Sex Furniture is an Investment in Your Relationship

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Did you know that three out of four Americans own dildos? Having a sex toy in your bedside table isn’t that uncommon, but what about your end table BEING  sex toy? Sex furniture is another growing trend that most people don’t consider or talk about, probably because they think sex furniture has to be an oversized bondage table complete with shackles and restraints. Wrong! (Although those can be a lot of fun too!) A lot of today’s modern sex furniture actually doubles as regular accent pieces like couches, benches, or ottomans. Another fact most people don’t realize is that you can also purchase sex pillows, ramps, and other smaller items that you can easily tuck away and out of sight. 


So what’s the purpose of sex furniture, anyway? Is it reserved for just the kinkiest most sexually adventurous couples? What are the benefits of using these unconventional pieces and where do you start when it comes to shopping? We’re here to answer all of your questions and more. 


Grab your eye for design and desire and let’s get started!


The Benefits of Sex Furniture


Sex furniture, also known as intimate or erotic furniture, is designed to help couples fulfill specific fantasies, hold more difficult sex positions for longer (and more comfortably), and enhance the overall sexual experience. Some people lack the flexibility, strength, or endurance to hold certain sex positions for long periods of time. Sex furniture can make this easier. If your partner has a certain fantasy they’ve been dying to try, a little support can help make their naughtiest desires a reality. 


The best part about sex furniture is that most of it is designed to resemble everyday decor. You can fill that empty space in the corner of your bedroom while also filling up your partner! Speaking of, sex furniture also helps you achieve deeper penetration, more intense orgasms, and have a more intimate experience. You and your partner can achieve levels of pleasure you weren’t able to in the past. 


Types of Sex Furniture from Mild to Wild


Not all sex furniture is created equal. Intimate pieces range in style, size, and price. Whether you’re looking for something small and discreet or something to really elevate your sex game (and your bodies), there are countless options to choose from.


Here’s a quick guide on some basic pieces and other, more advanced selections.




If you’re simply looking for a little leverage, a sex pillow or wedge is the perfect option. This is also a good erotic item for beginners. Pillows, wedges, and ramps help tilt your body in the perfect position for deeper penetration, oral sex, and G-spot play. You can wedge these pillows under your hips, butt, or wherever else they fit comfortably to give your partner the right angle for your pleasure. It also prevents either of you from getting tired or getting a cramp during a hot and steamy sex session. 


Shower Handle


Did someone say shower sex? Countless couples take their fun into the shower, and why not? It’s slippery, sexy, and wet! But sometimes, achieving the right position while standing under a cascade of running water can be, well, tricky! That’s where a shower handle and grip comes in handy. The ironic part is, some people invest in these little gadgets simply to help them safely enter and exit the shower. But it’s way more fun to use a shower handle to achieve and hold the perfect sex position. This handle grips to the shower walls and give you something sturdy to hold onto while your partner is driving it home.


Sex Swings


Sex swings are a classic piece of sex equipment featured in countless movies and TV series. Don’t be fooled into thinking they’re only for acrobats and gymnasts. In fact, sex swings are pretty versatile and user-friendly for even those new to the world of sex furniture. Sex swings are commonly hung from the door, bed, or ceiling to help you elevate your partner and your pleasure. Sex swings offer easy access and the ability to achieve weightless positions with minimal effort. 


Sex Chair


Now we’re getting into the actual pieces of furniture that double as sex toys and home decor. Sex chairs give you the perfect place to prop up your partner for pleasure. Many are equipped with specially designed curves and handles for added support and sturdiness. Designed to appear like modern, contemporary furniture, these chairs are guaranteed to become the center of attention at your next cocktail party. Some chairs even have footrests and handles, putting complete control in the hands of the rider. Unique designs are geared toward oral sex, missionary, and even doggy style. Most sex furniture pieces are also made of easy to clean material so you won’t have to explain any mysterious stains to dinner guests. 


Sex Couch/Bench


If a chair just not big enough to fulfill all of your naughty fantasies, you might want to invest in a chair, bench, or chaise lounge. These are probably the most popular pieces of sex furniture thanks to their gorgeous design, versatility, and size. Many sex couches are large enough for both partners to mount but are designed like a sleek piece of contemporary furniture. Curved with your pleasure in mind, these erotic furniture items help your body bend at just the right angle for deep penetration. Experimenting with G-spot or P-spot stimulation? With a few adjustments, you can achieve the perfect position for exploring these hidden erogenous zones. The best part is, many of these couches and chaises are beautifully designed and made of quality material that will last you for years to come (pun intended). 


