7 Sex Tips that Women Wish Men Knew

Sex can be easy and fun! Just follow these 7 Sex Tips that Women Wish Men Knew to instantly become a better lover. This guide is helpful whether you have just met someone through Tinder or whether you are in a long term relationship.

  • How to Find Her Erogenous Zones: Many people focus on the clitoris, nipples and G-Spot when it comes to pleasuring women. But there are other erogenous zones that are sensitive to touch. Caress your hands over her body and explore her curves. Ask her to let you know when you come across a sensitive area that arouses her when you touch it. Take your time to softly kiss these areas. Gently breathe on the areas to turn her on. A popular area that most people enjoy being massaged is on the sides of their neck. Remember what she enjoys the most for future reference.
  • Be Spontaneous with Dirty Talk: When you are out on a date with your lover and you find a quiet moment between the two of you. Let her know how much she turns you on and what about her you love the most. You can try saying something like “I love the way your hair falls near your face” or “You are so beautiful when you smile like that”. It can be surprising to receive compliments from your partner especially if it is out of character. If you find she enjoy the compliments, try your hand at dirty talking. Let her know everything that you will do to her later.
  • Play With Her Breasts: Breast stimulation can be performed by licking, touching, nibbling and pinching the nipples. They may become erect as she becomes more aroused which makes her body even more sensitive. During this process her body produces oxytocin which helps to create feelings of trust, it also can decrease the feelings of anxiety. Normally people provide pinpoint stimulation to the nipples. Remember to massage the area around her nipples. Sometimes areas that are forgotten can provide some of the most arousing feelings.The lower amount of stimulation can make her beg for more. You can also try biting gently on a nipple when she is about to orgasm. Some women are very lucky as they can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone.
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  • Give Her a Shower: Showering can be a very sensual activity. Ask your partner if they would like to join you in the shower. Suggest to her that you would like to wash her body. Turn on the shower to a warm temperature that will keep the two of you warm. Lather up the soap within your hands. Massage your hands across her body. Wash her slowly down her neck, shoulder and waist. When you feel she is comfortable you can begin to wash her breasts, stomach and back. If she is aroused and happy with how things are going you can lather up more soap and massage her vagina. You can also ask her to clean your body to. Once you have finished showering, take her to the bedroom for some more private fun. Giving someone else a sexual shower can help to create a stronger relationship as they are trusting you to take care of their body. To make this moment even more personal, you can try having a bubble bath.
  • Put On A Show: It is natural to get sexually excited when you watch your lover touch themselves. When people masturbate, they are able to achieve maximum amounts of pleasure. This will be sure to get you both hot and heated. Masturbation is an activity that most people do in private so it can seen as a forbidden experience to. If you are nervous, you can ask your partner to give a helping hand. You can also invest in a sex toy to use which will definitely bring things to a whole new level.
  • Spoon Her: Spooning is always fun to do, especially when you are watching a movie together. Spoon her, she may adore feeling an erection gently placed behind her. If she is aroused, she may begin gently grinding against your body. You are than able to, massage her inner thighs and her body from behind. You can do a lot of things that will surprise her with every touch.
  • Ask Her to Take Control: Sometimes people are used to the give and take of sex. Ask her to take complete control, it may be a completely new experience for the both of you. This can make her go wild and take control of how much pleasure she can give to herself. She will ride you to build her orgasm as much as possible. With this type of sex, ask her to look directly in your eyes. You both will be entrapped within the moment. You will be able to find out what precisely she likes. So next time you are on top, give her what she wants!









7 Ways to Make Public Sex Fun

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13 Tips For Better Sex

We all want to have better sex so why not follow 13 easy steps to improve your love life.


