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InnovaDerma Haris Chaudhry

InnovaDerma came into being from the founding brainchild of Haris Chaudhry (Executive Chairman) in 2013 a Melbourne born Australian entrepreneur who made its headquarters in London.   It became a Public Limited Company on the London Stock Exchange in 2016 and the French Stock Exchange. Registered as public companies and with offices in France and Australia they are a market leader in evidence based products in the health care category.

Being a serial business developer over his career spanning some 17 years he has worked in various high profile companies until branching out on his own to take advantage of business opportunities and develop existing ones across the world.  His acquisitions commenced with Skinny Tan and now include the brands Charles + Lee, Stevie K Cosmetics, Leimo, Roots and now PROLONG the only FDA approved medical device used as a solution to treat premature ejaculation with a six week training program designed to control a man’s sexual climax.

Prolong’s clinical trials and studies

With proven results backed up by independent clinical trials the Prolong Device is the only PROVEN method that is FDA approved for treatment of premature ejaculation in men.  The clinical trials and studies brought forward the following results (Courtesy of Smiling Dick):

 

  • Prolong was trialed on lifelong sufferers of premature ejaculation (who failed to respond to selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor – antidepressants used to treat P.E.). 73% of men who failed on antidepressants and dapoxetine improved with Prolong, and improved even further six months down the line.
  • The first trial indicated a median increase in time to ejaculation of three minutes.
  • The second trial indicated a median increase in time to ejaculation from 48 seconds (0.8 minutes) to 8 minutes and 48 seconds (8.8 minutes) on average in 61% of men.
  • Compared to delayed time to ejaculation from 48 seconds (0.8 minutes) to 2 minutes and 36 seconds (2.6 minutes) in 40% of men having the Gold Standard treatment (CBT).
  • Benefits of using Prolong began at week 1, reaching their max at week 6 of the program.
  • Benefits in those who improved continued for at least 3 months after stopping the program.
  • The Prolong Climax Control Training Program was found to improve all aspects of sexual satisfaction. From initiating sex, to frequency, enjoyment of intercourse and even communication between the couple. This was measured by the GRISS questionnaire (Cambridge University) with a high (8.5 out of 10) user satisfaction and no side effects in a recent independent study.
  • The study even showed an overall improvement for distress like anxiety, depression, and parameters of sexual satisfaction such as sexual function and sexual relationship. This was found by comparing pre-treatment and end-of-treatment scores for completed BAI, BDI-II and GRISS questionnaires.

Studies undertaken by:

  • Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy (2013): Evaluation of a behavioral treatment intervention for premature ejaculation using a hand-held stimulating device, Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy.
  • Independent clinical trial, 2013, UK: Conducted on 33 males where the Prolong prototype was used in conjunction with the “Start-Stop Technique” at least three times per week for a total of six weeks. The data was evaluated using descriptive statistics including mean, median, 95% confidence interval (CI) and change from pre-treatment (baseline) to end of treatment.
  • Independent study, 2013, Department of Psychology and Logopedics, Abo Akademi University, Finland: Conducted on eleven Finnish men (33-65yrs) previously diagnosed with lifelong PE. All subjects had stopped using SSRI’s at least six months prior to enrolling in study due to poor results or side effects. Results were collected on a five-point Likert scale.

The Prolong device is available and licensed in the United States, United Kingdom, Canada, Australia, Europe and in total 32 countries globally.  The training program was developed by Dr. Andy Zama a medical director and psychiatrist at the London Psychiatry Centre and Tessa Fane A Harley Street psychotherapist.

The prolong device is regsitered both with the FDA and TGA as an approved medical device the TGA listing its purpose as:

“The PROLONG™ device is used as part of a climax control program for males who suffer from premature ejaculation. It is designed to increase the time between arousal and ejaculation through the use of the training sessions using the stimulating vibratory effects of the device on the penis as part of the “Start-Stop” technique. PROLONG™ is intended to be available as an over the-counter device as part of and in a procedure pack which includes the PROLONG™ lubricant. The PROLONG™ device could also be used standalone, without the PROLONG™ lubricant.”

