Making Love The Right Way!

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Love making is a process and not just an activity. Even wild animals take time to prepare for sex and humans have to as well. Foreplay is no longer about fondling each other and kissing. It now entails a wide variety of activities, thanks to the introduction of various adult toys. Women and men with lots of experience in sex agree that the best sexual encounters are characterized by a long and physical foreplay. The mind and the body have to be prepared; it is a journey whose destination is multiple wild orgasms due to increased enjoyment and sexual satisfaction. Unlike common belief, you don’t have to wait for your partner to start foreplay. Technically, you can start preparing yourself for sex long before your partner makes it to the door.

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First Base – A respectable starting point:

Concentrate on making out. With tongue. A study distributed in the diary Neuro Endocrinology Letters found that couples are more satisfied and less disturbed in the wake of kissing, and the warm, up close and personal contact supports fringe flowing proteins in the body that enhance general well being and prosperity.  Begin by planting a shut lip kiss on him as you rectify his tie or neckline. Delicately pull on his base lip with your teeth before presenting your tongue. Trace your tongue around the bends of his lips, giving careful consideration to the dainty skin at the corners.

Second Base – A respectable halfway point:

Clasping hands on your approach to supper is charming and all, yet copping a vibe in the auto before you stroll in? That is hot. Touch is vital all through a relationship, not simply at the outset when you’re adapting each other’s bodies. Couples who stroke their accomplice’s body encounter an expansion in suggestive emotions and general conjugal fulfillment.

So  you and your man are feeling somewhat lively in an isolated corner of a bar, a dim motion picture theater, or the back of a taxi, don’t stop each other’s hands far from investigating underneath your shirt or over his jeans. Even better, channel your immaturity by getting off with your garments still on: Rub up against each other at a show or on a dance floor. Simply be slower and more considerate with your movements, so you can maintain a strategic distance from that clumsy, now and again fumbling attempts at foreplay you did as a young person.

Third Base – Almost there:

Once you’re in the privacy of your own room, you may have gotten into the propensity for hurrying through this base which incorporates any hand or oral activities. It’s a disgrace, considering that both men and ladies in the long term relationships wish foreplay would last more than 18 minutes all out.   After requesting that he close his eyes, wet your hands with lube and use them to stroke his balls while you perform oral sex. The blend of your smooth hands and mouth will give him the impression of two mouths on him rather than one and will most likely send him over the edge. After that have him go on top of you between your legs and roll the sides of his tongue together so it frames a tube.  Get him to slide his tongue all through you while squeezing his lips into you with a specific end goal to make wet suction beginning gradually and after that increasing the pace. Attempt a  whole heap of  third-base foreplay acts this way and you’ll both will probably achieve a very monumental sex session.

Home Base:

More often than not, you’re going to go the distance. Sex that has had this fore play is not the same as a let’s-get-bare and-do-it fast in and out—particularly if you, or your partner, have already climaxed. If that is the situation, it brings in a whole new ball-game as you are both still horny but have climaxed so bring in the big guns.  A bit of stimulating ointment or some sex toys and get ready for orgasm number two.

Relax during this process and it is imperative that you concentrate on the objective but take it easy otherwise you may psych yourself out. Control your breathing with the goal that it’s moderate and gentle, and convey to each other about what spots are the hot ones, or which moves feel simply right. By and large, consider returning to the basics if it becomes uncomfortable.

Why Not Add Some Spice?

In fact, if you are female, you can purchase the best female condoms which should be inserted eight hours before sex. Add a little spice in your relationship on your own before your partner makes a jubilant entry to the bedroom. Men can always find something from an adult store to set the mood. You may love a decorative cock ring. The ring, which cannot actually be used during sex, may just turn your partner on, and by the time you start romping it away, she will be wet, yearning for a really hot sexual activity. It is how we dress and act that makes our partners want to know more about what lies underneath and by the time you get to that bit, the table will be set, the food is served and ready to be eaten to your fill.

Undressing alone can complement foreplay.

Find an appealing lingerie and costume that your partner would love to watch you take off; go for simple but sexy. Kissing is a usual foreplay activity, oral sex and cuddling. You can find gags and blinds from the bdsm shops online at very affordable prices and surprise each other. Nothing beats total submission when it comes to sex and it is highly recommended. Is there a foreplay procedure, like a manual men and women should follow? Experts don’t think so. It is just how you let things fall in place. So long as you don’t rush to the main course before the appetizer, then all is well. What most sexual partners should be worried about is how to attain maximum sexual satisfaction, go for what you are ok with.

