If there is one thing that can make a man uneasy, it’s confronting a slump in performance.
No, not work performance, although that’s also difficult! I’m talking about performance in the bedroom.
If anything isn’t perfect about his performance, a guy will immediately panic, even if he hides it well. Performance anxiety can be a troubling time for a man, and he may become less confident as a result of even the slightest concerns in the bedroom.There are even guys who withhold sex from their partners because they think they aren’t good enough.
I’m here to tell you that this isn’t necessary!
Trust me, just because you’re not getting as hard as you want or lasting as long as you want, your woman (or women) does NOT want to bail on sex altogether.
And, she doesn’t care about these imperfections nearly as much as you think. It is so hard to convince guys of this, so you really need to listen in!
One Of The Biggest Mistakes Men Make That Sabotages Sexual Performance (And It’s Totally Avoidable)
One of the biggest mistakes men make is allowing struggles in the bedroom to consume their minds and start to change who they are. We’re all human, and we all go through phases and struggles.The key is not to allow ONE small aspect of a relationship to collapse the whole thing.
Think it over: are you making a bigger deal out of this than it is?
Something a lot of men don’t realize is that if a woman really likes you, she will accommodate you.
Plus, it is so easy to make a woman happy without even getting hard. You have fingers and tongue in your favor. And hopefully, you’ve got some toys on hand too.
This Is More Common Than You Probably Realize
Another thing most men don’t realize is that pretty much all guys struggle with performance. I’m even tempted to say every man does, at some point, have trouble getting or staying hard.
Does it ruin a relationship? No!
Some guys will go crazy, and that’s a significant turnoff to women. The reaction from men is usually worse than the actual “problem.”
And performance issues are totally a thing for women too, so don’t underestimate their ability to sympathize.A good partner will not be upset by this but will rather become creative with you to continue to have crazy sexy times in the bedroom.
So instead of drowning in despair like so many men are prone to do, take action!
3 Popular Methods to Get Your Boners & Libido Back to Full-Speed
There are so many things you can do to support your sexual vitality, from natural methods to pharmaceuticals. You may want to consider different male enhancement options.
Viagra is a popular option among men seeking a boost in performance.
A lot of men find success with this pharmaceutical option, but it’s not necessarily a guarantee. Medications work differently for different people, so be sure to talk with your doctor before making any decisions.
If you want to go the natural route, macapowder is a great option. Maca is a root found in Peru and has long been used to help balance hormones. It also has a host of other health benefits, so you can’t really go wrong with this one! You can put it in a smoothie every day, or even make pancakes with it.
You might also want to check out Dehydroepiandrosterone (DHEA), which mimics a natural steroid in your body. If this natural steroid is in decline, supplementing might be a great option for you.
Your Lifestyle Could Be Contributing to Performance Issues
Are you getting enough exercise? Sleeping or eating well?
You’ll find more often than not adopting healthier routines (regular exercise, a good night’s sleep, etc.) is a great solution to performance issues. It could even be as simple as adopting a sexual performance diet.
You should also touch base with your partner.
Sometimes if tensions build, they manifest in physical problems. Maybe there is a conversation you need to have. Or maybe you need to find a different partner.
It’s key to remember that trouble in the bedroom does not need to bring you down.Be smart and take the actions you can. Be communicative with your partner, and find creative ways to give each other pleasure if your penis just isn’t perking up.
This is no excuse to be lazy! A woman is often just as happy with other kinds of physical attention. Maybe you buy her a new toy?In time, you will get to know your body better and better.
Cover your bases. Revamp your lifestyle if you need to. Keep on that sexy, confident demeanor that women adore about you and enjoy the great variety of pleasures available in your life.
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