Win Promescent Male Delay Spray Valued Over $100!

Delay spray for premature ejaculation

Our friends at Promescent who manufacture the world’s first FDA compliant, famous and best-selling solution for premature ejaculation have sent us a bottle of their male delay spray valued at over $100 to GIVEAWAY to one of Adultsmart’s lucky readers.

How do I enter the competition?

To enter simply write a comment below this article on why you love Promescent.

Who can enter the competition?

You must be over 18 years of age to enter the competition. The competition is open to people worldwide.

When does the competition close?

Entries close on the 19th of May. The draw will be conducted on the 20th of May.  The winner will be contacted via email to arrange delivery.

How many times can I enter the competition?

One entry per person.

About Promescent

Promescent is recommended by thousands of urologists as the first-line of therapy to treat premature ejaculation. It is a topical desensitisizing medication that is used to manage and control ejaculation so that men all over the world are able to last longer in the bedroom.

Using Promescent will reduce levels of stress and performance anxiety. It helps place people’s minds at ease knowing that they are using a product that works. This will in turn helps to boost personal confidence so men can spend more time enjoying being in the moment when it matters the most. This makes each and every sexual encounter the best it can possibly be. What makes Promescent incredible is that not only has it been proven to work but it also greatly minimises sensation loss and transference to a partner.

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Promescent prevents the transference to a partner

Promescent goes above and beyond most other delay sprays available in the adult market with their product being made with TargetZone technology. When the product is applied, it does not just stay on the top layer of the skin. Instead, it is absorbed into the penile skin. The ingredient lidocaine remains in the localalised area that it was directly applied to and does not spread to other surrounding areas. This occurs because the formula is a liquid rather than a solid. This mix of delay spray is known as a “eutectic formula” which gives it the unique properties it possesses.

For people who are planning on using a condom to prevent any transference to their partner during penetrative or oral sex, Promescent recommends to use a damp cloth or paper towel to wipe away any excess delay spray.

What we love most about Promescent is that it’s FDA compliant and made in an FDA approved facility

Promescent left no expenses spared. To maintain the highest quality of standards and high levels of customer satisfaction they have went above and beyond. Promescent is FDA compliant and manufactured in an FDA approved facility.

Promescent has been proven to work by an IRB certified clinical study

When compared to other delay sprays available in the adult market, Promescent is different. They have successfully been proven to work by an IRB certified clinical study. The study had found incredibly strong results which showed:

  • Men who used Promescent were found to last up to 64% longer in bed.
  • The participants reported that when the product was not used they were able to achieve orgasms 44.1% of the time. When Promescent was used, 65.6% of sexual events resulted in both partners having an orgasm.
  • The participants reported that when Promescent was not used, 38.7% of men would have an orgasm but their partner did not.  When Promescent was used, only 21.0% of men would have an orgasm but their partner did not.
  • 72.1% of participants reported that when Promescent was used it impacted their sexual lifestyle, health and wellness positively.

There have been multiple studies published about the statistics and facts of how Promescent has worked for others. These articles have been published by the National Center for Biotechnology Information, the National Institute of Health, Medical Daily and the International Journal of Impotence Research.

Promescent is incredibly easy to use

People who are using the spray for the first time are recommended to only spray the product around 3 times. Once you have sprayed, wait for up to 7 to 10 minutes to find out how your level of sensitivity has changed. If you are still sensitive, try applying one or two more sprays until you get the desired result. The first time a person uses the delay spray should be looked at as a trial before the main event.

Promescent recommends that the delay spray is used on the frenulum and on the underside of the shaft. Promescent is incredibly convenient and can also be applied when flaccid or erect. With all of this in mind, you should definitely try using Promescent’s delay spray as a method to delay ejaculation!

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The ONLY FDA Compliant Eutectic Male Delay Spray!

There are so many delay sprays in the marketplace receiving another one was just a bit of ho-hum for me… BUT… PROMESCENT was different.  9 out 10 delay sprays or creams are made with the active ingredient lidocaine, which is basically a numbing agent.  So you spray it onto the penis and hey presto, after about 5 to 10 minutes the penis goes numb. This is great but seeing that your penis goes numb it also effects the stimulation it will receive. So less stimulation equals a delay in ejaculation.  You do not have to be a rocket scientist to work that one out which is why there are so many around.

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PROMESCENT is different.  Let me explain to you why. It was created by respected urologist and creator Robert Gilbert MD, from top to bottom.   It is now recommended by thousands of urologists across the USA.

