Pegging – A Male Perspective

Male Being Pegged

2020 should be your year for getting pegged if you’re a straight guy. With all the time available, it wouldn’t hurt to get a bit deeper into your sex life and try something new and exciting.

If your girl or wife hasn’t pegged you yet, man you don’t know what you’re missing. Getting down on your hands and knees for that session of excitement is one of the most exciting things you’ll ever do.

Perhaps you’ve got no clue what pegging is. Well, simply put, it’s when a woman drives a dildo into your ass. Of course, she just doesn’t tell you to bend over then she pushes the thing into you. Hell no! There’s a procedure to be followed. We’ll look into that later.

For now, if you’re a guy who loves pegging, you probably think you’re a freak.

IT’S OKAY TO DESIRE PEGGING

Every guy has an organ that rarely experiences its full potential. No, not the dick- your prostate. Think of it as the male clit.

Let’s slip back into Biology class for a bit: Unlike the clit that’s found at the front of a woman’s body, the prostate is located between the bladder and cock. It’s actually right at the front of the rectum.

There’s a spectacular feeling that comes with having it touched or hit gently. That’s where the interest in getting a good old pegging comes in. Most people think that you’re bi or gay if you enjoy anal play. It just shows that you have a healthy desire to explore your options.

IS PEGGING DIFFERENT FROM “TRADITIONAL” SEX?

Nope. The only difference is the switch in roles that many people have a hard time accepting. Apart from that, it can be domineering and rough like ordinary sex, yet sensual and loving.

The technique and angle of penetration play a massive role in determining the satisfaction level of a pegging exercise to a guy.

WHY MOST GUYS LOVE PEGGING

The first and most obvious reason is it promotes better orgasms. As the dildo gets into the anus and hits the right spot, there’s a sweet and uncontrollable sensation that results and before you know it, you’re care-freely moaning your way to a smooth orgasm.

Second, it’s sexy to have women pegging men. Having a woman tower over you and assume that dominant role really does it for many men. It gets better when she thrusts while holding your ass and squeezes it.

Third, it’s an eye (or butt) opener for straight guys who practice anal sex on their partners. They now have a firm plastic dildo going right into them, and therefore know what back door love feels like and can do it better if not well.

Lastly, it’s a perfect boredom kicker. If you’ve been in a relationship for months or years and have been having traditional sex, the same style can kill the thrill. Throw in a dildo and strap-on and see the magical turn your sex life will take!

HOW TO PREPARE FOR A PEGGING SESSION

Okay, you get the pegging gist and are itching to try it out. So, where do you start? First off, have a chat with your partner and see if she’s interested. Many women are a little turned off by pegging men. If yours is one of them, let her know how important it is to you and she just might give in.

You should consider putting a butt plug into your anus to make it easier to penetrate. Don’t forget some lube as well!

Next, empty your bowels. The last thing you’d want is poop popping out of your butt hole after you orgasm and she takes the dildo out. Please poop at least three hours before your pegging session. Better yet, empty your bowels in the morning and get pegged at night.

Also, give your ass a good clean. Soap it up and rinse thoroughly with water. This will save you the embarrassment of having remains of excrement on the dildo when the exercise is over.

Finally, shave your anal hair if you have any. It can be real painful if the hairs get caught by the dildo as your partner thrusts it forcefully inside you.

GO FOR IT

You’re now ready to go on the sexual trip of a lifetime. Put all your fears to rest and experience some shattering anal orgasms for once. You deserve it.  Now get some pegging sex toys online and fulfill your fantasy.

Furry Etiquette!

A furry convention is one of the most fantastic formal gatherings. The gathering involves members of the furry fandom or rather those who are interested in the concept of fictional non-human animal characters which posses’ human characteristics. Since it is a formal gathering, upon people meeting, they exchange ideas as they transact business, they engage in fan activities such as entertainment as well as recreation. The event originated in California in the 1980’s and it has been embraced in most parts of Europe as well as North America. However, attendees of the event have a certain way they present themselves. Among the furry etiquettes includes:

Should not approach anyone randomly

It is one of the general suiting practices maintained at the furry event. Due to
the fact that fur suits can be a bit scary, it is very normal for some people
not to enjoy them at all. It is always advisable to check how the people or the
person you are approaching they are before engaging them. If you realize that
they are not comfortable with your approach, it is better to turn the other way
ad leave them alone. It is also not advisable to chase a person when in the
furry suit. Interrupting the events of other groups also is not recommended.
However, if other people want to approach you, they can and to indicate that
you are fine with it a gesture is recommended such as waving at them, offering a high five, or even holding your arm out. The same accord should be provided to the others, in case they need to interact they will if not, one should not bother them at all.

