To Douche Or Not To Douche?

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A topic maybe not frequently spoken about might be a little embarrassing for some, but it’s certainly searched through the inter webs a lot. Countless upon countless blogs and articles outlining the do’s and the dont’s when it comes to anal douching. With anal douching just like everything else there are risks both ways. If you don’t douche… well those risk are clearer. If you do decide to douche, how and with what are very important. The following is simply some facts about the biological effects that can occur from douching vs not for you to mull over, the decision is ultimately yours to make as you see fit. I am not a medical professional simply a Human Sexuality and Psychology Graduate.

What is Douching?

It might be best for me to start off by explaining for anyone who isn’t familiar, what douching is. Douching is a cleaning aid system that involves passing water through the anus into the rectum and lower bowels or colon. This part of the body is where our digestive waste collects before disposal. The process of douching can be done in several ways from bulbs to attachments for your everyday household taps and showers. You can find these at any of our Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre or online at the Adultsmart store.

Anal Sex And Sexually Transmitted Infections

It is already common knowledge that with anal sex comes a higher risk of STI infection including a higher risk of HIV, and that this is due to the lining of the intestines/bowels to be so thin and therefore it is very fragile, this is why having safe sex is important. What might not be as commonly known is that sphincter or anus acts as a sort of warning barrier in terms of the cluster of nerves that it contains and the design of the muscles. The muscles face outwards to align with the peristalsis or digestive direction i.e. bowel movements. Just entering the anus goes against its physiology so care must be taken. The anus is also full of pain receptors like the skin only in more numbers, they are there specifically there to warn the body of any “aggressive intruder” if you will. These pain receptors have to be gently enticed to relax. Now one might think the solution would be to go slow and use lube? Only it’s not that simple, these specifically placed pain receptors are only located in the first 5cm of the asshole itself, meaning any bump, scratch or tear could go unnoticed causing serious damage and possible infection. But we’re not talking about anal sex, the process of douching can easily have damaging effects.

 

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Does Water Impact The Linings Of The Bowel?

One of the biggest concerns with douching is that by adding water to the bowels you can damage the fragile lining which of course is true. This fragile lining is designed to absorb water, but when it absorbs water in access it increases blood flow to the heart which carries many of its own dangerous risks. When the lining itself is damaged or waterlogged this leads to higher chance of infections.  Inserting the nozzle of the douching device brings a high risk of cutting or tearing the lining, which we have already stated brings high risk of infection. These are all true and bring high risks, which is why taking due care when douching is so important. A common topic that often gets brought up in the debate that is “Douching” is that overuse or frequent use will interfere with your natural workings, and that you could end up dependent on stool softeners and laxatives. There just haven’t been any long term studies actually looking at in depth the effects of frequent anal douching that can conclusively support this.

Why Do People Use Douches?

Now after discussing all the terrible things that can occur from damaging one of the most fragile parts of the body, you might be asking yourself why? Why put yourself at that kind of risk? It’s obvious to anyone reading this you already know the pleasures of anal play, or have been enticed enough to begin your research. You obviously want to experience the pleasures that come with anal interaction and want to be safe about it. So again ask to douche or not? Scat play or sex that involves poo is a fetish “Coprophilia”, is it right for you?

It is important to know that any interaction with fecal matter or poo brings a risk of bacterial infection. Unprotected penetration can cause severe UTI’s in men when fecal matter enters the urethra, Hepatitis A and E are also commonly found in feces, so oral or rimming an area containing feces is also very risky. There are also numerous GI (Gastrointestinal) diseases carried out of the body in this waste, such as Salmonella. The list and the symptoms are endless and none of them seem enjoyable and many can be fatal if not treated.