Gilbert death was a case of mistaken identity. He was shot 10 times in January of 2013. The man in question pled not guilty for reasons of insanity but received life imprisonment in September 2017.

In 2014, Abraham was offered over $30 million USD to sell the company and turn the product into a prescription only drug. Jeff promised Ron’s family to make this a global brand, stating:

“This product needs to be on the shelf at every Walgreens, CVS, and 7-Eleven right next to the condoms. This is a lifestyle product.”


Are you getting excited????  Well trust me you are not going to blow your load after reading this review.

So getting back to the product. Promescent is a treatment for premature ejaculation (PE) and basically means that you cum pretty much straight after sexual stimulation.  The causes of PE are many and it effects an estimated 30% or all men at some time in their lives.

Common types of premature ejaculation

The most common types of PE are:

Lifelong Premature Ejaculation

Obviously, this means that the ailment has been present from the first time sexual stimulation was experienced.  It will occur during most if not all encounters and the typical time before ejaculation is experienced in one minute or less.

Acquired Premature Ejaculation

As a result of ‘poor’ sexual experiences the ailment occurs later in life.  Again, it covers most if not all sexual activities and the average time before ejaculation is three minutes or less.

Variable Premature Ejaculation

Some sexual encounters you have regular sex and ejaculation and other times you suffer from PE.

Subjective Premature Ejaculation

Disappointment with the length of time of sexual intercourse regardless whether it is PE or not.

NOTE:  Premature ejaculation may occur prior to penetration or stimulation and anything less than 3 minutes is considered PE.  The average length for a man having sex to ejaculate is five and a half minutes.

So as Promescent is the only compliant FDA eutectic treatment – I said it again.  So how and why does it work?

Obviously, lidocaine is the active ingredient in the climax controlling spray BUT they have patented technologies that controls the drug – SO IT DOES NOT NUMB!!!!  Yes, I am shouting but hey I am pretty excited about that.  This patented formula they describe as:

‘an “eutectic formula”, which is a combination of materials that, together, for a new substance that has significantly new properties’

All those other delay sprays numb so sex is nowhere near as enjoyable with it on.  Can you keep a secret?? Just between you and me, half the time when using delay sprays it is not premature ejaculation it is getting it up.  My Rodger is so numb and desensitized that I cannot get aroused. (The other inactive ingredients are listed at the footer of this review.)

Reviewers and users of PROMESCENT have often reported an INCREASE in stimulation and more intense orgasms.  Bet you are now reading with added interest.

Using it is simple too as you simply use the spray 1-2 applications is generally sufficient 5-10 minutes before sexual activity to the penis and particularly the frenulum.  Once on it does not transfer to your sex partner and because it is absorbed by your skin so it stays on you lasts a lot longer.  Trust me, a lot of this sounds too good but it has been proven in clinical tests and trials.  In fact the US Medical Journal in august of 2016 published that states:

‘Promescent spray helps men last up to 64% longer in bed.’

Not a bad endorsement, hey! This could really could be used to improve almost any man’s sexual lifestyle.

Promescent’s available sizes

Promescent comes in two sized pump style plastic bottles which include:

  • The standard metered-dose bottle which contains .25 fl oz / 7.4ml. This equals to 60 identical sprays.
  • The travel trial size bottle .04 fl oz / 1.3ml. This equals to 10 identical sprays.

These bottle are a handy size that are easy to use. They also come in bundle packs so that you can save money on your purchase in the long run.

Do you need a prescription for Promescent?

Promescent does not require a prescription in the United States. The website states:

‘Promescent is a fast-acting, on-demand solution that empowers men to take control and last longer for greater sexual satisfaction.

  • Promescent does not transfer to partners;
  • Promescent does not require a prescription;
  • Promescent dosage can be adjusted for individual control based on sensitivity;
  • Promescent does not require daily dosing and can be used as needed.’

Promescent is not yet sold in Australia but you can buy it online in the US and have it shipped to you in Australia for personal use. Which is quick and easy.

So here is my review on Promescent

Having an intimate night in with my wife, and the kids early to bed we had a few cuddles and hugs and it was quite apparent that we were going to get intimate tonight.  So as bed time came and she was off to check on the kids and I was off the check the doors, lights and windows I snuck into the downstairs bathroom and applied the recommended three sprays of Promescent to the head of my penis.  I rubbed it in and after a few minutes put on my trackies and went back upstairs.

