Sex Positions for Larger Couples
When it comes to sex, no-one talks about Sex Positions for Larger Couples. The common misconception is that only skinny people can have enjoyable experiences. This couldn’t be further from the truth.
Every person, regardless of their size, deserves to feel comfortable and confident in the bedroom. This is especially true for larger couples who may face challenges finding sex positions that work for them.
But fear not, because we’ve got you covered. Lets explore some of the most comfortable and pleasurable sex positions for bigger couples. From positions that maximize skin-to-skin contact to those that take the pressure off your joints, there are options that are sure to spice up your sex life.
Discover the best positions for big and beautiful couples.
What Are Common challenges faced by larger couples during sex?
Finding positions that are comfortable and pleasurable for both partners can be difficult. Especially true when one or both partners are carrying extra weight. Certain positions may put too much pressure on joints or cause discomfort. Larger bodies may make it harder to achieve penetration, or find the right angle for stimulation and sex toys may be used as an aid.
There is also the issue of body image insecurity. Society often perpetuates the idea that only thin bodies are desirable, leaving larger individuals feeling self-conscious and undeserving of pleasure. This can lead to anxiety and a reluctance to engage in sexual activity.
They can also face discrimination and marginalization in the dating world. Fatphobia is a real issue, and many people feel ashamed or embarrassed to pursue romantic relationships because of it.
How Can You communicate with your partner about sex positions?
Effective communication is key to a fulfilling sex life, no matter what your body type. Larger couples may need to experiment with different positions to find what works for them, so open communication is essential.
Approach the conversation with an open mind and a non-judgmental attitude. Everyone’s body is different, and what works for one person may not work for another. Try new things and be patient.
Sex Positions for Overweight People
WebMD write that certain sex positions may be more comfortable for people who are carrying excess weight. The following positions are only suggestions. The important thing is to do what makes you feel good in bed.
What Are The best sex positions for larger couples?
Here are some of the best sex positions for larger couples with different body shapes and sizes –
Missionary:
This classic position can be a great option for larger couples. By placing a pillow or two under the receiving partner’s hips, you can create a more comfortable angle for penetration. This position also allows for plenty of eye contact and intimacy.
Spooning:
Spooning is another great position for larger couples. By lying on your sides with your partner behind you, you can enjoy deep penetration while also minimizing joint pressure. This position also allows for plenty of skin-to-skin contact, making it a great option for intimacy.
Cowgirl:
In this position, the receiving partner straddles the penetrating partner while facing them. This allows the receiving partner to control the angle and depth of penetration, making it a great option for those who may have trouble finding the right angle. Plus, it can be a great workout for the receiving partner’s legs and core!
Doggy style:
This position can be great for larger couples as it takes pressure off the joints and allows for deeper penetration. Plus, it’s a fun and playful position that can add some variety to your sex life.
Modifications of the best sex positions for more comfort and pleasure
There are also some modifications and variations you can try to the sex positions above even more comfortable and pleasurable.
In the missionary position;
you can try placing a pillow under the receiving partner’s head to create a more comfortable angle for kissing and eye contact. You can also experiment with different types of pillows or cushions to support different parts of the body.
In the spooning position;
you can try adding a vibrator or other sex toy for added stimulation. This can be a great way to explore new sensations and enhance your experience.
In the cowgirl position;
you can experiment with different angles and depths of penetration to find what feels best for you. You can also try leaning forward or back to change the angle of your hips and stimulate different areas.
In the doggy style position;
you can try placing a pillow or cushion under the receiving partner’s hips to create a more comfortable angle for penetration. You can also experiment with different hand placements or arm movements to find what feels best for you.
Other sex positions to try
Try to mix things up – here are three more positions to consider:
The lotus:
In this position, the penetrating partner sits cross-legged on the bed while the receiving partner sits on their lap, wrapping their legs around the partner’s waist. This position allows for deep penetration and intimate eye contact.
