Furry Culture

Furry Sex Lifestyle

When it comes to expression – more and more people are opting to go individual and often unique ways of expressing themselves. As the world becomes a more populated place we will inevitably diverge into various sub cultures, the more people in a central location the higher the chances that there will be more and more people which whom will associate with a particular identity, or sub-culture. This situation is exacerbated as we become a more interconnected world – even if one is not in the physical location of a particular group then they can still become connected and interact with that group through technology and thus we are seeing sub-sets of culture spring up all over the place.

When individual expression diverges from mainstream expression – it is often seen as ‘weird’, ‘odd’, ‘perverse’ and various other negative connotations. As with anything, things that are not widely understood are often shunned, ridiculed and pushed to the side for seemingly more mainstream expressions; the lifestyles of those that identify as being a furry fall into this category. This identity is quite often misunderstood and is often labelled as a sexual perversion, linked to paedophilia, beastiality and other illegal behaviours. This article seeks to break down that barrier, and provide an insight into such a misunderstood sub culture.

Furry culture is often misunderstood because it can be so incredibly complex as there are sub sections of furry cultures, and people will associate with the culture and interact with it differently. There are many kinds of identities within the culture and as such, it would be a tragedy to attempt to define the culture through generalisations. At its core – Furry Culture relates to people that identify, and have a keen interest, with anthropomorphised animals. Anthropomorphism is giving animals human like qualities and behaviours. This could involve giving an animal the ability to talk, walk on two legs, have distinctly human facial expressions, ability to convey emotions, human like intelligence or even the ability to wear clothes. Winnie The Pooh, George Orwells Animal Farm, Mickey Mouse, most Disney films all contain examples of anthropomorphised animals. 48% of the Furry community consider themselves more of a fandom such as other Cosplayers and it is not, or at least not a major, part of their sex lives. They just love to get dressed up, emulate their favourite anthropomorphic characters from books, tv, art and games, have conventions and get together’s with other Furries and feel the sense of fun and belonging of being in a community with a shared passion.

Contrastingly, flipper, lassie, and other such animal characters are not furries as they do not display human qualities in the slightest, though Thomas the Tank engine and the teapots from Beauty and The Beast have human qualities, they are not considered to be furries as they are not animals. Thus, it is quite clear that furry interests often originate within childhood and an appreciation of various children’s shows and cartoons. This is a rudimentary understanding of the origins of furry culture, as there are a myriad of other aspects to it which include artworks, literature, films, comics, pop culture etc. One of the most recent events involved a condemnation of the film Zootopia, which saw Pop Icon Shakira portrayed as a singing Gazelle surrounded by, arguably Queer, dancing tigers. People were unhappy with this film as they saw it as supportive of the furry lifestyle, and they argued that it was a dangerous film to show this to kids as it was inappropriate to expose them to a perverse lifestyle.

Some Furries even feel that they are in fact not entirely, or not at all human. Some feel that they have an animal or anthropomorphic ‘spirit’ in a human body or are a different species altogether. (If you are interested in learning more about this, try googling ‘Otherkin’.) Some Furries report that their gender is actually an animal or anthropomorphic expression rather than a traditional gender.These are more unusual, however, though 35% of Furries do report that they don’t ‘feel 100% human’.  Most of the Furry community feel that they are human, just having a strong interest in animals and anthropomorphic creatures, and have a more traditional gender, or identify under the trans umbrella, are intersex, agender, gender fluid, bi gender, etc.Interestingly, on average, Furries are more likely to be young, male, and identifying on the LGBTQI+ spectrum than the rest of the population. However anyone can be a Furry if they want to be and there is a diverse population involved.

Even Buzzfeed generalised furry culture by stating that there were ‘already furry artists at work drawing the female rabbit character in the nude’. The assumption here is that furry culture is sexualised, and that furry culture contains strong sexual aspects. The thing is – whilst furry culture does have a sexual aspect to it, it is not primarily or exclusively sexual and people will connect to the culture in various ways. This could include the simple act of wearing ears, or some other animal feature such as a tail. They may dress ‘normally’, but behave in animal like ways adopting a persona which in furry culture is called a Fursona.The Fursona is a representation of themselves in their chosen anthropomorphic or animal form and may be of a particular animal including big cats, wolves, foxes, horses, cat, dog and even dragons. A Furry may have more than one Fursona. They may not demonstrate or display a fursona in real life, but adopt one through online interaction in chatroom’s, through Avatars, or through dedicated furry websites. They may disregard any of these features and simply enjoy Furry based art, pop culture, comics etc.

