The Single Life

Singles Today
Young, free and single! Yes they are the days when you thank god you are single with no responsibilities or dramas to deal with each day but deep down everyone wants that partner to spend there time with. There is just some things in life that being single limits you to or just isn’t quite the same without that another half. Sex was always one of my main problems with being single. I had mentally drilled into myself that sex was about two or more people and only having a partner was the only way i could have they types of pleasures especially in that department.
How wrong i was!!
Yes you do miss out on the little things like the cuddles, the kisses and the holding hands down the road with them by your side. However i have now been single for around 6 months and for me instead of feeling sorry for myself and going out on the hunt for mister right i have used this time to discover and explore myself with my hands or even what sex toys that i can use to satisfy myself solo. I feel its my time for being selfish and figure out how to pleasure myself before i can allow someone else to join in. 
A lot of  people i have found recently have this fear of actually exploring there own bodies. Its like they feel a shamed or guilty for being able to make yourself achieve an orgasm. The problem is if they could just shake off that feeling and come out there comfort zones they would realize how empowering and exciting it can be. There is no better feeling of release when you can finally give yourself your first orgasm its such an explosion of satisfaction. Don’t get me wrong for some people especially women it can take a lot of practice and figuring out what area or areas can give you an orgasm and ejaculate. How can you make your other half make you reach your climax if you yourself are unsure how to. Its all about failing and learning. Not everyone is the same so this is why its important on figuring out what works best for you and don’t be to hard on yourself if you don’t find it start away.
Another problem that came up for listening around were couples in a relationship not being open with each other or wanting to hurt there other half feelings by explaining to one another on what works for them in the bedroom. Sex together should always be about trust, honesty and feeling comfortable enough to open up.  Did you know that 60% of women don’t climax during sex. Most will cover this up by not speaking up about what pleasures them or they just do the simple thing of faking an orgasm hoping this pleases there partners. This sadly can lead to a boring and unsatisfying sex life and lets be serious no one ever wants that. Maybe sit down one night and speak about what each others willing to try and also what limits they are. Having limits is never a bad thing it just gives you a boundary and this will also add to the trust between one another.
Going to a sex shop and finding out information was a massive help for me. It also opened my eyes up to being able to masturbate solo and also how the toys could be changed into a couples toy later down the track. Doing a bit of research online also opened my eyes up to what type of styles could work for me and my body. It also showed me that am not alone with certain problems i thought i having but was actually a very common problem. Most  women experience  orgasm through stimulating their clitorises rather than penetrating their vaginas. Its harder for a women’s g spot to played with while sex so most women prefer having oral sex. 
With males it can be a lot easier to orgasm through both intercourse and oral. But what some don’t actually know is that a males g spot (or also called p spot) is up there anus at there prostate. The problem with this especially with heterosexual men that they get so put of the idea due to feeling a bit gay, which in my eyes is a horrible way to look at it. Studies have shown that prostate stimulation can make a males orgasm up to 33% more intense, which means a lot of you are missing out. Another amazing fact about stimulating your prostate is that it can reduce the risk of prostate cancer. So use tell me whats gay about that!!
Its time for everyone to start exploring solo or with a partner and stop being so afraid of trying new things. Its time to see what new adventures you can figure out about you or your partners bodies that you never new could be possible.  


doc johnson

Following on from our strap-on guide, this post looks at the Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock strap-on system and some of the great features and accessories available with it. As their website puts it, Vac-U-Lock is a “patented harness and plug system (which) revolutionized strap-on play, offering fully adjustable harnesses built for comfort and superior control coupled with a proprietary plug designed to hold insertable toys perfectly in position and allow for endless custom options.”


What makes Vac-U-Lock different than other strap-on arrangements? That would be the patented plug with the two notches. There is only one plug size, and any of the Vac-U-Lock dildos will fit directly to this, without the need for an o-ring. No matter the girth or size (see below).