Coffee Table


There’s something naughty and erotic about the thought of your guests sifting through magazines or enjoying a cocktail at a coffee table that doubles as a sex slave cage. Are you and your partner into kinky BDSM play? Designed to look like an artistic coffee table complete with bars, this sex furniture item is the perfect prop for those who practice the dominant-submissive relationship. By day, this table is perfect for doing work or eating lunch. By night, it’s your sex slave’s new home for both torture and pleasure. 




Similar to a coffee table, sex stools are smaller pieces of erotic furniture that serve multiple purposes. Designed with two, stretchy strips of fabric in the center, sex stools give you added leverage and bounce in the riding position. Let’s face it, straddling your partner for an extended period of time can quickly turn from a pleasurable experience to an unanticipated exercise session. Sex stools take the pressure off your legs and glutes by offering added support. They also put a spring in your step (or should we say, ride?). With an opening between the two straps, your partner’s member will easily slip through and into you. These stools are also perfect for anyone suffering from an injury or pregnant women who need help propping their bodies up for long periods of time. 




From bondage crosses to dungeon furniture, sex tables are not for the faint of heart. These items can’t really be left in your living room unless your friends are all as kinky and adventurous as you. Most people keep their sex tables tucked away for private use. Dungeon furniture ranges from stationary tables with handcuffs and restraints built-in to an adjustable table complete with holes for your nipples, genitals, and mouth. Strap your partner in face-up or face-down for hours of torture and fun! Some tables collapse for easy storage under your bed or in your closet, but all allow you to display your partner’s irresistible body in the perfect position for teasing and pleasing.


Sex Furniture Deepens Your Connection… and Penetration


Whether you’re simply looking to spice things up, deepen your connection with your partner, or fulfill your wildest fantasies, sex furniture can help you get there. Ranging in styles and designs that take you from wild to mild, these erotic items are just one more addition to your collection of sex toys and goodies! The biggest issue you’ll face is upgrading your goodie drawer to a goodie closet. 

How to get out of your sexual rut and be the deviant you used to be!

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Have you ever hit a stage in your sex life where you do the same thing over and over again? Have you ever asked yourself is there more to just missionary, doggy and cowgirl? Can I really last longer than 5 minutes? and actually be excited for sex instead of using the “I’m tired” line? Majority of people don’t like to acknowledge that they are in a sexual rut. Defined in the dictionary as “a habit or pattern of behaviour that has become dull and unproductive but is hard to change” a rut in your sex life can be very detrimental to your overall being, your relationship and your health. Don’t worry, I’m going to give you a few strategies to break down your rut and get you back on track to being the sexual deviant that you and your partner deserve you to be.

When you finish my 30 day sexual challenge, you’ll go from “Babe, not tonight I’m tired” to being able to execute a 4 minute quickie while you have the kids downstairs in front of the tv listening to Baby Shark Do Do Do on repeat, whilst the washing machine about to start beeping because your 30 min quick rinse is done and the roast in the oven is 3 minutes away from belonging on masterchef to being relocated to the bin.

Now, this isn’t a get rich quick scheme. You have to use these strategies for a month before you quit on me and go back to your rut. If you don’t quit on me, then say thanks by just passing this article on in your email chain, whatsapp group or at the local bbq with your friends.


Kiss your partner and then do 20 to 50 push ups and 20 to 50 squats.. Break them down to 4-5 sets. So your doing at least 6-10 per set. Why the fuck am I doing push ups and squats? Giving you that burst of energy in the morning will set your tone for the day and give you more energy you need. It will also shock your body and get you in the habit of doing things straight away. Working your legs also boosts your testosterone levels.

DRINK 6 bottles (be smart, buy a reusable bottle, use your savings for lingerie or sex toys) a day. Water is used to keep you hydrated which also keeps your energy levels higher and also helps boost your libido.


Sit them down and explain to them that you feel like you guys are in a bit of a sexual rut and you want to actively (Key word thats why I made it bold) work on improving the pleasure for the both of you. If you feel like she isn’t being an effective sexual tango partner, explain to her honestly and opening how you feel and work on ways that you both can improve.

The art of the SPONTANEOUS QUICKY is like jump starting cables to get your batteries charged. Want to charge the batteries? Have a quickie or a hot make out session with your partner. Make sure you do this at least once per week. Consistency is key so don’t think you can skip a week and be like no I will do 2 next week. NO. Every week, at least once.


Let her know how sexy you find her. Let her know that she is what Cleopatra was to Mark Anthony. Even supermodels have insecurities. So build her up. Let her know that what she sees as an insecurity, is actually a turn on for you. She doesn’t like her stretch marks? Well you tell her that tigers are one of the most exotic creatures in the jungle.


