Safely Sounding!

We care about you and what you to feel at mind when buying our products and what you can expect when you use them. We also respect what you’re into so I’ve created this how to sound safely guide! This is merely a guide put together from information we’ve sourced from online sources. Please keep in mind that we are not medical doctors, always seek medical advice prior to sounding.

What is sounding you may ask?

Well, I am really glad you did! Sounding is the use of smooth rods, made metal or silicone. The rods are then pushed into the urethra for the purpose of pleasure, this is a pretty advance sexual kink play and falls under the medical play umbrella. This can be both men and women, but in my experience has been more common among the male clientele at Ohzone! Vagina sounding uses different equipment as vaginas are obviously shaped differently and have smaller urethras!  For the purpose of this article, I’ll be looking at sounding for men this time. I know this sounds (see what I did there) excruciatingly painful but done right it can be lots of fun for the recipient.  Some sounders calling the feeling intense and pleasurable, particularly as it hits their prostate.

However, sounding can be dangerous if you’re not careful. The urethra walls are very thin and can be easily damaged – this can lead to internal scarring. I don’t need to spell this out for you; this can cause ongoing medical issues so I am warning you…


Okay, the first thing you’ll need to do is buy a sounding set, you can find single sounding bars or sounding sets in your local Oh zone! I would recommend buying the set, you’ll save money in the long run by buying the set and they will last you practically forever. At this point your we are going to recommend that you also purchase surgical lube. Surgical lube is best for sound as it’s sterile, water lube is also suitable for sounding. We advise, like for most toys, against using silicone lube. Also, your saliva isn’t lube… it’s an awful idea, don’t even consider it.

Bear in mind that cleanliness matters and you have an increased chance of getting an infection from the germs from the outside world getting into your penis. Make sure you clean your bars with toy cleaner beforehand, just to be sure. Perhaps you should also have a shower before you start sounding. Please ensure you clean your sounding bars after use as well as before.  Cleanliness is next to godliness, right?

Now that you’re all clean, your toys are clean, you have a sounding set and sterile or water based lube it’s time to pick a bar. As a beginner you may be tempted to use the smallest bar, don’t. Smaller thin toys can slip in easy but can also cut you as they are difficult to control and cause damage to your urethra. This doesn’t mean you should use the biggest bar either, for obvious reasons. Your bladder is located inside this region of the body you can cause serious damage to your bladder if you are not careful. According to a quick google search you should be aiming for a bar that is a similar size to that of your urethra, with lube the bar should feel snug inside your penis. Beginners should aim to go slow, control the bar, acknowledge the feeling and do not push past the bend in your sounding bar. Keep the bend or the curve in your sounding bar facing your face.

Particularly for beginners it is suggested that you steer away from dual sexual activities during your sounding session. That means no sex with your sounding bar in, no butt plugs, no masturbators, NOTHING. Your focus should be on sounding and sounding only.

Overall, sounding can be an intense rush, but it has risks and only after a bit of research you should start sounding. Make sure you have all the information at hand, including what to do if something goes wrong. Like I said earlier, we are not medical staff and I would recommend speaking to your local doctor about it before commencing sounding. If you’re comfortable I would also suggest having your: wife, girlfriend, fuck buddy, friend (pending on how close you are) in the room with you, particularly on your first sounding session. This is one of those occasions where liquid courage definitely will not help you, avoid alcohol as it will thin your blood and if you do have a bleed it will be much worse.

Unsafe penis play

So, I hope I haven’t frightened you away, done correctly I am sure everyone will love sounding. Be safe and look after one another!

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What’s Love Got To Do With It?

When was the last time you laid eyes on a person who made the butterflies in your stomach throw an impromptu party by jumping up and down like their lives depended on it? If you can’t remember, and yet you’re not single and consider yourself to be happily married or in a long-term relationship, the answer is probably – the last century. It was so long ago that even if you found yourself single and ready to mingle, you wouldn’t even know where to begin because back in the day no one in their right mind tried to find love online!

