What REALLY Happens At Sexpo!

Sexpo sydney backstage

I worked at Sexpo over the weekend supporting Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Boutique Centres. I was quite excited to attend, and it was amazing fun working with colleagues and getting out there. I absolutely love events and festivals like this as it gives us an opportunity to promote a sex positive vibe to a lot of people that wouldn’t necessarily feel comfortable walking into an adult store. These festivals and events are also important in making people comfortable with sex and sexuality, and opening the way for people to think about their bedrooms and relationships.

However, one of the things that I repeatedly noticed about the event, was simply the lack of information on sex, sex toys and alternative lifestyles that many people had. Our stand focused on steel and kink toys and to be fair, kink and fetish adult toys are often misunderstood – but there were some things that were said that were so far off the mark that it was a wonder that they made it through the door! So if you came to visit us, or if you passed by the stand at Sexpo and were a little confused, I have written an article that kind of summarises some of the things that repeatedly came up over the weekend.

Chastity is not about trust

One of Oh Zone’s exclusive fetish brands is Hell’s Couture, and they have a large amount of chastity and chastity play gear. Having only recently becoming involved in chastity myself, I’m not only very excited to talk about chastity (that damn honeymoon stage), but I’m also quick to point out corrections that need to be made. Sure, we might joke that chastity is about trust, and that’s perfectly okay, and for some there are elements of trust involved. Chastity however, at its core, is about power and control. By locking up the very thing that makes a male a man, his dick, and then preventing him from using that when he wants you are essentially controlling his masculinity, agency and him. Think about it, ever since he discovered that he could tug himself off and achieve orgasm with relative ease, he’s been doing that. Now, you lock him up and tell him that he can’t, add to that the idea that he has to please you and he might get released… and you’ll quickly find it’s a fun power play. We have numerous articles on chastity throughout this website, including how to measure up for a cock ring correctly. correctly. So if you popped on by over the weekend and aren’t sure how to measure up, check out that article.

Don’t yuck someone’s yum

Hell’s Couture has about a thousand different items within the range, at Sexpo we couldn’t take the entire range so we took an assortment of interesting things designed to not only spark up a conversation, but also to educate. Several times over the course of the weekend, people would come on over to our stand, pick something up and be like ‘What the &^%$ is this?” After telling them, they’d drop it like a hot potato and run for the hills screaming bloody murder. I get it, there’s many things in this world that I have hard limits on, but I don’t begrudge other people their kinks. As I was telling a lovely couple over the weekend just starting to explore their fetish and kink desires – you do you. For example, bondage and restraints can mean so many different things to different people. That’s why there are so many different bondage roleplaying ideas. For the couple over in the corner – they might feel that silk restraints, and a lace blindfold is heavy bondage for them. For another couple, silk and lace is just way too soft for them, and they require leather pieces, a ball gag, and some heavy duty rope. They’re still doing the same activity, bondage and restraints, but they’re just engaging it in different ways and that’s perfectly okay – you do you.

Don’t yuck someone’s yum #2

In addition to this we took a variety of medical fetish toys including sounding gear and speculums. Sounding toys aren’t for everyone, for many men the idea of sliding a steel rod down their cock hole is just way too much for them. I’ve tried it. I didn’t find pleasure in it, but would I do it to someone else if they enjoyed it? Absolutely.

Many things in fetish and kink, and indeed the Hell’s Couture range is primarily mind over matter. Steel is aesthetically hard core. It instantly creates a specific mindset, and a particular state of being that is essential to getting into the right scene. Consider the idea of a woman walking into a room in wearing black and red latex gear carrying a whip. That image instantly creates a particular feeling and scene. Now, if she were to come in wearing a pink plaid skirt and a white school shirt, carrying school books then the scene is completely different. In one, she’s clearly being more dominant, and in the other the idea of the school girl as being less dominant.

Sounding is not about pain. Out of the three tables of stock, we only took one item that primarily centred on pain – that being Kali’s Teeth. Sounding toys and gear is about stimulating an area of the body that’s not normally stimulated. It’s described as a reverse ejaculation, that feeling you get as the fluid rushes through the urethra, and that’s pretty much it. You insert the rod, you slide it down, and you either have sex or jerk off with it. It’s not about control, it’s not about trust, and it’s certainly not about pain.

