How To Use A Urethral Dilator!

Dillating the vagina



This week we have had a few customers asking about dilators, personally when I was first asked the question I was stunned and did not have a clue what she meant but luckily enough I was able to jump online and do a quick lookup and thought what a perfect chance to learn something new for my review this week 🙂

After a little bit of research I have came to a conclusion that there are many ways that a dilator can be used, here are just some of the main reasons I came across on why you might need to know this information for the future


 Curvical cancer – brachytherapy

One of the other reasons we use dilators for are after to maintain vaginal size in the long term after menopause or cancer treatments, dilators may help women remain size enough to be able to have pain free intercourse or examinations after menopause they are also helpful on that time of the month and when a patient needs to take anti-oestrogen hormone therapies for breast cancer they are also very commonly used to prevent scarring during graft versus host syndrome after a stem cell or bone marrow transplant.


 Some women are born without a vagina

Something I had no idea about was that some women are born without a vagina instead they have a small like dimple that is a dead end as they begin to become teenagers they have 2 options. One option is surgery another is to use a dilator, they begin to press the dilator into the vaginal opening for about half an hour twice a day, after a few weeks they\ can begin to deepen the vagina enough to be able to have sexual intercourse with a partner, however they need to keep regular dilation or sexual intercourse in able to maintain the vaginal canal. Sometimes they’re condition can involve abnormal low hormone levels in these cases they need to use oestrogen creams to improve the stretch of the vaginal area.

 Dilator vs vibrators 

There are some people that may claim that you would get a more positive result from using a vibrator of different sizes rather than using dilators, these people believe vibrators will cause sexual excitement creating more blood flow or even just to make the process more pleasurable, Some also tell women to find something shaped more like a penis for the realistic feeling with a few different sizes or even just something she desires. Excitement usually helps to bring more blood flow which allows more oxygen to the tiny blood vessels in the vaginal area witch may also help to keep the tissue healthy. Some educators worry that using vibrators without the other parts of the program will stop women from understanding their own anatomy, including full control of the pelvic floor muscles even most vibrators that have a ridiculous amount of adjustable tips of all different sizes to fit in the vagina do not have a wide commercial range of dilators witch may reduce the women’s freedom to customize her dilation

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Dilator Insertions


commonly known as penetration anxiety but Also known as pelvic floor myalgia is when some women have an intense fear of something entering their vagina. Most therapists tend to think that its a phobia genuinely triggered when a partner tried to enter their finger or penis into the vaginal entrance. A great way to overcome this is to use dilation and it will give the women a greater control over what is going into her vagina


 Vaginal reconstruction

After a women has experienced surgery to rebuild her vagina due to a default at birth, healthier problem in later years or after cancer treatments she may be given as customised dilator to wear for some hours of the day and also while she sleeps. It helps the reconstructed vagina keep depth and to stay as wide as possible during healing time. They are more likely to be used if the vagina was created using skin grafts. They man not be needed for reconstructions built from intestines, skin or muscle flaps.


Easy Dilator Use


Starting with a comfortable size that you can slip into your vagina with little or no discomfort make sure you don’t forget to pack on the lubricant and repeat as needed 🙂

If you are lying on your back you need to remember that your vagina slants slightly downwards in this position and do not push the dilator in at a right angle motion

Make sure you know how to contract your muscles relax them as you are inserting the dilator and then tense once the dilator has been fully inserted

– If you are experiencing sexual pleasure from your dilator you can move it side to side to produce good feelings

– Try reading or watching television if you find it hard to keep the dilator in for a few minutes at a time

– It is possible to injure yourself with improper use of your dilator after you have experienced radio therapy, surgery or graft versus host disease, be sure to consult your medical team to correctly show you the use of your dilator, it has been known that pushing or moving the dilator too roughly against fragile or scarred areas may result in further damage


This material is intended for informational purposes only and is never to replace professional advice or diagnosis treatments that have been dealt with by professional educators


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Sounding: Pushing A Rod Up Your Urethra!