 

Should have a handler

A furry event can be scary sometimes hence the reason to have a handler. A
handler is a person who is supposed to act as a guardian throughout the event.
Their main job being to act as your ears and eyes ensuring that you are guided
throughout the event and more so making sure that you are guarded from creepy people in the event. When attending for the first time, it is more scary hence the more reason to have someone to keep you away from troublesome people and always guide you so safe places. The handlers are also supposed to always provide you with something to quench your thirst when dehydrated and more so they are recommended for full suiters. Since there are possibilities of the event being characterized by emergencies, one should make sure they have signals worked out with their handler. This will equip you with the know how of requesting for help in case an emergency arises.

 

You should not touch anyone because you have Fur suits

Being in a fur suit limits someone’s ability to see and also moving around is also a huge problem. Hence in the event that you suddenly touch someone especially from behind, it is very easy to really scare them. It is therefore recommended that if someone asks you whether you want to touched just say no and before touching any one it is advisable to always ask them first. If their answer is no, it is paramount that their decision is respected without questioning them about it to avoid any misunderstanding. This will ensure that Fur suiter’s right to personal space is respected.

 

You should not damage the Conspace

In the event that conspace is destroyed, the you or thecon will have to bear the burden. Since a furry convention is mostly held at Hotels, they have ground rules of not tolerating any damages and in most cases, they do not allow any furry conventions to be held in the same premises in case there are any damages of Conspace. It is always expected that attendees of the con should responsible people and more so the actions portrayed at the convention represent the organizers of the event as well as the entire community. Therefore, lack of maintaining proper discipline affects everyone at the convention.

 

Ask in case you need a photograph taken

Human beings are referred to as social beings due to the fact we rely on each other to exist. However how well we relate to each other is the key to a peaceful coexistence. In the convention too, how well the costumers relate to each other is of vital importance. In the furry convention there are a million chances of bumping into a photographer since they are memorable as well as enjoyable moments. Hence taking a picture or two with another costumer is allowed. Nevertheless, it should be at a mutual consent. In case you need a photograph taken, where by you pose with costumer, it is always good to ask them first to make sure they are comfortable with it. This is just a general courtesy since not everyone likes taking pictures.

 

One should know where to get water and take your head off as well as keep clean

Wearing the furry suit is requires one to keep taking water regularly to avoid
dehydration. It is therefore recommended that upon arrival at the convention,
one should make sure they trace safe place where they can take off, they head
and rest a bit. Also, they should locate where to get water places so that when
they get dehydrated, they can re-hydrate themselves. When at the event it is
always advisable to not take more than an hour without water. Keeping clean at the conventions also should be a priority. Therefore, when you get out of the
suit, you should take a quick bath and pray the suit to freshen up. The face
should be washed up regularly when you visit the water areas. This is recommended since being in the suit makes one sweat too much leading to a bad smell when out of the suit. Keeping yourself clean avoids diseases, and bad odor when attending the con.

 

Avoid misbehaving in public convention spaces

In most Furry conventions, public places are places requiring good behaviors. So are the spaces around the convention center. In appropriate behaviors as well as misconducting your self at convention area calls attention from the
organizers of the event who might take a disciplinary action against you. This
calls for utmost conduct when at furry conventions and avoid public display of
a fetish. This is because there are people of different age blackest which is
an indication for everyone being responsible in regard to behaving
appropriately or wearing appropriate costumes at this place. Such kind of costumes should be left at home or covered up y placing other costumes on top of it. This is not just for costumers but also for any mature art seller. They are required to sell their art at hidden areas to void exposure to everyone.

 

Respect

Respect is an important social aspect as far as humans are concerned. In absence of respect, havoc reigns.  It is due to this that people are usually requested to respect each other to allow a peaceful coexistence. In Furry conventions too, there is need to respect not just fellow costumers but also the event organizers. The organizers of furry events are people of great stature since they are volunteers. It is paramount that they are respected for putting together the event. The rules they lay down to be followed should also be respected and followed to the letter. This is just a gesture of appreciating
their great work or rather as a way of thanking them.