The pretzel:
In this position, the receiving partner lies on their side with one leg raised and bent, while the penetrating partner kneels between their legs. This position allows for deep penetration and can be a great option for those who enjoy G-spot stimulation.
The lazy man:
In this position, the receiving partner lies on their back with their legs raised and bent, while the penetrating partner kneels or stands in front of them. This position allows for deep penetration and can be a great option for those who enjoy oral sex.
Tips for successful and enjoyable sex for larger couples
Here are a few other tips that can help make sex more enjoyable for larger couples:
Practice good hygiene:
This may seem like a no-brainer, but it’s especially important for larger individuals who may sweat more or have more skin folds. Take extra care to clean yourself thoroughly before and after sex.
Use plenty of lube:
Lube can be a lifesaver for larger couples, as it can help reduce friction and make sex more comfortable. Don’t be afraid to use plenty of it!
Be mindful of your body positions:
When engaging in sexual activity, be mindful of your body positions and movements. Avoid positions or movements that put too much pressure on your joints or cause discomfort.
Focus on pleasure, not performance: Sex should be about pleasure and intimacy, not achieving a certain goal or performance level. Take the pressure off yourself and focus on enjoying the moment.
Sexual health considerations for larger couples
Larger individuals may face unique sexual health considerations, such as a higher risk of certain STIs or difficulty accessing healthcare. If you have concerns about your sexual health, talk to a healthcare provider who can provide you with personalized advice and support.
Practice safe sex by using condoms and getting regular STI tests. And if you have any physical limitations or health concerns that may impact your sexual activity, be sure to discuss them with your partner and your healthcare provider.
Fat Sex: Best Positions, Props, Preparation and Other Tips
Teen Vogue identify that fat people have sex and believe it is great. Offering Tips and tricks in the preparation of sex with overweight people.
Embrace your body and your desires, and enjoy the ride.
Fat Sex – A Big Thing To Get Around!
We live in a world full of different bodies, and different sexual preferences. Now before you fall off your ladder, let me tell you a little secret.
Some people enjoy fat sex.
They enjoy sleeping with fat people, or they like watching fat sex whether that be where the two bodies are drastically different or whether they are of a similar shape. It’s not at all dissimilar to how many men like sleeping with older women. The same can be said of men enjoying BBW sex, either with women or other men.
Fat sex, however, can be slightly different. With some handy tips listed below as well as considering some of the Liberator Sex Furniture you’ll look at not only fat sex, but every kind of sex differently.
What Is Normal – What Is Average?
One of the many questions I hear when discussing differently shaped bodies is ‘how does it fit’?
How do two (Or more) bodies so drastically outside the ‘average’ fit together in such a pleasurable and intimate way?
Or, how can they find such a body pleasurable? Isn’t it gross?
I’m so often intrigued by what people find abnormal and I sometimes feel that the idea of fat sex is so grossly exaggerated and abhorred. Yet the same people are quite comfortable with open relationships, kink sex, water sports, urethral stimulation and a wide variety of sexual deviancy.
I especially find this in the queer world, the world I’m most closely familiar with, Where anything outside the six pack masculine swinging hung male is treated with utter blasé-ness. Those that have worked hard on their body, or have insane genetic capabilities are treated like the Greek Gods reincarnated.
What Is The Reason Fat And Sex Are Not Welcomed?
Before we get too into depth concerning sex and ‘fat’ – let’s explore the reasoning and some aspects of the mind that need to be addressed. The thing is, that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There is no need to feel so vulnerable or so exposed. We spend so much time consumed with our own self-image that we develop a paranoia about our own bodies. How they behave/react/appear during sex.
Let it go.
If you truly want the best sex of your life, you need to understand that your sexual partner finds you attractive. That they want to sleep with you. They’re not concerned with your own self-destructive thoughts. They are concerned with whatever it is they are attracted to. It’s as simple as that.