Conclusion

With all the above information and any other sources you find, it’s time for you to assess your comfort level with fecal matter or “poo” before deciding if douching is right for you. You might be one of those people who has regular bowel movement. When I say regular I mean regular on time and regular of a solid consistency that leaves you feeling completely evacuated. If you are, well la di da aren’t you special! Jokes, if you are you might be confident enough to know your schedule and be able to get away with a quick shower and a thorough cleaning between the cheeks and maybe a quick insert of the finger and you’re ready for insertion. There’s always the small small chance of something left behind. To quote the phrase “Shit happens” it’s true, when playing in this region it’s bound to happen. So how do you feel about that?

I have presented you with many but certainly not all of the biological risks involved with douching or not, the decision is yours!

About the author: KrizPatrick BA(Hon) Psychology- Human SexualitySave

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3 Things People Fear About Anal Sex

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There’s a lot of fear when it comes to anal play and yet, there’s still much curiosity about it. I was reminded of this idea when a young straight lad came into one of the stores this evening and asked a few questions regarding anal – despite the fear there’s still an abundance of curiosity regarding this type of play. More so, as we slowly move beyond the idea that sex is purely for reproduction and instead focus on the more sex positive attitude that sex is for pleasure as well.  This article is about breaking down the fear of anal play and we will do that by first acknowledging those fears, stripping them back and then talking about the ways to engage in anal play in a safe and comfortable way.

Anal Sex’s Ick Factor

There’s the whole shit on the dick thing. We’ve all heard the story about that one time when so and so’s friend had that awful experience when it came to that one night. This fear is fairly common, and it stems from our upbringing. The studies have shown that when a small impressionable child starts curiously playing with their genitals, and they’re told that that’s a dirty thing to do – then obviously they associate that feeling with their genitals. Some people grow out of it, some do not, and as a result whether we acknowledge it or not, our relationship with sex, sexuality and our bodies stems largely from our upbringing and the way those around us deal with issues of sex.  Our relationship with anal is largely because many individuals associate it with part of the human waste system. It’s an out not an in, is a common phrase which reinforces this idea. Let’s debunk this. Unless the body is just about to pass waste, or has recently done so – then there is actually very little chance of the dreaded shit on the dick factor. The anal cavity actually has a very thorough self-cleaning system which works really well. Yes, there are some risks if you’re playing rough, or you’re dealing with long toys or dicks, but in general the risk is actually quite small. The more you know!

Anal Sex’s Gay Factor

Butt sex, ass play, has long been considered the domain of gay men. There are countless ‘help me’ articles in magazines from concerned girlfriends who are worried that they’re beautiful boy is suddenly about to turn into a drag queen because he likes a bit of finger action. I’m not too sure where this one started, but anal play is not the domain of gay men. What might even surprise you, is that there are a lot of gay men in the world that don’t enjoy anal sex.  In an article by the Journal of sexual health and medicine, a study involving 25,000 gay and bisexual identifying men, stated that over 75% of participants responded with that their most recent sexual encounter involved the receiving or giving of oral sex. Contrast that with 36% of participants responding with their most recent sexual encounter involving anal play. In fact, mutual masturbation, kissing, genital and genital contact is a far more frequent occurrence among gay men.This is actually an issue which is fading over time. As people are becoming more in tune with their bodies, more comfortable in their sexuality and their openness about sex and sexuality – the stigma about anal play is slowly being broken down. Considering that prostate play is some of the most intense orgasmic experiences that a male can feel and massaging the prostate has benefits – then there’s a lot of people missing out on great sex because they think it’s a bit gay. The thing is, that anal play is not synonymous with a sexuality.

Anal Sex’s Ouch Factor

Anal sex can hurt. In saying that, there’s usually a few very select reasons as to why it hurts. One of the main reasons as to why it hurts, is because you think it’s going to hurt.  Consider the first time that you had sex, the awkwardness of it, the way it hurt a little and the way that it might have been over in just a few minutes. Very few first times are awesome, and what happens is they might have a bad experience which tarnishes any future experiences towards anal play. What we generally find, especially with younger partners, is they might rush through anal play for the first time, and this in turn can cause discomfort. Anal sex is not like other variation of penetrative sex. It requires patience, lubricant, and a recognition that the body might take time to adjust. There’s a myriad of different factors that need to be considered, but the main one that’s often ignored – is the fear. The anxiety. Which in turn affects the body’s ability to relax and you’ll tense up and it will hurt.