Nothing replaces the human touch

One of our pride and joys that we took to the Sexpo show was one of our sex machines. We had this thrusting away the entire weekend and it not only received many compliments, but it received a lot of photographs and comments. One of the comments that struck out often enough though was the one that simply said ‘Well, you wouldn’t need me then, would you?”. A seemingly innocuous comment but one that certainly needs to be addressed, as myself and colleagues have heard this many times when working in the stores as well. Many people view sex toys as replacements to a sexual partner. They’re not. Sex toys are (mostly) used with the idea to supplement a couple’s pleasure, and to ensure that everyone is having fun. The exception being sex robots which are a completely new category and which we’ll discuss elsewhere. Sex toys work with partners, not against partners. It’s simply about providing a different sense of stimulation. You are still in control of the sex toy, and it’s merely an extension of you and not a replacement.

Respect and inclusivity

One of the most amazing things I saw over the weekend was just how inclusive the event was. There were people in diverse relationships, and numerous people with physical disabilities. What was amazing was this visibility and the idea that everyone can have sex and pleasure. Many times we neglect these groups because we don’t understand them, or we dismiss them as being non-sexual as is the case of what many people do with people with disabilities. Everyone has a need for sex, pleasure and intimacy and it was a truly amazing experience seeing this reflected in the crowd.

Research

Education takes time – it’s really difficult to describe certain scenes, and BDSM toys in the space of 30 seconds, and that’s one of the most disappointing things about shows and festivals like this. You want to intimately describe some of the toys and items, but there’s simply not enough time. For this reason, it’s important, when it comes to kink and fetish, that you do your research. It’s also important to remember that no matter how much research that you do that it’s never going to be the equivalent of doing it. Like we mentioned earlier in this article, you do you and there are times when you may not even use a toy as it was intended, you might use it for completely different reasons which brings us to point 7. . .

Sex toy teamwork

Many of the toys that you may have seen on the kink and fetish table are not stand alone toys. Let’s take for example restraints. Cuffing someone to the bed can be hot. You can have your own way with them, they’re vulnerable and they’re helpless – which is part of the appeal. Now let’s add a blindfold to that. A blindfold is not as effective by itself, but when you team this up with the cuffs, all of a sudden you up the tempo. Not only are they cuffed, but they also can’t see either. Now let’s up the tempo even further with a pair of nipple clamps. Blindfolded, cuffed whilst the nipple are stimulated. You can even up the tempo even further with something like the Wartenberg wheel for some truly sensory fun! When it comes to kink and fetish toys – they work as a team rather than stand-alone items.

It’s clear that more education on sex, kink and fetish is needed. It’s a slow process. We’ve spent the past few decades learning that sex feels good and that we should be talking about not only our own pleasure, but our sexual partner’s pleasure as well. We are unpacking our learning of the idea that sex is for reproduction – and it’s a slow process. By putting sex and the idea of pleasure into the open, we are changing the way that people think and view sex and sexuality, one person at a time. If you had any questions about Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres being at Sexpo, or had any further questions about the products that we had on display – please don’t hesitate to drop into one of stores at Penrith, Caringbah or Kogarah (Kogarah is wheelchair accessible), or drop us a line on our online store. We had a great time at Sexpo and we really hope that you learnt something, as well as had a blast!

Author: Stephen is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Sexpert is our resident full time sex blogger. Having successfully owned and managed a number of blogs relating to women’s lifestyle, she easily blended into her role as chief blogger of the Adultsmart Blog. She is in a long term relationship with her boyfriend. She also runs Good Girl Guide, a sexual lifestyle blog.