Sex is a very enjoyable activity. During foreplay, stimulate the sensitive parts, like the clits, nipples, oral sex or use a wide variety of adult toysr. This means that you should equip yourself with at least two toys of your choice. Finally, before you get busy, don’t forget the condom-you can find all types, shapes, sizes and flavors to spice things up.

19 Tips to Rekindle Your Sexual Spark

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The internet is full of challenges and dares and all sorts of different things to make life interesting. Indeed, it seems that every few months a new challenge comes out daring us to do something crazy and upload it online. I was watching an old episode of Desperate Housewives the other day, and the challenge between Lynette and Tom Scarvo is that they have sex every day for a month. The point of something like this is to develop intimacy within the relationship between the two individuals involved. Below you’ll find a list of various sex challenges and fun sex ideas. Cross them off the list, and see how you go!


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  1. Hop together under a hot shower with the lights off. Soap each other up in the most sensual way possible.  Use a loofah to create some suds, if you’re after a truly sensual time – go out and buy some body wash in a scent that arouses you both.  There’s few things hotter than shower sex, and especially if noise is an issue, just swap it from a sensual encounter to a quickie!
  2. Have sex in utter silence. Use only facial expressions to communicate with each other. Something like this is perfect to use adult toys during foreplay: female vibrator and maybe even a male masturbator and neither of you are allowed to verbally say anything. Say it with the body. Agree on a punishment for the one who breaks the silence such as a household chore. Or you could be truly seductive and whoever breaks the rules must give the other partner a pleasurable massage.
  3. Spice up the missionary position by handcuffing your hands above your head, adding a blindfold and wrapping your feet around his ankles, taking him closer as he penetrates you. Release your sense of control and ride the waves of pleasure without inhibitions.
  4. Make love lying on your side. Your partner can penetrate you deeply, while playing with your breasts/cock/nipples at the same time, and brush your butt against him. This is excitement and pleasure for both of your bodies as you both anticipate the movements against each other.
  5. Sit in your partners without any clothes on you…except boots/stockings/jockstrap. You are not allowed to touch yourself, only to work your partner and rely on them to pleasure you. Some may feel that this is a little one sided, and perhaps it is, however it’s about exploring your partners body and learning which ways to pleasure them and bring them to the precipice of climax.
  6. Perfect oral sex technique: pretend that his penis is an ice-cream that is melting fast. You have to lick him from different angles, catching drops that drip, lick him and take him whole in your mouth – it’s a great way to practice the gag reflex as well. Add some flavoured lubricant for some extra flavour, or you can even use some desensitizing flavoured gel if you’re still having trouble. Alternatively, use the same technique for cunnilingus.
  7. When in a position where you are on top, hold your partners hands above their head and gently bite down on the skin between the elbow and armpit. This will surely awaken their passion!
  8. Here’s a small collection of fun sex ideas, try leaning on a wall while he is entering you from behind – add to it, by not taking off your lingerie or by only wearing a skirt. There is a reason why this position is so often used in porn dvds and in erotic magazines.
  9. Lie naked next to your partner, brush your breasts on him and encourage him to tell you all his dirty desires. Give him sex a toy bought in one of the best adult stores online and tell him to use it on you as he wishes.
  10. Show him sexy underwear bought from a lingerie store. Tell him to slowly take it off you, kissing and stroking every inch of your body while undressing.
  11. Oil your palms and fingers with lubricant. Then firmly wrap your fingers around his penis and move them up and down, or in the case of a female use your fingers to stimulate them either with sensual caressing, or rough fingering. Obviously dependent on both of your moods.
  12. For the Girls – show him that you don’t wear panties by taking his hand and putting it under your skirt without a single word. For the boys, either use a jock strap or put your partners hand wordlessly on your hard dick. Obviously, use manners and decorum for either of these scenarios. There’s a difference between being seductive and being a selfish partner.
  13. Let your partner lie over you and enter from behind. Then put your legs together so they are between his. This is the perfect position for deep G-spot and P-spot stimulation.
  14. While you are driving somewhere, get off the road and find some lone spot where you can have sex in your car. It will be even more exciting if you can hear traffic, because it will feel like someone can see you at any moment.
  15. Buy something in an adult novelty store and write your partner instructions on how they will use it on you.
  16. Point a hairdryer towards your partner while stroking him with ice cubes. Because of warm air the touch of ice on skin will be extra-cold, and when you put your lips on his body, he will suddenly experience a sudden rush of passion.
  17. Order him to stay still while doing it doggie style, whilst you slowly circle with your hips. Just because you’re on the bottom doesn’t mean you’re not in charge.
  18. While you are on top during sex, hold each other hands. This will be an amazing way to exchange the incredible sexual energy that is circulating in your bodies.
  19. Introduce sex toys into your bedroom