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Tips for Anal Sex

Anal sex is not necessary. You’re not obligated to add it to your sexual to do list, and quite frankly, the best way to have anal sex is to want it. When you want it, when you’re curious, when you’re relaxed and able to enjoy it is the best time to have anal sex. And, if I’m being honest, when you’re horny as all hell.  This combination of things is going to make anal play so much easier.  Once you’re used to it, you’ll find it much easier to add to your routine.

Patience. Patience is necessary when it comes to anal play. The muscles are involuntary, therefore it will take time for them to adjust to having something there which is not normally so. Lubricate some, put more lubricant on, and breathe.

If you’re really worried about some mess, then you can use a douche to help prepare. But one following the instructions on a douche you will need to wait about an hour before having sex. Also, don’t use that one hour to travel to your playmates house as the water needs to dry up and could end up on your favourite underwear. Douche, wait half an hour, and then start moving.

Follow these tricks will help you in riding that pole like a pro.

Author: Stephen Smith – BA Of Social Sciences, M.EdSave

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VIP Interview with b-Vibe creator Alicia Sinclair

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Alicia Sinclair is an influential woman within the adult lifestyle and sexual intimacy industry. She has been the Director of Global Sales for Baci Lingerie, the Vice President of Worldwide Sales for Jimmyjane, a Resident Sex Expert for The Womanizer and the Founder of b-Vibe. This is a VIP Interview with b-Vibe creator Alicia Sinclair and sexpert from The Adultsmart Health and Sexuality Blog, which will look into her favourite accomplishments throughout her career.

Tell me about yourself?

I have more than 15 years of experience in the Sexual Intimacy Industry. Through my extensive work in the adult space, I have led many training programs teaching people about being sex positive – an attitude towards human sexuality that regards all consensual adult sexual activities as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable, and encourages sexual pleasure and experimentation.

I am a Certified Sex Educator, Certified Sexuality Coach, and a member of the World Association of Sex Coaches. I am the instructor of the expert course “Sex Toys in Today’s Market” at Sexology University.

On a personal level, I enjoy traveling to new places, going to concerts, enjoying a glass (or two) of wine, dinner with friends and family, a nice run on the beach, cuddling with my partner and watching a movie.

What are your favourite quotes?

“In the end the love you take is equal to the love you make.”

I enjoy this quote because I believe that the amount of energy and effort a person puts into something is returned to them.

What are your favourite accomplishments?

This year I won the XBIZ Exec Award for Businesswoman of the Year.  I feel so honored to be appreciated by my peers.  Such a cool accomplishment.

What is the story behind the inspiration, creation and development of your company and product range?

I’ve been selling, marketing, and branding pleasure products for almost 15 years. I’ve visited thousands of adult stores all over the world. During my travels, I noticed that the anal play section of almost every store is the same – black products in dark packaging. I also found that there was very little innovation in the products created for anal play. Everything looked and operated in the same basic manner. This inspired me to rethink the category. My goal was to create a new, fresh approach to anal toys and to also offer exciting innovations that create a truly satisfying user experience.

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Photo: b-Vibe creator and designer Alicia Sinclair

Where is your company located?

Our office is located in New York City, which is a wonderful advantage due to the close proximity to mainstream publications and excellent adult retail boutiques.

What does your company values the most?

Our company mission is to provide sex positive education, decrease social stigmas, and elevate the anal play category.

How does your company define and measure success?

The consumer experience is extremely important to us, thus we measure success by product reviews and direct customer feedback.

What do you love most about your brand compared to other companies?