Sustaining a marriage or any sort of committed relationship takes plenty of patience, excellent communication skills, and an incredible amount of understanding.  So, what’s love got to do with it? Well, it’s a foundation, and it better be a solid one otherwise all the other ‘stories’ you build on it will come crashing down sooner or later. Today, we’re not here to discuss the foundation but would like to take a look at what it takes to maintain a relationship in this day and age when even the people have become disposable.

#1: The Art of Patience

Every relationship has its ups and downs, and it’s easy to enjoy the good times knowing a difficult period is behind you. But what do you do when you find yourself in the midst of challenging times where the future of your marriage is uncertain, and you definitely can’t predict what tomorrow will bring? Couples who stay together for decades have a common goal – to stay together for as long as they both shall live. This common goal is one of the key factors that helps each partner get through a tough period that threatens to break them up. This is anything but easy, and in most cases, time is the biggest ally because it heels wounds and eventually opens new doors, and it is patience that each partner must have for time to do its job, and bring their relationship back to normal.

#2:  Communication is Key

Getting your message across so that your partner can understand your point exactly is crucial for maintaining any kind of relationship, even long-term friendships. At the same time, listening intently and paying attention to your partner’s body language even when he or she is not talking goes a long way, especially if you take the opportunity to show them you’ve been paying attention when they least expect it. When you run into problems, talk to your partner when the emotions settle down instead of poking each other’s eyes out when you’re each at your wit’s end. Being prepared to compromise on your wishes and desires to include some of your partner’s as well ultimately leads to a happy and healthy life together.

#3: Putting Yourself in Someone Else’s Shoes

Having sympathy for someone is nice, but it won’t get you far. Having empathy and understanding someone else’s point of view means that two people are mature enough to be with each other. Children have extremely narrow points of view and aren’t capable of seeing the world through anyone else’s eyes but their own. As we grow older, we begin to understand that we don’t live on a remote island, are social creatures, and as such must take another person’s feelings, desires and beliefs into serious consideration. Otherwise, a very lonely existence awaits. Couples who are happy in their relationships for years and even decades have no problem putting their partner’s needs ahead of their own, and their partners are more than willing to reciprocate.

This article is written by –

Stefan Guest Post

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Diet Made Me A Super-STUD!

Whether you’re a lawyer, a developer of a cougar dating website or a college graduate, one of your aspirations as a man certainly is to be handsome and attractive. Such were my aspirations as well, but it wasn’t until my mid-30s that I came to accomplish my fitness goals.

Admittedly, my road to handsomeness was a tough one, partially because it took me a while to begin working on myself and because of the weight problems I had since childhood. Still, with the right diet and enough motivation, I managed to become a rather attractive-looking guy. With that said, here’s how a diet made me a super stud.


A Rough Start

Ever since I was 8, I had a weight problem. I got used to eating lots of candy and junk food from an early age – a habit that would take almost two decades for me to get rid of. I was overweight as a kid and kept that status all the way through elementary school, high school, and even college.

After graduating from college, I managed to find a job and blended in quite nicely since being overweight wasn’t looked down on as much as it was during my high school days, for example. My career became my top priority and I completely neglected my health, weight and looks during the first couple of years after I had started working.

However, obesity proved to be an issue every time I went to hang out with my friends or family. Most of the people I spend time with outside of work lead active lifestyles and want to engage in various physical activities, which obviously wasn’t my cup of tea at the time. I was always the last one in the group to finish something (provided that I even agreed to start it in the first place).

After a couple of years of being the fattest and slowest of all of the people I know, it finally dawned on me – I had to lose weight and get a grip on my body.


Trial and Error

Naturally, the first thing that came to my mind was cardio exercising. Despite the fact that cardio was, is and always will be the best way to lose weight, it’s virtually useless if you don’t stop eating all the trash that I was used to consuming my whole life.