Sex was once, to me, a superstition. It was something I found out about from schoolyard friends who’d never done it or from folks who knew little about it and clarified it in a mindfully calm manner. It was something I saw in scenes from terrible films, and it was there in the counter-intuitive syrup of sitcom shows and in music clips of almost every pop tune that I loved. If I put all of this together, it leaves me with the uncanny impression of how sex ought to be, before I ever thought I knew enough to encounter it. When I at long last started having my own sexual encounters my expectations of what sex should be left me feeling like I was missing something even while there was nothing particularly disappointing about any specific experience.

For some time, I started to think about whether something about my penis kept me from giving me the pleasure that I thought I deserved. I thought it might be holding me back from climbing the delightful stepping stool to sexual fulfilment. At whatever point a lover moved her head in joy or snatched a fistful of bed sheet while arching her pelvis upward, I asked why my own arousal never made me do any of that. Sex motivated my suspicion that there were shockingly better types of it that I would need to go outside of myself to find. Which is the reason why I came to be sitting in my room one night, sliding a long metal tube into my penis.

That’s when I started to masturbate with urethral sounds

Urethral sounds look like a moderately strong and threatening individual from the sex toy family. For the most part urethral sounds are made with a long and slim metal chamber intended to slide into the urethra to dilate the urethra in a pleasurable way. Sizes range from 4 to 17 millimetres in circumference, however there is a large variety of sizes. The urethral sounds arrive in an assortment of shapes, some have a gentle S-formed bend, while others have huge barrel shaped dumbbells on their tips. Some are made with different experience levels in mind, others are made with rectangular closures, some have round edges, and of the most threatening looking ones have serious fishhook bends.

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It’s difficult to follow the definite causes of why people began to use urethral sounds, however the act of urethral sounding has been seen throughout history in numerous societies. As indicated by Robert Lawrence, a psychologist and board member from the Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco, there is proof that doctors in old China utilized a tube which they inserted into the urethra to sample fluid for examination and therapy. In antiquated Rome, catheters, tubes, and tests were utilized to investigate the bladder and expel blockages from different channels and openings. In the most recent century, on the other hand, the act of sounding for pleasure appears to have gotten to be progressively common, with cases of men having used almost everything from pens to weaving needles which are all unsafe methods for sexual stimulation.

The tissue in the urethra is embryologically the same as the labia minora, and it’s loaded with nerve endings all the way down. Simply moving a smooth, decently lubricated urethral sound along these tissues can be pleasurable, there are more profound ways to stimulate through sounding. The urethra has four sections that unite the bladder to the penis, the final one runs through the prostate which is an organ that is integral to the ejaculatory experience amid climax for men. Sudden dilation through the urethra of the prostate can trigger discharge and is very pleasurable.

When compared to most other sex toys, urethral sounds have a high level of daredevilry attached to them and shouldn’t be used without genuine consideration and readiness. The size of the urethral sound makes them best used only by the most experienced urethral sex toy users. The urethra is sensitive and if you are inexperienced and use urethral sounds it can lead to painful tearing and cutting. The urethra is thin and delicate especially against bacteria and disease from outside microorganisms, which is the danger of inserting unhygienic items into it.

Cleaning the sound before every use is very important. This can be done by boiling a surgical stainless steel urethral sound in water for 30 minutes. Be sure to let the urethral sound completely cool down before use.

Before using urethral sounds, it is also very important that you thoroughly wash your hands and the penis. Make a point not to touch anything that hasn’t been washed before insertion. Many people recommend drinking a glass of cranberry juice just before you start, which serves to protect you against unhealthy bacteria developing in the urinary tract. Additionally, antibacterial surgical lubricant must be used with urethral sounds which can act as one final layer of insurance against bacteria being brought into the urethra. After use, the sound must be completely washed to prevent rust and the person who uses the urethral sound should urinate to flush out the urethra. I read a detailed urethral sounding guide before my very first experience.

What other people thought of urethral sounding

When I looked into using urethral sounds, the vast majority of my male friends drew back with dismay, either overpowered by the thought of painfully hurting the penis or the thought of receiving a chlamydia-test by inserting a Q-tip into the urethra and sending it to a lab to be tested. The lack of accessible data about urethral sounding appeared to heighten the confusion. One review of more than 2000 men found that approximately 10 percent who performed urethral sounding likewise reported higher STI rates. Another study, from the University of South Florida collected the data collected of patients going by the doctor’s office after they had placed items in their urethra including a ballpoint pen and a speaker wires. This study noted that all the patients had been diagnosed with schizophrenia. These articles have been found to be biased, which makes it look like using the urethra for stimulation to be out of this world. Another study asked “why would you do that?” and one of the replies was “It felt great” but this answer couldn’t in any way, shape or form defend the drawbacks.

