Vibrators For Women: Masturbation Is A Normal Thing Among The Female Race

It’s 2019 and yet the stigma surrounding women on the topic of masturbation remains strong. It’s really funny how some guys think that they can jerk off all they want and be weirded out when some female speaks up about doing the deed too. Come on, people. Grow up. Women may not be as obnoxious and insufferable when it comes to voicing sexual fantasies but we’re sexual creatures too. And we like pleasuring ourselves as much as you do.

Yes, guys. Sorry to ruin this for you but we may be women but we ARE just as perverted as you are. We, too, have needs. The only difference is that we’re just classy about it. We’re the kind of people who would let the whole world know about our sexual shenanigans.

But hey, maybe that’s what started the whole stigma in the first place.

Anyway, so I guess we’ve got that cleared out now. Yes, we masturbate but enough about that. The real question is: How do we do it?

How Does A Woman Masturbate?

Well, there are many ways to get women excited but just like men, we have a sexual spot of some sort. For men, it’s usually the head or the tip of the penis (actually, it’s just about anywhere in their genital organ). For women, that spot can be found in between the slit and just above the labia or the opening of the vagina, it is commonly known as the clitoris or simply “clit.” Check this out: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a1602/solo-sex/.

That’s right. The clitoris is what you’d say the pleasure point of the female genitalia. It’s small and tiny but it can arouse any woman when the stimulation is done effectively. Like men, women usually masturbate with a hand – or fingers, specifically. The active hand often does the stimulation while the passive hand can go wherever and fondle whatever – if you know what I mean. Aside from the clitoris, there’s another pleasure point in the female genital although this one is a little more secretive and sometimes selective too. We call this the “G-spot” and is usually found inside the vagina and is often placed directly behind the clitoris. It’s got that almond-skin roughness to it so I think you’ll recognize it the moment you touch it. I said “selective” a little while ago because some women don’t react to this “g-spot.” Some don’t have it at all.

Okay, so this is sounding more and more like a sex ed class but I guess that’s okay too. I think many young women are too afraid to touch themselves because they fear being judged. Well, news flash girls! That is your body and you have all the right to do whatever you want to your own agency. If we can give men permission to touch us, then why can’t we grant ourselves the same leniency? It’s our own body for Pete’s sake! Anyway, it’s completely normal to want to explore yourself – just make sure that you respect yourself enough to not make a video of it and post in on social media or anything dumb like that.

Also, aside from going el naturale, women may also masturbate with the use of a device. If it isn’t obvious enough, I’m talking about sex or adult toys.

Many women are into adult play; they’re not just very vocal about it. Then again, who is? Women’s sex toys may vary from dildos to Kegel balls and of course, who can forget vibrators?

A vibrator is a woman’s best friend. With it, you can sexually satisfy yourself without the help of any man. This toy comes in many forms; some are camouflaged as adorable everyday items too. There are lipstick vibrators, pen vibrators, and other types of vibrators with witty designs (some even look really bizarre). So if you want a vibe that doesn’t really look like a vibe, I’m pretty sure that there are plenty of options to choose from. You can carry one in your bag and discreetly use it on breaks to take some steam off – or not.

Anyway, whether you try it out or not is your choice to make. Just know that whatever your choice is, it’s completely normal. Discover more things about yourself today!

One Reply to “Vibrators For Women: Masturbation Is A Normal Thing Among The Female Race”

  1. “Okay, so this is sounding more and more like a sex ed class but I guess that’s okay too. I think many young women are too afraid to touch themselves because they fear being judged. ”

    Exactly what my GF said before I helped her overcome her ‘sexual anxiety’

    Hope females around the world are more liberated now.

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