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  1. Avoid straying your thoughts while having sex: This involves having the right attitude about better sex. To fully experience the pleasure of sex, you have to free yourself of negative feelings such as self-consciousness, guilt, bad judgment, and other hang-ups. That also means you must avoid worrying about your unfinished work in the office or the things you’re going to do the next day while making love with your partner. Just savor the moment and enjoy each other.
  2. Relax and don’t pressure yourself: Mind-blowing sex shouldn’t be forced. You have to allow it to happen. In many instances, reaching orgasm triggers anxiety especially to women who pressure themselves into performing well during sex. That’s why many women subconsciously conceal their sexual problem by faking an orgasm. That’s simply not the essence of sex. It’s advised that you relax and enjoy the intimate moments you have with your partner.
  3. Be healthy and stay fit: You’re probably aware that people who get a lot of better sex are happier people. This, in fact, is supported by several studies. To be able to have more sex, you need more energy. Enough sleep, plenty of rest, adequate exercise, and balanced diet can increase your sexual stamina. These good factors induce better blood circulation to the sex organs, which is very crucial to arousal and orgasm.
  4. Relieve yourself from stress: Find ways to reduce stress to raise the chances of arousal. Why not go on a date with your partner at least once a week? Or you can make your sex life more exciting and steamy by taking a shower together or spending an intimate night by the beach.
  5. Accept and love your body: Do you hate yourself for being flat chested or overweight? Just because you don’t have an ideal cup size, it doesn’t mean you can’t have great sex. Your negative feelings toward your body can only ruin your sensuality. What matters is how good your body feels when you’re having sex with your partner. Learn to love your body and all its curves. Perhaps, you’re not aware that your big curves look sexy to your spouse.
  6. Don’t be afraid to explore and experiment: Sharing passion with your partner shouldn’t be too serious. Think of sex as a fun activity – you are free to be creative and to try things differently. For example, you can talk with your partner about your fantasies and find out how you can turn them into reality. Also, discover what turns you on in bed.
  7. Communicate: Finally, getting xsales better sex also needs good communication between partners. Don’t be afraid to speak up to your partner regarding your sexual relationship. This will lead to an understanding of each other’s sexual needs, thus leading to a greater sexual life.
  8. Stop Trying so Hard: Too many people feel that couples sex is much like what they will see in pornographic movies. The truth is, trying this hard during sex will lead to disappointment and more often than not, some pain and discomfort. The experience will certainly not be as enjoyable as it appears on the television.
  9. Incorporate Outside Items: There is certainly nothing wrong with incorporating sexual aid devices or toys in your routine with your partner. Perhaps the female in the relationship has a hard time achieving orgasm with straight intercourse. The solution can be to stimulate the clitoris with a vibrator while having sex. The combination of sensations is likely to produce much more sensation and result in climax. This suddenly makes a sex life more enjoyable to all parties involved.
  10. Discuss with your partner about your sexual relationship: How would your partner know if you’re no longer pleased whenever you make love? Being open to each other can do wonders in your sex life. With good communication, there’s less chance of spending nights in the bedroom with your backs turned to one another. You’ll feel more at ease with each other again and share the passion that you once had. And once the passion has revived, let your partner know how much you appreciate your night together. You can write him a note saying that last night was the best on your first honeymoon. Soon, you’ll realize how better sex life is if you maintain and open and constant communication with your partner.
  11. Enhance your libido by changing your diet: Certain food options can turn your sex life from good to better, as they trigger your desire and passion in the bedroom. How about sipping warm coffee mixed with a bit of chocolate and cinnamon before you head to the bedroom? This can get you in the mood.
  12. Get some warm-up: Aside from aphrodisiacs, there are other ways you can do to set some erotic mood. One great idea is to enjoy a bubble bath with your partner. Or you can spend a romantic dinner with red wine in the bedroom. It’s easy to achieve better sex life if you spend more intimate times with your partner before you have sex.
  13. Try something new: Variety makes a person look forward to something new. Have fun trying various positions with your partner. The pleasure that variety in better sex position brings can indeed make you look forward to something new every time you make love. Trying out a new sex position or style ensures that you won’t get bored with your sexual life.



Effortless Tips For Great Sex

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If you think about your ex-partners you’ll fondly remember the good and the bad things that they did during sex. You’d remember which ones hit the spot, and which ones didn’t. Which ones you had to fake it with, and which ones you could barely stop the drool on your chin from anticipation of that moment because of the great sex. It’s pretty amazing really when you think about it because the ultimate end goal is the same with each one. But there are so many variables to sex that it seems pretty complex.