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In my neighbourhood in Manhattan, there are various sex-toy shops and peep show venues. Thick dark window ornaments hung over the front entryways with a threatening “NO MINORS” sign making the scene feel like a universe of danger, where going in to any shop may guarantee some type of risk. These shops appear to be one stage away from liquidation with cramped walkways and police sirens heard in the distance.

As I began shopping, I perceived that each urethral sound in sight was alarmingly huge. Indeed the littlest one I could see was marginally bigger than a pencil, it looked like something that would be difficult to get into my urethra without some genuine dilation. I inquired as to whether they had any littler ones that may be more receptive for a beginner. He let me know that I could by a range of urethral sounds in a set which work their way up from beginners to more experienced users. He showed me all the different types of urethral sounds. With the urethral sounds he showed me, he said that it would be best to start not with the thinnest one but with one that was similar in size to the opening of my urethra. A thin urethral sound in unexperienced hands can evidently slide and slip around, making them less secure which can lead to potential tears or punctures. The thicker ones stays in place but can prevent them from masturbating too rapidly. I picked the littlest one among those sparkling torpedoes and brought it home with some surgical lube in one of those slim, dark plastic sacks that just ever appear to come from an alcohol store or the sex shop.

What really happened when I began using urethral sounds

Utilizing the urethral sound reminded me of the first time I stroked off. I wasn’t certain what I was doing then either, however I took some time and got used of it. Soon a confounding warmth went through my body. I had controlled my body into doing something it shouldn’t have been made to do. The translucent glob of cum saturated my rug was an indication that something new had been broken inside me, in the same way a pool of fluid underneath a car in the parking space is an indication of something beginning to go into disrepair.

I placed the urethral sound in a bubbling pot of hot water to disinfect. I thought about how my right hand would hold the pole and touch nothing else, while my left hand would do the work: get some lubricant, lift the cover off the bubbling pot of water, open and close my door, turn on some porn. It took near to an hour to set up the whole experience.

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When I at long last shut my room door and grasped the sound, an excess of clear lube coagulated around its narrowest half, I considered the way that I was presently going to be fucked by a manufactured item. The vast majority of the sex toys I’ve known were fetishized impressions of another human body part in some conceptual way. Dildos and Fleshlights were direct copies of genitalia, while vibrators evoked in some way what someone else may do to you. At the same time I was all alone with the urethral sound when I felt the metal spread open my penis. There was no anticipation; I was pleasing myself with a bit of metal.

I chose it would be simplest to begin on the off chance with an erection. The pole went in delicately and easily, the whole five centimetres was effectively inside my small opening (which had resembled a vast, eyeless mouth as I gazed down on it). There was no pain, nor was there any huge joy. The main feeling I was aware of was the unbendable hardness of the metal pole, and a thick, moderate moving wetness some place inside me. I slid it up and down. Everything happened gradually. It was like the inverse of sex, with its impacting surfaces and musical spells. I had never been touched so profoundly, and I started to feel something like a blazing sensation inside, a typical reaction that happens during a first encounter. It was an inaccessible feeling, it was a new sensation from a piece of my body that had no memory of being touched.

I went in as deep as I could, around three inches. When I moved it is far as, I hauled it out and afterward inserted it back in, squeezing somewhat more profoundly around it with my hand. I shook it in and out, tenderly and gently as I was worried I’ll break something inside. I hauled it out once more, placed it on the towel, and stroked off to the porn film. In the long run, I came.

I spent the accompanying days in an industrious fixation as to what happened to me with the urethral sound. It brought me a great happiness. Anyway something had been inside me and whatever I could feel now was the new inadequacy that it had cleared out. I needed to be touched again, however every time the idea came up, it was joined by the dissuasive memory of the amount of time and consideration must be spent on making the arrangements.