5 Self Loving Ways To Warm Up This Winter

Cuddling with a winter lover

Winter is somewhat of a difficult time of year for me. I feel almost selfish discussing this topic knowing that friends in parts of the world such as Sweden and Germany would scoff hearing me complain about 12 degree Celsius days. Nonetheless, once the mercury drops below 20 degrees, I cannot help but turn into a winey, whingey, depressed shadow of a human. So, before I go into a deep dark hole of despair brought on by the cold weather, I feel it is a healthy step to take to focus on the positives of this time of year. Here’s my list of winter pros that I searched high and low to come up with:

Sleep and more specifically sleep next to someone

Sleeping and sleeping next to someone is much more enjoyable in these cold dreary months. Gone are the days of my single life and never have I been more grateful to go to bed with a beautiful man every night as I do now. As you could imagine, sharing your bed with a man in those hot summer months is only good for one thing. Attempting to snuggle and sleep close to one another is a sticky, sweaty nightmare! With the arrival of these cold days, I can’t wait to get close to him if only so my frozen feet defrost. Provided he doesn’t steal the blankets in the middle of the night, winter nights are blissful these days.

Couples sex during winter
Image: Couples sex

More opportunities for sex and intimacy

Times otherwise spent going to the beach and having a beer at the pub are now occupied by snuggling up next to the fire with a glass of red. Romantic right? When the cold draws you away from outdoor activities, see it as an opportunity to get cuddled up in bed, warm up with your favourite sex toys that you haven’t used in a while or whip out the rope with your partner for some bondage next to the fire. Try out some bondage roleplay ideas for the bedroom to. It is sure to heat things up inside and is a sexy way to keep yourself entertained for an afternoon.

Talking about sex and winter
Image: Sex and intimacy

Self-love and inquiry

Winter is a great time to be getting to know yourself by retreating inward. Withdrawing from the world is necessary every once and a while, with quiet time on our own a way of coming back to ourselves. Our busy lifestyles mean that we rarely take an opportunity to check in with ourselves and what matters to us. Winter time is a great time to go inward and give ourselves some much needed tender loving care. Having a bath, getting a massage, journaling, reflecting on our dreams and desires or even just being still are perfect experiences to give ourselves this time of the year.

Better sex with winter food
Image: Winter food

Eating delicious foods

My appetite seems to sky rocket in winter so nourishing myself with warm and scrumptious meals in winter is the ultimate in self-care. My justification of eating a whole heap more in the cold months of the year is that the amount of shivering I do has to burn some extra calories. Am I right?! Some people may see having a larger appetite as a bad thing but I see it as an excuse to stay in and cook myself something incredible to eat. Treat yo’self I say!

Using yoga for better sex
Image: Slowing down with yoga

Slowing the f**k down

Slowing down for me in winter means saying no to social engagements I’m not a hell yes to. It means doing some light stretching or yoga instead of climbing a mountain. Finding a healthy balance for yin and yang energy in my life is important, with winter a very yin time for me. Yin energy is all about the feminine and diving into this can be very healing for the feminine parts of me that I may have neglected in my faster paced, doing masculine energy. We need healthy balance in our lives otherwise our overall health and wellbeing can be affected.

As you may or may not notice, I’m really beginning to dig the bottom of the barrel now for some pros of winter-especially because I’m shivering from the draft and my chocolate has run out. For this reason, the best thing I can come up with for these cold months is to escape!! Winter is a perfect time of year for a tropical getaway to a location where swimming at the beach isn’t a near-death sentence. For years, I did what I could to get myself to Asia or Europe for a holiday just to avoid waking up in a place where my breath can’t be seen fogging out of my mouth and it was fantastic.

Sex in the cold winter seasons
Image: Worldwide winter sex

I’ve almost forgotten what it is like to be in such weather hence my attempts at consoling myself by writing this article. With nothing to do but stick it out, I think I’ll just spend the remainder of winter time snuggled up inside next to the fire, drinking wine, getting tied up and journaling. Doesn’t sound like the worst way to spend two months if you think about it? See you on the other side… who knows you might even buy naughty bondage restraints and ropes this winter!

Author: Stephanie Curtis, Sexologist

Meet the newest member to our team of experts. Stephanie Curtis is a sexologist with a huge capacity to care. Involved in spirituality and tantra her articles are professional, articulate and interesting. Enjoy Steph’s writings at the adultsmart sexual wellness and health blog.

