To many guys, sex on a first date seems like it will only happen with a big amount of luck. And all because they don’t know how to seduce girls, and occasional success is just a matter of chance. However, there’s the good news: you can easily make your companion want sex on the first date. You just need to approach this process more consciously.
You probably don’t even suspect that there are several critical moments your success depends on. And knowing how to act in these moments and a small change of behavior can completely change the course of seduction from long (and annoying) courtship to sex in a couple of seconds. Use these 4 rules to seduce beautiful women.
When you don’t need to put in any effort
Sometimes it happens that you go on a date and see that the girl actively supporting your desire to drag her into bed by touching and hugging you or showing other signs that she’s interested in you. Such moments scare the hell out of some guys, so they start acting incorrectly.
Even a small interest at the beginning of the first date can lead to sex. All you need is to take advantage of this and be more active and decisive. Just imagine that this girl is your old friend. If she’s interested in you, then she’ll easily accept (and support) your courtship. This approach will work.
Seize the moment
Let’s say you got caught in the rain, and it happens so that you’re not far from your home. You should take advantage of the moment and invite her to your place for a cup of tea. For example, the same thing works if it’s already too late, and you’re a couple of minutes away from your home.
Let’s say you asked her out on a date in the evening, she wanted to go home early, but you persuaded her to stay, promising to call her a cab. Keep the promise. But before making a call, say “Let’s go to my place! It may take a while until the cab arrives, so why wait for it outside?” That’s what we call “taking advantage of the moment”. If you manage to get into a similar situation and use it (and such situations happen pretty often – you just need to spot them), then it will be easier to get sex on a first date.
“3 in 1”
For some reason, most guys are guided by the principle of “one date – one place”. Usually, after spending a few hours in a café or restaurant, they take girls for a short walk, and that’s all. Here’s how you can make a few adjustments to your plan and get her into your bed. If you visit more than one spot with her during the date, both of you will have a feeling that you already had a few dates. After all, the main barrier that prevents a girl from agreeing to sex on a first date is a lack of trust.
When you visit several places at once, she’ll begin to perceive you as someone she knows well. It’s better to take her to at least three different spots. But you can make it “4 in 1” or “5 in 1” if you want. It all depends on what kind of places you take her to, and how tired both of you become in all of them.
Try to make it so that the next place contrasts with the previous one. For example, if you were engaged in something active in the first one, than the second spot should be relaxing, and so on. And the last place should be near your house (plan ahead).
Keep a conversation going and listen to her carefully
To establish an emotional connection with the girl, show her your true self, tell interesting stories with a smile on your face. Let her know that you’re a cheerful person. Thus, you strengthen confidence, and the more she trusts you, the more she will open to you in return. In the end, this leads to a feeling of deep connection, which makes your companion more liberated in your company.
Every time the girl tells you something about herself, you must remain silent and listen. If you’ve never been particularly interested in the thoughts of women, with whom you went on a date before, then you’ve missed a lot. If you like this girl, she’ll help you seduce her. She’ll give you a couple of tips you can use to make her want to have sex with you.
Why sex on a first date is so important
So what is the reason for such a rush? Why not wait? After all, there’s still so much time ahead. The fact is that sexual desire, as well as any food product, has a shelf life, which is pretty short. It’s like a carton of milk: if you don’t drink it in time, the milk will turn sour, and you’ll have to throw it away. Aside from that, women usually treat men according to 1 of 3 categories that they will fit into:
And, as a rule, the longer the process of seduction lasts, the less chance you have to get into the first category, and the higher the risk of ending up in the third one.
No matter whom you’re dating – nuns, MILFs, or Russian girls for marriage – these tips will work. Remember the main thing: even if you fail to make your companion want to have sex with you, there’s no reason to give up. With experience, you’ll learn to feel what exactly you must do or say to achieve what you want. Just act more decisively and quickly – your determination to succeed will increase your chances dramatically. Most importantly, always bring a condom with you so that you are always covered!
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