Most people cringe at the thought of pegging but not me. I love pegging my husband and he loves it too. For those who are not quite sure what pegging is, its when the woman penetrates the husbands anus using a strap on dildo. Not only is it exciting but also pleasurable. Pegging has recently come to be more commonly referred to as bend over boyfriend (BOB). For most people, including my husband, pegging is an acquired taste. For most people the first thought that comes to their mind is that the whole act of pegging is gay, which can be a turn off to any heterosexual male. but just to be clear, just because a man enjoys pegging it does not mean that he is gay.
I feel that pegging is something that needs prior discussion with your loved one mainly because the other person may not be so keen on the idea and they may need time to put it into perspective. For pegging to be satisfying and pleasurable to both parties, there must be consent from each party with each person being willing to relax and enjoy the experience. If you would like to start pegging, introduce the idea to your loved one beforehand and see their reaction. If they are willing to try it, I suggest buying the strap on together so that there is a consensus as to the size and type. For pegging to be perfect, each party must be in it 100%.
Once you have the strap on and you have stocked up on some lubricant, well, the rest is up to you. However it is important to remember to always keep an eye on your partner to see how the whole experience is going for him, you don’t want to thrust too hard and end up hurting him as this may ruin the experience for him.
Below I have listed the reasons why I love pegging my husband:
Mind blowing orgasms:
There are several reasons why I love pegging my husband but the best reason has to be because I get to give him mind blowing prostate/anal orgasms. There is nothing as satisfying as knowing that you have fully satisfied your partner and his anal climax is far greater than the one experienced with normal intercourse.We all know that it is not generally hard to make a man come, however the intensity of the orgasm can vary with different sex styles and position. For most people who have tried pegging, many will testify that pegging gives the man one of the best and biggest orgasm. It’s like an explosion. It is absolutely satisfying and fulfilling. It gives me pleasure to know that I can make my husband come so explosively.
Most women are always the submissive partner during sex. I can’t exactly say that I don’t enjoy being submissive during sex because I do. There is something beautiful about a man talking control and bringing you to climax. However, there is a different kind of exhilarating feeling that comes with being in control. For me it gives me a sort of high to know that I am the one in charge, that our climax is based on me pegging my husband. That my actions determine just how much pleasure we both get. Many women would love to be in control during sex but feel like BDSM would be a bit too much for them. I can assure any woman who is busy looking for a position that will satisfy this feeling that pegging is absolutely satisfying. Being in control of your partner is both fulfilling and also sexually satisfying. For me, usually as I thrust deeper into my husband, the strap on gently rubs my clit which is a win win situation for both of us and at the same time too.
Since i started pegging my husband, I have noted that he is more concerned about how comfortable I am during sex, he always makes sure that I am physically and emotionally ready for penetration. Before pegging, he wasn’t quite attentive as to how my body was responding to his. The truth of the matter is that men don’t realize how intrusive penetration is especially when you are not ready. For penetration to be perfect the other partner has to be physically and psychologically prepared. However, after pegging, most men become more sensitive because they learn firsthand that penetration is not just about penetrating. One has to be ready both physically and mentally otherwise the other partner may be left feeling sore after the whole exercise.I must say, my husband’s attention to me brought about by our pegging experience has indeed improved our sex and my satisfaction level is almost 100% every single time we have sex and I couldn’t be happier.
Pegging may be a different experience for everyone. If you want it to be successful and satisfying the key is being in sync with your partner from the very get go. Each partner should be comfortable with the idea of pegging. Men can be a bit uptight when the topic comes up mostly because society has made them feel they should always be in control during sex. It is difficult for some men to relinquish their power and let the woman be in charge. Society has also made them associate any kind of anal sex with being gay and this leaves them very hesitant to try out anything anal related. However, once they are convinced and they try pegging, most men find it exciting to be under the control of their women and especially to have the woman do most of the work to get them to climax.
It is both normal and perfectly healthy to want to spice up your sex life by trying out new styles and techniques. Everyone has different fantasies and desires and some people may never be open to the idea of pegging. If you are interested in pegging and your partner isn’t, don’t try to force him into it or get angry at him for not wanting to try it out. There are other sex styles that could work for both of you which your partner would be more comfortable with. Do a lot of research and find something that works wonders for you and your partner which is the reason I Love Pegging My Husband.
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