It was the farthest thing from a climax or, rather, it was the modified picture of it. Once I discovered it, I wanted to discover it once more, again and again. Possibly next time there’ll really be someone else there too.

Urethral Sounding For Women

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Until yesterday I had no idea that women used urethral sounds. Sounding, in case you don’t know, is the stimulation of the urethra with a probe. It is done medically to remove obstructions. The urethra is extremely sensitive and sounding is popular among  people seeking a different kind of erotic sensation. The object for men is usually to stimulate the prostate (an erogenous area for a lot of men). Prostate massage more often takes place from the other side,from within the anus and it is interesting to have the sensation from the other side.  What then, could a woman possibly get from this practice, being as she doesn’t have a prostate. As soon as I looked it up it made sense. As some of us  know, the clitoris is not just the small bump on the outside of our body, it is like an iceberg, most of it is under the surface, Therefore, sounding has the same possibilities for women as it does for men, stimulating erogenous zones from a different angle.

Women say that sounding while masturbating can produce  orgasms that are incredibly intense and seem to originate from a different part of the body. Letting someone else do it to you can be an incredible act of surrender and trust. that is why it is popular in the BDSM scene.

The female urethra is incredibly fragile and it is much shorter and tighter than a man’s so this is not the kind of play you can just try out with out using the correct tools for the purpose.  You have to use objects specifically designed for the purpose and you start off small. The goal for most is usually to stretch the urethra so that larger objects and different sensations can be felt.


Vagina Labelled Diagram
Diagram: Vagina Anatomy


Some people aim to insert a little finger so that the clitoris can be masturbated in unison. Some want to accommodate a Princess Albertina piercing. (the equivalent of the male Prince Albert) The Princess Albertina passes through the urethra and exits at the top of the vagina. Whatever the aim. start with the smallest probe you can. It should be completely smooth with a rounded end, the wall of the urethra is extremely fragile. Many sounds have small  ridges  to prevent over insertion. This is not so much of a problem for women as it is for men, as the female urethra gets very narrow when you have gone as far as you should and pressure can be felt as the bladder is approached. There isn’t any reason to ever try to  push further as there is no improved sensation and there  is a  chance you may end up puncturing the  bladder. It really isn’t worth the risk.

Absolutely  everything you use must be meticulously sterilized. Lots of lube is needed and it should only be medical grade, like surgilube. It is better still if you can get it in individual packets. If this isn’t possible always drip a little of the lube from the tube in case the top has been contaminated. It is so easy to get a urinary tract infection from unwanted bacteria up there. and infections can quickly spread to the kidneys which can end up being really serious. If you have stretched wide enough to accommodate a little finger then you need to file your nails smooth and clean clean and clean some more. Have anti bacterial sprays or wipes for the sounds during play.

Never stretch further than you are ready.  The urethral opening looks tiny but it is larger than you would think. It opens up more when aroused so to get the best results from sounding it is best to be near to orgasm but not quite. The chances of experiencing orgasm the first time are slim. the sensations take some getting used to, and stretching is a slow process. It might feel like you want to pee, it is best if you urinate before the start of play  and afterwards too if you can, not only to empty your bladder, but to flush out your urethra. It is actually good practice to urinate after any sex for the same reason.

Never put anything in your urethra that hasn’t been designed for the purpose. Always use a sound that is long enough not to get lost in there. If you like it, you can always get the Princess Albertina I mentioned, the piercing massages the many sensitive spots inside the urethra and can be very arousing if you gently tug the jewelry or rub your clitoris.  Hope this helps those women who want to try urethral sounding.

By Emily a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre


My Wife Loves’s Urethral Play!

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During the many years of our marriage, my wife and I have tried all manner of sex toys to spice up our sex life. Just like any normal couple, sex can at times be routine and boring after a while. After using toys, bondage and other kinky methods, we fell upon urethral sounds almost by chance. This first started when my wife noticed she really enjoyed the sensation caused by my tongue around her urethral area during oral sex. This may seem strange, but the urethra can be a hidden erotic region for many men and women. For a long time, all we ever did about it was to give that area more oral attention by licking and light sucking while I gave her head.