Apart from feeling damp for a few moments prior to rubbing it in there were no side effects typical of other delay sprays.  For example, Indian God Lotion causes a burning sensation, Stud 100 almost immediately numbs the head,  Dynamo on the other hand – which thankfully I have never tried brings a whole new world to side effects.  With over 454 reported reactions in 2017.

So as I went off to bed, with thankfully no side effects from the application I met with my wife for some extremely sensual action.  I am generally a 12 minute man so I do not suffer from PE but I lasted over 18 minutes and I can tell you there was some pretty intense action happening there.  During the course, or should I say intercourse of our session we applied some silicone personal lubricant which did not appear to have any impact on the spray.

I asked my wife if she noticed anything different – and apart from the contented smile – the only thing she noticed was that I lasted longer.  Now, I will not say it intensified my orgasm but the delay in ejaculation did make me enjoy the sex more.  Because I could not feel the spray, the only comment I can make is that I did not last longer, my penis did not become number so in my view it is two thumbs up on this one.

If the average increase is 64% and I am generally a 12 minute wonder the spray should have had me delay my ejaculation till around the 19.5 minute mark.  It well and truly delivered with an additional minute or so on top. Promescent is a delay spray that gives you all of the benefits.

About Ronald Gilbert Bio From The Promescent Website

Robert Gilbert MD
Creator of Promescent

Ronald Gilbert M.D. F.A.C.S. earned his degree in biology in 1983, graduating from University of California Santa Barbara with highest honors. Over the next 10 years, Ron completed his education at the University of California – Irvine, where he graduated from medical school in 1987 and completed his urological residency in 1993.

From 1993 until his death in January 2013, Ron was a practicing urologist at Orange Coast Urology in Newport Beach, CA. Ron also served as the chief of the Department of Urology at Hoag Hospital and as an assistant clinical professor of urology at UCI Medical School. He worked in the pharmaceutical industry as a lecturer and consultant for TAP Pharmaceuticals, Eli Lilly and Pfizer, educating urologists and primary care physicians about prostate cancer, interstitial cystitis and sexual dysfunction. He was a diplomate of the American Board of Urology and a fellow of the American College of Surgeons as well as a member of the American Urological Association. Ron is survived by his wife and two sons.

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The A-Z Of A Cuckolding Lifestyle!

A cuckold lifestyle is not for everyone

Many men find the thought of their wife becoming an adulteress threatening of their relationship.  That it is a breach of their marriage vows allowing their HotWife to fulfill her sexual needs whilst often insisting that he not only remain faithful, but often also in chastity to be had only when she deems it fit.  Relinquishing one’s power both sexually and in lifestyle can be daunting and challenging.  However, those that live a cuckold lifestyle enjoy the relinquishing of the responsibility of satisfying an often insatiable woman.

Some cuckold lifestyles are extreme and will incorporate bondage, discipline, humiliation and sadism to varying degrees.  But domination is in all cuckold relationships, and the HotWife will control just how much and what will be allowed.  There is some specific terminology used in cuckolding society and here is a basic A-Z glossary for cuckolds.

Glossary and definitions for cuckolds


The HotWife that is in a relationship or married that has an affair or affairs with other men.


A cuckold is often bound in order to further his training.  When the HotWife begins to have affairs in front of her partner he is often bound so that he cannot participate in or stop the actions.


The husband or partner of an adulteress who is an object of derision and humiliation.


The HotWife will dominate her partner or husband in all matters of sexuality that may spill over to everyday life as well.

Erotic Power Play

Used when first entering the cuckolding lifestyle and that power is given to the adulteress.


A HotWife often not only dominates her partner sexually but may also incorporate domination in other facets of lifestyle.

Feminized cuckolding
Cuckold Feminzed


During punishment and humiliation exercises a HotWife often feminizes her partner by making him take on female characteristics including clothing and make-up.


CBT and Chastity play are commonly used during cuckolding sessions.


Is a woman in a relationship who is free to have sexual relationships with other men and women.

Internal Enslavement

When the cuckold is ordered by his HotWife to do something – like stand in a corner – without being bound  and will remain in that position until he is released of that command.

Junior Top

A HotWife during feminization training have the man she is having an affair with top the cuckold.


When incorporating male chastity in a cuckold relationship the adulteress becomes the keyholder.


Is a person that totally becomes absorbed in the lifestyle of a particular fetish like cuckolding.


The HotSpouse when incorporating bdsm and chastity play in a cuckold relationship becomes the mistress.


The cuckold must negotiate with his HotWife when or if he be allowed to participate in any sexual activities.  This will also apply to other everyday lifestyle actions.  Negotiations can take place at different intervals of the relationship.