These are all basic interactions with furry culture and as you can see are not harmful to anyone, nor anything remotely perverse.  From that point they may choose to purchase fursuits, dress up specifically as an animal of their choice, wear masks, or other identifying features. Furry costumes can be quite expensive, especially for good quality ‘Fursuits’. Many Furry fans wear partial costumes instead – ears and tail, for example. Fursuits are made from faux fur such as you would buy a a fabric store, not real animal fur. Typically Furries take extremely good care of their fursuits, as they are both expensive and treasured items. This is often called Furry Life-styling and it describes furry behaviour that transcends simply liking artwork and a love of the furry culture and involves actually living and/or experiencing it. This could simply mean exhibiting a specific sound within a social group, or painting, or wearing various costumes. Often ‘scritching’, such as you would do to a pet, and other animal-related shows of affection are shared between Furry friends.

People Dressed as Animals
Photo: Furry Lifestyle

From here it gets a little complex, as with personalities, there are different fursonas and most furries will identify with or as a particular species of animal. It is at this point where many people assume that furries get involved for sexual reasons, but in actual fact due to the price of the suits there are very few people that engage in sexual activity whilst wearing a suit. Many people have strong imagery of people dressed up as animals engaging in sexual play, when in actual fact, this is rare. Furry culture for the most part, excepting Furry Porn, is not focused on sex and sexuality.

The term ‘yiff’ is often used to refer to Furry sexual activity and some of the ways it is expressed are through Furry themed pornography and erotica, cybersex between Fursonas, sex while wearing fursuits and role-playing. There is a definite subsection of Furries who view being a Furry as a strong part of their sexual life.  A small percentage of Furries report an interest in zoophilia (a sexual attraction to real animals) and a smaller percentage in ‘plushophilia’ (a sexual attraction to ‘plushy’ toy animals.) It should never be presumed that because a someone is a Furry that they harm animals, however. Even the small percentage interested in zoophilia do not necessarily engage in actual sexual activity with non human animals (bestiality.)

So where does furry culture come from? The birth of furry culture is argued, some argue that it originated through the novels of Felix Salten which were published between 1926 and 1945, others  argue that it developed through the work of other artists. However, according to Fred Patten a historian in fandom folklore, it wasn’t until a science fiction convention in 1980 that the term Furry was coined. Many people feel that furry culture is a new concept, however the furry culture has existed online from the early 1990’s which is basically when the internet started to become accessible in households. It has been theorised through social studies that there is a correlation to exposure of cartoons during childhood and this has led some parental groups to refuse to allow their children to watch cartoons. However, as with any study – there are other studies that find no such link. Dr Gerbasi completed a study published in 2008 titled Furries from A to Z (Anthropomorphism to Zoomorphism) in an attempt to ascertain whether people who identified as furries exhibited signs of some form of personality disorder. The data that Gerbasi put forward resulted in the determination that furries are a male dominated sub-culture with a very wide range of sexual orientation and that ultimately, the subjects that were interviewed did not demonstrate any known traits of current personality disorders, which leads us to the question that if there is not a specific reason for being a furry – why is it such a significant sub-culture?

As with any sub-culture – when it comes to media representation of the culture they often focus on the darkest, more perverse aspects of a culture regardless of how small a part of the culture that is. This tendency towards sensationalised news and for the purpose of click-baiting and the development of an ‘interesting story’, is where the majority of the general public derive their understanding of ‘furry’ from. It’s deeper than that. Furry is an expression, a form of expression that is unique to that individuals feelings, personality, and conduct – that expression has the opportunity to create a liberating and safe place for a variety of reasons. They may use that to explore sexual identities, or to become more comfortable and aware of themselves and others. One academic researcher has suggested that it is an ideal way for people with social difficulties to become more confident within themselves by taking away all of, or some of, the ‘human’ element of their social interactions.