Win A Coco de Mer Emmeline Pleasure Wand – Retails Over $299

Fifty Shades Freed sex toys

Adultsmart has teamed up with Coco de Mer to bring to you this latest giveaway. Win the Coco de Mer Emmeline Pleasure Wand valued at $299! This exclusive sex toy which was featured in the Fifty Shades Freed movie is only available in a select few adult stores but you could win one of your very own if you enter this competition.

What’s prizes are up for grabs?

1 x Coco de Mer Emmeline Pleasure Wand

1 x leather travel and storage case for discretion and hygiene

1 x USB cable for convenient charging

Pleasure wand adult toy collection
Image: Coco de Mer Emmeline Pleasure Wand Display

How do I enter the competition?

Here is a list of the different ways you can enter the competition! Each action, like and share counts as 1 entry into the competition for your chance to BE A WINNER!!!!

Other ways to enter the competition

 

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About Coco de Mer

You have heard of all of the other high end companies like We-Vibe, LELO, Fun Factory and L’Amourose. Coco de Mer is the newest company to be added to this list. What comes to mind when I think of Coco de Mer is luxury, enticement and empowerment. Their products allow people to explore, experiment and fulfil their erotic imagination. In the words of Coco de Mer they:

“believe that sex is a beautiful experience, and as purveyors of sensuality, it both creates and curates irresistible objects and experiences to celebrate mutual pleasure and individual satisfaction.”

The name Coco de Mer originates from the name of an exotic plant. The seedling of the exotic plant looks very similar to the look of the intimate female form. This erotic image is the forefront of their ideology to express and encapsulate female sexuality in everything that they make.

Coco de Mer was established in 2001. Now, with well over 17 years of industry experience under their belt they have expanded their designer products range to include lingerie, bondage gear, latex wear, body products, gifts and now adult toys. They have even collaborated with Pamela Anderson to create her very own product line.

About the Coco de Mer Peasure Collection

Coco de Mer have recently released a line of indulgent adult toys named Pleasure Collection which allows people to explore their exquisite curiosities. Pleasure is redefined with the Coco de Mer Pleasure Collection. The Coco de Mer Peasure Collection includes:

  • Nell a personal massager made for precise pleasure. Nell is also available in opulent gold.
  • Emma a remote controlled vibrating love ball made for controlled delight
  • George a cock ring made for entwined ecstasy
  • Emmeline a straight vibrator made for liberated desire
  • Georgiana a G-spot vibrator made for majestic satisfaction
  • Catherine vibrating Kegel balls made for enhanced passion

About the Coco de Mer Emmeline Pleasure Wand

Sexual liberation has never felt sweeter with the enchantress Emmeline. When it comes to Coco de Mer, everything is in the name. Emmeline is named after Emmeline Pankhurst who was a leader in the British suffragette movement and is one of the most important people of the 21st century. She is an important political historical figure in civil rights as she helped women win the right to vote. Time magazine said:

“she shaped an idea of women for our time; she shook society into a new pattern from which there could be no going back.”

Pleasure wand sex toy set
Image: Coco de Mer Emmeline Pleasure Wand Set

Coco de Mer Emmeline Pleasure Wand lets women embrace their bodies in a pleasure. Emmeline is a straight vibrator with a generously bulbous tip used for pinpoint G-spot stimulation and as a couple’s personal massager to stimulate different erogenous zones like the clitoris and the nipples. She features gently rounded edges for easy insertion and a shaft with a long handle for a good grip. The middle of the adult toy thins out for comfort during use.

Coco de Mer Emmeline is made with a luxurious feeling silicone in the colour brown. The silicone works amazingly with a water-based personal lubricant leaving the material feeling silky soft. The material does not disrupt the vibrations that permeate deeply throughout the whole body of the adult toy.

There are 5 vibration patterns to choose from and the intensity level can easily be adjusted in the heat of the moment. The handle has three raised buttons with indentations that mark what the buttons are for. This allows for easy use in the dark. Weighing at just .464 kg the adult toy can be used without getting tired for long periods of time for the ultimate experience.