Your thoughts become your actions. The more you tell yourself that you are a sexual deviant the more likely you will become one. You have George Cloony swarve with Hugh Hefner sex drive. Repeat to yourself daily: I am full of energy. I love having an active and healthy sex life. I love making love to my partner. Say this 5 times per day and watch your world change in front of your eyes.


into the bedroom! Some people freak out and think that by introducing sex toys, you go out and by a 10inch dildo and scare the living day lights out of your partner. Go online and make sure you read the descriptions of the toys. It’s a marathon, not a sprint so make sure you start small. Boys, don’t freak out either, she won’t replace you. Start off with a cock ring or a little cliteral vibe and some massage oil. Once you guys have had your fun and are more open to exploring and using toys, build your collection with more premium toys such as Lelo, We-Vibe, The Rabbit Company, Womanizer and more!

Follow these 7 steps for the next 30 days and you will find a significant improvement to your sexual rut if you have one by the end of the month that is. Remember, the grass isn’t greener on the other side, it is greener where you water it so make the effort to improve your sex life daily. Go get them tiger.


AJ is a consultant at the Adult Lifestyle Center.  Talk to him about your adult needs.

Pick a Mattress to Suit Your Sex Life

You know how it goes. You meet that person. Maybe you take them out, or you pick them up at a bar. Wherever you find them, you meet them and you just know: this works. Pretty soon you both know it. You’re into them, they’re into you, one thing leads to another and…oh wait.


You don’t bring people home right now. Your bed…it just doesn’t work for sex. It’s too lumpy or too smelly or you sink into it and so things always get awkward. So you go to their place, or maybe you get a room. You make it work. But, still, it’d be really nice to be able to take them back to your place.

Factors to Consider

If your current mattress doesn’t work well for sex, there are a few things you should consider when figuring out what is wrong with it and what you’d like to see in bed made for those intimate moments.


  • The Bounce Factor. Bouncy mattresses have a rebound effect, which helps couples maintain a consistent rhythm and so can enhance the sexual experience. Bounce is usually in opposition to motion isolation, which aims to reduce the effects of motion across the surface of the mattress.

  • Responsiveness. A responsive mattress adjusts to your body’s movements quickly, always providing support and stability. Less responsive mattresses will adjust slower and you may feel like you are gradually sinking into them, slowly changing position as you do so.

  • Noise. Some people like mattresses that squeak with every thrust, but most people prefer a quieter bed for sex. Anything with metal parts inside, like springs and coils, runs more of a risk of being noisy than beds made solely from foam or latex.

  • How it Conforms. Some mattresses conform to your body as you lie on them. Depending on the person, this can enhance or diminish sexual pleasure. The opposite of a bed that conforms is one that is smooth or even slick. This can make it difficult to find a consistent rhythm during sex.

  • Temperature. A mattress can retain quite a bit of heat from your body. This can make sex quite uncomfortable, especially if you both end up overheating. Since sexual encounters generate a lot of heat, it’s important that your mattress is temperature neutral and doesn’t absorb that heat into itself.


In addition to these factors that specifically pertain to sex, you should also consider a mattress’ price, how comfortable it is for you and your partner, how durable it is, and how other customers have reviewed or rated it. Take all of these things into consideration to make sure you get the best mattress for sexual activity and for sleep.

Mattress Types and Sex

The best mattress for you and your partner to have sex on will depend on two people: you and your partner. Different beds work better for different couples, depending on their sexual preferences and personal choices.


The best way to know if a mattress will work for you is to try it out. Many companies now allow you to return the mattress and get your money back within a certain number of days. That means you can buy a mattress, sleep on it, have sex on it, and still get a refund if it doesn’t work. Here are some of the most popular types of mattresses and the pros and cons of each of them, when it comes to sex.

Innerspring Mattresses

These beds have comfort layers made up of polyfoam, memory foam, or other materials. These layers surround coiled springs, which provide structure for the mattress. They are what most people think of first when they think of a mattress.


  • These mattresses are among the most bouncy available.

  • Innerspring mattresses are highly responsive.

  • These beds do not retain body heat very much, if at all.

  • Innerspring beds tend to cost less than other types of beds.


  • Innerspring mattresses can be noisier than other beds. While you may notice this less with a new mattress, over time the bed can get louder.

  • Some innerspring beds are less comfortable than other mattresses. Since you need to sleep on the bed to, this is an important consideration.

Latex Mattresses

Latex can be extracted from rubber trees or produced synthetically. To make a mattress, it is then mixed with other agents to create a soft, pliable surface for sleeping. Latex mattresses may contain layers of other materials, like memory foam or polyfoam.