How much we care about the design of products, mission to provide sex positive education, and inclusive marketing and branding.  We are also the only company 100% dedicated to creating butt stuff.

Tell me about your product range?

We currently have four different products. They are all premium, rechargeable, remote control anal play products that arrive complete with a beautiful travel case. Each plug is geared towards a different user type.

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b-Vibe Novice Plug

Our Novice Plug is a small, beginner-friendly size plug that is about the size of a finger and features a slightly tapered design. It’s an ideal product for anal play beginners because of the small size and easy to insert tip.  This plug arrives with a copy of “The Guide to Anal Play”.

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b-Vibe Trio Plug

The Trio Plug is a flexible, medium size butt plug engineered with the strength and versatility of three powerful motors.  The Trio Plug has eight levels of vibration strength and 9 vibration patterns. The versatile vibration strengths and patterns satisfy a wide range of intensity preferences and users. Choose from gentle, soft pulsations to fast, and powerful. On the highest setting, this plug feels like it is pulsing in and out.

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b-Vibe Rimming Plug

The Rimming Plug is our most popular adult lifestyle product because it is the first, and only, butt plug to incorporate rotating beads in the neck of the plug for a “rimming” sensation, with powerful vibration in the tip of the plug. The combination of rotation at the entry to the anus and vibration of the interior anal canal results in exhilarating dual stimulation. This is a large size plug that is geared for more experienced users looking to try something totally different.

What are your best sellers?

Currently our best-selling product is our Rimming Plug.  I feel that this item sells best in our range because it’s been on the market the longest and offers a totally unique and different experience that any other butt plug on the market.

If you could pick just two pieces from your product range, what would you choose and why?

My personal favorites are the Trio Plug and the Triplet Anal Beads.  The Trio is an exceptionally strong plug, that is the perfect size for me, while I love the sensation of the removal of anal beads.  As the beads are removed, they arouse the sensitive nerve endings of the double ringed sphincter muscle. This stimulation creates a series of pleasurable sensations similar to having a muscle massaged.

What are the most memorable quotes that you have heard about your product range?

“We filled a hole in the market.”

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11 Gay Sex Positions

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I hate two things in this world when it comes to sex, condoms and same, boring, old school vanilla sex. The first one is essential and I never think of not using it during penetration, therefore, there are two things to change which are either the position during intercourse or adding some nice adult toys into your sessions to spice them up. I assume that you’ve already had many toys but don’t worry if you have not, I’ll give you some tips on that case as well in my article but my main mission is explaining 11 Gay Sex Positions that I’ve chosen for you based on both my personal experiences and people’s comments on the positions as there are hundreds of different sex positions available.

Speaking of mission, of course, we are grateful for the basic positions like missionary and doggy style, however, it is time to move on. And also feel free to share these positions with your straight friends as well because the positions can be adapted easily into heterosexual partners. Last but not least, keep in mind that the positions are ordered by increasing difficulty and please don’t take action without the consent of your partner.

Folded Deck Chair

You can easily move into this one from the missionary position. Simply, the receiver lays on his back and lifts his legs up in the air then the giver gets down on his knees and gives a part of his weight on his hands under one or both of his partner’s knees. After getting into the position, the receiver is free to enjoy his partner’s thrusts without doing anything special, preferably, he can either rub his own penis or scratch/stroke his partner’s body for additional sensations during intercourse. Moreover, the giver can lean on his partner’s legs for deeper penetration or he can also lean back by grabbing onto the receiver’s thighs which allows him to thrust harder. If you think that the position is not good enough to hit the P-spot, you can put a pillow under the receiver’s lower back to provide different angles. In addition, the position allows the giver to use a butt plug or a prostate massager comfortably during penetration. There are plenty of different anal sex toys on the market. You can also use a cock ring to stay harder and stronger for longer, for added pleasure there are also vibrating cock rings available. Just have a look.
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions - Folded Deck Chair
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Folded Deck Chair