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Prolong is the answer to premature ejaculation problems – It’s an FDA and TGA approved Prolong Medical Device!

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Prolong For Better Sex – Get A Smiling Dick!

Premature ejaculation slogan

There are hundreds if not thousands of premature ejaculation (PE) devices, sprays and potions available on the web and in adult shops claiming that they can delay orgasm and prevent PE in men.  How many of them can actually say that the results are proven by independent clinical studies? Or that they are an approved medical device with the FDA and TGA! Well now there is such a device that was launched globally at the beginning of May this year.

Erectile dysfunction aid
Image: Prolong Prolong Climax Control Training Device Front View

It is a fact that 88% of men surveyed indicated that they would love to have more control over how long they could last during sex, which means it is a universal solution for men, and not only the one in four that suffer with PE. What is even better about this program is that there are no drugs or herbal remedies to take. There are no side-effects. It is a pain free solution with long lasting results requiring no prescription or referrals. It is a totally natural method for training the penis using a ‘stop-start’ technique.

When Prolong is used according to the training program it will increase the times between arousal and ejaculation by taking advantage of the vibrating and stimulating effects of the patented device.  With an investment of just 6 weeks, following the Climax Control Training Program men will be able to last 3 to 8 minutes longer.

Premature ejaculation aid
Image: Prolong Climax Control Training Device Size

Who backs the Prolong Climax Control Training Program?

These are not just pie in the sky claims, they are backed up by The Journal of Sex And Marital Therapy (2013), Independent Clinical Trial (UK 2013) Start-Stop Technique and the Independent Study Department of Psychology and Logopedics (Finland 2013).

Many media outlets have published articles backing this amazing device including premature ejaculation by news.com.au, Prolong gadget by daily mail uk,  innovaDerma sex claim by the australian financial review and penis climax control by GQ magazine.  Hard print coverage of Prolong will be coming out in GQ, Men’s Health and Cosmopolitan magazines.

So what is the Prolong Device?

The Prolong Device is a male climax control penis pad with a 3 volt battery powered vibrator that is ergonomically shaped to cover the ‘sensitive trigger zone’ of your penis.  After years of scientific studies and independent research, the device has been developed into an approved medical device that will delay the male orgasm by using the proven ‘start-stop’ method.  It is white in color with ridges that are used to tame your sexual timing.

Erectile dysfunction device
Image: Prolong Climax Control Training Device Texture

As part of the training program purchase, you receive a patented Prolong water-based lubricant for better sex.

Premature ejaculation device
Image: Prolong Climax Control Training Program

Prolong comes with a 100% money back guarantee

All Prolong Climax Control Training Programs come with a 100% money back guarantee if a marked improvement is not seen after completion of the full six week program.  You cannot get more assurance that it works than that!

My test and review of the Prolong Climax Control Training Program

So after waiting just one day of being contacted by our great friends at InnovaDerma to do a product review the product arrived in a plain discreet cardboard box.  The box was filled with plastic air bubble packing to ensure that the product or box was not be damaged during shipment. I opened the attractive black packaging to find the Prolong device and personal lubricant enclosed.  An A4 instruction manual was included that had an easy to read description of the item, an introduction, instructions, warnings and technical specifications.

The actual device is made from medical grade silicone and is a sterile and clean white.  It measures roughly 4 cm in width and 5 cm in height with a power switch on the side that simply slides across to switch the motor on or off. There is one speed only and the motor is removable for when cleaning under water. It is powered by 2 x 625A batteries like the ones used in cameras. When I turned the motor on I found that the vibrations are strong but not overly so.

After reading the instructions I was really pleasantly surprised that over the training period it is suggested that it be used no more than 3 times a week. Most of these supposed training methods whether they are for penis enlargement or delaying ejaculation ask fo you to do it once a day, sometimes even twice a day. 3 times a day over 6 weeks equates to only 18 days in 42 which is more than manageable.

