Before Fleshlight I Was An Early Finisher
For a couple of years now I have been a Fleshlight user now for a couple of years after seeing so many reviews and articles about then on the net. The reason I first bought one was I was a bit of an early finisher and so after reading up on the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit felt that it was worth giving it a go in the hope that I would increase my staying power and thereby become a better performer able to ‘last the distance’ with my lovers. There are many reasons why you should buy a fleshlight but here are mine.
When I first got it I felt a little embarrassed having never used a masturbator before and just the thought of using something to get off rather than just using Mrs Palmer was a bit daunting. But after unwrapping it put on my favourite porn movie and gave it a go. To my surprise it felt good. And I don’t mean just good, it felt real fucking good. Unfortunately for me on that first time it did little to increase my stamina and I think I came in under two minutes.
But perseverance pays off and I began to use it often visualizing the real thing and I found that each time I grabbed a couple of additional seconds until I was lasting minutes rather than seconds. It became a great tool for increasing my lovemaking duration and I have no hesitation in saying that it has made me a better lover. So after starting with the Stamina Training Unit I began purchasing other fleshlights that each had individual feels and looks to them. Truth be told I have become a bit of a Fleshlight fanatic.
1 It Feels ‘Fucking’ Good
Mens sex toys have only been prevalent in the last decade or so. Women have had the luxury of purchasing dildos, vibrators and more for 30 years or so but men have been starved. It is right now that me experience their male sex toy revolution and experience the pleasures women have been getting for so many years.
The Fleshlight is a men sex toy that is ultimately described as a masturbation device or stroker. It is made of the softest silicone you can imagine and once you put a lube inside it feels like the real thing (in some cases even better). It is the number one selling male sex-toy with huge sales in both America, Europe and across the globe, and it is obvious the reasons why. Whether you want a real mouth, real vagina or even real ass Fleshlight will cater for you. There are even novelty Fleshlight’s like Alien, Dracula and more.. Whatever your preference, even if your gay, there is always a fleshlight product to please.
If you take me as an example I started with the Stamina Training Unit because of my pre-ejaculation problems but then became a real fan. I am not bored of any of my Fleshlights but having a couple gives me a choice of what I sensually want to experience. To be quite honest it has saved me a bundle of money as I don’t go out chasing pussy every weekend. Now I have to really like a girl before I make the effort of taking them out.
Many nights I prefer to stay home and watch a porno with my trusted Fleshies and I know I am on a sure thing, will not get any communicables, and it is not going to cost me a packet in bills and bullshit.
At the end of the night a quick clean-up and store them away for the next time I want to use them (which quite often is the next night). You will not believe that solo sex can be so good.
3 No-One Else Knows
The flesh lights come in a discrete ‘torch-like’ container that unless you own a fleshlight nobody is going to know what is inside. So they are safe to store in your bedroom cupboard. Unless you tell someone, no-one is going to know that you use a flesh-light to get off. And in reality, who would care, I have grown to accept that every man tugs themselves whether it be nightly, weekly or whatever. This is exactly the same except having that added benefit of a sex toy to make the whole affair more fun and feel better.
4 Cheaper Than a Date
When I take a girl out for dinner I get no change out of $200 for the night and in most instances walk away and go home to my fleshlight anyway. That is the reason I said earlier now often I stay in on a weekend as why waste my money with the often bullshit of dating. I will meet Miss Right one day but I now no longer want to experience all the Misses between meeting her. I feel better in me for using flesh-lights rather than using women I pick up.
5 Remember to Clean Your Fleshlight
Remove the Fleshlight from the Fleshlight casing. Take the sleeve and clean it under luke warm water and diluted detergent of sex toy cleaner. Thoroughly clean it ensuring that all residue has been removed and then lightly dab the sleeve with a clean towel. Leave it on the towel and allow it to completely dry. Whilst the Fleshlight sleeve is drying now take the case and open it from both ends – wash the cylinder thoroughly and both caps. Dry down with a towel and allow to dry thoroughly next to the sleeve, Now here is the important part, once it is dry liberally apply the Fleshlight Renewing Powder to the sleeve both inside and out. The renewing powder is specially formulated to extend the life of your fleshlight by more than 50% so that you can enjoy it all the more. It makes the Fleshlight feel brand new and prohibits the degradation or wearing away of the cyberskin material. It ensures that the texture and softness remain they way that the manufacturer designed it to ensuring that your satisfaction is reached each and every time.
Richard runs the marketing and social profiles of adultsmart and adultsmart blog. He has been in the industry just over 10 years and enjoys his role both in an administrative capacity as well keeping abreast of issues relating to sexual health and lifestyles.