7 Ways to Make Public Sex Fun

The feeling of getting caught in the act is a cause of great arousal for many people. There are many scenarios in life which can be made far more exciting by including sex or the use of sex toys in public areas and activities.  When I get couples who come in wanting to spice up their sex life, I often see them reaching typically for toys they can only use in the bedroom OR that they are intending to only use in the bedroom. I love to point out to people toys that can be used discreetly in public places like when out on date night, out shopping or even when at work.

I’ve listed below some of my favourite ‘discreet in use’ sex toys for making public sex fun. But most importantly, sex toys you can use whilst doing other things. So why not spice up date night or doing the house work? The ideas are intended to inspire people to think outside of the box and take their sexual desires outside of the bedroom!

1. Remote Control Sex Toys: Remote control sex toys are a great way to take play outside of the bedroom. Anything that is remote control automatically becomes a public sex game. For example, How high can they turn it up without you going insane? Below is a list of my favourite remote control sex toys for making public sex fun.
   1. We Vibe: is the perfect discreet toy to wear outside in the open… It is designed for comfortable wear and can be worn for long periods of time. Not only does it have a remote but it has a phone app which can control the toy from anywhere in the world.
   2. Luv ‘n’ Fun: Luv ‘n’ Fun kegel exercisers are vibrating and come with remotes. Whilst they don’t have an app, the remote is super good and can change the functions on the toy for up to 100m away – which is pretty damn good!
   3. LELO has many toys designed to be worn discreetly, including the IDA and Tiani which are of similar shape to the We Vibe.
2. Cock Rings: Cock rings are a great way for guys to experience sexual vibrating sensations in public discreetly also. Many males enjoy vibrations, so why miss out on all the fun and grab a vibrating cock ring to take out to dinner!
3. Kegel Exercisers: Not only are they great for your pelvic floor, many women find them stimulating. Most kegel exercisers do not vibrate and only rely on the ball itself to stimulate – making them incredibly discreet! So go out for the day wearing your kegel exerciers for some of the most mischievous exercise you’ve ever done in public.
4. Stimulating Gel: Stimulating gel is another great way to discreetly stimulate yourself in public. My favourite is the Wildfire IT cooling gel. Pop this on in a bathroom or before you leave the house and within minutes you’ll be quivering, and not from the cold!
5. Butt Plugs: Butt plugs are a great way for both men and women to discreetly wear sex toys out in public. Butt plugs can be vibrating or non vibrating and are extremely arousing to a lot of people. The right shaped plug could have you right on the verge of orgasm for hours… Though, bear in mind, the anus isn’t self lubricating so lube should be reapplied every 30 minutes or so for ultimate comfort.
6. Nipple Clamps: Nipple clamps are a great way to start your own dirty little secret! Again, both vibrating and non vibrating and a super discreet way to stimulate the nipples for making public sex fun.
7. Strap on Harnesses and Packing: Packing or wearing a harness with a flexible dildo is a great way to continue your strap on play outside of the bedroom. Why not wear your strap on underneath your jeans and surprise your partner by pulling them into a bathroom or secluded area with your favourite dildo?!