Unfortunately for this review I wrote this prior to the 6 week expiration date. However, after achieving an erection by masturbation I took the device out and I found it comfortable to hold with one hand, I applied the lubricant generously to it and under the head of my penis.  Then I switched it on and placed it just below the underside of the head of my penis. As the device is pliable I began to constrict and release the pressure of the device with the vibrations that caused an intensely pleasurable sensation.  

Continuing this for a few minutes I felt like I was about to cum so I removed it from my penis and waited for the sensation of ejaculation to subside and then replaced the device again to under the head of my penis.  I repeated this a number of times. This is the ‘stop-start’ technique as explained in the instructions. After four times of doing this I allowed myself to ejaculate. It felt bigger and harder than a normal orgasm and I guess that is because of the orgasm denial that I had experienced.

The device is really simple to clean up and I only sprayed it with toy cleaner and put it away.  I would imagine after a few uses you would need to fully wash it in warm water – but since that requires the removal of the motor (and probably batteries – the instructions were not to clear on that) it would not be something that I will do every time.  Antibacterial toy cleaner will suffice for most uses.

There is no reason to doubt the validity that this device and training technique works as it is fully legitimized not only by the independent studies but by the fact that it is classed as a medical device by the FDA and TGA.  Those stringent government bodies make applicants run through hoops to get approvals.

Will Prolong be a popular device?  

You bet! In recent surveys by Censuswide (21-23/3/18, polling 2,026 males and 2,003 females in Australia and the US) more than 77% of the people surveyed want a man to be able to control or lengthen how long it takes to orgasm during sex. Add this to the fact that it has zero side effects from use, it’s the first medically approved solution to premature ejaculation with guaranteed real results that are delivered in short and a realistic time frame and improves sexual satisfaction for men and their partners, why would it not be a product in demand?

The Prolong Device will be available through the Smiling Dick website at AUD $299.00 and for a limited time with free shipping.

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Testimonials

Smiling Dick has given products to review prior to launch and these are the testimonials that they have received thus far.  We expect many more to follow!

“2 minutes to 15 in 6 weeks.  My gf is very happy” – Lukas, Berlin

“Getting results.  Will definitely keep going.” – Dominik, Bremen

“Finally feels like we can have sex like a normal couple” – Arielle, Brittany

“Thank you, thank you, thank you” – Elizabeth, Manchester

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A-Z Beginner’s Guide For Electrifying Electro Sex

Electro sex

You have probably heard of the buzz that surrounds electro sex. Well, if you have been thinking of exploring the kinky side of electro sex, and have no idea on where to start, our electro sex guide lays all the essentials that you need to know. This guide has all the answers to those important questions you have regarding electro sex and will keep you safe as you embark on your new and exciting adventure.

Whether you are looking to boost your sex life or intensify your BDSM fun, electro sex is a sure way to get sparks flying once you get started.

What is Electro Sex?

Electro sex is the process of stimulating your genitals for sexual pleasure. Just as the name suggests, electro sex uses electrical sex toys that trigger electrical impulses, which in turn cause a sensual or painful sensation. These sensations are responsible for an electrifying sexual experience which may lead to an orgasm.

How Electro Sex Works!

70% of the human body comprises of water. And as we know from the basics of physics, water is a good electrical conductor. When electrical stimulants are placed on an erogenous zones, the “water” in your body transmits these electrical impulses leading to mild to teasing to breathtakingly thrilling sensations.

How to do Electro Sex and How it Feels

Electro sex employs electro sex toys, which delivers varying electrical pulses ranging from a mild tickle to a definite tingle.  On the lowest level, the electro sex toy delivers a barely noticeable tingle on the body, which is akin to a feather brushed lightly over the body, which as you can imagine, delivers a sensual and erotic feeling. This feeling is not only a tantalizing component of sexual foreplay between couples but can be enjoyed during sex too. On the higher side, the impulse interacts with the muscles below the skin, this type of stimulation is usually favored by those who prefer dominant or submissive sex play.

