My Melting Moments With Japanese Drip Candles

Candle Wax On Womens Shoulder

Many of us know that candles in the bedroom can add a sense of ambience, especially when in the throes of passion. Some people in the BDSM community add another level to this by using candles and their wax in a different way, by using specially made candles for dripping onto our skin. Wax is used as part of sensation and temperature play, it stimulates the senses with different colours, scents, heat, and touch, wherein the wax can be used in sensory focused activities to stimulate the senses.

I went on the hunt for a new set of play candles recently. I decided against the tapered paraffin table candles (way too hot) already in my extensive candle collection and finding the soy wax candles I had were pleasant and warm on the skin but not painful. Painful was what I was after, not that bad kind of pain where you burn your hand cooking but the exciting, and thrilling kind of pain you get from a proper wax play candle. I was after something professional between the two.

About Doc Johnson Japanese Drip Candles

​I found Doc Johnsons Japanese Drip Candle 3 pack, in it, you get 1 tapered candle in each of the 3 colours red, black and purple, a perfect colour combination for creating some beautiful wax artwork on a partner’s body or on yourself.

Dripping Wax From Candle
Photo: Doc Johnson Japanese Drip Candles

​Buying my candles and getting them home I read the back of the packet “Perfect for pleasure and pain”, “warning for experienced players only” these candles are exactly what I wanted, I couldn’t wait to try them out on a partner. Of course they sat in my room full of BDSM toys and equipment a good few months before I had a bunch of kinky friends over for drinks, suddenly I remembered them sitting in my drawer unused. Among my friends were some very keen kinksters whose hands shot up in excitement when I suggested we have a wax play session before we down too many drinks.

Side note: My rule is if I’ve had too many drinks to legally drive my car I’m too intoxicated to play. This was early in the night and we were still on our first round of drinks. This also goes for obtaining other people’s consent. I especially advise against play with fire and or wax while intoxicated.

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My Experience With The Doc Johnson Japanese Drip Candles

I lit up the red candle first and started out holding the candle about 30-40cm away from her bare skin, the first drop elicited a sharp intake of breath, I held the candle upright to make sure it wouldn’t drip again and asked if she was ok, she said yes just that it was very hot, she has done wax play before and has a high pain tolerance, an indication I think as to how hot the Doc Johnson Drip Candles are. I dripped a nice amount of wax all over her back which would act as a layer of protection for the next round, I used black next and held the candle closer, the closer you hold the candle the hotter the wax is when it drips onto the skin. She said the heat was much nicer after she got used to it and relaxed a little, especially with the initial layer down.

Keep in mind that the darker the candle the slightly hotter it will be, so a black paraffin candle will be slightly hotter to drip than a white paraffin candle, so start with the white if you are new to wax play.

My other friend couldn’t handle the Doc Johnson Drip Candles directly onto her skin, she needed a layer of a soy candle I had which had a much lower burning point before I could drip on any of the Japanese Drip Candles onto her skin. So please be aware that these do burn at a reasonably high temperature as they are paraffin! After I was done with the wax I used a blunt butter knife to scrape it off their backs, which added to the whole sensation play aspect of the experience.

This was just some light fun between friends, but if you want to kick it up a notch why not add some blindfolds or bondage into the mix, after all wax and bondage go hand in hand!

The Doc Johnsons Japanese Drip candle set is made of a non-toxic paraffin wax and are just over 15cm each. These candles are not really for beginners and I advise reading up on wax play safety before going ahead with using them or any other wax or temperature play. For more information, read our wax and temperature play guide.

About the author: Erin is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Revolutionize Sex With Your Primal Instinct

Horny Couple Pashing

Through my studies in sexology and explorations in the world of Tantra and finding out what is spiritual sexuality, I have come to view and understand many diverse aspects of human sexuality. Sex is a powerful outlet to connect with different parts of ourselves and allows us to share those parts with others in a beautiful and pleasurable way. From having our need to feel emotionally connected to another human being met to a blissfully ecstatic & orgasmic release, sex allows us to be our most authentic and trues selves if we so desire.

Recently whilst completing an intense training diving into sex and spirituality, I experienced a connection to a part of myself which was incredibly healing and empowering- I refer to this part as my inner animal!!  This primal part of myself is so amazing to connect with and allows me a chance to be completely in tune with my senses and my body.