It just takes 60 minutes to charge and offers 90 minutes of continuous stimulation. Coco de Mer Emmeline is waterproof which makes washing up a breeze with some warm water and antibacterial soap or adult toy cleaner. Bring Emmeline with you on your travels as she is fully lockable and will not accidently turn on in transit. Read our test and review of the Coco de Mer Emmeline Pleasure Wand for more information.

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Coco de Mer special gift offer
Image: Coco de Mer Promotion

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Sexpert is our resident full time sex blogger. Having successfully owned and managed a number of blogs relating to women’s lifestyle, she easily blended into her role as chief blogger of the Adultsmart Blog. She is in a long term relationship with her boyfriend. She also runs Good Girl Guide, a sexual lifestyle blog.

Lighting Up My Lagging Libido With Keto

Eggplants having sex

The past few years I have gone through a few emotional and confidence rollercoasters, and this year has also come with its own challenges. I have never been a big girl, more along to the lines of curvy/chubby, and confidence tends to be a struggle of mine, as I see myself and am worried that I am bigger than I actually am. As well as this I also recently withheld from sex for almost a year which was cleansing at first but nearing the end it actually reduced my sex drive considerably.

I am unsure of when I crossed the line that sex became scary again, like it was something I had never done before, but I feel as though I am in fact doing things and experiencing things for the very first time again. This could be due to my confidence and a new partner or the fact it’s been such a long time. I decided to look at both aspects and how they work with each other and if diet does affect libido, I have never eaten badly although working shift work has had me consuming more carbs than I normally would. I have always struggled with my sleep, it takes me hours to actually fall asleep and when I do I constantly wake up, sleeping tablets for me are not an option I don’t want to fall back into the cycle of prescription medication if I can help it. Another hurdle is my depression and anxiety constantly rearing its ugly and consuming head, I thought there has to be a better option than just medication that makes you numb.

So, after some research I have come up with a plan of attack to knock out all my worries with one solution I plan to lose weight, sleep better, have a happier mind, and increase my sex drive! I have decided to look at my health, lifestyle, body and mind, and so I am discovering the world of ketosis!

Eating healthy for better sex
Image: Food for better sex

Transitioning your diet from carbs to fat is a game changer if all the reviews are true to their word, but will a ketogenic diet cause my sex drive to plummet or is it the ultimate secret to a better sex life? I want to focus on how life choices with diet, exercise, sleep and confidence impact libido. For me this will be the start of a 30-day journey

First things first I want to explain how dietary fat and sex hormones are connected, it’s surprising to learn that there is even a connection between the two, now here’s something to rock your world, high fat diets lead to an increase in estrogen! A small study found a significant difference in the estrogen levels in women who ate a low-fat diet compared to women who had higher fat diets.  Low levels of estrogen can lead to a lower sex drive and some symptoms such as vaginal dryness and interferences in both your sleep and your mood.

Already I am excited for the next 30 days and I haven’t even started yet!

A little background into the world of hormones and just how they work particularly estradiol and testosterone. The main job of estradiol is to develop the female sex hormone but it’s also has a key role in fat distribution and sexual desire. Who would have guessed that the hormone in charge of our sexual desires was also the one that helps us move fat around our body? As for testosterone although typically seen as a male hormone it is just as important in females, as it helps to produce estrogen, it also impacts the libido. As we females age our hormones have a natural decrease so the last thing we want to do is add to that decrease with the diets we put our bodies through by going low fat instead of low carb!

Did you know that high fat diets can improve testosterone in men! Drops in testosterone can lead to low sex drive and erectile dysfunction as well as a drop-in energy, muscles and hair loss! Some men can also gain weight specifically in the chest area which leads to gynecomastia commonly known as “man boobs”.

All this proves that the fat you eat actually makes a difference in your sex hormones and libido. However, I’m not saying to pick up your closest donut or deep-fried treats those are trans fats and they too can reduce sex drive in both men and women. Trans fats can cause abnormal sperm production in men and women may have trouble with gestation.

Its monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fats that you want to focus on that can improve your sex drive, help you to lose weight and also make your mind happier.

My aim in this journey is to concentrate on my confidence and sex drive. The extra weight I will lose will be a bonus! When you look good you feel good!