Safety Aspect of Electro Sex

It’s essential that you practice safe sex when using an electro sex toy. If you want your heart to be skipping beats for the right reasons, here are some safety basics you need to know:

  • Avoid this sexual stimulation if you are pregnant, epileptic, or suffering from a heart disease
  • Always keep electrode placements below the waist to avoid interfering with the heart
  • Steer away from using your toys around water
  • Do not use the electrodes if you have metal pins, plates or screws in your body

The A-Z Electro Sex Dictionary

Enough with the basics and safety procedures, let us look at some of the common terms that you are likely to come across when selecting the right electro sex toy kit.

HFO (Hands Free Orgasm)

Just as the term suggests, HFO is an orgasm that is achieved without the need of touching your genitals. Contrary to masturbation, HFO is a type of orgasm that is achieved without the need of stimulating your genitals using your hands.

Power Box

The power box is the brain or rather the epicenter of an electro sex toy. It controls the whole unit, including the patterns, speed, and power level. The power box can be powered either by batteries or by a direct connection to a power outlet.

Electro sex toy Controller
Image: Electric Shock Sex Controller

Lead Wire

The lead wire acts as the link between the power box and the electrodes. It connects to the power box with a jack plug like those found in earphones. In addition to connecting the power box and electrode, it also transmits electrical pulses from the power box to the electrodes.

Electrode

The electrode is the section that gets into contact with the body to generate electrical sensations. Electrodes are available in a plethora of styles including insertables, sticky pads, contact electrodes, and clamps. Aside from classifying the electrodes according to their style, they can also be classified depending on their connection to the body and the lead wire. When classified using the latter, electrodes are manifested in four ways, which include:

Mono-polar/Uni-polar Electrode

This type of electrode has a single connection or rather one connection port. Therefore, if you are to use this type of electrode, you will need two electrodes connected to the lead wire and in contact with the body. The two electrodes will allow a complete electrical circuit, allowing electrical impulses to flow from one electrode to the other.

Bi-polar Electrode

The bi-polar electrodes are self-sustained electrodes since they have two connection ports that complete the circuit. However, to feel a sensation, both electrodes must be in contact with the body and connected to the same lead wire.

Tri-polar electrode

If you`re looking for versatility and an added oomph to your sexual play, the tri-polar electrode is the perfect unit. The triple connection on this unit, allows the current to leap from one position to the other, allowing a person experience stimulation in different areas of their erotic regions.

Quadri-polar Electrode

This type of electrode has four connection points and doubles up as a bi-polar electrode. With this connection type, you can either connect all the four posts in the circuit or use a single bi-polar channel.

Tri-phase

For power boxes with multiple output channels, a tri-phase cable is used to create a 3-dimensional experience. With a tri-phase, you can connect a bi-polar electrode to a single mono-polar electrode to allow current to pass on all three regions.

Electro sex toy tri-phase cable
Image: Tri-phase Cable

Channel

The channel of the power box refers to the entry point of the lead wire into the power box. Depending on the number of sockets, a power box can be single-channel, dual-channel or multi-channel.

Output

Output refers to the ability to control an individual channel. For instance, a dual output means that each channel on the power box can be used and controlled independently, allowing you to use two different controls on a single person.

Completing the Circuit

Completing the circuit means giving the circuit a path to follow. For instance, a complete bi-polar circuit means that both electrodes must be in contact with the skin, allowing current to move from one electrode to the other through the skin which creates a complete circuit.

Electrogel

For the improved conductivity of electrodes, a water-based lubricant is used. The electrogel not only improves conductivity but also provides a heightened sensation during stimulation.

Violet Wands

An electro sex toy used on the anterior of the body, it creates a sexual sensation, not by contact but rather an electrical current jumping a gap between the skin and the electrode.

Electro sex toy Violet Wand
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Electro sex is both fun and rewarding and can be a super addition to add to your sexual repertoire if you know how to handle your tools. We hope that the above guide has helped you in understanding the essentials of electro sex.

Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

A Sadistic Chastity Device You Can Sleep In!

Chastity Cage

Does the thought of submission tickle your fancy?

Does giving somebody control arouse you?

DO THE WORDS…

CBT – CUCKOLDING – KEYHOLDING – TEASE & DENIAL

LIFT THE HAIRS ON THE BACK OF YOUR NECK?

Then I highly recommend you get down to your closest Oh! Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre and add the Master Series Sado Chamber Silicone Male Chastity Device by XR Brands to your bag of goodies! 😉

Silicone chastity device
Image: Master Series Sado Chamber Silicone Male Chastity Device by XR Brands

Purpose of a chastity device

The application of a chastity device is an indication of the control/dominance of the key holder over the wearer’s sexual activities. By wearing a chastity belt or cage the submissive/slave accepts the surrender of control over their sexual desires to the other partner, who may grant permission to the wearer to engage in sexual activity by unlocking the chastity device. The dominant may decide when, where, how often, and even if, the submissive is allowed their sexual release. The key holder is generally considered to be the dominant one in such a situation, and is literally, holding the keys to not only the cage but also to the sexual release.

The wearer of the belt or cage is known as the sub/slave in a BDSM relationship. This is a part of the wider practice of tease and denial. Some people claim it increases submissiveness in their men, It has often been reported that when worn, the chastity belt frequently reminds the slave of the sexual frustration they could experience. Numerous reports and studies also indicate that when men are not focusing on sexual pleasure and release, that they are more intuitive and attentive to their partners.

Most belt or cage designs cannot prevent wearers from physically touching their genitals but they do usually prevent masturbation. Although devices may hold the penis firm, they can be loose and, even though sex is impossible, it is possible for manual stimulation even to orgasm however often resulting in a ruined orgasm. The most effective masturbation prevention requires design features that incorporate piercings or a completely enclosed chastity device. I’ve chosen to look at the Sado Chamber Male Chastity Device which is made of silicone. After doing some research, I had decided that for me, silicone is a great starting choice for a chastity device because it is pliable in comparison to a steel cage, and it is easy to wear and comfortable.

Mens chastity device set
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The Master Series Sado Chamber Silicone Male Chastity Device set includes:

  • 1 silicone cage/tube
  • 3 graduated size silicone back rings
  • 2 plastic cinch straps
  • 5 individually numbered plastic seal locks
  • 1 padlock with 2 keys

The ring measurements are:

  • 2” diameter (52mm)
  • 1.75” diameter (47mm)
  • 1.5” diameter (41mm)

How to apply the device

Please ensure you set up your device correctly, a poorly set up chastity device could result in a serious injury.

At first look whilst the product was still in the box my thoughts were it was going to be an easy application with the device but once I took everything out of the box there were heaps of parts and I was a little confused on how to set it up. All you need is; your shaft tube  – ring – cinch strap with white clip – and padlock/numbered plastic lock.

Step 1

Apply a small amount of water based lubricant onto yourself or to the device whichever is preferred to create easy application. Due to the product being made completely with silicone I recommend a trim/shave to help lower the risk of pinching whilst using the device. Grab the ring with your preferred measurement around your genital area then take out the small white clip for the lock to seal onto.

Step 2

Grab 1 of the 2 cinch straps and push the white clip through one of the end holes. Begin to thread the cinch strap through 1 of the top slots of the chastity tube. Begin to wrap around the back ring whilst heading through the remaining 2 slots. After you have reached the full way around back to the other side attach the cinch strap to the white clip again.

Step 3

Get out the padlock or numbered plastic locks and lock it up! 😏

What I really think of the Master Series Sado Chamber Silicone Male Chastity Device by XR Brands

The Sado Chamber would have to be one of the most comfortable chastity devises I have worn. I have been able to sleep whilst wearing it with no metal spikes or pieces pinching me. It’s great for comfort whilst knowing you are still securely locked up.