Today, we human beings spend much of our lives in our minds. We think too much, spend an excessive amount of time being occupied with technology and feel this constant need to experience the world in a logical way. I recall a time not so long ago when I became aware of how disconnected I was from my body. When I tuned in to myself, I realised that I was only really in touch with the feelings in my head, completely switched off from the sensations in the rest of my body. Throughout my life, as with so many people, I was encouraged to think, to analyse and to speak. Apart from incidental times like completing sport and when being in pain, I spent most my life in my head.

Being In Touch With Your Body

It is so clear to me now the need for people to experience more of this life in their body, to feel the subtle sensations that are accessible in every single moment throughout the day. Animals are a great example of this, completely in touch with their bodies, using their senses to guide them in the world. They are present to what is, not worrying about the past and stressing about the future, just living in complete presence of what is.

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How To Embody Your Inner Animal

One of the most exhilarating places to embody your inner animal is when connecting sexually with another. When all your senses are turned on and alive it makes for an extremely fun, pleasurable and energising sexual experience. The most enticing part of sex is how good it feels-what could be better than tuning in and amplifying your senses to increase the pleasure during sexual play? Being out of our minds and completely in our body making love with another is one of the most incredible experiences to have if we dare to step into it.

Approaching sex in an animalistic way can look and feel unique for each person. From roaring, purring or growling in your partner’s ear to crawling on all fours, wrestling or being wild like an animal during foreplay, the possibilities are endless.

Doing this with a partner who you trust and can express yourself freely with is crucial for you to really access that wild animal living inside you. It may feel a bit awkward to start with-not unlike a lion cub finding its roar- but if you really take the time and be courageously vulnerable, you’ll eventually access a primal side of yourself that loves to come out and play!!

One of my favourite ways to connect with my inner animal and my man simultaneously is to wrestle. I highly recommend you trying this one out with a partner if you are both up for an adventure!

Find yourselves a soft floor or mattress with enough space to avoid banging up against anything and ensure any breakables are out of reach. Get on all fours as if you were a lion or tiger (or magical unicorn if that is your thing!) and face your partner. Now depending on how easy it is for you to connect with your wild side, you may or may not want to take some time to close your eyes and connect to yourself. Breathe deeply, notice your heart beating, the energy moving through your body and any sensations that grab your attention. Opening your eyes and bringing a sense of playfulness to the experience, look your partner in the eyes and stare them down as if you are a wolf and they are your prey-ready to devour. Find your growl, express whatever noises want to come out and move around on your hands and knees as if you are stalking them and wanting to catch them. Go wild (with some mindfulness to avoid hurting them of course!) and have fun playing!

Whatever comes next is up to the two of you-sometimes for me it has turned into a hilarious and comical bit of fun where we’re both in hysterics, other times a wild, animalistic lead into amazing sex!! Avoid expectations, enjoy yourselves and use it as an amazing chance to see a different side of yourself and your partner.

Getting in touch with this side of myself has meant I feel more throughout my day to day life and experience more pleasure in my body during sex- purely because I am out of my head and in it. I cannot recommend exploring your inner animal enough-there may be a raging Jaguar roaring inside ready to pounce (or a cute purring kitty cat…only one way to find out!). I also apply these 6 Sure Fire Tantra Methods to my sexual lifestyle to make the experience even better!

Author: Stephanie Curtis- BA Nursing

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Meet the newest member to our team of experts. Stephanie Curtis is a sexologist with a huge capacity to care. Involved in spirituality and tantra her articles are professional, articulate and interesting. Enjoy Steph's writings at the adultsmart sexual wellness and health blog.

Sharing is Caring with Strap Ons

I’m pretty damn embarrassed to admit to this but today is the day I finally do. So here it goes, my name is Elliana and I can’t hold in a share dildo for the life of me. Yes I know I’m a shocking excuse for a lesbian and I need to purchase some kegel balls ASAP.

I’ve been sleeping with someone for the past few months and lately she’s been asking me to bring out the Fun Factory Sharevibe I’ve had just sitting in my toy drawer for months, she’s been wanting to feel more connected to me and noticed I’ve never even glanced at it when she’s asked me to surprise her with a new toy to use. Honestly, I just hate the way it feels when I’m the dom and being the one having to hold it in, usually I have to wear my Fun Factory Harness with it because my body basically just rejects it every time I slip it in. For a woman with good pelvic floor muscles, the vagina should feel like it’s giving the toy a hug, but see mine doesn’t want anything to do with it, it just pushes it as far away as possible. So every time we’ve tried to have sex with it I’ve had to stop and push it back in about 10 times and it is the most frustrating thing to happen when you’re in the moment, also super embarrassing! We end up giving up every time and I just swap it with a standard dildo. BORING!

