A Beginners Guide to Cleaning and Caring for your Sex Toys

Part 2 – Sex Toy Cleaning Continued

Moving on to electronic toys, now there’s not going to be boiling of any kind with these toys for obvious reasons so generally the route you’ll want to go down for cleaning these toys is the ‘rinse then use a toy cleaner’ one as previously discussed. Although you have to be careful with the whole ‘putting an electronic underwater’ thing because you might end up voiding the warranty or maybe even electrocuting yourself (depending on what kind of toy you’re trying to clean). Just about all of your electronic toys will come with an IPX rating, this indicates the level of waterproofing the toy is equipped with the most popular IPX ratings for toys are as follows; IPX7 is completely submersible in water upto 1 metre deep for a maximum of 30 minutes, going down a level we have IPX6 which is protected against a high pressure water stream from any angle so similar to IPX7 you can very easily wash off after use. Next we have IPX4 which is splashproof, so again fine for rinsing off your toy but be sure to avoid the charging port, IPX0-3 have even less water protection than this and you should read the cleaning instructions very carefully before using the toy for the first time. Although it’s important to note that most toys with an IPX rating lower than IPX4 will have a removable portion that is non-electronic for easier cleaning. Overall, make sure to be following the manufacturers recommended cleaning for any electronic toy, especially those with an IPX rating lower than 6.

INSERTABLE

Now onto something a good bit more complex, masturbators (both electronic and not) will generally require a more intricate cleaning routine than your average vibe (insertable or not) due to both their design as well as the materials used to create that supple realistic skin texture.

Some masturbators are made of a silicone, these are generally electronic and don’t involve any type of sleeve or lifelike material, so you’re able to clean them in an identical manner to a regular vibe.

Any type of masturbator that is or has a very soft non-structured sleeve, such as any Fleshlight, will need to be cleaned very thoroughly to ensure bacteria doesn’t grow. After use, first flush the toy out with some water to remove the excess lube and ejaculate, then remove the sleeve from any casing and flip the sleeve inside out. After doing this, rinse with water once again to remove the remaining lube and ejaculate, once the only liquid on your toy is water, allow to dry (still flipped inside out) until only slightly damp. Next spray a toy cleaner, I recommend using one that is foaming to allow for it to more easily get within all the grooves of the materials texture. After the toy is covered in this wait for it to dry fully (it is essential you don’t start the next step on a toy with any moisture on it). Once completely dry sprinkle refresh powder over the toy (pro tip: these powders are generally 100% corn starch), make sure to cover all surfaces including the entrance then shake so all excess powder is removed, leaving only a thin layer. After this is all done, flip the sleeve back and situate it within its case (if it has one), and then put the unit away for storage.

MASTURBATION SLEEVE 

If the soft sleeve of the toy IS structured, like that of the Svakom Alex and Alex Neo, you won’t be able to flip it for cleaning but the tunnel of the sleeve will generally be a fair amount wider and shorter so cleaning remains fairly similar, minus the flipping obviously. You also have masturbators like those from Tenga, that instead of a removable sleeve you are able to just open for easy cleaning, with these follow the same original steps, minus the removal and flipping of the sleeve.

Now the truly difficult toys to clean are your bigger toys made primarily of a lifelike material such as TPE, a lot of these toys will be life size replicas of portions of the female or male body, such as the pubic or chest areas and you won’t be able to remove a sleeve at all, plus the tunnel and entrance will both be very narrow (stretching only during use) so cleaning these is very hard to get right and very easy to fuck up. As with all toys, washing these before using them is paramount to your intimate hygiene.

Madison is a consultant at the Oh Zone Adult Stores

5 Tips: How to Flirt in a Successful Way?

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Flirting is one of the most important skills when it comes to attracting people. Typically, you can see more or less successful attempts of flirting almost everywhere: from movies, through songs, to even public places such as the metro or a bus.

 

As experts from Beyond Ages say – Good, successful flirting can be seen from afar – typically, you can sense the chemistry between people, and observe certain signs of reciprocity. Similarly, bad flirting will give you second-hand embarrassment, and the feeling of sympathy towards one person that is trying to attract the other.

 

Flirting is an art. And as an art, it may get a bit complicated, especially if you don’t have a lot of experience in it. Luckily for you, we decided to reveal the mystery of flirting and show you how to flirt in a successful way in our short guide.

Initiate Physical Contact

By limiting physical distance between you and the person you wish to charm, you will be able to start flirting in the most successful way. But don’t take it too far: an occasional touch on the hand or an arm while laughing will be just enough to make the other person interested. Think of your body as an instrument able to attract the other person.