The sexual aspect is a sub-culture of furries, and it is often the most over and misrepresented aspect of furry culture. It is for the most part, a harmless sexual expression. However many people are disturbed by it because it appears to be foreign to them. The same can be said of a lot of fetishes out there, as well as a lot of sexual behaviour. Furry sexuality is viewed as slightly different however, due to its perceived removal from humanity and social culture. Realistically, fursuits are expensive and take a conceivable amount of time to create. A quick glance online will reveal that full fur suits start upwards of $400 dollars, and can take up to four months to complete, with the most detailed fursuits costing thousands. As such, it is inconceivable that people are going to engage in sexual activity within a fur suit. The fact of the matter is that this aspect of furries is often the hot topic, as when one searches for furries it is inevitably of a pornographic nature. It is important to note however, that furry porn is completely different, though admittedly a part of, furry culture.

10 Misconceptions Regarding Furry Culture:

  1. Furries are sexual deviants  and is always a sexual thing.
  2. Being a furry means that you must appreciate art and artistic talent
  3. Furries feel betrayed by the media – (Furries are often categorised in the darkest parts of the fandom as the media focuses here for the purpose of click baiting and sensationalised news stories.)
  4. Being a Furry is always safe.  (People that do not understand furries or their sub-cultures will often bully or be aggressive).
  5. Fursuits are not complex works of art. (And can be very expensive)
  6. Furries are a secretive and exclusive group.
  7. Furries are not a vastly diverse group of people. (Like most sub cultures there are a myriad of identities, sexualities, ethnicities etc when it comes to identifying as a furry.)
  8. The Furry Fandom is not seen as a safe place.
  9. Finding your ‘species’/Fursona takes no time. (Some people take years to develop their true fursona)
  10. Fursuits are a requirement
Although Furries have copped their fair share of negative media, it seems like being a Furry is nothing to be afraid of and has the potential for a lot of fun and friendship. You can take it as casually or as seriously as you wish, and invest as much or as little time as you like as well.

 

About the author:  Jade is a consultant at the Oh Zone Stores.

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Lelo Mia 2 Secret USB Vibrator

All though I would check out Lelo’s bullet, the Mia 2. I am forever extolling the virtues of the amazing we vibe tango, as THE bullet of choice for its unparalleled rumbles and powerful vibrations. My go to bullet for less money would always be the Nu sensuelle, not so rumbly, but pretty darn powerful.  So what are Lelo bringing to the table? Their price point is similar to the Tango, so I am hoping for good things. Firstly I love the box, it’s all black and  discreet and  It looks very much  like there is something expensive and exciting inside. It is perfect for storage, but when you open the box it comes with a little satin bag anyway. The bag contains the manual and the USB charger cord and a tiny sachet of Lelo ‘personal moisturiser’. The toy is presented on a little velvet platform. and I would be very happy to receive this couples sex toy as a gift.

The Lelo Mia 2 is about 4.5 inches long and is in the lipstick style, except it looks exactly like my mascara. it is sleek and  discreet.  It can easily disguise itself as a convincing innocent member of your purse contents. It looks quite refined it is lightweight and easy to hold. One end is gently rounded at the tip, and holds most of the vibration. The other end is pointed and angled, and has slightly less vibration. It opens up like a lipstick and you plug it directly into the charger. I know I am probably the only one on the planet who thinks this, but I was amazed, I hadn’t seen a toy do that, I thought it was so cool. so much better than the Tango, floundering about on your night stand propped precariously up against something,desperately trying to stay attached to its charger (I hate magnet chargers). Anyway, I digress, back to the main event.  It is made of 100% body safe ABS plastic.I would  probably prefer silicone because plastic gets so slippery with lube. It looks so classy though, so I can forgive that.

It is very easy to use the controls are a simple plus and minus button – the plus, intuitively, turns Mia 2 up while the minus turns it down. Once you’re at the highest vibration, you can hold the plus button to access the 5 vibration patterns, and scroll through them . Press the minus button to get back to the steady vibrations,  then press again to turn Mia 2 off. It travel locks too by pressing both buttons at once, which we like. It has  6 different speeds, but I couldn’t really notice the difference, It works better if you use it intuitively.  As for the vibration quality, I think it is perfect. It is very rumbly, it isn’t as powerful as the Tango but it is more than enough for me. I didn’t expect it to be as good as it this. I have held off reviewing Lelo toys so far as I think they are a bit over priced and I can often find a similar if not better equivalent toy in another brand for a better price.