So now to the point of my article today. What other options do girls like me have when we can’t hold a share toy in but still want to have some sort of stimulation whilst using a standard strap on?

We-Vibe Sync Couples Sex Toy Image
Sex Toy: We-Vibe Sync
  1. We-Vibe Sync 

The reason I’ve specified the newest We-Bibe couples toy is because of the adjustments they’ve added into the Sync, all of the older versions don’t have the option of being able to push both sides together and have it stay that way once you’ve inserted it, just like share toys you have to be able to hold the toy in yourself and so the Sync is perfect because it does that job for you no matter what position you get in. The bonus of the We-Vibe Sync is obviously that you get both g-spot and clitoral stimulation, that your partner can be in control of the toy and also this depends on the position that you’re in but sometimes you can get the clitoral side of the toy to push up against the bottom of your dildo so that your partner can get a feel of the vibrations you’re experiencing. See our We-Vibe Sync Review.

 

L'Amourose Rosa Rouge Massager
Sex Toy: L’Amourose Rosa Rouge Massager
  1. L’amourose Rosa 

Another fantastic toy that will stimulate both your g-spot and clitoris or could be used for anal stimulation is the L’amourose Rosa. Because the toy is longer and curved at the top it is much easier to keep in, the curve pretty much holds it in for you and because it has a flat surface it makes it really easy to move around once inserted. So if you’re a woman who knows it takes a little more length and strong direct vibrations to make your g-spot really sing then I’d definitely recommend using this toy over the We-vibe. See our L’amourose Rosa Review.

 

B-Vibe Vibrators Photo
Photo: B-Vibe Range

 

  1. B-Vibe 

More of a backdoor kind of gal? B-Vibe has a fantastic range of vibrating butt plugs to choose from whether you’re a beginner or a pro. The reason I’ve chosen this brand is because you have a wireless remote just like you do with the We-vibe, so again your partner can be in control of what vibrations you’ll be feeling so you’ll still feel connected.

Ever had all 3 spots stimulated at the same time? If you haven’t I definitely recommend giving it a go and you can make that happen by combining this toy with the We-Vibe then hand both remotes to your partner and prepare for the fun to begin! See our B-Vibe Review.

Vibrating Pleasure Panties
Sex Toy: Nu Sensuelle Pleasure Panty
  1. NU Sensuelle Pleasure Panties 

Maybe you don’t like the share strap ons because you just don’t like insertable toys? Well that’s not a problem because Oh Zone has something for everybody. The Nu Sensuelle pleasure panties are a fantastic and affordable strong and rechargeable bullet set with a remote (also rechargeable). All you have to do is throw those undies on underneath your straps and place your bullet in the under pocket to get the fun started. If you are a person who enjoys butt play as well you could mix this product with the B-Vibe for double stimulation. See our NU Sensuelle Pleasure Panties Review .

I own 3 out of the 4 products I’ve recommended today and enjoyed using all of them with my strap on, so I hope your experience is as great as mine was and you and your partner have some new shared fun

About the author: Elliana is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Review: Romant Couple

Romant Couple Vibrator Photo

We have recently had a huge delivery of Romant Vibrators to the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres and I have been so excited to check them all out. I now have a naughty secret to share with you all, I hope you are ready for it. I have just recently discovered the Couple by Romant and it is scarily similar to one of my favourite couple sex toys. I’ll let you all figure that out for yourselves when you see the Romant Couple. The best thing is it’s available for a fraction of the price online at Adultsmart and in our Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres!

The Romant Couple comes in a simple white box with a picture of the vibrator on the front, it also provides descriptions of the sex toy. It is not a hard box so unless you are overly sentimental about it, it is not great for vibrator storage. The contents of the box includes a white USB charger, a user manual and of course the vibrator itself!

The Romant Couple is covered in silky soft medical grade silicone and has an ABS core. It loses some points in my opinion due to the fact that it’s not 100% Silicone as ABS is a porous material. However, I think I can excuse this as it’s covered in a layer of silicone. The vibrator measures approximately 6” in length and features a girthier ended dildo with an almost complete bendy ring at the slimmer end which has been made to place an erect penis into for hands-free penetration. The description can be confusing, I think it’s best to check out the picture to get a better idea.