Fire Hydrant

Here we have another variation of doggy style. To get into the position, the receiver should get down on his fours and the giver will be kneeling behind him. While the giver’s legs are between his partner’s legs, he lifts one of his own legs upwards and places his foot on the floor to the receiver’s side. Then, the giver lifts the receiver’s leg and place it on top of his thigh. If the receiver is flexible enough, he can wrap his leg around his partner’s leg or waist and pull him closer to himself. On the other hand, the giver can lean over his partner, however, this puts additional pressure on the receiver’s leg, so the position must be well balanced by both partners. Additionally, it is time for the receivers to release their submissiveness inside them if any available. To help this release, you can use blindfold, mouth gag or something else you like.
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Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Fire Hydrant

Scissors

In this position, the receiver lies on his side and lifts his leg then bends it so that there will be enough space for the giver to reach his partner’s anus. At this point, the giver also lies on his side but his head must be close to his partner’s feet. As a next step, the giver slips his lower leg underneath his partner’s lower leg right by his pubic and puts his own upper leg over his partner’s lower leg so that the receiver’s lower leg will be between giver’s legs. Finally, the receiver will be facing away from his partner and the giver will be facing towards his partner’s back. Lying on the giver’s thigh feels the receiver a bit uncomfortable but once you get into the position, all you need is harmonic thrusts in reverse directions together which means while the giver thrusts forth, the receiver thrusts back. Additionally, the giver needs to provide his own comfort as part of the receiver’s weight is on the giver’s leg, and also he is free to grab his partner’s upper leg to pull himself into the receiver during penetration.
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Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Scissors

Bumper Cars

Just like in the Crab position, penis flexibility is the key point to this gay sex position as well. So, it is recommended the giver to make sure that his penis is flexible enough prior to getting into the position. To check it, he needs to be able to point his penis downwards towards the ground comfortably while he is standing up and if everything is OK, it is time to strike a pose! The receiver lies down on his stomach with his legs straight and open wide, then the giver lies down on his stomach but facing in the opposite direction with his legs straight and open wide too. Finally, the giver penetrates his partner without overstretching his penis. The receiver’d better be still during penetration because of the delicate nature of this position. On the other side, it is hard to get into this position with small penis but please don’t let it put you off. There are heaps of penis extenders out there so have a look and pick one then have fun!
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Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Bumper Cars

Suspended Congress

This last one is one of the tricky ones among all of the positions. There are many criteria to be fulfilled, for example the giver has to have strong muscles so that he can balance his partner and himself during intercourse. At this point, it is better for the giver to have a bigger penis than the average for easiness of insertion. On the other hand, the receiver has to be in certain limits of weight for the sake of his partner and he should be flexible enough to stay in the position for a long time. To get into the position, whilst the giver lifts his partner by holding his thighs or by locking his hands beneath his partner’s bottom, the receiver puts his arms around his partner’s neck and grips his partner’s waist by his own thighs. If you think that this position is too easy for to perform, try it in the shower which will be exceptional experience for you. However, I strongly recommend you to have a pair of locking suction handle just to prevent accidents due to slippery surfaces in that case. This one will be especially fun and exciting at gay sex on premises venues.
Suspended Congrass Sex Position
Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Suspended Congrass

Basset Hound

This position is similar to the gay sex position doggy style and allows for deeper penetration, so all you need to do is get down on your knees and hands if you are receiver. Then, lower yourself towards the ground by spreading your knees and pushing your buttock back, spread your elbows out as well to make your chest closer to the ground. Your partner will insert his penis easily when you are in the position. His knees can be placed to either side of your buttocks and also he can spread his knees to get low. You don’t have to do anything as a receiver in this position. Simply, get your position and enjoy his thrusts, you can push yourself back though for harder penetration if you like. He has a few things to do as a giver, for example he can elevate his waist by keeping his knees together so that he stimulates your P-spot more, he can rub your back during intercourse or he can pull you towards himself for harder insertion.
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Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Basset Hound