The cuckold must be obedient to his HotWife at all times.


If the cuckold misbehaves, is disobedient or does not please the HotWife he will be punished.  Punishments should already have been determined in the negotiation.


The same as facesitting but may incorporate the use of a chair for the comfort of the HotSpouse.


The cuckold must have respect for his partner at all times.


A cuckold is there to serve his HotWife and please her.

Total Power Exchange

Where all decisions are made by the HotWife and there is no longer any negotiation.  The HotWife has turned into a full blown mistress.

Urethral Chastity

Often used by the HotWife to punish the cuckold by inserting a solid pee stopper  so that he cannot urinate.

Voice Training

The HotWife may train the cuckold to talk a certain way during feminization or at other times in a particular manner when serving her.


A term used for newbies when they first try cuckolding until they become familiar and comfortable.


An electronic prod often used by the HotSpouse when the cuckold has been misbehaving badly.

So there are a few simple terms that are often used in cuckolding society.

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Adventures With The 82 Year Old Gaping Granny!

Gaping Granny

Continued from my 82 Year Old Pole Dancing Granny…

Now for those of you unfamiliar with an equine speculum, it is a speculum used on horses and cows to open up the vagina or anus of the animal.  It was huge and made of shiny surgical steel.  As I lifted it the weight was considerable and I was thinking how the hell it was going to fit into dear old Genie.

As if reading my thoughts dear 83 year old Genie said, ‘C’mon Jim.  You don’t want me dying of old age here waiting for you.  My cunt cannot sit her gaping wide open all day for you.”

I looked over to Genie whose legs were wide apart held in the gyno stirrups.  The aged sagging skin were a victim of gravity and hung from and the deep blue raised varicose veins ran from her open hole to her ankles.  As I approached I dipped the prongs of the speculum into the bucket of J-Lube.  Bringing the now dripping medical device up I could not help but wonder how or why I had come to service these grannies in the name of community service.

Gazing at her I saw that her vulva was spread and inflamed typical of the aged estrogen deficiencies and her cervix still open giving me a clear view into her cervix.  I could see that the upper wall of the cervix was still a healthy pink and moist but sagged which appeared to me to be the early signs of getting a prolapsed cervix.

Massive Speculum
Big Speculum

As I approached she slid her bony skin sagged ass down and brought her knees up further in anticipation of allowing me to insert those massive prongs on the steel device, which I did, and my pelvic examination of her began.  Slowly centimeter by centimeter until the entire 40 or so centimetres were inside her.  The equine speculum features three prongs one fixed and two that can be widened that were inserted, a handle to hold and control the device.  At the bottom there was a wingnut and threaded bolt that controlled the movable prongs widening them or closing them up.

Slowly I began to tighten the wingnuts that caused the prongs to widen and Genies cunt to gape further. The vagina was wide open and I could see the entrance to the cervix open in time with the widening of the speculum.  As the cervix opened up I could see into her aged uterus.  This woman had the biggest pussy I had ever seen.

She began to chuckle, ‘Like what you see?  Then why don’t you get your lovely hand and start fingering me inside my uterus?”

Willing to aid and help the elderly I slipped by fist into her vagina and then opened my hand and began by inserting a couple of fingers inside her uterus.

I heard her gurgle as she said, “That’s right Jim dear.  That’s it!  Push those fingers in until you reach the end of it dear.”

I continued to put my fingers deep inside her womb until they I felt a small opening that must have been the fallopian tube.  This seemed to drive her crazy so I rimmed the tube opening from her long infertile ovary entrance.  Looking down from her vagina I noticed that her rosebud was convulsing and the ass was rhythmically opening and closing up.

I heard her chuckle as she said, “That’s right Jim.  Granny likes a bit of anal too!  Why don’t you play around with my ass?”

Leaving the speculum inside her with her vagina and and uterus open for me to see I removed my hand from inside her and dipped it in the bucket of J-Lube.  I then began to rim her puckering anus with my fingers.  The more I did this the more relaxed and open her ass became.

She said, “Stick your fingers in Jim.”

I did as she requested, first with one finger, then two, then four.  I could feel the hard steel of the speculum on my fingers with the slight lining of the rectum wall to the vaginal wall.  This granny was getting off but I could fit no more than four fingers in her ass because of the extent the speculum was widened.  I would not have in any event in case I tore her open when doing so.

She said, “Have you seen enough Jim.”