The plug is snapped into place via the four poppers, making it a cinch to get ready for play and even easier to remove to clean. All the while, you can be assured that your dildo will be securely fastened for all your playtime.

But how is it fastened? Simply, there is an opening in the bottom of every Vac-U-Lock compatible dildo. When the dildo is pulled onto the plug, a vacuum is created (ah, that’s where the name comes from!) between the two, holding the dildo fast, with the added security of the two notches on the plug.


The range of attachments for the Vac-U-Lock system will never leave you wanting. From realistic UR3 dildos, to g-spot curved, to the gorgeous American Pop! range, there is truly something for everyone.

If you like thinks a little kinkier or hardcore, there’s a 10” squirter called the Drencher, from the Doc’s collaboration with Half of the American Bombshell range is also Vac-U-Lock compatible, even the massive Block Buster, which is only 12.5”. In girth!

As for the harnesses available, again there is a lot of choice. Each are fitted with the four internal poppers to readily click the plug into place. Offering plenty of styles, ranging from open crotch g-string to jock strap style and other variants with a broader back for extra confidence and more reinforcement for some of the larger toys you may wish to play with.

There are gender specific harnesses, to allow for those that need to fit their meat and veg inside, as well as unisex options. Make sure when purchasing you’re getting yourself the right one. The Platinum range of harnesses can not only take the standard plug, but also can take a range of o-rings so you can fit any other, non Vac-U-Lock compatible dildos.

Vac-U-Lock also have a range of complete starter kits, featuring a harness, an assortment of dildos, a regular 4 popper plug and a suction cup plug. Each pack also has enough consumables to get you started: water based lube, toy cleaner and renewing powder.

Doc Johnson’s Vac-U-Powder is used to assist inserting your dildo onto the plug. Simply squirt a little of the powder into the hole in the base of your attachment before fixing it to the plug.

The powder can also be used as a renewing powder for any of the UR3 dildos in Doc’s range, which also means you can use another branded powder if you can’t find the Doc’s, such as the Fleshlight Renewing Powder.


The peeps at Doc Johnson wanted to make sure you knew just how versatile their Vac-U-Lock system is. Their accessories are inventive, to say the least. From their advanced, positionable suction cup, to the ball gag with a plug at one end of the ball, Knuckle Up (think knuckle busters, with a plug on the end), a wand head attachment, the E-Z Rider Ball (an inflatable ‘exercise’ ball with a plug built into it) and even an (off brand) alloy plug attachment to fit to a Caesar Sex Machine!

Simply put, if ease of use, simplicity to clean, and a near endless variety of play is what you are after, Doc Johnson’s Vac-U-Lock is a fantastic place to start. Or it’s a great place to progress towards for those with a bit more experience that are looking to up their game into the Doc’s world of possibilities.

No more fiddling around trying to stretch an o-ring over a dildo, buzz killing the mood within the first (of no doubt multiple) minute of doing so.


Pop, lock, and play.




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We-Vibe Touch
The Liberator is the perfect addition to the bedroom for multiple reasons. To get into the perfect position and for added flexibility. This product not only makes these things easier, but it also opens up new positions and the perfect angles to hit the g-spot\p-spot.


Liberator creates sex pillows and props to make your bedroom experiences more tailored to suit your comfortability or to completely change up the way you have sex. The most popular Liberator products being the Wedge and the Ramp, which a lot of people like to combine. Liberator gives you the option of pairing any of their products together to get the best-tailored experience for you.  You are in charge of these products and can use your imagination to create the most perfect set up for you.


Liberator uses a high-density polyurethane so that they are firm enough to hold you up, but are also soft enough to be comfortable. They are also paired with a polyester removable liner and a microfibre cover which can be easily removed and washed. The cover being made from microfibre makes them a lot softer and also helps them to cling to each other if you are using two products together ( such as the ramp and the wedge). This material clings and creates a kind of friction between each other to stop the products from slipping apart during use.