Keep Eye Contact

You should remember that eye contact is powerful, when it comes to flirting. Keeping eye contact will tell the other person that you’re confident, calm, and collected. You shouldn’t stare, though: keep the eye contact for a few seconds, look away, and then let your eyes come back to the person.

Be Subtle

Flirting is not about openly admitting “Hey, I think you’re hot. Wanna get out of here?” (although in some situations it would probably pass). It’s more about giving the other person signals that you find them attractive.

 

As research conducted by the Social Issues Research Center based in the UK showed, the initial impression is based in 55 percent on appearance and body language, 39 percent on the style of speaking and tone of voice and only about 7 percent on the words said. So, whenever you are meeting someone, you need to pay attention to your nonverbal communication, as it is much more important than the words ydaou utter.

Smile

You should start smiling more if you want people to perceive you as an interesting person that feels good to be around. A true, genuine smile or sincere laugh will make them attracted to you and your positive energy, and leave them wanting more.

 

Smiling makes you look younger, more attractive and full of positive energy. It creates positive vibes that affect the whole room and everyone in it. Also, smiling makes you more approachable and likeable to others – a person is a lot more willing to talk to you if you have a smile on your face than if you have a frown or an emotionless expression.

Be Attentive and Interested

Above anything else, people want to be heard. To flirt in a successful way, you should give them a lot of attention, show true interest in what they’re saying, and engage in their jokes and stories.

 

It doesn’t mean you can’t yourself crack a joke every now and then, but remember not to focus on yourself too much in the conversation. Take a balanced approach of focusing on the other person and yourself if you want your date to be a success!

 

If you’ll feel like the conversation is going to die out, try to keep it going by asking questions in regards of what has been said so far – it will not only give you a chance to learn more about that person, but will also show them that you are genuinely listening to what they are saying.

Always Be Accountable

As much as you want to be successful at flirting, don’t lie. If somebody asks you what you’re up to, don’t tell them you’re at work if you’re out with your friends. A lie has no legs – at one point or another the truth will come out.

 

You have to be smart about how you say things, and do it in a way that gets you the most positive attention possible. As long as you hold yourself to a high moral standard, flirting will come easy.

The Bottom Line

Don’t be so hard on yourself if flirting doesn’t come easy to you. Remember, practice makes perfect. With enough time, flirting will become a natural process for you and you won’t have to think about it at all – it will be second nature.

 

Now that you know some of the best ways to successfully flirt with another person, there’s nothing left for you to do but get out there and start meeting new, exciting people! Don’t stress too much if you don’t find the love of your life right away — people have different tastes, and some couples just simply don’t click. Most importantly, don’t try to pretend someone you’re not, if you want the relationship you are trying to pursue to work out.

Sex Toys That You Will Want For Christmas

Xmas sex

With Christmas just around the corner, you may be looking for some presents for your partner, whilst jewellery or the latest games console are good fall back presents, what if you want something to help with your intimacy?

In any case, sex toys are a sure fire way to bring a bit more fun or spice into your sex life, then sex toys are the way to go.

As a generation, we are much more open to talking about sex than every before, and sex shops are no longer called ‘private shops’ they are well known brands, with store fronts on most high streets.

However, sex toys remain something that many people are embarrassed about, so let’s go through some tips on buying the right sex toy for you and your partner.

 

Talk To Your Partner

The best thing you can do when thinking about adding sex toys into your life, is to have an open conversation with your partner about what you both like, and what you’d be open to.

This doesn’t have to be an in-depth, therapist type conversation, but it should be as open as you can be, with some discussion about what you both would like.

Sure, it can feel a little embarrassing, but the more you talk about it, the less embarrassed you will be, and you will find yourself enjoying sex even more – if that’s possible!

 

Solo Toys For Women

You may want to start looking at some solo toys to give to your partner, for the times that they are alone, and want to have some fun.

There are so many different types of toys out there that it can be a little confusing.

Some of the more well known toys are the rabbit type vibrators, which are penetration devices, with different vibration speeds and those well known rabbit ears for clitoral stimulation. These toys are the classic ones, and were probably the first sex toy to become fashionable and start people having more honest conversations about sex.

The massager wand type is another classic, beloved by many women around the world. This toy however, is not suited to everyone, as it can be a bit more on the forceful side, so choose the model with care.

There are so many newer types on the market now, including some which even claim to imitate oral sex, the Lelo Ora 3 review gives a good overview on this highly praised toy.

There are different types of clitoral stimulators available that work in different ways, such as the bullet types, some of which come in waterproof varieties.