I replied, “I’ve seen what you’ve had for breakfast Genie.  Surely there can be no more?”

She said, “Okay Jim.  Let’s clean up and then I have one more thing to show you and we can be done.”

I then removed the speculum from her pussy and even after removal it gapes with her huge pussy lips hanging.  I then went over to the sink and began to wash up.  

Genie walked behind me and said, “When you finish cleaning up just take a seat at the bar over there. Pour yourself a drink.  I will be back in a few minutes.

After I finished washing up I walked over to the bar quadrant of the garage and poured myself a stiff JD and Coke and then sat on the bar stool.  The bar stool was facing a small makeshift stage that had a stainless steel pole installed like a professional pole dancing set up.  Above and below were some colored lights and it was exactly how I envisioned a seedy low class strip club to look like.

A few minutes later, after I had checked out the bar Genie walked out and she was wearing a short bright red dress with a low cut top.  It was obvious that she was not wearing a bra as her drooping breasts hung under wear the bra cup was and her wrinkled chest full of swirls that reminded me of an aged tree but that were the skin she had worn for so many years now.  As I gazed downwards I saw the deep blue varicose veins on her wrists and her fingers that were slightly arthritic curved.  

Gazing further down I noticed that she was wearing garters that were holding up her red fishnet stockings.  I could see the folds of skin hanging from her knees were obviously the elasticity had been lost until I reached her feet and saw that she was wearing high heeled shoes.  Her arthritic toes were shrivelled and curled at the front opening.  She also wore a satin choker with an amulet on it.  She had excessive amounts of makeup on.

Skin From Naked Granny
Naked 82 Year Old Granny

She said, “Jim, be a dear and switch that stereo on there behind you.  The music is pre-programmed.”

I complied and when I turned it on some loud stripper music came on.  Genie flicked on a power switch at the base of the stage and the lights came on.  She then climbed the stair and with her hunched over disposition began to move jerkily to the music.  The fluid erotic dance expected from a high class stripper were lost in this geriatrics aged body whose muscles where atrophied.  The whole thing was wrong on so many levels but in some artistic way it was right.  I could not help but become aroused and this elderly granny began to take off her dress releasing her dehydrated boobs.  Allowing the dress to fall to the ground displaying her aged marked belly and a white G-String.

As I looked closer at the G-String she was wearing I could not help but notice that neither of her labia were covered by it and they were left hanging at least two inches down either side.  This served only to turn me on even more.

A sparkle appeared in Genie’s eyes as she said ,”You naughty boy Jimmy.  Getting turned on by a geriatric stripper.  I am just going to have to go down there and give you a lap dance.”

She then descended the stairs and began to do her lap dance.  Putting here sagging bony ass in my face and then turning around and hitting my face with those humongous labia.  After a few minutes she stopped smiled at me and then to my amazement put her hand in her mouth and removed both her bottom and top teeth.  She had false teeth in and now she had none.

She dropped to her knees and undid my fly with her gnarly hands and then took my erect penis inside her mouth.  Her lips were not soft but rough and aged and her tongue although wet felt like a cat’s tongue – rough and abrasive as she sucked and licked my cock.  I began to fuck her mouth the more I got turned on the harder I thrust and the deeper I went.  With no teeth the sensation was totally different.

I got carried away and stood up, grabbing the back of her elderly head and began to fuck her throat deeply and with abandon.  I grabbed her hair to go deeper still and to my shock it came off in my hands.  Left before me was Genie with a few strands of long hair, with tears in her eyes due to my deep-throating her.  The good church boy that I was should have made me stop and check up on her health and safety but the sight of her vulnerable, a few strands on her head with tears in her eyes only fuelled my fire.

I grabbed the back of her now hairless head and thrust my rock hard cock in her mouth until it hit the back of her throat.  Not being satisfied with that I thrust it deeper so it went down her throat tunnel.  She bit down on the base of my cock but having no teeth this did not stop me but only served to further arouse me and my dick seemed to grow to the largest erection I ever had.

Fucking her furiously now in the throat I could feel her gag reflex spasming and her mouth clamped down on the base of my cock constricted it so much that I began to powerfully ejaculate deep inside her throat over and over again until I was finally spent.  It was only then that I realised that the pressure on the base of my cock had subsided and as I released Genie she fell to the floor.

Fuck Me!  I thought I had killed her but then I heard her laboured and frantic breath and after a few minutes she spluttered up my jizm coughling it out.

As I nudger her I said, “Oh God Genie, Are you Okay?  I am so sorry.  I didn’t mean it.  I don’t know what came over me.”