For research purposes I looked up what other people thought made great sex partners. The Women’s Magazines were pretty generic and included things such as not being judgmental, focusing on your partner’s needs, ability to laugh at yourself and stuff relating to your mental state as opposed to your physical state. In Essence, they were targeting the right areas but just not saying going that one crucial step further.

The Men’s magazine like Australian Men’s Health had such delightful comments such as; they love giving head, they are physically fit, and they have a good body shape. Yeah, um, no. Both of them focused on the idea that paying attention to your partner is important and that you need to forgo your own sexual desires at times to please them. This is probably the most accurate of the statements, but still it’s simplistic. It’s more than that, yet it’s not as complex as how redbookmag makes a hand job seem.

‘Men love to be stroked, fondled and handled with authority by expert female hands—and they love watching a woman take manual erotic control of them’.

I laughed for a long time when I read that sentence. Are they speaking plainly or are they sugar coating a hand job to make it sound seductive. What? It’s a hand job – not an atrociously bad Mills and Boone Novel with ‘Manual Erotic Control’. It’s almost akin to drving a car – Wheres the fun in that? Expert hands? (I’m taking the gender pronoun out of this – because I’m sick of the lack of sexual diversity in these ‘tips’). It’s bullshit. Not everyone likes hand jobs, not everyone likes giving/receiving oral pleasure and to reduce great sex to these tips. The tips are generally so heteronormative with stock photos of good looking couples, but they generally focus on the physical pleasure of the situation. The tips that focus on the mental pleasure are the way to go.

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See, the fact is we all do things differently, our movements, our rhythms, our bodies, our shapes and sizes, even the way we move our tongue. It’s about a connection. You’ve seen those couples, and you’re wondering why they are together. We’ve all done it, sitting there during lunch, brunch dinner, or having a drink at a bar and you make the offhand comment to your friend/partner/colleague and you giggle as you wonder why they’re together. None of these so called sex tips speak about ‘connection’. I’ve been working in the Sex Industry for almost a decade and I’ve seen all sorts of couples. I distinctly remember this one couple, loved up, cute and apparently having the best sex of their lives. They’d tell me about it, how they’d have a long afternoon session and it wasn’t even all about penetrative sex or tongues, or even body parts. For them, an afternoon of sex was about intimacy, about touching, feeling and laughing. You could hear it when they spoke about it, some strange mysterious connection that whenever they got together, they didn’t give a damn about the rest of the world – they created their own world, their own space and when it shattered they laughed about it and moved on. They were two bodies together, exploring, having fun, and absolutely being in the moment.

So you’re sitting there thinking well what is this guy on about – what makes great sex? The answer is as simple as it is complex – not giving a damn. Being in the moment, let it flow and just follow the grind. It’s about pleasuring the mind, which is most likely why that time you had sex in the change room despite it being an awkward quickie was probably mind-blowing sex. That ex who you’d fight with constantly, but the second their arms were around you you turned into a quivering and horny mess.

Great sex is about accepting who you are, accepting your flaws, having body confidence and accepting theirs. The ability to have a laugh when it doesn’t go to ‘plan’, the idea of not actually having a formulaic plan to please your lover.

Here’s the secret. There’s no one way to have great sex. You can read all the tips on the internet, know exactly how to move your tongue, and physically please your partner. But you can still not be the best in bed. People are reluctant to let go of the idea of having great sex. So hell bent they are on discovering the secret they are absolutely convinced that there must be something tangible that gives access to great sex. There’s not. You can be reductive and say that it’s about understanding your partner’s body and mind and you’re not going to be wrong. But how can you teach someone to understand their partner’s body? You can learn, but without that connection you’re not quite going to reach that final step. Most people insist that it is some physical way of moving (Because, like, they tried this move on three chicks last week and they all went nuts man. Or, I moved my tongue like this and two dudes last week came like that *Snaps fingers dramatically*). People sometimes feel that they must sacrifice a part of themselves to have great sex, or forgo their own likes and dislikes to achieve that mysterious mind blowing sex that your best friend seems to have. All. The. Freaking. Time. Leaving you sitting there, wondering am I bad in bed?

