the DJ begins playing reggae or dance house music set, you have hit the ‘too late time’ and are time to take your ass home already. Don’t overstay unless you either plan on helping the host clean up the mess or having sex with him once everyone else is gone.

Now that you know some rules, relax and have fun with your gay sex party.

 

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