 

Do not remove your head in public and do not talk in the suit.

The furry convention is guided by myths and beliefs. It is due to this very reason that removing the head while at the convention will break the magic. However, on normalcy, removing the head makes one a sweaty person in a suit and disregards you as a fun character. Talking while in the suit is also against
the rules due to the myths upon which the event is based on.

 

Act and move around

Keeping your self busy through out the event is fun. Since the main theme behind the event is entertainment, standing around in a suit is not fun. One should find places of entertainment or if not, they should try and entertain others. Being funny in the convention will highly depend on the character one has chosen. If you have chosen a funny character, one should act the part however choosing a serious character does not prevent someone from acting funny when at the convention. This because one should try to find  entertainment no matter what character they have chosen.

 

Keep the fur suit safe

The fur suit should be kept safe at all time. It is not necessary to get rough with
the suit. It is important to note that fur suits are expensive to acquire hence
the reason they should be kept always safe. Tails and jaws should at all times
be kept intact to avoid any damages since fixing can be quite expensive. It is
also not good to damage something when given for it is a show of disrespect as well as lack of appreciation to those who have offered the fur suit.

Furry facts

References

https://aminoapps.com/c/furry-amino/page/blog/convention-etiquette/WJkg_EbliXukEvDnQlxBkVvXB31Dm0W2vaK

https://www.adisc.org/forum/threads/45926/.

Great article here on the pet play fetish…

10 Reasons Cosplay Trumps Melancholy!

Cosplay is a combination of two words costume and play. This is an art of dressing up in your favorite superhero or anime character.  Cosplay has become very popular with conventions and communities set up almost everywhere. There are reasons behind every costume which makes it more interesting.

To some it’s a hobby while to others it’s simply a way of expressing themselves and getting away from their normal life even if it’s for a day.  With so many young adults becoming cosplayers every day, you can’t help but wonder why they are doing it and how it helps them. After interactions and a lot of research I compiled 10 reasons it helps.  After you read this you might change your mind about calling cosplayers nerds.

Acts as a stress reliever

Once you’re in a costume you are no longer yourself all you can think about is the character you inhabit. In most stories what costume players will tell you is that once you’re in the costume you forget about your worries and simply enjoy being someone you’re not.  “You’re playing dress up right, and you can be whoever you want to be for a day,” Jerry shared to me.  Jerry loves to make costumes especially superhero costumes. He personally loves Deadpool which is amazing since Deadpool is everyone’s favorite superhero movie.
When he is wearing Deadpool’s costume he tries to have as much fun as possible with friends or even by himself with no fear of being judged or questioned.

 

Offers An Escape for People Who Suffer from Social Anxiety and Shyness

There are communities and conventions set up for cosplayers. Most people who suffer from social anxiety tend to alienate themselves from social situations which makes it even hard to deal with their problem.  In conventions they meet people alike with similar hobbies and passion. Therefore they will keep meeting now and then and when they hint no one is judging or criticizing they realize it is far easier to interact than they thought.  Making friends becomes easy and all they can hope for is that they keep making more friends.
Once they show off their skill and talent in such a huge crowd, they feel completely different and way comfortable that they are no longer shy. Even if someone judges they are aware that they are not the ones being judged but the superhero character they are wearing.

 

A Boost of Confidence

One to three people in a group of ten are not aware of their talent. Finding something you love and are perfectly good at does boost your confidence. Costume-play is an art that hasn’t been recognized for a long time and with every stitch displays the confidence the artist has in him… or herself.
As they showcase their work to the work either during Halloween or in conventions their confidence grows and the appreciation is very satisfying.
A boost in self-esteem is well deserved especially by those who had little self confidence in their abilities.

 

A bonding experience with friends and family

There are a lot of families that are going through a tough time like a divorce or financial problems. Just in case the stress of everything that is happening is driving everyone apart try cosplay.  The good thing about cosplay is that there is no age limit. Whether you are fifty or sixteen there is a character that you adored growing up. You can make or buy (if you don’t know how to make one) costumes for the entire family with every one wearing their favorite superhero or anime character and make it fun and enjoyable.  At the same time you can invite friends to join in the fun and before you know it you have your own little community of cosplayers. Nothing makes memories better than costume play.