Superman

Taking your shirt off will not be enough to be a superman this time Clark, you had better be totally naked and please don’t mind the world, it has been f*cked already, so it’s your turn now. Simply, lie down on your stomach with your arms stretched in front of you and put your waist to the edge of the bed with your legs hanging over the side. Then, your partner will penetrate you while standing or sitting down on his knees. As a receiver, once you get into the position, it is pretty hard to take action during intercourse  as you are lying down on your stomach and your legs are in the air. Therefore, you can either try lifting your waist to change the penetration angle or use one of bed restraints, let your partner tie you up and literally do nothing. After this point, all your partner needs to do is thrusting in and out by using either his hips or his full body.
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Book of Mormon Missionary Sex Positions – Superman

Launch Pad

In this position, the receiver lays on his back and the giver penetrates while he is on his knees facing the receiver. Then, the receiver lifts his legs upwards, brings his knees to his chest and puts his soles on his partner’s chest. After that, the giver can lean over his partner easily so that the receiver raises his buttock for deep penetration. Alternatively, the receiver can change his legs’ position like putting them over the giver’s shoulders or bringing both of them to one side. Even if it seems like the giver has the control, the receiver is the one who controls penetration in a way that he can control how deep and fast the penetration will be as his feet are on the giver’s chest. All the giver needs to do in this position is to thrust in and out, basically. However, he is free to adjust his angle to hit the P-spot better.
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Book of Mormon Missionary Positions – Launchpad

Crab

The giver lies down on his back with legs stretched and the receiver sits down in his partner’s lap facing him. The receiver should lean backwards with stretched hands behind himself so that he can balance himself in the position. The most important thing is the flexibility of giver’s penis, so once you get into the position the receiver had better move back slowly to prevent any injuries and also the giver should use his legs to control how far the receiver leans back. Still, the receiver generally has the control in this sex position, he gently brings his body up and down and grinds on his partner by thrusting his own buttocks back-and-forth and also rotating his hips gives extra stimulation. Additionally, the giver can contribute to the play by thrusting and grabbing his partner’s hips, grinding him back and forward, and also, he can give hand-job to the receiver easily. The giver can use a masturbator to blow his partner away as this position is really suitable to use it.

Leg Glider

To get into this position, the receiver should lie on his one side again, lets say his left side. Then, he needs to lift his right leg towards the ceiling while the left one is stick to the bed and his leg must point the ceiling straightly. This means that the angle between his legs must be right angle if he is flexible enough to do that. Whilst the receiver’s right leg leans on his partner’s shoulder/chest, the giver sits on his knees by taking the receiver’s left leg between his own legs like riding a horse and he is free to use a whip at this point to hold the receiver’s horses.  The receiver should ensure that he keeps his position without any cramping during intercourse so warming up can be helpful prior to penetration. The giver can hold the base of his partner’s right leg to pull the receiver towards himself so that he can penetrate him deeply and also the giver can change his angle by leaning in all four directions to find the most convenient angle for themselves, however he should be careful about not hurting the receiver.

Teaspoons

This position is derived from Doggy Style so it is easy to get into this position from regular Doggy Style. Simply, the giver gets down on his knees wide open and the receiver faces in the same direction in front of him while getting down on his knees as well. If the receiver has his knees together, the giver can come closer behind him and wrap his arms around him. Therefore, we can easily say that the Teaspoons allows partners to have intimate moments. As a receiver, you can bounce up and down for more thrusts and you can also put your hands around his back or neck while kissing him. Leaning back against him is another option for more intimacy by feeling as much of his body as possible. As a giver, you can give a hand job to your partner during penetration and you can also kiss his lips, neck and back. Just remember, this position is all about intimacy, be gentle and prolong your ejaculation to have more time than usual. If you can’t make it by your own means which is absolutely OK and has a solution, get a cock ring for yourself either from one of our Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres or by ordering online on our website which is pretty easy, go back to our home page and write what you need into the search box at the right top of the page e.g. cock rings and get lost in heaps of different kinds of cock rings. Kidding, it is impossible to get lost, thanks to the other reviews about every single item that you can think of on our blog written by professionals in this area, for example cock rings again. There is that same search box on blog page too which means that all information about sex and sex toys is a click away.