If you forgo your likes and dislikes you’ve already lost the battle. If you’re doing something you can’t stand, you’ll never achieve the pinnacle because you’ll be focused on the idea that you’re doing something you don’t like to please someone else. If you’re on your knees sucking dick or whatever it is your doing and you’re wondering if they’re liking it, you’ve lost the battle. Let go, seriously. Just let it go. Relax in the moment and just do it. It’s like your special pair of underwear, the pants that you put on when the world seems dark, that instantly boost your mood, your lucky pants. There’s absolutely no reason why they’re special, no foundation but for some reason they make you feel better. Grab that feeling, that blasé-ness, and ride it all the way to the top.


By Stephen Smith a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Slow Sex is Better Sex

Women in Bed

You’re young, fit and eager! What’s more, regarding the matter of a lover in the bedroom, you nail it quick and hard. You may think that’s the way she prefers it as that’s what you see in the movies or when your watching pornography. The issue is, that’s not the way she actually likes it, as this is not the way people normally experience complete sexual delight. Today you will learn how to have some of the best sex in your life. You need to start by the simply acknowledgement that women and men are all different. People are unique and experience feelings completely different to each other. But what is most common among most people is that sex is better slower and steady. Slow and steady sex means more thought has been placed into what your lover enjoys. So the answer on how to have better sex and improve relationships, is to take sex slowly.

Give your lover the time to get up to the same speed as you. It has been said that when men climax quickly through intercourse. It can take men around 2 minutes of full on pumping whereas most women can only take about 14 minutes until they reach orgasm. If you crunch the number between both genders, there’s a 12-minute difference in timing! When you participate in sex at a slower, more conscience rate, you will help her achieve a higher quality orgrasm then what she has previously had. If you improve the sexual experience you are also increasing your chances for having more sexual intercourse. With men, they can practice to hold of their climax, this is a practice that called “edging”. Edging can amp up the force when you do at last cum, which will improving the sex and enjoyment you feel.


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Why She Likes It Slow

  1. Just because a women is wet, doesn’t mean she’s close to peaking. She is naturally lubricated because she is thoroughly turned on meaning she wants to have sex with you that badly. For a decent general guideline: Take the amount of time that you think she needs, and times it by two. Now you are somewhat on the way to pleasing your woman. In the event that she’s ready sooner, you’ll know it.
  2. Synchronicity is misrepresented. Women of all ages couldn’t care less when we have a climax or the length it takes for us to get one. The more you empower a woman to climax and the slower you take things the more probable that gets to be. After she climaxes she will want to satisfy you more. All you have to do is listen to her sexual needs, if she wants you to go faster, go faster and if she wants you to go slower, go slower. Don’t follow the thing’s you see in porn, it is always best to follow what she needs. It nay feel uncomfortable to do it at first, but if you do, she will thank you for it!
  3. Hell, sex is enjoyable. You race through the workday and dependably attempt to be proficient, yet with regards to the play. If you are experiencing any sort of play, no matter the type of sexual play, make the most of it. She needs the break and joy as much as you do, and if you try your hardest you’ll get better at it.

Why You’ll Benefit from Taking Your Time

  1. Men need more time to recoup after climaxing during sex than ladies do. It’s known as the too intense period and there’s little you can do to speed it up. For a man once he comes that is often the end of show yet with a woman this can just be the opening act. Some men are able to reproduce sperm really quickly. This means some men can come multiple times in a day whilst other men may only be able to cum once a day.
  2. Sex is superior to drugs. As indicated by Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D., a porn star turned sexed instructor, sex advances the creation of torment diminishing pheromones called neuropeptides that give you that feel good and after glow feeling.
  3. Two words: stronger climaxes. The slower you take things, and the more times you draw near to the edge without going over, the all the more capable the orgasm will be the point at which you at long last go off.
  4. Sex will feel more private and intimate.

Slower sex communicates something specific that is the opposite of bim, bam, thank you ma’am, It’s more suggestive of issuing her time and permitting her to appreciate the joy.” Fundamentally, taking your time can change your ordinary routine into “fuck me more” and make it like you’re giving her warmth regardless of the fact that the sex is, in light of present circumstances, nothing new. You can be a superior stud in bed using this quick tip for better sex and women will be wanting you more. You can also add sex toys into the bedroom, we recommend Fun Factory as they are a high quality brand that may add a little bit of fun into the bedroom.