She looked up coming too from her near death by asphyxiation, coughed some more and said in a croaky voice, “It’s okay Jim.  I got what I deserved.  It is the devil coming out of me and you.”  She coughed and sputtered some more and finally rose to her feet and said, “Jim, if you can go over there (indicating the bathroom area) clean yourself up and let yourself out that would be fine.”

I said, “Genie, really I am sorry.”

She looked back as she was leaving the room and I could see a slight twinkle in her eye again as she said, ‘Jim, will I see you next month to help me prune the bushes.”

I said, “Sure Genie, anything to help.”

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The Goatse Fetish

This became a regular tryst for me and Genie until she passed when she was 84 years old.  However by the time she drew her last breath my father had introduced me to a large number of sexy grannies that needed our community assistance like Prudence who had an extreme fetish with Goatse.  Perhaps you may want to learn more about her?

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Cracking The Whip With BDSM Crops

BDSM crop

BDSM play with crops can be incredibly fun and exhilarating. Dominants and submissives can use the BDSM crop for its beautiful swooshing sound, power, punishments, sensory play and pony play. This article will look into what a BDSM crop is and how to use it for the first time.

What Does A BDSM Crop Look Like?

The handle of a BDSM crop should be long and sturdy which makes it easier to control. Most BDSM crops are made with leather. The leather material is used for a secure and comfortable grip. The tip of a crop is made up of a hard leather in the shape of a “tag”. The average length of the handle of a leather crop is 26 inches and the length of the leather tip is 8 inches. The width of the crop is around 2.5 inches which makes it better for use. The shaft of a crop can be made up of metal, timber, plastic and other materials. Now and again, riding crops have a handle in the shape of a penis so that you can use it as a sex toy too.  Now that is a pretty kinky thought!

The Beautiful Sound Of A BDSM Crop

While a few people go for rigid and heavier riding crops, most people want to settle on shafts that will bend to give that extra speed when being used. The more the shaft will bend the quicker it will fly and the louder the “swoosh” will be as it slices through. It is a sound that is quite a turn on both for the dominant and the submissive in the roleplaying scene.

Dominants Use BDSM Crops For Power

During sex many people want to dominate, command and control their submissive partner with power. The dominant may want to tell their submissive what to do and when to do it. Using a BDSM crop as a prop to direct and point out what the submissive should be doing can be incredibly sexy. The person holding the BDSM crop will visually establish who the dominant partner is in the power play sex scene.

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Image: Woman holding BDSM crop

Dominants Can Use BDSM Crops For Punishment

BDSM crops are one of the bestselling punishment devices used during discipline play. Riding crops frequently change in thickness and can likewise be designed with metal studs or spikes for intense and painful sensations. Some practice is required to ensure that punishment play is performed so that every slap with the crop is carefully controlled so that people do not accidently hurt their partner.

A good beginner’s trick to test a riding crop is to lie someone’s hand flat, firmly hit the flat base of the BDSM crop on the hand. It will send a surge of light pain from the confident slap, and a rush of endorphins will surge through the receiver’s body. Their body will produce a small amount of natural painkillers. It is up to you to work out how much pain to inflict or endure. Get them begging on their knees for sex, or if they have done something wrong, punish them in bed!

BDSM Crops Can Be Used For Sensory Play

The BDSM crop is a product which can be used for sensory play. The dominant can also use the crop to whip different areas of the submissive’s body like the buttocks for a stringing pain or it can be used as gentle as a feather to tenderly tickle them under the arms for tickle play.

BDSM Crops Can Be Used With Other Products

In BDSM play crops, paddles and slappers are very popular and often used in conjunction with bondage gear like restraints and gags. Watch a porn DVD or read a naughty book then play out your sexual desires! Take it a little further and get your partner to dress up in a costume and take him or her over your knee for punishment.

BDSM Crops Can Be Used For Pony Play

Have you ever seen a jockey on a horse using something which looks like a whip, it actually is a BDSM crop. BDSM crops are also used in the bedroom for pony play.

In Conclusion

These are just some of the diverse ways it can used for making BDSM roleplay that much more interesting. Using BDSM crops can enhance your sexual enjoyment if that is the type of sexual play you fantasize about. If you are new to BDSM crops, it is recommended that you talk to your partner and see if they also secretly desire some BDSM play in the bedroom. The truth is there are a lot of people who get sexually turned on by their dominant using a BDSM crop on them. You will find that disciplining a lover will have them craving for more.Save



Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.