Definitely not! There are countless options with liberator, you can get wedges with hand\ankle cuffs attached. You can also get pillows with holders for your toys such as the Wanda Magic Wand Mount, The Fleshlight Top Dog or the Tula Toy Mount to name a few.
People have also raved about it is great for people with muscle issues, back pain, etc. as it helps to get in a more structured position and help your posture. With the fantastic reviews, and countless ways to use these products it makes them worth every cent.


I have never been so excited to write a review, and it definitely surprised me! Introducing the We-vibe touch ‘The ultimate clitoral vibe’. After using a wand and feeling the intense vibration from it, I didn’t think I would be freaking out over a small clitoral toy…but here we are.
I always like to start with basic info on the product, so hear me out on the basics first. The Touch is a small clitoral vibe, contoured to hug your clitoris just right. Laying the contoured tip flat is not your only option, however, I think we all know that people use toys in a million different ways but my favorite way to use the touch is with the tapered part at the very tip for a more pinpoint experience.
The touch, just like other we-vibe toys are made from a medical grade silicone but the moment I first picked up the touch I noticed that it felt 10x softer than any other we-vibe toy. This toy truly feels incredible in your hands, but along with the contoured tip, it also has contoured edges to fit perfectly in your hand.
The touch is 100% waterproof which, to be honest, can really make a toy for me. The option to play pretty much anywhere makes for some exciting experiences.
The Touch uses an eco-friendly, carbon-neutral rechargeable battery and also comes in recyclable packaging. So no matter your lifestyle, this toy should be yours. With only a 90 minute recharge you get a full 2 hours of play! I also appreciate that the Touch has a low power alert.
Now, the best part… the vibrations! The Touches vibrations strongly mimic that of the Tango in the best way possible. The problem with a lot of soft silicone vibrators is that the silicone muffles the strength of the vibration, but I’m very happy to say that this is not the case with the Touch. The touch delivers deep, rumbly vibrations right at the surface level.
The Touch comes with 8 settings; 4 steady vibration settings with different intensities, and 4 different vibration patterns.
This definitely my new favorite clit toy, however, no toy is perfect and I have a job to tell you the downfalls as well as the successes.
The Touch only has 1 button to control everything, and remember I said it has 8 settings. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone to kick it up a notch forgetting which vibration intensity is on, and it goes back to the first vibration setting. quite frustrating, but I’ve found it very quick to forgive with the Touch.
It only comes in a very dark purple. It’s not necessarily an ugly purple but its not my favorite. We-Vibe needs to explore some more colors.
The toy is very sleek and the packaging it comes in is nice and sophisticated, but the ‘satin’ carry bag doesn’t match the classy feel of the rest of it. It’s crunchy? almost like there’s a sleeve of paper inside.
Regardless of the small things I hope will improve, this is by far my favorite clitoral vibe. Sorry to the rest of my toys but I’ve found my current obsession.

