How To Prepare For A Gay Orgy!

Gay Orgy Planning

If you have been dreaming of participating in group sex with lots of pleasure, entertainment and fun, then you should consider attending the next gay sex party. This is not a new concept as it has been in existence for years and most men not only enjoy participating in group sex but feel surges of pleasure watching other men have a good time.  It is a fantasy like no other that has been streamlined today with gay exchange programs that make it possibly for any gay person in the world to feel at home wherever he travels.

If you are considering hosting a gay orgy, you must realize that it is a lot of work to hold a successful sex party gay. Be prepared to sift through so many hot pics and sending out the invite to the right persons who will add value to the whole party and at the same time ensure that all guests enjoy themselves. Although some parties are spontaneous, the best ones are staged complete with a guest list, chronological flow of events and even some rules that all guests have to stick to for a successful bash.

Earlier, getting the word out that you are planning to throw a gay party used to be tricky, understanding that there were only but a few gay magazines around. Today, thanks to the internet, this should be the easiest part of the preparation. With social media, you can post on any gay group on Facebook and in a few hours get so many confirmations to kickoff your preparations. Note that you have to be specific in your invites so that the right persons are invited to the right party. Make it clear what you are looking for; if you need only persons interested in group sex, state it so. You can post your ad on Craig lists, Yahoo Classified, gay blogs, among others.

If you want huge gay project turnout, you need to be able to accommodate them all. Some private parties insist on a photo with every confirmation. Even though doing this might knockout some potential great guests, you will only get the best for the right party that you’re after. Ensure that you get comprehensive and accurate descriptions from the guests and what they will be expecting from the party, in fact, make it known that you will not hesitate to throw out anyone who shows with inaccurate description. It is a sex gay party and not a church conference.

You should balance the guests well so that they blend well based on their desires and expectations from the party and their ages. You should also be able to provide a bunch of differently sized condoms (hey, you never know) or if guests prefer their own brand then they should be encouraged to bring them. If you can, find some racial and ethnic blend as well to bring out the diversity. Pulling this one off can be a bit tricky unless you reside in a really diversified city, otherwise, don’t bother. If you are keen in ensuring that you get the best from a gay exchange program with its many members, don’t disclose the venue on the initial communication and only provide a general location or suburb to ensure guests know where they are roughly headed to. This will bar any gate crushers from spoiling your party and only send the location out on the specific day.

You should provide a bag so that each guest can place their normal clothes in there so no one clothes or item’s get mixed together. You can also ask guests to wear different types of clothing to show what type of sex they’ll like or what they prefer sexually so that people are connect with likewise people. For example, you can ask people who like being bottoms to wear orange hats or people who like oral play to wear pink necklaces.  On the invitation you can also suggest item’s they will need for the party like the type of lubrication, what type of condoms, how many people are going and what themed party it is. If there are any rules for this party you can also include them on the invitation.

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How to Plan a Gay Sex Party

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Being gay comes with lots of enjoyment and a few challenges. The world is still skeptical about this sexual orientation, but who cares. Sexual satisfaction is not one of those desires that can be satisfied through hours of debates. Everyone deserves a piece of happiness and therefore, if the least of worries is to think of what other people think then you’re doing pretty damn well. You should also grab the first opportunity and attend a gay sex party in your town. Such parties are happening all over but their success depends on how well they are planned. Here are some tips to help you plan a great party.

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To begin with, make it clear if it is invite only, confirmation only or it is a party for all to come. The gay community is very welcoming and therefore would be delighted to attend your party, but you obviously may not want to throw an open sex party gay unless you have a stadium or obscenely large house to accommodate everyone. Go through the list of possible guests and send them invites. You should consider two important things here; what the guest will bring to the party and what you are offering. Your sexual satisfactions and desires versus your guests. This is a very important fact because you really don’t want to end up with guests who really don’t add value and the only thing they can offer is their sexual orientation – potential sexual activity aside, you really want to enjoy their company and have a good time. Inviting people you don’t connect with is a sure fire way to have it all end in a dud party. This is actually not a difficult feat to achieve, thanks to the many gay exchange programs available today.

With your guest list ready, you should fix a date that will suit everyone. It goes without mentioning that weekends and holidays are the best days to throw any gay sex party. You can have it for a day where your guests will come and have a crazy day of fun and sexual pleasure or make it a weekend long affair, with a day set aside for an outdoor adventure like a beach party or something like that.