Romant Couple Vibrator Photo
Sex Toy: Romant Couple – Review

Now you have a visual of the Romant Couple, I can now get straight into telling you the amazing things this toy is capable of. It can be used in the following ways:

  • Vibrating Vaginal or Anal Dildo: The Couple is a perfect size and shape to be used as a vibrating dildo for vaginal or anal penetration. It features textured ridges along the shaft and is slightly curved making it excellent for g-spot stimulation. The vibrations are very powerful and pleasurable however I can tell the difference between them and the more expensive version. They are slightly ticklish as opposed to rumbly. The softness of the silicone means it’s very comfortable and pleasurable to insert in and out of the vagina. The only downfall for using it as a dildo is that the ring is a little bit tricky to use as a handle when using it solo masturbation and the fact that it vibrates strongly in the ring means your hand will be buzzing when using it. You never know, this may appeal to some people, you can think of it as a hand massage!!
  • Thruster Vibrator: When you first see the Couple, the ring appears to be too rigid to fit a penis in however the ends of the ring are bendy enough to accommodate penises of most sizes. Use it with a good quality lubricant like Superslyde, the motion of moving the vibrating ring up and down on you or your partners’ penis will feel exquisite.
  • Double Penetrator: I have grown accustomed to a look of shock and embarrassment from customers in the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres when I mention this toy is capable of making double penetration happen so I understand it’s not for everyone. But for those who enjoy this sex act, this toy will be a welcome addition to your collection. The penis is placed in the ring with the shaft of the vibrator down the bottom. The penis can then thrust into the vagina while The Couple enter either the woman’s bottom or vagina. Now in all honesty, I haven’t ventured into the double penetration territory with The Couple yet however I see that it is definitely possible and worth a try!
  • Blow Job Chin Rest: You can use it as a blow job chin rest by holding the dildo end, rest your chin on the vibrating ring and away you go. The subtle vibrations can be felt when performing oral on your man which is a very welcome sensation!

Despite some minor differences to the more expensive version which is a direct correlation to the price tag, the Romant Couple is a guaranteed crowd pleaser for couples who would love to spice up their sexual lifestyle with something exciting and adventurous. For those on a budget looking for a multi-purpose vibrator to share with their partner, this toy is for you. I give it my thumbs up!!

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Review: We-Vibe Sync (Indepth)

We-Vibe Sync Couples Sex Toy Image

It is no secret that I am a fan of We-Vibe. I love their rumbly motors, their innovative designs and their commitment to good sex. You don’t see desperate attempts at coming up with something new and different at the expense of quality and usefulness, and I appreciate that. Instead they make considered choices based on customer feedback and good research.

Recently someone very kindly gifted me with the new We-Vibe Sync and since none of our We-Vibe reviews so far have included much commentary about what’s it’s like to use during PIV (penis-in-vagina) sex I thought I would share with you my thoughts on it after using it a few different ways including PIV. Such a sexy sounding acronym, I know. I think I need to learn a more romantic language just so I can talk about sex in it and not sound stuffy and clinical but rather sexy and sophisticated. It could happen, watch this space.

Back to the couple’s sex toy. Firstly, if you have no idea what the hell I’m talking about, the We-Vibe couples sex toy is a very popular, wearable vibrator which has been on the market in one form or another for the better part of a decade and has been winning awards consistently during that time. Over the course of those years it has changed a fair bit, and there have to date been, I think, seven or eight different models, including the latest iteration. It’s intended to be worn in the vagina and it is sort of like a rabbit in that it’s a dual stimulator, but it doesn’t have a handle – and it can be worn during sex, which is a little tricky with a regular ole rabbit!

The company which makes the We-Vibe sex toys is Canadian, called Standard Innovation, and makes sex toys which are both Eco-friendly and body safe. These are not the cheapest toys on the market, but they are worth every penny, and you are not paying for some ridiculous status oriented brand but rather for quality, durability and really damn good sex that will help promote healthy sexual satisfaction which can contribute to feelings of well-being and better relationships, with yourself and others.

So how does it work, and what does it look like? All the models are basically a modified, squished ‘C’ shape, designed so that one arm be worn inside the vagina, while one arm sits outside the vagina, resting against the vulva, and hopefully reaching and stimulating the clitoris. So I like to think of it as it as sensually hugging your genitals inside and out! Vibrations stimulate both your g spot and clitoris (provided the shape hits you in the right places, more on that shortly).