  • These beds are very, very quiet, even silent.

  • Latex mattresses conform to your body easily, often relieving pressure points otherwise aggravated during sexual activity.


  • Latex offers very little in the way of bounce.

  • Latex is slightly more responsive than most memory foam beds, but is not responsive at all when compared to innerspring or hybrid mattresses.

  • Latex may get too warm for some people.

  • Latex mattresses usually have an above-average cost.


Foam beds are made from polyfoam or memory foam. They may come with special infusions, like gel or copper, in the foam, too. They are designed to conform to and support your body while you sleep.


  • Foam beds are nearly silent.

  • Foam will give your body the support it needs, alleviating places that are painful during sex.

  • Foam beds can be relatively inexpensive.


  • Foam beds are not bouncy.

  • Foam offers little in the way of responsiveness.

  • Foam retains more heat than other types of mattresses.


Other options for mattresses include hybrid beds (a blend of innerspring and foam and/or latex), airbeds, and water beds. However, the ones listed here are the most common types of beds you’ll run into when you go mattress shopping. Remember to try a bed before you buy it, and to let your partner try it, too!


The best sex mattress

You don’t have to be afraid to bring her home anymore! When you have a new mattress that’s great for both sex and sleeping, you’ll feel confident that she’ll be comfortable all night long.


Up Your Sex Game with Frequent Masturbation

Masturbating Man

Modern-day Australian men are masturbating more than ever before according to a survey conducted by popular online sex toy brand, Lovehoney. It was also established that as many as 21% of men masturbate with a sex toy at least once a week.  Being called a wanker is hardly the insult it used to be especially considering the numerous benefits regular masturbation has, especially as far as boosting your sex life is concerned. By becoming more familiar with the nitty-gritty details of wanking, you will not only be more inclined to polish your pole more regularly but you will also be privy to a whole host of interesting and exciting benefits.

Benefits of masturbation

If you have ever felt even remotely guilty about cranking your shank, don’t.  Frequent masturbation is far more beneficial than anyone has ever imagined. Not only is yanking on the old chain a great stress reliever but it has also been revealed by sex toy brand Tenga that men who masturbate weekly are 10% more confident in their own sexual abilities.  Research further found that men who masturbate more than twice a week are also as much as 12% happier with the intensity of their orgasms.  If these statistics don’t impress you, maybe the fact that no one can fall pregnant or contract a STD from masturbation will. You also don’t need to make awkward late-night trips to the pharmacy or department store for a packet of condoms if the only action you are getting is from your own hand.  Masturbation will always help you relax, make you sleep better and encourage you to be more experimental in the bedroom.

How much masturbation is too much?

If you see yourself as just a ‘regular guy’ chances are you have asked yourself more than once whether you masturbate too much. While pulling wire for 8 hours a day can leave you in severe physical discomfort and may also be severely frowned upon (and illegal) if engaged in publicly, there is no rulebook that determines how often you are allowed to masturbate. As long as your frequent spanking of the monkey does not affect your life adversely in any way, you should be good to go. If you do, however, start noticing that you are staying away from work and withdrawing from your family and friends because of your new-found hobby it is probably best that you put the lube and porn videos away and try to find a real-life sex partner instead.

How to make the most of your masturbation

Masturbation has evolved tremendously over the last few decades.  Long gone are the days where a quick early-morning session in your room or bathroom with a crumpled up Playboy magazine was the norm.  Today, thanks to a plethora of sex movies, books, toys and general loss of inhibitions, men are masturbating more often (and more vigorously) than ever before. Fleshlights, lubes, shower strokers and ball suckers are all the rage right now and can turn any mediocre wanking session into a mind-blowing, self-sexing session.  What you think about while masturbating can also contribute greatly to the overall intensity of your orgasm. According to an article published in Cosmopolitan magazine, 69% of Aussie blokes fantasize about their current partner. A whopping 58% of men also admitted to periodically thinking about an ex while masturbating. In third place, with 57% of men listing it as a wanking inspiration, is good old porn.

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What to avoid during masturbation

It comes highly recommended that you refrain from engaging in any dubious masturbation practices that involve toothpaste, heat rub, superglue or freshly-baked apple pie as you will more than likely end up in the ER with very hard-to-explain injuries. It is generally also not a good idea to masturbate in public, at work and at home with other people in the same room. If you still live with your parents you should also avoid wanking on their marital bed as being caught in the act might cause you to be disowned, regardless of how old you are. If you are suddenly overcome with a bout of horneyniss while in an unsuitable domicile, you should try imagining yourself in a rather unfortunate sexual position with a very undesirable partner. Nothing kills the urge to orgasm quite as fast as picturing your best friend’s grandmother in full BDSM kit.