With great sized ventilation holes it is perfect for cleaning without removal. This chamber is designed perfectly with a soft and silky silicone for movement and comfort. It is made in favour of the slave/sub with no pins or sharp edges for any unwanted pinching.

Author: Mitch is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

Cracking The Whip On Whips

Skillful whipping techniques of a mistress

Whips are used in a BDSM roleplaying scene by a dominant to inflict pleasurable pain, used as a tool for a sensory experience when gently dragged across erogenous zones and also used to point at things to tell a submissive what to do. We are sensory beings and enjoy these senses being activated especially during sex.

One of the terms that is used endearingly between BDSM enthusiasts when they would like to go for a whipping session is:

“Lets go and do a little bit of slap and tickle!”

Learn How To Use Whipping Techniques Safely

So you want to go out and flog someone? Now, you just need to know how to do it!  There are different techniques to use whips properly. If a whip is used incorrectly, it may not be enjoyable and it can be possibly dangerous.

Who Gets To Be In Control Of The Whip?

The first thing you will need to do is work out who is the dominant and who is the submissive in a BDSM relationship. To tell who is who,  let’s clarify what these terms mean.

Dominant

A dominant or a dom is the partner in a BDSM scene who:

  • Takes the active or controlling role over the submissive.
  • Decides what happens in the roleplaying scene.
  • Follows the submissive’s rules set out before the scene.
  • Practices risk aware consensual kink.

Submissive

A submissive or a sub is the partner in a BDSM scene who willingly gives up some or all control to a dominant partner. The submissive follows what the dominant decides and practices risk aware consensual kink.

When Are People Dominants And Submissives?

This type of partnership is often referred to in the BDSM community as a dominant/submissive or D/s. There are varying degrees of D/s relationships. Some people are only dominants or submissives during certain events like at  BDSM parties, clubs and dungeons or during certain times like when having sex or engaging in a roleplaying scene. Some people also switch between roles.

What Gender Is More Likely To Be A Dominant Or A Submissive?

In the 80’s, research on heterosexual couples showed that during sex and roleplaying scenes about:

  • 75% of men are the dominants.
  • 25% of women are the dominants.
  • 75% of women are the submissives.
  • 25% of men are the submissives.

Other Types Of Roles In A BDSM Scene

Others may live as a full time submissive who relinquish control to their dominant in all aspects of their life.  They are commonly known as a slave or a  cuckold.

Slave

A slave is a person who submits control of a large percentage of his or her day-to-day life to a dominant. A slave may submit within a formal set of rules and rituals set out by the dominant.

Cuckold

A cuckold is a husband, boyfriend or lover who has a partner who cheats on him. The cuckold may encourage his partner to be an adultress. A cuckold may sexually enjoy being humiliated, degraded and controlled like a slave by his partner.

Master

A master is the male dominant partner of a slave.

Mistress

A master is the female dominant partner of a slave.

Top

In a gay relationship, the dominant is often referred to as the top.

Bottom

In a gay relationship, the submissive is often referred to as the bottom.

Why Would Anybody Want To Be Submissive?

It is often said that people who have a lot of responsibility in their career and/or day to day lives often reverse their roles in the bedroom to become more submissive. These people may crave someone to make all the decisions for them which can be stress relieving.

How Does A Man Dominate His High Achieving Wife?

With the ever increasing politically correct stance of equality for women, how does this play in relationships?  To have a wife that is career orientated, while the stay at home husband looks after the kids can sometimes create difficulties. The roles may switch in the bedroom. However, it is up to each individual couple as to whose role is what.

The Agreement Between A Dominant And Submissive

A dominant and submissive relationship is like a contract.  It must be agreed before hand how much or how little ‘slapping and tickling’ is to take place. There must be one or more safe words for when the submissive wants something to stop.  AND like all contracts they are not to be broken which helps the roleplaying scene remain safe and enjoyable. If the contract is broken the trust between the parties will no longer be there.