After a couple of months of running on the treadmill and seeing no progress whatsoever, I gave up. I went back to my old ways of going from bed to car, then to my office chair and back to the car, only to end up in the bed again at the end of the day, feeling lazier and fatter as time went on.

This is when I stumbled upon an interesting diet that promised results in the most natural way possible, without making me starve or forcing me to eat things I really didn’t like. I opted for the Mediterranean diet at the time (even though there are many other efficient diets out there), which allowed me to eat regular meals that consisted of balanced and light foods.

Sticking to it was anything but easy, but I managed to be a devoted dieter for a whole year. Needless to say, I lost about 30% of my weight, which then allowed me to introduce more meat and fat into my eating regimen so that I could finally get something out of exercising.

Fast forward 6 months and I’m a super stud I always wanted to be. Thanks to a good diet, some hard work, and determination, I’ve managed to go from a fat slob to a super stud in a year and a half.


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10 Tips To Be a Modern Day Romeo!

If you’re a single guy then you probably know that impressing women on dates is anything but easy and simple. It doesn’t matter if you’re into young ladies or mature women of the cougar dating scene, you have to possess a certain set of skills in order to dazzle them and seal the deal.

Over the years, the list of mentioned skills changed along with the trends and laws of the dating world. Back in the day, impressing a woman was a bit easier than it is today. So, if you’re a single guy who wants to become an irresistible modern day Romeo, here are the 10 tips that will help you achieve that goal.

You Have to Be Willing to Adapt

One of the best ways to become a master of seduction is to be willing to adapt to the current dating market. When it comes to matchmaking, things are always changing, so you have to be flexible. Of course, you don’t have the change who you are, just make sure you’re in sync with the latest trends.

A Romeo Must Be Confident and Calm All the Time

Being too nervous and jumpy is not something most women find attractive. Girls are usually into guys who are composed and confident, so make sure you come across as a fully self-assured gentleman.

Be a Good Listener

Believe it or not, the most important thing when it comes to seduction is listening. Most guys out there are too busy talking about themselves that they don’t know how to sit and listen to the girl. Therefore, if you really want to impress her, work on your listening skills.

Ask Her What She Thinks about a Certain Topic

Even though we live in a modern society, a lot of women still feel like their voice isn’t heard. The majority of men consider them to be inferior, so to stand out from the crowd, make sure to ask your date to share her opinion on the topic you’re discussing.

Show them a Good Time

These days, romantic dates are very predictable. Women expect men to take them out to a fancy dinner and drinks and that’s it. So, to make a really good first impression, you need to show her a good time. Get creative and plan an exciting first date.

Be Spontaneous

Planning your date is important, but women love guys who can be spontaneous and unpredictable during the date. Therefore, break the pattern once in a while and surprise her.

Make Her Laugh

A lot of guys think that ripped bodies, huge biceps, and expensive cars are the things that will seal the deal. However, these things are useless if you don’t know how to make women laugh.

Tell Her a Captivating Story

Most ladies are attracted to great storytellers. They simply love a man who has his way with words. So, feel free to tell your date a captivating story and she’ll be swept off her feet.

Show Genuine Interest in Her Life

Yes, good storytelling abilities are important, but you also need to know how to ask the right questions and listen to the answers. Don’t make it all about you. Instead, show genuine interest in her life. She’ll appreciate it.

Don’t Look too Desperate

It doesn’t matter how lonely, sexually frustrated, or desperate for love you are, you must never show that to your date. Being too eager is a major turn off, so try your best to stay composed and patient throughout the entire evening. If you manage that, she will want to see you again.

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Stefan Guest Post

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Stepping Into Stilettos – A Fetish Fanatic Is Born – PART THREE!

If you’ve been following this mini-series of mine you will know that I started out as most who choose to enter the adult industry; as a stripper. I later found my way into a club/adult store that offered only private dancing and into a world of fetishes and kinks beyond my wildest imagination.

