Alright, so we all know that valentines day is definitely aimed at all the couples out there, and while I find It great that you guys have love I’m writing this blog for the people like me who will be spending another February 14th alone and without a lover. You guys may be thinking to yourself, “but being alone makes it just another day, since there’s no love happening”… WRONG. We’re forgetting a very important kind of love, self love. I don’t care if you’re single, February 14th is a day to shower yourself with treats in any way you see fit and then show yourself some love. Here’s some of the stuff I’ll be doing on Valentines day to show myself that I’m important.
Take a Bath:
Okay, so I don’t know about you guys but something about a candle lit bath hits different. I have 3 kinds of bath salts, bath bombs, and of course some bubble bath, I’ll be leaving work and going straight home to soak. While I’m in the bath I usually read a book, play some music, and just decompress after the day. Nothing says self care and self love like the softest and best smelling skin you’ve ever had.
Order Your Favourite Meal:
You can go whatever way you feel suits with this one, I like to get the unhealthiest food known to man *as a treat*, but if you feel healthy food is what makes you feel happiest and most loved you do that… Whatever fills the aching void of being alone while everyone else throws their happiness in your face… I mean, whatever feels like self care. If you’re really feeling frisky you can even eat the meal in the bath, why not!
Put on Your Favourite Show or Movie:
Get in something comfy, or sexy, and just sit back in bed or on the couch and watch something that makes you happy, this night is all about you and your wants. You may as well have the company of all of your favourite characters on screen, that way there’s background noise while you swipe through all your dating apps telling a multitude of people how your day was… Oh that’s just me? Okay.
Self Love:
We all know what I’m about to say, one word, 4 syllables… MASTURBATION. Get your toys out, get the lube out, get comfy and go to town. Because there’s nothing better than giving yourself an old fashioned orgasm on Valentines day, I don’t care what you use, but trust me when I say a Womanizer Premium is what will do you the best. Stick it on autopilot, lay back and just enjoy the ride. If you want a quick 2 minute session before you go to bed just stick to the regular settings, but the autopilot is a game changer. However, you do it, just spend some time with your body and really have a good time.
Random Hookup:
Look, Valentines doesn’t have to be about self love for us singles, you can go out and get some random sex if that’s what’s going to make you feel good on the inside, if I wasn’t working you bet I’d be going out on Valentines and finding someone. But hey, we all have what we like. Get some sexy ass lingerie on under your outfit (this goes for the men too if you’re into that), and head out feeling and looking your best and then go find yourself a sexual partner. Just remember consent is absolutely key, and while it’s fun to chase remember that there are boundaries and if the person doesn’t look interested or says no that you have to respect that, it’s all fun and games and as long as there is consent! Whether it’s from a dating app, or you actually go out to socialise and find someone who’s after the same thing as you, whatever works. Get that sexual encounter you absolute beast.
At the end of the day you do what feels right to you, you don’t need to have a lover to be able to celebrate Valentines day, you don’t need to have a person next to you to tell you that you’re loved. You’re special and you can treat yourself the same way a partner would be able to do. All you need to do is think of what you would ideally like a partner to do for you on Valentines day, because you are the most important person in your life, you put up with yourself all day everyday and you carry yourself around so why not treat yourself to such a nice night? Enjoy it, you won’t always be able to plan out the entire night to the exact way you would like.
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