When you’re a close fit and a little snugger, this not only causes insecurities on the inside but also affects your sexual confidence in the bedroom and you’re less likely to be in the mood especially when you have to bare it all.

Keto is a high healthy fat, moderate protein and low carb diet that tackles all the issues in one go. Losing weight is only the start of the journey. Keto will help improve your hormone’s natural balance and increase your sex drive which your partner will be thanking their lucky stars for because your confidence in the bedroom will sky rocket!

Food for a better sex drive

Food is your best friend with the keto diet and these 11 health foods will help boost your sex drive for men and women!

Keto diet for sexual arousal
Image: Keto diet
  • Blackberries
  • Blueberries
  • Broccoli
  • Dark chocolate (as close to 100% cacao to be low carb)
  • Eggs
  • Pumpkin seeds
  • Salmon
  • Sardines
  • Spinach
  • Steak
  • Tuna

Food that negatively impacts the sex drive

If you’re wondering about the foods that cause your sex drive to decline, then these are the foods to avoid or limit.

  • Dairy
  • Processed foods
  • Sugary drinks
  • High carb food especially food that has been fried

Do you want to improve your sex drive?

Well, what are you waiting for! Come on this journey with me! If you’re new to the keto way of life you will need to give your sex drive some time. But by reducing your alcohol consumption, increasing your healthy fat intake by adding those 11 libido-boosting foods that I mentioned before into your meals and also lowing your carb intake you will be on the path for orgasmic results! The initial stages are always the hardest but keep in your mind the advantages of the end goal to push you through, so don’t kiss your sex drive and confidence goodbye put a little kick in your step and start your keto journey! I’ll be back soon with my results! There is also a wide range of adult products for better sex to help in the mean time!

Morgan x

Author: Morgan is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Although relatively young Morgan has lived a life filled with experiences that have made her grow as a person. She has completed and is a product and interior designer who is a strong believer in equality between sexes and speaks out against violence. Working in the adult industry has allowed her to grow as a person and come out of her emotional and sexual shell.

1 Effortless Tip For Womanizing Oral That’s InsideOut

Orgasm is a human right hashtag

I have always wanted to try a Womanizer oral sex toy! With their recent launch of the #orgasmisahumanright hashtag campaign taking over Instagram, I was even more interested to try out their latest product the Womanizer InsideOut which is a combination of an oral stimulator and a G-spot vibrator.

When I received my Womanizer InsideOut, I saw the plain packaging which I noted was very discreet. I opened the package up to find the sleek Womanizer InsideOut box. It’s a really classy box so it would be perfect to store the InsideOut for some extra protection. If you don’t want to use the box, it comes with a deluxe silky storage bag that is connected to a clip on black and gold tassel keychain. I really love this, as I own a lot of sex toys and this keychain sets it apart from all of the other ones in my collection which is great because I don’t want to spend any time fumbling around looking for it.

Sex toy packaging with storage bag and keychain
Image: Opening the Womanizer InsideOut packaging

I pulled out my Womanizer InsideOut to find that there are two head pieces. After doing some research online, I found out that there are different head pieces for different body types. I thought this was genius as using a product especially an adult toy for the first time, you don’t want to order a complete product expecting it to work only to find out that you need to buy additional pieces. I placed my Womanizer InsideOut on recharge and went about my daily routine. Charging took a standard 2 hours and the battery life lasts for 2 hours as well which I feel is a really good turn around in this day and age of modern technology.

After the 2 hour charge, my Womanizer InsideOut was ready to go. I got out my favourite water-based lubricant and placed it on my side table just in case I needed it. The first step in using the Womanizer InsideOut for me was placing the G-spot vibrator directly on my clitoris. It deeply rumbled the vibrations through my clit and I was very pleased. Within 1 minute, I was ready for insertion. I got a really firm grip on the handle for some manual play which is just what I needed before it was fully inserted. I used the handle to move it in a “come hither” action which felt too good to be true.