To begin with, it’s almost impossible to notice a woman’s urethra without taking a very close look. Situated just under the clitoris, the urethra is a tiny hole through which urine passes from the body. While in men it is obvious to see, it’s much smaller in women and easy to miss. The urethra can be very sensitive and even painful to the touch, so you may want to make sure this is the thing for you before going any further. At the time, we did not know, or even think, there was anything else we could do to stimulate the urethra further than that. It was while googling online for sex toys that we stumbled upon urethral sounds. For a brief moment, we thought we had strayed into the medical section of the wrong website. To make matters worse, the sounds looked like something a doctor would use only when absolutely necessary!  However, with a bit of research, my wife, eager as she usually is to try out something new, insisted on buying the urethral sounds.

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This was still no easy matter since there are different types of sounds and catheters on sale. Secondly these come in different shapes and sizes. It’s first important to make a distinction between urethral sounds and catheters. Sounds are smaller and are usually made of stainless steel. They can be curved or straight. Catheters are larger and more useful for deeper simulation of the prostate in men or the bladder. More kinky couples can use it to cause urination, which I do understand is very pleasurable for some. For a start, we got the kit with urethral sounds of different sizes, allowing us to start with one that made my wife most comfortable. We have always found it easier to enjoy any new toy by incorporating it into our normal sexual routine. For the sounds, we were extremely careful at the start, and just as well because sounding has many risks. The most common is the risk of infection to the urethra, and injury by the sound itself. It’s therefore important to keep everything that comes close to the urethra very clean and sterile. Each sound should be washed using mild soap and disinfected to avoid the risk of urinary tract infections.

Now, for the fun part! My wife and I have used it as an extra accessory especially to oral sex. The best position for urethral sounds is when she lies on her back, giving me the best view and access to the vagina. After a lot of foreplay and head to make sure she is first relaxed and simulated, the sound can be brought into play. It’s here where I have to play close attention to what I’m doing. Since the urethral opening is very tiny, I make sure I have a steady hand, carefully spreading the vagina lips to expose the urethra. To give my wife the most pleasure, she likes me to be stroking her vagina, all the while doing as much kissing as possible around her clitoris. Using the smallest sound, I then insert the sound slowly into the urethra. The sound must be well lubricated to avoid forcing entry and injuring her. It’s pleasurable to insert and then withdraw the sound, each time adding more lubricant. The urethra will slowly stretch, and a larger sound can be pushed gently and deeply as is required.

My wife prefers a slow stroking motion, with the tempo picking as she gets more and more horny. After a brief time, sounding gives her a really enjoyable orgasm. It took a few days of trying to achieve this at first but is now easy for her to achieve climax. This is because at the beginning, sounding can cause a burning sensation, which is perfectly normal. At this point, it’s important to stop then proceed slowly till she gets used to the penetration. It’s possible to experience discomfort or pain for a few days when urinating. This should stop with more use. It lasted for about a week with my wife, though she says it was nothing more than a dull discomfort.

Pratt Sound Kit: The really great thing about sounding is that you decide your own style and tolerance level. How deep, fast or which penetration style to use, depends on what rocks your boat. We do vary from shallow penetration to deeper ones. All great experiments come with a cautionary tale. This especially involves the careful use of the urethral sounds. Since these are metallic objects being inserted into the delicate urethral passage, a lot of damage and injury can result, leading to pain and bleeding. My wife and I have always communicated well, allowing me to stop anytime she feels discomfort or pain. This has ensured our sounding experience remains purely enjoyable.

The lubricant used should never be oil based or contain glycerin. Oil based lubes are hard to flush out, causing blockage and infection. Glycerin is a bacterial food source, encouraging their growth and leading to infection. Use only water or silicone based lubes and urinate after every sounding session to flush out the urethra. Signs that you may have gone too far include bleeding, excessive pain and a fever or discharge. These are signs of puncturing of the urethral wall or infection, so you should immediately see a doctor. It’s however normal to experience a little pain when urinating  afterwards and some little bleeding may also occur.  My favourite lubrication for sounds is SuperSlyde. Aside from that, I would totally recommend sounding to all those couples looking to try something kinkier to improve their sex lives.  My wife certainly enjoys urethral sounds.

