Pegging – A Male Perspective

Male Being Pegged

2020 should be your year for getting pegged if you’re a straight guy. With all the time available, it wouldn’t hurt to get a bit deeper into your sex life and try something new and exciting.

If your girl or wife hasn’t pegged you yet, man you don’t know what you’re missing. Getting down on your hands and knees for that session of excitement is one of the most exciting things you’ll ever do.

Perhaps you’ve got no clue what pegging is. Well, simply put, it’s when a woman drives a dildo into your ass. Of course, she just doesn’t tell you to bend over then she pushes the thing into you. Hell no! There’s a procedure to be followed. We’ll look into that later.

For now, if you’re a guy who loves pegging, you probably think you’re a freak.

IT’S OKAY TO DESIRE PEGGING

Every guy has an organ that rarely experiences its full potential. No, not the dick- your prostate. Think of it as the male clit.

Let’s slip back into Biology class for a bit: Unlike the clit that’s found at the front of a woman’s body, the prostate is located between the bladder and cock. It’s actually right at the front of the rectum.

There’s a spectacular feeling that comes with having it touched or hit gently. That’s where the interest in getting a good old pegging comes in. Most people think that you’re bi or gay if you enjoy anal play. It just shows that you have a healthy desire to explore your options.

IS PEGGING DIFFERENT FROM “TRADITIONAL” SEX?

Nope. The only difference is the switch in roles that many people have a hard time accepting. Apart from that, it can be domineering and rough like ordinary sex, yet sensual and loving.

The technique and angle of penetration play a massive role in determining the satisfaction level of a pegging exercise to a guy.

WHY MOST GUYS LOVE PEGGING

The first and most obvious reason is it promotes better orgasms. As the dildo gets into the anus and hits the right spot, there’s a sweet and uncontrollable sensation that results and before you know it, you’re care-freely moaning your way to a smooth orgasm.

Second, it’s sexy to have women pegging men. Having a woman tower over you and assume that dominant role really does it for many men. It gets better when she thrusts while holding your ass and squeezes it.

Third, it’s an eye (or butt) opener for straight guys who practice anal sex on their partners. They now have a firm plastic dildo going right into them, and therefore know what back door love feels like and can do it better if not well.

Lastly, it’s a perfect boredom kicker. If you’ve been in a relationship for months or years and have been having traditional sex, the same style can kill the thrill. Throw in a dildo and strap-on and see the magical turn your sex life will take!

HOW TO PREPARE FOR A PEGGING SESSION

Okay, you get the pegging gist and are itching to try it out. So, where do you start? First off, have a chat with your partner and see if she’s interested. Many women are a little turned off by pegging men. If yours is one of them, let her know how important it is to you and she just might give in.

You should consider putting a butt plug into your anus to make it easier to penetrate. Don’t forget some lube as well!

Next, empty your bowels. The last thing you’d want is poop popping out of your butt hole after you orgasm and she takes the dildo out. Please poop at least three hours before your pegging session. Better yet, empty your bowels in the morning and get pegged at night.

Also, give your ass a good clean. Soap it up and rinse thoroughly with water. This will save you the embarrassment of having remains of excrement on the dildo when the exercise is over.

Finally, shave your anal hair if you have any. It can be real painful if the hairs get caught by the dildo as your partner thrusts it forcefully inside you.

GO FOR IT

You’re now ready to go on the sexual trip of a lifetime. Put all your fears to rest and experience some shattering anal orgasms for once. You deserve it.  Now get some pegging sex toys online and fulfill your fantasy.

Your Ultimate Guide to Pegging

Male Pegging

Maybe you’ve always been curious about pegging, or perhaps you saw the Broad City pegging episode, and it sparked your interest. It doesn’t matter what made you curious about it, you’re here and ready to give it a try. If your partner has given you the green light to try it, you’ve completed the first and most crucial step. But there’s more to pegging than just having a pegging chat with your partner. Now it’s time to prepare yourself and your partner. What do you need to do? Good question. We’re going to tell you everything you need to know about pegging in this guide.

 

Talk to your partner about their boundaries

You two may have agreed to give pegging a try, but have you talked in more depth about it? Just because your partner gives you the green light, doesn’t mean you can whip out your harness and have a good time. There’s actually a lot of prep work that goes into this. Anal penetration requires communication. Talk about their boundaries and limitations, and go through the act itself, giving them an idea of how it works. If you can’t talk about this, then you’re not ready to try pegging.

 

Create a safeword

Whenever you’re trying something new with your partner, regardless of what it is, you need to have a safeword. A safeword gives you and your partner the ability to stop whatever it is you’re doing. Whether they’re feeling discomfort or pain, saying the safeword will stop everything at once. Many people use colors as safewords. For example, red means “stop now,” and yellow means, “I like this, but go easy.” By having an agreed safeword, your partner will feel more comfortable knowing they can stop the act at any time.

 

Learn about the male anatomy

Before you try pegging, you need to research and get to know the male anatomy. Everyone should have basic knowledge of their partner’s body. For your partner, you should know where the prostate gland, anus, and G-spot is. If you don’t know where these body parts are, pegging won’t be a comfortable experience for them. Plus, do some research about anal sex as well. You want to know what you’re doing.

 

Get the right equipment

You can’t peg unless you have the right equipment. No, you can’t use a cucumber from your fridge. Do your research and choose a beginner pegging kit which will include a dildo and harness; everything you need for your pegging experience. Choose a dildo that is of average size; you don’t want to scare your partner on their first pegging experience.