Sex toy for oral and G-spot stimulation
Image: Holding the Womanizer InsideOut

The shaft has a gorgeous curve to it, so I placed it fully inside and it automatically found my G-spot. This is a big YES for me. Most sex toys I have previously used have a bulbous shaft which disturbs the gradual orgasmic build-up especially if you are just not ready for that type of stimulation. I was really happy to find that this shaft didn’t have that bulbous tip.  Finally, something that works with my body and doesn’t hinder the build up – Thank you Womanizer!!!! Plus, this is great especially when I want to change things up in the bedroom.

Now, the clitoral stimulator was hovering above my clitoris. The suction power was overwhelming at first. My back arched and I could feel the pleasure and warmth run through every part of my body. I had to remove it for a couple of seconds so I could get my head around the feeling. I was just using the Womanizer InsideOut on the lowest setting. When I first thought of using an oral sex toy for clitoral stimulation alongside a G-spot vibrator, I was incredibly worried that I would feel overly stimulated but I was completely wrong. There are different settings that you can use so it can work your body out as much as you choose to let it. The feeling of the suction is just what I thought it would be… it is AMAZING. In a couple of minutes I was ready to turn the intensity up. Hallelujah, the Pleasure Air Technology that this Womanizer uses is really something else! I orgasmed in under 5 minutes which made me really happy!

In conclusion, the black and gold sexy look is everything to me. It is ABSOLUTELY gorgeous. I find myself reaching for it every single night that I want to orgasm. The orgasm I experienced from using it was big and overwhelming. Especially alongside that feeling of warmth that surges through my body. Move over guys, Womanizer InsideOut makes my world go around and around and around every single time I use it! It is also pretty light, so I never tire out. So the next time my boyfriend experiences whiplash from oral, I have my Womanizer InsideOut ready to go. The Womanizer InsideOut is a knock out oral sex toy and I am glad it is now in my sex toy collection. I highly recommend it for anyone wanting oral and G-spot stimulation. Who ever knew you could have both at the exact same time?

Sex toy with Pleasure Air Technology
Image: Womanizer InsideOut on bed

Womanizer InsideOut technical details

  • Material: ABS with silicone skin
  • Material stimulation head: Hypoallergenic medical silicone
  • Color: Black and gold
  • Size: 192 x 120 mm
  • Weight: 240 g
  • Intensity levels: 12
  • Whisper mode: Yes
  • Battery life: 2 hours
  • Charging time: 2 hours

What are other bloggers saying about the Womanizer InsideOut?

“2018 is really raising the bar for sex toys. The Womanizer InsideOut is without doubt the best air pulse type toy I’ve tried. The added sensation of the G Spot stimulation really lifts the InsideOut above the other devices like this on the market.” Candy Snatch Reviews, 5th April 2018

“I really, really loved the Womanizer InsideOut. It’s stylish to look at, waterproof, silicone and USB rechargeable. I found it the most pleasurable of all the toys of this type I have tried so far. Bottom line: if you’d like a bit of internal stimulation with some fantastic clitoral stimulation, the Womanizer InsideOut could be your new favourite toy.” Miss Jezebella, 16th February 2018

“With the InsideOut I get strong stimulation exactly where I want it, and I only have to use one hand. If I keep my drawers on and try to lie still I can play hands-free. I’ve given myself so many orgasms with this thing and it’s almost funny how effortless they’ve been. God, I love it.” Scandarella, 21st March 2018

About Womanizer

When it comes to choosing to buy a sexual wellness product, choosing the right product can also mean choosing to purchase a product from the right company that has your needs in mind. Womanizer products are made with every different type of woman in mind. They understand that every woman is equal and they are all equally precious. Their products help people enjoy being themselves, making you come first. Womanizer products are designed ergonomically for different body types with an emphasise towards people not changing for the products that they choose but instead the products having the ability to adapt to the body that it is being used on. Their revolution is making orgasms for women a standard. Their slogan is:

“Discover the revolutionary sex toy”

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Sexpert is our resident full time sex blogger. Having successfully owned and managed a number of blogs relating to women’s lifestyle, she easily blended into her role as chief blogger of the Adultsmart Blog. She is in a long term relationship with her boyfriend. She also runs Good Girl Guide, a sexual lifestyle blog.