We-Vibe is a rechargeable sex toy which has a nifty little charging dock of its own, with a cover to keep your toy clean and discreet when not in use. You’re gonna need to charge it up before you first use it. To put the toy on your body, first make sure the toy is clean and charged, then apply some lube fairly liberally to the arm you are going to insert (it’s the one without the control button, for those who are unsure) and gently insert that arm into your vagina, leaving the outside arm, well, outside, to do it’s thang on your most sensitive spots. The toy is flexible enough that this won’t be a nightmare, and the new We-Vibe Sync makes it even easier.

Below I have added some pictures of some of the more recent models so you can get a better idea, after all a picture is worth a thousand words.

  1. We-Vibe Sync
  2. We-Vibe 4 Plus
  3. We-Vibe Classic
  4. We-Vibe 3
We-Vibe Versions
We-Vibe Versions (From Left to Right): We-Vibe Sync, We-Vibe 4 Plus, We-Vibe Classic, and We-Vibe 3

 

As I said, various features have been changed over the years on the different models, and up until recently the most recent design was the 4 Plus model and this has been extremely popular. By this point the toy has a remote (first introduced with the 3 model), an app for your smart phone (which means you can program in your favourite vibe combinations or control it from great distances), and a sleeker design, in the preferred velvety smooth silicone which doesn’t attract dust like shiny silicone’s are prone to. They also created the We-Vibe Classic with all the 4 Plus’s cool new features, including the app, with the exception of the shape. Classic has the shape which earlier We-Vibes had, as some people preferred it and We-Vibe wisely recognised that it would be a good idea to cater to that preference as well as offering their newer design. Good on you, We-Vibe. Still, most of my customers opted for the 4 Plus and it has really been the greatest thing since sliced bread for many, many satisfied users. But now folks, well the We-Vibe Sync is just blowing it out of the water and I am so, so impressed with it that I am recommending it to all my friends, customers and acquaintances.

The new features that make the We-Vibe Sync so special are its two adjustable points in the curve of the C, which make it better able to fit comfortably and work effectively on a wider range of bodies, new control buttons on the toy itself which make operating it simpler, stronger vibrations than ever with the same rumbly wonderfulness, and the new charging dock is a better design in my view too – it’s easier now to sit the toy in the correct place. The app has also been updated and the actual shape of the sex toy has been very slightly altered, it is still very similar to the 4 plus but the arms are a little longer. These small adjustments make a huge difference and it is really such a pleasure to use.

This diagram from the We-Vibe website shows how the We-Vibe Sync can be adjusted. As I touched on earlier, everyone’s anatomy is slightly different, and a dual stimulator can run the risk of not hitting both your sweet spots perfectly. Some people found that one or the other of the previous We-Vibe shapes didn’t quite fit them perfectly, which limited what should be a fantastic toy to a so-so toy for those particular people. But with the new shape and adjustable points not only will it stay in better and be more comfortable but be much more likely to hit almost everybody’s most sensitive erogenous zones. Notice the different ways it can be manipulated, and I might add it is surprisingly easy to adjust it while you’re wearing it or putting it on so you don’t have to do too much guesswork.

 

We-Vibe Sync Graph
Graph: We-Vibe Sync Adjustments

 

Now I mentioned the controls on the couple’s sex toy were easier to use. There is one button, which you would use by holding it down to turn the toy on or off, and press to scroll through the modes. This button was a little difficult to see, being more of a bump in the seamless silicone, and could be tricky to press in the right spot at times, especially as the toy aged and the button had been pressed a million times. Now there is an on/off button and separate mode buttons and I’m finding it much, much easier to operate. It still also has the remote, which works up to 3 metres away from the toy, and the app of course, We Connect – one of the newer We-Vibe models’ biggest selling points.

We Connect is very easy to use. On your smartphone, go to your Apple or Android Application store, search We-Vibe or We-Connect and download the app. When it is downloaded, open the app and follow the instructions it gives you. To connect your toy to the app during each play session, when prompted you will need to press the on/off button on the toy until the toy gives a short buzz to let you know the connection has been successful. On the app you can control your vibrations yourself, or invite your lover to take control. There are 10 vibration styles to choose from and you can increase or decrease the intensity in either or both arms of the toy in any of the vibration types. Each arm of the toy has its own motor so they are equally powerful and you don’t have to sacrifice power to either the clit or the g spot. Likewise though if  you refer, for example, only a gentle rumble against your clit and a mighty hammering on your g-spot you can do that with this toy. Customisable vibrations and vibration combinations make this toy so versatile. With the We-Vibe Sync, We Connect has also added two cool new features – Touch mode and Beat mode. Beat mode allows the toy to vibrate along with the beat of music playing in the vicinity of the toy and touch mode allows you to kind of ‘draw’ the kind of vibration pattern and intensity you would like with your fingers on the touch screen of your phone.