I read an article where a woman described how during sex she would refuse to put herself in unflattering positions. She would drape a pillow across her during sex, or clutch (attempting to be seductive) a blanket in order to hide what she could not accept. This, she states, prevented her from enjoying the moment.
Do Not Become Preoccupied With Negative Self Image
From enjoying the sex because she was too pre-occupied in her own mental state.Tthat was the only thing that consumed her during the act. Her epiphany came during one moment when she turned the lights off. In her mind she had deduced that he wouldn’t know just how fat she was if he couldn’t see her.
The thing she didn’t realise was, he had already seen her at all.
This meant, he wanted to have sex with her, and further, he loved it. She then realised that her sexual partners were having sex with her because of the way she looked.
It wasn’t a pity fuck!!
They found other parts of her attractive and they merely ‘tolerated’ her body, wanting to have sex with her and her body.
We Are Most Vulnerable When Having Sex
This is something we can all relate to. In sex, we are at or most vulnerable. We are literally sharing everything about ourselves in front of our sexual partner. Now, when it comes to the mechanics of sex with differently shaped bodies, it is by no means impossible. Just a little extra care needs to be taken.
For women, excess fat can pool around the vaginal region including the mons pubis and and labia. This means that when having penetrative vaginal intercourse, you will need to take care ensuring the object that’s being inserted (toy or dick) is well lubricated. That you spread the area around the vagina to help ease the entry.
For boys and anal play the same care needs to be taken. When penetrating boys need to ensure that your dick is lubricated. That you select a comfortable position designed for maximum entry; Some of the best are missionary, partner on top, and doggie style.
It depends on where the fat is situated, whether you have a low belly or a high belly or a variety of different things. For missionary when your submissive partner has big thighs or a belly you need to note that these will get in the way during sex. The best way to deal with this is to bring your knees up and pull your thighs to your chest.
If You Are Struggling With Achieving Sex Positions – Use Sex Furniture
If you’re struggling with this position some strategically placed firm pillows placed under the lower back or the butt will work wonders. Or even better yet, the Adult Lifestyle Centre has just obtained some liberator sex furniture in stock. The liberator wedge (Plus-Sized) is absolutely ideal for trying different positions. It is absolutely fantastic for people with different body shapes or even simply those trying to reach the ultimate sexual positions.
The high density foam of the of the Liberator Wedge works by preventing the body from sinking – which is one of the unfortunate results of having a larger body. You’ll be laying there enjoying the moment. Then you’ll realise that you’re beautifully soft bed is actually working against you and undermining your sexual positioning.
The microfiber cover not only feels great against the skin, but if you’re working up a sweat it’s moisture resistant. It’s also machine washable covering will certainly come in handy.
Liberator Positional Pillows Can Help Achieve Better Sex Positions
If you’re going with the partner on top position, be aware that there is no way you are going to crush your partner. It’s just not possible. It’s about maneuvering yourself into the ideal position. Sometimes you may have to move your fat around as well and readjust how everything sits on your body.
Grab a liberator wedge and stick it under your partners but to elevate them so you can achieve the maximum type of penetration. If you find yourself tiring, just maintain position and get your partner to thrust! It can be a tiring position.
Iif you’re tiring easily, you need to reconsider the way your body is distributing the weight and adjust it. Just remember this; if you have a large ass, use that to thrust down on your partner. The extra momentum will really rock his world!
Fat Sex Has Benefits As Well As Difficulties
If you haven’t noticed, fat sex is not that much different to every other kind of sex. It’s about positioning, and about finding those key spots. There are loads more positions you can consider including the crouched turtle, but I’ll let you find out those ones.
Just remember you need to let go of your mind and ride the moment (literally). Get some leverage in the form of a pillow or liberator wedge, and find a position or a multiple of positions that work for you.
Author: Stephen Smith – BA Of Social Sciences, M.Ed
Meet Stephen, a bold and opinionated cis-gendered gay advocate for gender equality and sexual education. Join him on the Adultsmart blog for fearless insights.