 

Solo Toys For Men

If you are looking for a solo toy to give to that special man in your life, there are many options too for them.

The most well known solo male toy is probably the fleshlight. These toys have played their part in  making male sex toys less taboo, but they are falling out of fashion now, in their place are the far more discreet and just as pleasurable newer designs of mastrubation sleeves.

Cock rings are available in many different varieties. These can be used solo, to provide extra vibration, or when with a partner, as they are bound to enjoy the vibrations too!

Prostate massagers are also very popular these days, and many come with a remote control to allow you to fully enjoy a solo experience.

Butt plugs are another classic, and much safer than inserting a non-sex toy into this are – always use a flared base! Butt plugs have also expanded their varieties. The bog standard ones are still available of course – everyone loves a classic. But, newer vibrating designs are available, some with a remote control to make everything a lot easier.

 

Toys For Couples

Many of the toys we have already gone through can also be used with your chosen partner, or partners, but there are some toys that are specifically geared towards couples.

We have already discussed vibrating cock rings, that give pleasure to both parties.There are also some toys that can be used whilst giving or reciveing a oral sex, such as the BlowYo which is a silicone ring that covers the bottom portion of the penis, that makes oral sex feel much more, well, orgasmic.

The WeVibe, and it’s imitators, is a toy beloved by couples. One end rests against the clitoris, whilst the other inserts into the vagina providing G-spot stimulation, as well as vibrating against the penis shaft.

If you are away from your partner, there are even toys that can be controlled via an app, so that you can come together even when you’re apart.

Whichever toy you decide to go for, remember to be safe and enjoy yourself, and always discuss consent.

Some Basic Info About Gay Webcams

Gay cammers

With the advancement of openness, people are doing many such activities these days openly which were once considered not good at all. Practicing of gay life is one of those activities. Today in this article we will talk about it, in the reference to our today’s topic ‘Some basic info about gay webcams.

What are gay webcams?

If you are new to the world of gay life, you should be aware of gay webcams and uses of it. Gay webcams are actually like doing video calls but in many respects, it is very different than those normal video calls. On these cams, you can watch your favorite available boys from the same or different countries. To use this facility you may have to spend some money also from your pocket but if you will do a deep search on the web, you can find many sites which provide this facility for free.

What to expect

On these webcams, you can find handsome boys. They will try to attract you on cam doing many different types of activities. Some of these webcams require you to be at least 18 of age as some of these webcams also provide some porn type contents. Therefore if you are into the people who want to have some nudity with gays on cam, you can use these webcams. Before you enter these webcams you need to register on these websites providing the facility of webcams. Therefore if you want to use these cams just for some curiosity or fun, you are recommended to not use your real email id for registering on these websites. However, if you are searching for some soulmates on these cams, you can go with your real email id and all other details about you.

As an app

If you want to use some apps as of the websites then you can choose some apps also. In the gay webcam apps, you would find even better facilities and in most of the cases, the app version of these websites works very smoothly. Through these apps, you can connect with your gay friends without logging in, again and again, all the time.

Requirements

There is not much requirement for using these websites and apps. However, if you know nothing about how to do even a video call and want to know everything about it, you may need one mobile or laptops, data connection and most importantly one loan place, especially if you want to do some naughty stuff on the cams with your friends. If you don’t have any friends before, don’t worry. After coming on this website, you can easily find many like-minded new friends within a couple of days.

With the help of above discussion, it’s very clear that if you want to enjoy your gay life or you just want to have some fun with gay friends, gay webcams can be a very helpful way. Hope you would do some webcam chat soon with your friends.