I have found all the features on the app very easy to use, to the point where I actually haven’t even bothered with the remote, and although I was super excited by the promise of Beat mode I am actually more thrilled about Touch mode now that I have used it myself. It’s quite lovely to have that much control. Though I will say that approaching climax it is nice to switch over to set-and-go so you can concentrate solely on the sensations. I tried all the different modes and found that I preferred a long period of the steady vibration, turned up pretty high, followed by the wave pattern. That combination was the best at getting me to climax. And the touch mode was really lots of fun, I would recommend using that for getting to know your body’s responses to vibrations more intimately and in more detail than with regular vibrators. When I was comfortable with the app I invited my partner to download it too. We didn’t have any issues with connectivity, though as of yet we haven’t tried using it when separated by any great distance.

Ok now to be honest I had been a little nervous about using it during penetrative sex. Mostly I was worried that it might be uncomfortable in some way, especially in terms of accommodating both the toy and a fairly girthy penis. Having not had any kids and still being fairly young, though not young enough to have the perpetual energy and gushing lubrication (tmi, I know) of my younger days I occasionally struggle with a girthier penis, especially experiencing a little pain around the actual vaginal opening, and especially when tired. Which seems to be my perpetual state of existence, so I gotta just roll with that. I know this is a problem for many other women, especially who have not had any vaginal births, so I thought it would be interesting to see how things went in the name of research as well as for my own use.

So going in I had a few questions in mind – would it be comfortable, would it stay in during energetic sex (hey, you’ve gotta put effort in where it counts), would my partner enjoy it too, would it feel impersonal like something getting in between us in a negative way? Would I want to use this toy on the regular?

When we decided to try the We-Vibe Sync out during penetration I have to admit I was definitely tired and not feeling my most super-horny. Somehow we had kept having mismatched horny moods over that week and were both a bit frustrated, however I was super keen to try it and have some sexy times with my partner so decided I would see how I went and if I really could not get in the mood we would just stop or switch to something that required less energy and have a nice if not mind blowing time. However I was very pleasantly surprised as my mood turned from lukewarm to red hot using the toy during foreplay. Something about those rumbling vibrations just loosened me right up and got my head in the game. I really am in the rumbly vibrations fan camp. Other vibrations are nice but rumbly wins every time. At first we just used it externally and after a while inserted it with a liberal smearing of my current-fave water based lube, playing for a while before getting down to PIV penetration. We wanted to give it a chance for my vag to get as comfy and cooperative as possible. Going from my experience I would highly recommend taking this kind of time to warm up and explore with fingers internally to get an idea of what it will be like filling up the space along with the toy. This serves to reassure as well as just feeling great and extending foreplay. This strategy definitely played out well and I can happily report that, though it may take a few seconds to find the right angle, it’s actually perfectly comfortable to wear during penetration, even if you partner’s on the bigger side. First question answered to my satisfaction!

Secondly, yes it did stay in place well during some vigorous thrusting and different positions. Even with a lot of lubrication there were no problems. As Emily has said, there is a little more grip to the texture of the silicone on this model than the 4 Plus.

Thirdly, my partner loved it. He said it was a really different sensation, the vibrations were really nice and of course the effect it had on me was a major plus for him. One of the things we noticed was that during penetration the toy reeeeally hit the G-Spot well and I actually came seconds into penetration, which is really unusual for me, while his orgasm was super strong.

As for the concern about it feeling like something impersonal separating us during penetration, I had heard one or two complaints about this when reading reviews on We-Vibes previously. My honest opinion is this – it does affect how much you can feel of each other, but it doesn’t ruin the intimacy, it just changes it somewhat. You still can feel half of the area of what you normally would internally and it just takes a few seconds of mental adjustment. The extra excitement adds to the emotional connection in my opinion so I don’t think it’s anything to worry about.

It’s also waterproof, very quiet and you can get at least 90 minutes play out of a full charge so the opportunities for adventurous play are fantastic. Charging time is 2 hours so the only thing to keep in mind with this is just to charge it regularly so you will never be caught out without it.

In conclusion, simply put, 100% would use again, absolutely love it.

About the Author: Jade is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

 

 

Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!
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