 

Cures Depression

Just like with social anxiety, Costume play has proven to cure depression. Due to the fact that most people suffer from depression even without knowing it, there are certain symptoms that indicate you’re going through depression like;
•Thinking about the same thing over and over again
•Poor appetite
•Suicide thoughts
•Social isolation
•Irritability
•Restlessness
•Weight shifts
•Mood swings
•insomnia
•Loss of interest or pleasure in activities

Once you have the above signs and symptoms then you are suffering from depression. Cosplay involves a group of people having fun with no judgment whatsoever.  No one expects you to act or look a certain ways. Things that matter to people do not apply to costume play which is amazing by the way. You can be the stupidest character and be praised for it.  Since social isolation is one of the signs of depression when one is convinced to try out cosplay and agrees to it, they find that it is so much fun and probably make it a hobby. A really fun hobby, and before they know it all suicide thoughts and bitterness disappears.

 

Expressing yourself

People express themselves through their costumes. When you can see how many people appreciate your hard work you feel contented and that is a motivation to keep doing more.  There are so many people in the industry that do the same thing. They meet and share each other’s creation which shows unity and love for the art.  Each cosplayer has a reason for choosing a certain character. Whether the character makes them feel superior, loyal, funny, happy or royal that is what they showcase to the world. If I’m dressed like wonder woman I want to feel superior and in control.  It is pretty amazing to see young adults being free and telling the world ou cannot be serious all the time it is great let lose once in a while’. Just stop and let your costume do the talking. Not literally though, we all know they can’t.

 

Freedom

When you look at cosplay you think freedom. The freedom to wear whatever you want at any given time is what costume play is about. People choose whatever costume they want. They play with it and do it their own way.
Unlike fashion you get to choose what to wear and no one will be like, “that’s outdated or that does not fit you right, it’s not cool” and such like comments.
You play your favorite character and have a whole lot of fun doing it. Costume play gives everyone regardless of the age, size or gender comfortable and appreciated. Once you’re in a costume there is no turning back and no one can tell you otherwise. In a superhero movie you are a new different human being or alien in any case but you’re free from critics and judgment and that’s all you need.

 

Self-acceptance

There are so many people in the world who are not comfortable in their own skin. Appreciating how they were created is not something they do. Cosplay has been very welcoming to every single person in the world.  As I said earlier there are no critics but fun. Most people play dress up to feel more comfortable in their own skin.  When they feel accepted that leads them to accepting themselves for who they are and anyway the best version of yourself is you so there is no one in the world who can be you. You are the only you. That is exactly what costume play does for you.

 

Creativity and great possibilities.

Cosplay is a world of creativity and great possibilities. You can create your own superhero and before you know it your famous. Expressing your great idea to the world can lead to great achievements. There are a lot of people in the film industry that appreciate superheros and villains. Fiction is very rewarding and taking costume play as a career is something to consider.In this time and age there are a few people who care about careers our parents kept telling us that we should do in college like engineering and accounting. I mean we can’t all be engineers.The things that no one thought could be careers are the ones controlling the world like fashion, modeling and acting. You can trust me when I tell you that costumes have made millionaires. There is a door for you to create your own characters or use the characters available to make your costumes to express yourself because that is a talent.

 

Happiness

Every one finds happiness once they play their favorite fiction character.
The joy that you get once someone in a convention runs to you with a really big smile on their face to ask you for a picture or the joy that you get from just having fun with your friends and family.  Happiness is something that we all seek and it doesn’t matter how you achieve true happiness just as long as you find it. There are people who do cosplay since it’s their passion. They enjoy it and love it. There are those nerds who love to hide behind the costume. But you know what it doesn’t matter as long as they are happy at that particular time it’s worth it.

 

Cosplay Convention

Do not be afraid to express yourself. This being the only life that you have you should explore the world and be adventurous. There is nothing more satisfying than living a life that is stress free.  Be someone else for a day and see how that feels.  There are no boundaries, be a superhero or a furry, whatever is your fantasy!!!

Pipedreams Ultimate Fantasy Doll!

Lifelike Sex Doll

How did we make the leap from scary faced blow up dolls with semi-realistic vaginas to life-sized, hyper realistic fantasy dolls? I seriously couldn’t believe that we were going to be getting one of these dolls in store to sell.

 

Pipedream have a history of bringing the latest developments in the adult toy industry to market at a competitive price and their Ultimate Fantasy Dolls are no exception, with their stainless steel posable skeleton, life-like FantaFlesh outer skin and realistic hand, feet and facial details.