With all of these different sex positions your prostate, sex life and your health will be thanking you!

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It’s All About The Sport Fucker Jock Lock

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The Jock Lock is a silicone cock ring and an anal sex toy made by the adult company from Los Angeles called Sport Fucker. Sport Fucker company motto is “If sex is your sport, we got the gear”. Their sex toys have been made with a specific purpose with a very masculine feel. Sport Fucker takes regular sex toys and enhances it to a whole new level of sexual pleasure which helps people to broaden their horizons to explore new things. The Sports Fucker Jock Lock takes a regular cock ring and attaches a prostate ball stimulator or anal plug on the end. The cock ring will help to keep the blood flow within the penis, making the penis harder, stronger and last longer so your lover will feel the joy of your erect penis to it’s fullest. Then there is the Sport Fucker Jock Lock prostate stimulator which is designed to reward you with every thrust as the small 45mm round ball rubs against the prostate. You will also be able to feel the vibrations when you penetrate with your penis. You will need to prepare yourself for stimulation overload. The Sport Fucker Jock Lock comes in three colours including blue, green and black.

Unlike the steel version of Sport Fucker Jock Lock, the silicone version will match any body shape and usually hide discreetly between the legs, whereas the steel version is hard and will not bend for individual body shape. The silicone material also means that this product will be easily cleaned and sterilised. Sport Fucker Jock Lock is perfect for boys that want to fuck and receive hands-free anal stimulation, without having the need to lay down or interrupt the rhythm. This moves with you, it plays with you and it is discreet. Just be aware that the cock ring is a 50mm silicone cock ring, so it’s not overly tight and nor should it be overly loose. Very much like the Goldilocks of cock rings, however, be aware that if you use the tighter fit condoms, that this may be a little too loose for you.

Sex Toy: Sport Fucker Jock Lock

 

It is important to mention that anal stimulation does not indicate your sexuality. To reduce homosexuality to the pleasurable experience of anal play is pointless and limiting to people. There are indeed, a lot of gay men that do not like anal play or stimulation and are exclusive tops. Exclusive tops mean they only enjoy penetrating their penis into someone. Furthermore, there are a lot of heterosexual men that like to be fucked by their missus with strapless dildos and harnessed dildos. If a heterosexual man liked anal penetration this is not an indication of homosexuality. Instead, anal play can be about power, control, and sexual pleasure.

The prostate is the most intense part of the male sexual pleasure erogenous zone, and this can be seen with each thrust. Nearly every guy thrusts, or ejaculates, with his dick first. This slight bending of the body places pressure on the prostate, thereby stimulating it every time you have sex. You can also stimulate the prostate from externally by placing your finger on the perineum which is situated between the anus and the penis which I find a lot of straight couples do to increase the level of a man’s orgasm

Still think anal play makes you gay, despite you unconsciously playing with your ass every time you fuck? For many years, the taboo nature of anal play is slowly receding and it is becoming more ‘accepted’ in all forms and types of sexual play. Yes, it requires an open mind to participate and experiment with. Yes, it requires sexual liberation and a comfort with your sexual identity. But for those that engage in it, it opens up new worlds and the majority of the Store in terms of what boys can use for play. Whilst a lot of men center their sexual experience around the cock, you can increase your sexual experience by stimulating the ass at the same time, Sport Fucker Jock Lock is a perfect example of this.

 

By Stephen Smith a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres and also a youth counsellor.