Whips Are Different To Crops

Just to be clear whips are different to crops, clappers, canes and other punishment devices but they serve to attain the same purpose.  A sensory explosion on an area of the body for taunting, teasing and punishment. A whip can tickle, create fear, cause an explosion of sound, sting, slap, thud and more when used in the correct hands.

Different Types Of Whips

There are different types of whips with different purposes. Here is a list of the 11 different types of whips. Please note, some of these whips are not used for people in BDSM, kink and fetish scenes.

Sana Whip

A sana whip or flogger is often made with soft leather, PVC or silicone. It is a wider multi tailed whip that is designed to tickle and even when used strongly it will not inflict pain.

Sana flogger
Image: Hell’s Couture Suede Sana Flogger

Stockmans Whip

Often called a bull whip.  This is a long leather whip often over 1.6 metres long that has a ‘cracker’ on the end.  These whips, when used correctly, will flip back and make a massive crack. They can reach up to 3 times the speed of sound.  This whip is to be used with care and is a theatrical accessory in BDSM. It is not to be used as it will break skin and cause serious damage.

Stockmans whip
Image: Stockmans Leather Whip 120cm

Cat O Nine Tails

The cat o nine tails was originally used as a means of punishment in the military and in prisons for centuries.

Cat O Nine Tails
Image: Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition Cat O Nine Tails

Florida Cow Whip

The florida cow whip is similar to the stockmans whip except it is thicker and heavier and has a hollow centre.

Brown and light brown Florida Cow Whip
Image: Florida Cow Whip

Snake Whip

A snake whip can be made out of leather, rope and other materials. It is generally made with a patchwork design.  At the tip there is a single or multiple narrow strings that will create a crack effect when used.  Since it is braided it is a very flexible whip.

Red and black Snake Whip
Image: Snake Whip

Quirt Whip

A quirt whip has a fork design that usually has two falls at the end. It is sometimes called a riding quirt or horse quirt.

Brown and black Quirt Whip
Image: Quirt Whip

Hunting Whip

A hunting whip is similar to a riding whip except on one end of the whip it has a lash that measures several feet in length. On the other end it has a hook, which is used to help the rider open and close gates while out.

black Hunting Whip
Image: Hunting Whip

Sjambock

The sjambock was a very popular weapon used in martial arts for centuries and is very long.

Black Sjambock
Image: Sjambock

Jiujiebian

A jiujiebian was originally used in martial arts and is made of segmented metal chains equal in size on the whole length of the whip.

Steel Jiujiebian
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Qilinbian

A qilinbian was originally used in martial arts and is made of segmented metal chains.  The lash is made of steel rods decreasing in size that are all linked together by progressively smaller steel rings.

Bludgoen Whip

A bludgeon whip has a heavy stick on one end with a rope or weapon on the end.

The 5 Best Whipping Techniques

So now that you know what styles of whips there are and you have agreed on the sensations that you wish to impart or receive.  Here are the 5 best whipping techniques that are used. Now remember, these can take some practice beforehand to make sure you get it right, and careful discipline will ensure that you get the best results.

Overhand

Stand in an upright position.  Bring the whip up over your shoulder and ensure your elbow is parallel to the body – if it is facing inwards or outwards it is possible that you will end up whipping yourself.  Bring the whip straight down to the target.

Carnival

Similar to the overhand but just prior to hitting the target snap or flick the whip back towards yourself.

Reverse Snap

This one takes a bit of practice but circle the whip overhead gaining speed and then snap the whip towards the target.

Sidehand

With the palm of your hand outwards and your arm to the side, flick your hand towards your body and the whip will travel sideways to your target.

Underhand

With the hand facing in a downward position snap the whip up towards your target.

One Of The Biggest BDSM Whipping Communities

One of the more popular whipping groups is Whippersnapper in Atlanta which has a whopping 4456 members that have open discussions and forums.  If you are a newbie into the world of punishment I strongly recommend you join this group or a similar group that will be able to guide your through your journey.

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