It is 100% waterproof and has a battery life of 1.5 hours.It is also unbelievably quiet.  This wasn’t going to be a comparison piece but since I mentioned those other two bullets I will finish off on this. If price didn’t come into it I would pick the Mia 2. I like the way it looks and feels and vibrates (and charges) . Nice one Lelo. Read a satisfied customer review:

‘I love my little Lelo Mia 2 clitoral vibrator. It’s reasonably small, so it is convenient to carry in your handbag or pocket if you wished. It came with a small instruction booklet, a little material pouch to store it in, a box and sample lube. The material is very easy to clean. The top part twists off to reveal the USB port to charge it at your computer. This is a hundred times better than buying batteries all the time. It sort of looks like a USB stick. The lower settings are very mild, but press the plus button and you get more moderate vibrations. As the vibrator is on the smaller size, it can be a little hard to press the plus and minus buttons to change settings when you are mid way through a session. I wish you tell when it’s about to run out of power so you can recharge it before it does. Overall, though, the size and convenience makes this an excellent quality clitoral vibrator for someone who likes low to moderate vibrations.’

Lelo Mia 2 Bullet Vibrator
Sex Toy: Lelo Mia 2

 

Generation Y is also not only the travel generation but also the sex toy generation, with stigma’s about adult stores and the use of adult toys slowly fading away and more people becoming sexually aware of their body and what they can use to pleasure themselves, it is not surprising that people are starting to take their sex toys on holidays with them. However there are places in this world that forbid both sexual material including sex toys, the countries below are included;

  • Thailand
  • Malaysia
  • Vietnam
  • India
  • Saudi Arabia and the United Arab Emirates
  • The Maldives
  • Generally countries around the Persian  Gulf

So what do you do when you can’t take a vibrator into a country that you are traveling to? Don’t have sex for the duration of you’re stay. In fact, stop having sex all together. Just quit it. Cold turkey. Just kidding. Fortunately enough their is a beautiful company in Sweden that create both innovative and beautifully designed toys, and go by the name Lelo. Yes, that is right. Lelo has provided the world with some of the most well designed vibrators, winning numerous awards for creativity and design in their product field (adult). The Lelo Mia 2 is the answer to you’re traveling restriction problems. It is designed like no other vibrator, and can easily fly under the radar. Talk about living the 007 life. Are you ready for you’re first assignment? Ok lets go.

17:00 Hours – Dubai International Airport – United Arab Emirates

Assignment: Transport Mia 2 undetected through Dubai customs undetected.

You’re in Dubai for a quick fly in, fly out business meeting, and you have an Australian friend Sarah that lives in Dubai that you promised you will bring her a cheeky clitoris vibrator from home. You’ve done you’re research and found that not only does the Mia 2 have 6 thrilling functions with a 1.5 hour continuous battery, but it also comes with a 1 year warranty and 10 year guarantee, meaning that it will defiantly do well on a long mission.

You’re walking through the customs screening area, the tension is high yet you’re a trained professional knowing that you’re package is completely undetectable. You look eyes with a Dubai customs officer, he says you are traveling alone, and only have a duffle bag with you. He gets suspicious. You get the international hand gesture for “come here”. As you head over to him he begins to let you know that he will be searching you’re bag, and it is just a random bag check. He asks if you have to declare anything or have any prohibited items, you’re reply is “no”. Whilst searching through the bag he comes across a satin pouch which is containing the Mia 2 in it. You had to ditch the box in Sydney because you knew it would be suspicious is you traveled with it. He begins to inspect the Lelo Mia 2 and does not know what to make of this strange item. You ask to hold it to show him something. He hands it over and you take the cap off the end of it, which reveals a USB port. The customs officer nods as you explain that it is you’re company USB stick and gestures you to move along and enjoy you’re stay. Little did he know that the USB is actually used to charge the Mia 2. You reach Sarah’s apartment where she is waiting for you with excitement, after she greets you, you hand over her toy. Confused at how you got it through customs, Sarah gives you a massive grin with the Mia 2 in her one hand, and her other hand dragging you to the bedroom.

Mission Accomplished. Take care 0069.

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