Doxy 3 Bodywand

Doxy Bodywand
Doxy is well known for their wands which are a strong competitor for the OG Hitachi Magic Wand. Today I’m going to talk about the Doxy massager, Doxy Die Cast and the doxy Number 3.
The Original Doxy massager that retails for $275 is made from a PVC head and plastic body that comes in black, white, pink or purple. This claims to be the worlds most powerful mains operated massager wand, which I definitely agreed with until they released the Die Cast. They started off great with a VERY deep and rumbly vibration that increases in intensity.
This is not for anyone who is sensitive in the clitoral area, wands are made to cover more surface area than your regular vibrator and are designed to be much less pinpoint. My only complaint about the Doxy and the Die Cast is the size, we know that wands are obviously going to be bigger than other vibes but these wands measure a huge 13 inches long. Although it is quite light, the size can make it sometime difficult to hold.
The Doxy Die Cast, retailing for $390 is very similar to the original. In my opinion, I think its a hair stronger in its vibrations, not much but there is definitely a difference. the Die Cast is made from a silicone head and a polished aluminium\titanium alloy body. The Die Cast also measures at 13 inches, so the added weight from the body can be a disadvantage. Although it looks great it can be a pain to hold. But I’m not kidding when I say I’ve never felt a vibration like this. I know that I like deep and rumbly vibrations but this is next level. if you like hard and fast this is the toy for you. for me personally, I find it very easy to get off with the lower settings and no other toy has granted that.
All of the Doxy wands come with 3 button controls, and on\off button, + button and a – button. one of my favorite thongs is how easy it is to find the buttons while using it because they are HUGE. there’s nothing worse than trying to turn your toy up a level and having to fiddle for the buttons or worse, accidentally lowering the settings or turning it off.
 Doxy decided to change it up a bit creating the Doxy Number 3. Retailing for $325 they finally made a smaller wand. Not a lot smaller but hey anything is better. The Number 3 measures at 11 inches with a removable silicone head and an aluminium\titanium alloy body just like the Die Cast. All of the Doxy wands are corded but they are very generous with their cords so it doesn’t really phase me. Number three includes a cord length of 3m.
I was very excited to see a lighter, smaller version but was actually quite disappointed when trying. I found the vibrations were buzzy and the head of the wand was rock hard and uncomfortable compared to the Doxy and Die Casts nice squishy heads. I also found Number 3 to be a lot more concentrated than the others, which in my opinion I didn’t like. It still has quite a large head but it felt a lot more pinpoint.
I absolutely love Doxy as a brand and everything that they’ve done, but the no. 3 just wasn’t for me. But ill never turn my back on my Doxy massager and Die Cast.

Oh Zone Penrith

penrith oh zone

Hi, I came into Ohzone Penrith the other day and wanted to write a review as the service I received and the product range was an absolute delight. I have been to the store once but that was many, many years ago now and it has changed vastly.

I was sent to the store by my wife, as she was too embarrassed to come in, I tried my hardest to get her to come but unfortunately it was a no go. She didn’t have an exact idea of what she wanted but we have quite a few toys so I knew the style that she enjoys. It’s always hard to buy for someone else but due to the incredibly helpful staff it was an absolute breeze for me. As soon as I walked through the door I was greeted and as I hadn’t been in the store before the woman gave me a tour of the sections and all the products they had.

I explained to the staff the types of toys and styles that my wife enjoys and the woman was able to pick out quite a few toys that she thought would be a good fit, we both put gloves on and had a fiddle around with all the toys and I’m glad I did as we’ve previously only purchased our toys online and some of them weren’t as powerful as we were expecting, so to be able to feel the vibrations in my hand whilstan extremely knowledgeable staff member talked me through all the different functions and different ways to use the toys as well as the different types of lubes that would help enhance pleasure was very helpful and I knew I would be able to bring home a toy that was perfect for my wife due to all the help I received.

The store itself is very clean and tidy, all of the products are organised in sections and it is very easy to find anything you’re after (especially when you’re given the store tour), there is such a wide range of products the only problem was trying to choose what I wanted. I parked out the front along high street but that was pure luck as someone was pulling out just as I was driving to go to the stores rear parking.

I quickly found out Zippay and Afterpay were available in the store which made me want to purchase a toy for myself as well, again the woman was extremely helpful and showed me all sorts of male toys. I was most interested in the strokers as I had never really had one before, I brought a few up to the front counter to see which one was best in her opinion. We went through the ones I brought up however she also showed me a vibrating stroker that was up behind the counter and walked me through the functions and motors and after holding it for myself I was sold as it was an incredible product and I was so happy that I had her help otherwise I wouldn’t of known and just got one I thought looked nice but wasn’t of the same calibre.

All in all my experience was wonderful and I’ll definitely be back for more and my wife will be forced to come with me next time so she can have the same experience as I did and see for herself that there is no need to be embarrassed as the staff are extremely professional and very helpful.


This is a customer review received by the Oh Zone Store.  We are happy to publish it as many of their consultants write articles for this blog.