Consider the venue for the party. Is your house big enough to accommodate all the guests invited or do you have to find an alternative like a hotel or a holiday house or something like that. I had friends whom owned a vineyard up in Orange in Western NSW and it made for a great weekend party of relaxation and fun. Depending on your neighborhood, you may really not want people screaming from your compound as some petty neighbors are likely to express their discomfort with the disturbance. If you have no idea about venues, find out from other people especially on gay exchange programs around. There is possibly a restaurant or a hall that you can hire for a day or two.

You might also want to consider the décor. If you have a monet painting sitting in the lounge room that you don’t want ruined, perhaps you should consider replacing it for the party. Same goes with white carpets. You should consider the potential damage to your home and belongings as well as any venues that you may hire for the night or weekend. This is a common thing that people forget and especially with gay sex parties – you might need to provide some condoms and lubricant for that particularly amorous couple that just can’t help themselves. I assure you, it happens. Consider putting little signs

Finally, work on the other logistics like the drinks and music. What is a sex party gay without booze and pumping music anyway? Are you going to have it catered, or are you cooking? Or are you simply going to buy a bunch of pizzas and have them delivered. Whatever you choose it is certainly something that needs to be considered and echo the tone of the type of party you want to achieve. Establishing a classy atmosphere in a black tie event may not particularly go down well with pizza. If you can have deejay in-house, good for you or you may have to hire one. If you are having it at home, do you have a nice music system? If not, you might want to hire one plus a deejay. If it will be held at your poolside, you don’t have to worry about very powerful system. Buy a mixture of different types and brands of alcohol and enjoy your gay sex party! Or better yet, have everyone BYO especially if you’re the one providing the food for everyone and only offer ‘house’ spirits and wines.

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My First Gay Experience

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It seems strange to talk about it now — to take something so private and place it in such a public forum — particularly since I have lived my life as a straight man.  Keeping it secret is so important, but when I was younger I did have a Novice Gay Experience!!!  I imagine I must have been about sixteen, and had worked out that I was gay. Dwayne was nearly fifteen — we went to school together, although he was in a different year. We met at a at a school function.

He was everything that I didn’t feel I could me: confident, athletic, attractive and openly gay. I had been introverted, shy and in complete denial to my sexual preferences as I still am now … it was an upper class all-boys’ school and being gay was not really an option for me. I tried to keep out of everyone’s way, that way now would notice me and no-one would question what I was about. No one knew, but my reticence and retiring nature were apparently as worthy of derision.

Dwayne, I guess because he was younger than I was, didn’t have any of these preconceptions, hang-ups or false pretenses.  When he was around I felt more confident. He treated me like a human being and it was fun and completely liberating to be around him.  I was vulnerable and desperate for some form of affirmation that my true feeling were not bad. It was inevitable that I should fall for him.

The next year there was a school trip to Holland, and we both went.  There I developed a major crush on him and he showed me by his actions that he was interested in me. I still see him in my mind now and feel an astonishing fondness for him.  I didn’t really think it would happen but — even as I have become entirely comfortable with him on the holiday and our form of ‘gay dating’ that was soon to become more.  First we started exploring Amsterdam, walking along the lovely canals – we even took a boat trip in one of the glass roofed boats.  It was fun, invigorating – a new way of life was opening up.

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At first we continued with the pretense that we were just two guy exploring a lovely Dutch city but it was obvious that a closeness and bond was developing between us.  The accidental brush each others hands that seemed to linger a few more seconds than normal.  The electricity that we felt when we were near each other.  The sun seemed to shine brighter on those spring mornings, the birds sang more clearly.  It was obvious to us both that we were not just good friend but we were falling in love.

I was a shy gay man wanting to pick up. I wasn’t sociable, and I found meeting people difficult. Yet, I was still young and very horny. What did I have to lose, and I was still horny. In a relationship, I had no idea what to expect, what were the rules or what would happen. We hired a hotel room together. I sat on a couch next to him. Then a hand rubbed my crotch, and before I could blink there was fumbling at my jeans and my raging hard on was in his mouth. Exhilarating. For a few seconds I couldn’t care about my hang ups. His mouth was so soft, warm and wet and he flicked his tongue around with practiced ease. I wanted this guy. My cock wanted this guy.

Sensing my discomfort, he grabbed my hand and led me away from the bench We both lied down and I began to stroker his hard on from his shorts. I couldn’t drop to my knees fast enough. My hands started caressing a surprisingly thick cock before I wrapped my hungry mouth around it. A slight moan escaped both of us and he lent against the tree as I went to town, leaving no skin dry and UN-licked. Hands sliding up against firm muscles and I tweaked his nipples for some nipple play. He turned on the TV and turned it to a channel to watch some hot gay porn movies. I was really enjoying my first time at the beat, and all I could think at the time was satisfying my urge and why I was so naive as to have not done this sooner but now I am a mature gay.

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