Your Easy To Follow Penis Plug Guide

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Penis plugs are great for men who would like to masturbate in new and exciting ways. Penis plugs are pieces of stainless steel that are inserted into the urethral opening for stimulation and sexual play. These plugs are a type of sexual adventure. Men are the leading group utilizing plugs, but women are also getting into the act. Some people buy these plugs as a sexual assistance for their male spouses. Actually, your first thought would be that it will hurt, but rather the contrary. This feeling is different for all men, but it is similar to the feeling of enjoying an orgasm. If you are a beginner it is best to research other people’s experiences and keep reading testimonials. You can also download tutorials which explain will explain what they do and the best way to start using them.

Penis Plug Types

Today, penis plugs come in a wide range of lengths, width, and styles. Others are just made of a solid shaft in order to prevent or delay ejaculation, which can bring a very thrilling sensation to those who wear them.  The best penis plugs are made of medical grade stainless steel. A good penis plug should have a smooth finish. The second best choice is grade 304 stainless steel. A relatively new material used in manufacturing penis plugs is silicone. This has the advantage to give a softer feel. Don’t use foreign objects for urethral play.  The maximum width of the penis plus is one of the important size factors. Typically that varies in the range between 8mm and 10mm. Once you decide to get a plugs you should consider the design as it should be perfect for a man’s body for safety.

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  • Beginner’s Penis Plug: The penis plug is inserted into the urethra to attain sexual arousal. Apart from intensifying orgasm, it makes the penis to be responsive and more sensitive while making erections stronger. The penis plug also imitates the look of a Prince Albert piercing while one is not pierced for real. For the first timers it is recommended to try a simple, thin steel penis plug preferably with a circular, tapered tip. A carefully designed plug should have a wider end which will prevent it from going too far into the urethra. Penis plugs specifically for curious novice are called “Starter Plugs”. The usual length of a standard penis plug is between 40mm to 70mm. Solid plugs usually come with a more rounded end and a tapered tip that makes insertion easier.  If it is the first time for you to experiment with penis plugs then try to find a solid plug that is only 6mm – 7mm in width.
  • Penis Plug with Penis Glans: If you struggle to keep the penis plug in place dome plugs come with glans ring whose function is to keep it on safely and it also makes the penis extra sensitive to touch and harder therefore increasing your pleasure.  The glans ring sits behind the penis glans.
  • Open Ended Penis Plugs: For experienced users, there are some penis plugs that are open ended central bore which allows ejaculation while using it. Penis plugs can as well come with through-holes, which have holes through the center of the shaft. Such through-hole brands are designed for removal of bodily fluids and for extended wear. A glans ring addition is present to assist in holding the penis plug for extended wear. The plugs come in different diameters and lengths, so there exists one for each penis size. You may get plugs that feature an even shaft, or plugs that feature different bumps and lumps, each offering you a distinct sensation when inserted. If you go for an open ended plug check if the insertion tip is not too thin or too sharp.
  • Textured Penis Plugs: Penis plugs come in various designs some are longer and other have ridges around the shaft while the basic ones are smooth. The different designs do different things as some heighten your arousal.
  • Penis Wands: There are also longer plugs on the market, that measure in the range 50mm to 99mm. If a penis plug is longer than 100mm it is called  “Wand” or a “Penis Wand”.
  • Urethral Sounds: The urethral sound stretches and probes the urethra. Apart from being used in medicine for dilating urethra during tests many men looking for more exciting sexual experiences also enjoy them. Urethral Sounds are slightly curved or straight pieces of steel utilized for unblocking obstacles of the urethra or increasing the size of urethra. The other kind of urethral plug is called the Prince’s Wand, which requires a piercing underneath the penis. The wand is put in the urethra and then a fiber pin is put in the piercing and bolted into the Prince’s Wand. A ball on top of the wand may be unbolted for removal of fluids.
  • Penis Plug Jewelry: Penis plugs also act as jewellery as they can have gemstone’s designed at the tip. There are also penis plugs that hoops on the ends to offer them that pierced appearance, without them being pierced.
  • Vibrating Penis Plugs: In the past few years there have been addition of vibrators on the plugs for additional thrills.

So what are you waiting for?  Get out and get yourself a plug now and experience cuming from the inside out!