Whether you are a frequent wanker or an occasional one, chances are you could benefit from a few extra masturbating sessions a week. Next time you are online searching for some quality porn order a few sex toys while you add it, put your lube in the fridge and prepare yourself for more frequent self-sexing that will lower your blood pressure, improve your sleep and boost your sex game significantly.

Gentleman’s Guide: Sex On The First Date

Sex on a first date

To many guys, sex on a first date seems like it will only happen with a big amount of luck. And all because they don’t know how to seduce girls, and occasional success is just a matter of chance. However, there’s the good news: you can easily make your companion want sex on the first date. You just need to approach this process more consciously.

You probably don’t even suspect that there are several critical moments your success depends on. And knowing how to act in these moments and a small change of behavior can completely change the course of seduction from long (and annoying) courtship to sex in a couple of seconds. Use these 4 rules to seduce beautiful women.

When you don’t need to put in any effort

Sometimes it happens that you go on a date and see that the girl actively supporting your desire to drag her into bed by touching and hugging you or showing other signs that she’s interested in you. Such moments scare the hell out of some guys, so they start acting incorrectly.

Even a small interest at the beginning of the first date can lead to sex. All you need is to take advantage of this and be more active and decisive. Just imagine that this girl is your old friend. If she’s interested in you, then she’ll easily accept (and support) your courtship. This approach will work.

Seize the moment

Let’s say you got caught in the rain, and it happens so that you’re not far from your home. You should take advantage of the moment and invite her to your place for a cup of tea. For example, the same thing works if it’s already too late, and you’re a couple of minutes away from your home.

Let’s say you asked her out on a date in the evening, she wanted to go home early, but you persuaded her to stay, promising to call her a cab. Keep the promise. But before making a call, say “Let’s go to my place! It may take a while until the cab arrives, so why wait for it outside?” That’s what we call “taking advantage of the moment”. If you manage to get into a similar situation and use it (and such situations happen pretty often – you just need to spot them), then it will be easier to get sex on a first date.

“3 in 1”

For some reason, most guys are guided by the principle of “one date – one place”. Usually, after spending a few hours in a café or restaurant, they take girls for a short walk, and that’s all. Here’s how you can make a few adjustments to your plan and get her into your bed. If you visit more than one spot with her during the date, both of you will have a feeling that you already had a few dates. After all, the main barrier that prevents a girl from agreeing to sex on a first date is a lack of trust.

When you visit several places at once, she’ll begin to perceive you as someone she knows well. It’s better to take her to at least three different spots. But you can make it “4 in 1” or “5 in 1” if you want. It all depends on what kind of places you take her to, and how tired both of you become in all of them.

Try to make it so that the next place contrasts with the previous one. For example, if you were engaged in something active in the first one, than the second spot should be relaxing, and so on. And the last place should be near your house (plan ahead).

Keep a conversation going and listen to her carefully

To establish an emotional connection with the girl, show her your true self, tell interesting stories with a smile on your face. Let her know that you’re a cheerful person. Thus, you strengthen confidence, and the more she trusts you, the more she will open to you in return. In the end, this leads to a feeling of deep connection, which makes your companion more liberated in your company.

Every time the girl tells you something about herself, you must remain silent and listen. If you’ve never been particularly interested in the thoughts of women, with whom you went on a date before, then you’ve missed a lot. If you like this girl, she’ll help you seduce her. She’ll give you a couple of tips you can use to make her want to have sex with you.

Why sex on a first date is so important

So what is the reason for such a rush? Why not wait? After all, there’s still so much time ahead. The fact is that sexual desire, as well as any food product, has a shelf life, which is pretty short. It’s like a carton of milk: if you don’t drink it in time, the milk will turn sour, and you’ll have to throw it away. Aside from that, women usually treat men according to 1 of 3 categories that they will fit into:

  • Lover
  • Sponsor
  • Friend

And, as a rule, the longer the process of seduction lasts, the less chance you have to get into the first category, and the higher the risk of ending up in the third one.

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Bottom line

No matter whom you’re dating – nuns, MILFs, or Russian girls for marriage – these tips will work. Remember the main thing: even if you fail to make your companion want to have sex with you, there’s no reason to give up. With experience, you’ll learn to feel what exactly you must do or say to achieve what you want. Just act more decisively and quickly – your determination to succeed will increase your chances dramatically. Most importantly, always bring a condom with you so that you are always covered!

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