That Kiss

kiss on beach
As my kiss lingered on your neck and you felt my hot breath along your throat. Your areolars tingled with excitement and Nipples protruded erect in anticipation as I slowly continued kissing down your bossoms.  Slowly, deliberately undoing each button until your breasts were exposed and I gently took those teats in my mouth one at a time…..
As you took my nipple into your hot mouth, electric sparks filled my body and coursed through the core of me. My hands found your shirt and pulled the ends out of your pants so that I could feel the skin of your back and torso with my palms and my finger tips. Arching my back towards you, needingly, I found your pelvis with mine and pressed myself against your hardness, my hands against your taut bottom. I gasp as you flick my nipples with your tongue…
She gasps as I take my mouth from her nipples and she places her hands on the top of my head… gently pushing me downwards I kiss her stomach and belly button releasing the button to her pants and slowly opening the zipper.  She lifts her hips as I slide down her pants and remove them from her body leg by leg.  She has black nylon panties on – that do nothing to hide the beginnings of her vulva.
I place my lips on her belly but she again forces my head downward.  Resisting I move my head to the side and kiss her inner thighs, and lick each side of her groin.  She moans and I rest my mouth on her clit and breathe deeply through her nylons – the wetness and womanly taste and scent of her intoxicating my mouth and nose….
Completely overcome by instinct, he tears off my panties with his teeth in one motion, exposing the deep pink of me, swollen and glistening with moisture. My heart pounds with excitement and my yearning intensifies as I watch him taking me in with his eyes.
He covers my labia with his mouth and flicks his tongue over my clitoris over and over again, building my arousal and taking me to the brink of climax, my whole body shuddering in ecstasy. With one more suckle of his tongue and lips, my core spasms wildly in orgasm and shock waves course through my entire being.
I cry out “More!” as my orgasmic convulsions continue. Looking down into his eyes, I see his delight as he sees my rapture. His lips are swollen and wet and I kiss him deeply, rolling his tongue in mine, tasting him, tasting me. I then push him backwards and he falls on the sand.
I can see the length of his penis straining against his jeans. I take off his belt, then his jeans, quickly and his boxer shorts. Completely naked, I take him in with my eyes, the colour of his erection and the hard smoothness of him I enjoy with my hands. He groans and gasps as I squeeze his hardness in my hand and I delight in his arousal.
There is precum capping the top of his penis and I devour it, placing my mouth over his penis and savouring the taste and smell of him. I breathe in the scent of him and release him. He lifts his hips off the sand, thrusting and groaning. My tongue, hot and wet, I lick up his entire length and feel him throbbing. I flick my tongue across his penis, flicking and sucking, all the way up to the top and then I envelop his penis again with my mouth. 
He is watching me and I hold his gaze as I Lolly-pop and suck him, filling up my whole mouth. Hungrily I devour his juices.
Watching her go down on me my lustful urges over take me and I force her further down on me feeling the head of my cock hit the back of her throat.  Her throat muscles spasm as her gag reflex kicks in sending shockwaves of ecstasy throughout my body as my dick becomes a solid rod off steel.
I rise and as one we rise in unison, she still hungrily devouring my erect penis.  I grab hold of her wrists and place them in my hand pushing her backwards.  She lay with me on top of her, her hands held tightly above her head.  Trying to move them I could see in her eyes she knew that there was no contest in strength and that she was mine in that moment to do with as I pleased.
Slowly, delicately I rubbed the tip of my rock hard cock up and down her wetness as she moaned.  Pushing her hips forward in what appeared to be an attempt for my cock to penetrate her dripping cunt I backed away just allowing the head to enter her velvety warmth.
Slowly and rhythmically I allowed the head to go in and out of her as she writhed her body in anticipation.  As the speed increased I allowed my dick to penetrate deeper and deeper within her.  She felt so good, hot, moist and began breathing heavier and heavier calling out to her god.
I began exploring her inside by changing my thrusting motions from side to side, going deep within her filling her and trying to touch all her inner boundaries.  Her heavy breathing turned to screams and curses as I felt her pelvic walls begin to contract….
There was no freeing my wrists from his firm grasp and surrendering completely to his desire only intensified my excitement. 
I wanted to be his, in that moment, to do with me as he pleased and more. To succumb to his every desire. To be his every living fantasy!
Filling me up with his solid rod of steel, stretching me further than ever before, pounding his way deeper and deeper inside me. And with every thrust I cry out in wild abandon. His strong hard body moving over me is glistening with sweat and I inhale the fragrance of our unison, my ears fill with his moans and grunts and I feel his body quaking over mine.
Our bodies move as one, pounding and slapping together, faster and faster, his groans getting louder and deeper. I scream in ecstasy as my vagina contracts and convulses, just as he  pounds inside me in the pinnacle of orgasm, kicking his head back and straining every fibre in his body as he releases hot jets of cum inside me. My orgasm milking his and we ride the waves of climax together. Both our bodies quivering with release.
My body quivered in spasms, in jolts after my orgasm.  Uncontrollable yet somehow satisfying.  I remained inside her feeling our fluids mix together the wetness like home.  We smelt of sex and what an aphrodisiac that scent was.
We lay together, our sweet sweat cooling our bodies and kissed.  Passionately, deeply.  Our tongues exploring each other.  I lick her lips and she smiles.
I can’t help but be aroused as we continue to kiss whilst she turns her back to me in the spoon position.  I hold her tight as I entered her again.  Slowly, deeply…
Rubbing my bum against his still wet and hard penis, he grabs hold of my hips from behind me and enters me, slowly and deeply. He fills my deliciously tender core and I breathe in deeply, becoming intoxicated by the smell of our sex.