 

Bulk buy lube

When it comes to pegging, you need to use a lot of lube. The anus doesn’t self-lubricate which means it’s very dry. So, lather your strap-onup with some lube. If you’re not sure if it’s enough, add more. If you’re noticing the dildo lacks lube when you’re already inside of them, gently take it out and add more. If there’s not enough lube, it’ll be painful for them and can hinder the experience.

 

Don’t rush

You’re probably excited to try pegging out, but this isn’t something you can rush into. You need to work your way up to pegging. Before trying pegging out, it’s important for your partner to experience using a butt plug or finger in their anus. If they go straight into pegging without any previous experience, it won’t be comfortable for them. Start slow and let them get used to the feeling of a finger or small toy in their anus. Once they’re ready to move on, use a strap-on.

 

Let them set the pace

When it comes to trying out pegging for the first time, you need to let them control the pace. Yes, pegging is about changing power dynamics, but this is something new for them to get used to. They should control the pace, strokes, and depth. To understand what they like, let them move on the dildo and show you what they like. Always remind them to communicate how they’re feeling and whether or not they want it faster, slower, etc.

 

Experiment with different positions

If you’ve seen pegging porn, you’ll notice most of the receivers are in the doggy position. Though it’s one position you can try, it’s not the best for beginners. Cowboy position is great for the receiver when it comes to controlling the depth and speed. Another good position for beginners is having the receiving partner lay on their stomach, with the dominant partner entering from behind. After some practice in these positions, you can try doggy style.

 

Communication is key

When it comes to trying new sex acts, the key to success is communication. From beginning to end, you and your partner need to communicate with one another. Maybe he’s feeling pain or discomfort, but unless he expresses this to you, you don’t know. Before trying it out, make sure that you two can clearly and effectively communicate. If they’re not comfortable communicating with you, then that’s something you need to work on before pegging.

 

Pegging can be a great experience if you do it properly. Make sure you take your time when researching for pegging equipment, and focus on supporting and communicating with your partner. This is as new for them as it is for you.

 

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6 Interesting Facts about Pegging

Pegging Men

These days, we see a lot of pegging personals and pegging dating sites, which means only one thing – heterosexual men are enjoying anal sex with their girlfriends. Pegging allows them to experience the role of a woman during anal sex and they find this very exciting. Also, this type of sex provides women with a chance to see what it’s like to be a man. In fact, pegging or strap-on sex is one of the most popular sex trends these days and heterosexual men are the ones who are enjoying it the most. With that in mind, we are going to talk about 6 interesting facts about pegging.

 

What Is Pegging?

 

The name “pegging” might sound confusing, especially to men who are used to traditional intercourse, but the definition of pegging is actually very simple. Pegging is a type of sex during which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo. Lesbian couples also enjoy pegging, but believe it or not, it’s more popular among heterosexual couples.

 

Why Men Love It So Much?

 

You probably know that women have something that is called a G-Spot, right? It is a spot inside their vagina that, when stimulated, makes them cum. Well, men have this too. It’s an erogenous zone called the “p-spot” and it is located inside the rectum. By touching the p-spot, a person stimulates the prostate gland, which allows them to have more intense orgasms. Stimulating the prostate gland with a strap-on dildo is easy and that is why men love pegging so much.

 

Pegging Helps Lovers To Experience Each Other’s Roles In Bed

 

Most men and women don’t know what it’s like for the other person during sex. Pegging allows them to change the roles and experience sex from their lover’s perspective. This is one of the main reasons why strap-on sex is so popular these days. When she straps on a dildo, a woman gets to experience the excitement of thrusting and dominating her boyfriend. On the other hand, a man gets to see what it’s like to be penetrated. This type of sex helps lovers understand each other better during sex and that is why men and women enjoy pegging.

 

It Makes Men Better At Anal Sex

 

Most men are trying their best to make anal sex pleasurable for women, but to be honest, this is a very difficult task. It requires a lot of lube, a perfect technique, and patience. Most women would agree that horny men don’t bother with these three things during anal sex. However, when a guy tries pegging, he gets to see what anal sex is like for a woman, which things feel good and which don’t.

 

Best Positions For Pegging

 

Considering that most straight men are not used to being penetrated, finding the most comfortable position is very important. These days, doggy style is the most popular position for pegging, but that doesn’t mean it’s the best for strap-on sex. Therefore, here are the three best positions for pegging.

 

Doggy Style

 

We know we said that doggy style is not the best position for pegging, but it’s one of the best. It deserves a spot on our list because it is perfect for beginners. This position allows a man to control how deep the dildo goes. Also, a woman can easily play with the man’s anus.

 

Face-To-Face Missionary

 

This is undoubtedly the most intimate position. In a face-to-face missionary, man and woman can explore each other’s bodies during sex. Also, this position allows a woman to see her lover’s face during intercourse meaning she can see when he is enjoying himself and when he is in pain. One of the best things about this position is the fact that a man’s penis is easily accessible. It is literally up for grabs.

 

Cowboy

 

The cowboy position is on this list for the same reason as doggy style. It allows a man to control penetration during sex. The man does all the work here, while a woman can simply enjoy the show and play with his penis.

 

Pegging Doesn’t Make You Are Gay Or Bisexual

 

In today’s society, pegging is still a bit of a taboo. Most heterosexual men think that putting things in your butt makes you gay simply because that is what gay men do. However, this is not true. You don’t have to question your masculinity just because you like to play with your own anus. As we said, a man’s anus is full of nerve endings and stimulating the prostate can help a man experience intense orgasms. If a man wants to enjoy some anal play, that doesn’t make him gay or bisexual. It just means that he knows how to pleasure himself.

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