I guess you could say I became a regular fetish fanatic for lack of a better term. Like with most other aspects of life; I have my favorites and I have those I would rather avoid. For this post, let’s just do the ones I grew to really dig, shall we?

Foot Fetish

Foot fetish is a highly popular kink that both men and women are into. In fact, It’s one of the most searched for fetishes on the internet. People who have a foot fetish are into the human foot. It’s usually a man into a woman’s feet, but as I previously stated; there are plenty of women who are into it too. I’ll admit; I’m not really much of a foot person myself, but it doesn’t bother me to have mine enjoyed. It actually intrigues me to know that something as nonsexual as my feet can turn the strongest of men into a weak submissive mess.

I mean, I never saw my feet as sexy, but I learned there are plenty out there that do! And it’s not just the foot itself that gets em going. I’ve come across men who are into the toes specifically. The arches drive others wild. For others, it’s the soles. It depends on the individual. In my opinion foot fetish, guys are also some of the t, sweetest, people you will ever meet.


By nature, I’m known as a sweetheart.

The “nice girl”.

I think that’s what I love the most about the humiliation kink. I get to drop the good girl role I’m known for and become the exact opposite. I’ll admit, at first, I had my reservations about it, but as I got more clients that were into it, it became one I really enjoyed.

From a psychological viewpoint, I understand the why’s behind it. It’s usually the men Alpha male type that wants this kind of session. They spend their day to day in charge and looked up to by everyone around them. It makes perfect sense that they get their rocks off by having a dominant woman doing the polar opposite of what they get in their vanilla lives. They want a break and for them; a Femdom session is the way to get it.

SPH (Small Penis Humiliation)

Small Penis Humiliation is precisely what it sounds like. A person with this fetish gets sexual pleasure from having their penis humiliated, mocked, and made fun of. It can be with a humiliation session or on its own. You would think it would be the ones with actual small members who get into this fetish, but it’s not. There are plenty of guys out there with a rather generous size that enjoys this fetish. To help in these types of sessions, I like to pretend the client is one of the annoying guys that think their rod is the greatest thing since sliced bread. 🙂 A common thing found in online SPH sessions is to make the guy pay what’s often called a “small dick tax”.

They measure their johnson and pay whatever the designated amount for that measurement is. Look up online Dommes and I can almost guarantee you you’ll find them charging their subs for not measuring up to size. 🙂

BDSM Angel

There are a number of others that I could include that would make my list of all time favorite fetishes, but it would end up being a book. In the last post, I told you about my first Femdom show and how much I enjoyed it. The truth is, I became hooked with the first one. Since that night, I’ve discovered so many fetishes and kinks. Some turn me on. Some turn me off. Some just make me curious to learn more about the reasons behind someone being able to achieve sexual fulfillment from them. Either way, my time working in the private club I talked about in part 2 showed me there’s a whole world of different things out there that turn people on and every bit of it excited me. However, even learning about the fetish world didn’t excite me as much as finding my way into the world of online adult entertainment.

The online adult entertainment industry is where I found my home. It all started with my getting a job as what I jokingly call a “professional dirty talker”. I’ll share that experience and more in the next post.

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About the author:  Angel Hardly

I usually refer to myself as a good girl who fell in love with the spicier side of life, but you can call me Angel. 🙂

My journey in the Adult Entertainment Industry began over 17 years ago, the same as most who got into the industry back then; as an exotic dancer. ie; stripper. I did that for a few years until I discovered the world of online adult entertainment.

Since hanging up my stilettos for good; I’ve had the pleasure of being able to delve into the many exciting avenues and aspects of the Adult Entertainment Industry. This includes; webcam modeling and studio owner, phone sex operator, sexting operator, online domination with a specialization in fetish and financial domination. Currently; I am a skilled creator of adult natured content and author of erotic short stories.

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