 

Carmen stands at 165cm and weighs a decent 36kg. With a 32 C/D bust, XS/S waist & hips and she takes a size 7 shoe, she is petite, but still curvy.

 

 

Unboxing the beautiful Carmen

 

She comes securely packaged so that she arrives in perfect condition. The only assembly that you will need to do is attaching her head to her body and placing the wig on.

 

They have thought of almost everything when it comes to the use, care and maintenance. Accessories packed with her include:

 

1x        4 oz. Moist Body Lotion

1x        4 oz.Refresh Toy Cleaner

2x        1.05 oz.Fanta Flesh Revive Renewal Powder

1x        Cleansing Irrigator

1x        USB Heating Wand

1x        Lingerie Set

1x        Pair White Cotton Gloves

1x        TPE Material Strip/Repair Tube

1x        Set Replacement Press-on Nails

 

Playing with Carmen

 

You have the choice of any of Carmen’s 3 openings for sex play. Pipedream recommend the use of a good quality water-based lubricant, such as the Moist Body Lotion that is included in the accessories pack. This will mean that you will be able to optimize the glide while playing with her oral, vaginal or anal canal.

 

Carmen’s skeletal structure is made from stainless steel, so she is durable, but since her joints are not designed to bear weight, it is best to prop her up or support her torso with soft furniture or pillows during play in positions such as doggy-style.

 

She can also accompany you into the shower since her body is built to withstand some moisture, but she is not suitable to be immersed fully in water or any other liquid since her head is not waterproof. So, no chucking her in to the pool!

 

For a more lifelike experience, use your USB warming stick to warm up the canal that you would like to use, remembering to not leave it in for more than 10 minutes at a time. Don’t forget to remove the heating wand before enjoying her warm opening.

 

Keeping Carmen Clean

 

To prolong Carmen’s life, it is important that she be cleaned well after use and dried before storing away.

 

To clean her canals after use, first use the irrigator provided along with a mild antibacterial soap solution to flush, then continue to flush with clean water until all of the soap has been washed out. Leave her to dry and then dust her canals, inside and out, with Revive Renewal Powder.

 

Like any true lady, Carmen needs to be pampered to stay lookin at her best and the best way to do that is to use a gentle antimicrobial soap and water solution on a lint-free cloth. This works for both spot cleaning and and overall clean. Remembering that you will need to let her air dry completely before lightly dusting with Revive Renewal Powder to keep her Fanta Skin in a silky soft, stain free condition.

 

It won’t happen overnight, but it will happen. Carmen’s hair needs to be maintained in the same way that ours does. You can do this by using a gentle shampoo and conditioner to clean the hair of her wig, don’t forget that you cannot immerse her head, face or neck in water, so remove the wig before washing. Let it air dry before brushing with a wide tooth comb.

 

Clothing, Makeup and ALL Things Girly

 

Colour transfer from clothing and printed products such as newspapers are a real thing and can permanently mark Carmen’s skin. To avoid this happening, make sure that you dress her in colourfast light clothing and do not lay or sit her on anything with ink or oil-based pigments.

 

 

You can also adjust her makeup if it is not to your liking. Simply remove the existing subtle makeup with a little mineral oil on a soft, lint-free cloth. When reapplying new makeup, make sure that it is not medicated or enhanced.

 

If you would love to put footwear on Carmen, they will need to be flat if she is standing up. But if she is laying down, then feel free to pop on a nice pair of heels. Don’t forget though that they will need to be removed for storage.

 

 

Putting Carmen to Bed

 

It is recommended that Carmen is stored in an upright position, with all limbs fairly straight. Although she will need to be repositioned every now and then if she is being stored away for a longer period of time.

 

It is also best to not store her with any of her joints resting up against hard surfaces and as always, given her size and weight, be careful to not pull sharply on her joints, drop her or allow her joints to knock against hard, sharp surfaces.

Carmen Doll
Realistic Sex Doll

Final Thoughts…

 

 

I must admit that I was really sceptical about how realistic these dolls would be. They looked spectacular in the pictures, but we all know about photoshopping and Instagram filters. Especially those of us who have used dating apps! She is scarily realistic and fills that gap in the market between plastic blow up dolls and us real women… and let’s face it, she’s probably less trouble than most of us women.

 

So, if you would like some more info on miss Carmen, visit out Adultsmart Online Store or if you are curious about seeing our beautiful Carmen in person, head to one of our Oh! Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres.