Spice up Your Sex Life – Hot, Hot, Hot!!

We all need a bit of fun and playfulness in the bedroom.  The less uncomfortable you feel about discussing it, the more stimulating and pleasurable it can get.  Of course, communication is key if you want to spice up your sex life.

Being able to tell your partner what you want to try out and what your kinks are is in fact quite liberating.  And of course will lead to a great and fulfilled sex life.   Sex toys and roleplaying are a great part of this conversation as they will help you explore your own sexuality as well as that of your partner.

Spice up Your Sex Life with Sex Toys 

If you lack experience when it comes to choosing the right sex toys. You can always do a bit more research as to what does what and have a look at a guide to adult toys.

There is a wide range of sex toys. From those suitable for her or his pleasure only to those that can stimulate both partners at the same time.  On the other hand, if you are quite clear regarding your preferences, it will be much easier to make a choice.

In case you don’t have a willing partner to participate in this exploration, you can always find someone with similar kinks by browsing online so as to fulfill your specific bedroom needs. Most important thing is that you feel comfortable using sex toys.

Relax and just enjoy the ride.

Introducing Some Drama into Your Bedroom 

No no, not the negative connotation of this phrase. More like some actual theatre.  Roleplaying can be a powerful aid when it comes to unleashing your innermost desires. This is mostly because we feel freer doing certain things as someone else.

So, by opting for some quality sex role-play we get to explore both our own sexuality and that of our partner guilt-free, and more importantly, shame-free. Feeling shame over some things that we want to try in the bedroom is not a good sign.  It means that we are suppressing our true desires.

With role-playing, we can get over that feeling and simply make our character do or say exactly what we need at that particular moment.  You can always go a step further and introduce fun and interesting costumes to help you and your partner get into character even more.

Have Sex in Different Places 

Yes, it can be as simple as that.

Breaking the routine of always making love in the bedroom can do wonders for your sex life. For starters, explore different locations within your home, just make sure you are all alone, and no guests are expected.

Shower sex or bathtub sex can always be a fun alternative, and the water can be quite stimulative. Another option is sex in the kitchen and various surfaces there. This can also lead to some interesting position changes that you both might enjoy. The next step is completely leaving your home and finding an alternative spot, a hotel room, perhaps.

This option can be great if a bit of roleplaying is added. You can also explore the great outdoors if you feel comfortable with it. Remember, feeling relaxed and comfortable is essential for this change of pace to work.

Watch Some Porn

This can be an interesting option, not only as a way to spice up your sex life but also as a window into your partner’s specific interests.   You need to feel assured that your partner won’t judge your particular interest when it comes to pornography.  And you shouldn’t judge theirs either.

Instead, discover what it is that has that stimulating effect on you when it comes to a selected genre of movies. This way you might discover more about each other’s needs and by doing so improve your sex life.

Start by discussing what your interests are when it comes to pornography. Then select movies that can combine some or all of your listed preferences. Just relax and enjoy the rest of the intimate evening in each other’s company.

Options are limitless, all you need to do is feel comfortable

First with your own desires and wishes and then with those of your partner. That way you can explore everything together, trying out different things and simply enjoying each other to the fullest.

Remember, the truth will set you free.  So be open as honest as you possibly can and you will reap the benefits of such a relationship, both in bed and in life.

iSex Kit – Just Plug In & Play!

Today I’m taking a look at the iSex USB massage kit by Pipedream.

Pipedream iSex USB Massage Kit is a bullet style stimulator with some extra interchangeable heads to mix things up a bit.  Like their plain bullet, this is an all-white sex toy which is reminiscent of iPhone accessories.  Honestly, I’m not heaps into Pipedream iSex USB Massage Kit for myself personally, for reasons I will go into in a minute.  But that doesn’t mean it’s not going to be great for some customers.

Reasons Why I’m Not Keen 

Firstly, there doesn’t seem to be any control buttons. It only has one constant speed.  Once you plug it in, it starts working immediately!

Pipedream iSex USB Massage Kit has a USB plug, as the name suggests.  So it has got to be plugged into a computer, an Xbox, a Play Station (or your car) to use it or else get an adapter.

If you want to turn it off, you’ve got to unplug it.  You will also need to unplug it when you are charging the heads.  As it will be a way to difficult to change them whilst it’s vibrating. Cord is pretty long, so it’s not a huge inconvenience to need to be plugged in to use it.  Although I do prefer more versatility in a sex toy and usually go for rechargeable or battery powered.  So I can take them lots of places and not be attached by a cord.

But I really find it annoying that there are no control buttons.

I don’t want it to vibrate as soon as the plug goes in.  Really I don’t want to have to unplug it to change the heads either as that is to time consuming.  It may be lazy of me.  But I just prefer to have something that is more convenient to use.

I also prefer being able to switch between a constant vibration and a wave or pulsation patterns.  That doesn’t seem to be an option here, unfortunately.

Vibration is reasonably strong but it’s not ideal. I prefer a more rumbly sensation.

What is it Made out Of?

Pipedream iSex USB Massage Kit material is hard ABS plastic.  That’s super body safe which is a plus.  But I felt like the heads should have been silicone. I

enjoy silicone materials as it will be more smooth and soft to the touch which is more gentle for the body.  Oh well.  One of the heads does have softer nubs for a teasing sensation at least.

Features 

Pipedream iSex USB Massager itself has a rounded end with small hard nubby bumps for extra stimulation.  I think it’s pretty decent.

Then it has three extra heads.

• Firstly a curved and kind of pointy head which reminds me of a bird’s beak or anteater nose. You could use that for very pinpoint stimulation.
• Secondly, there is a small probe that is reminiscent of anal beads.  I assume it’s intended for the anus so that’s a nice addition.  Should mention at this point that the heads screw on quite firmly so there shouldn’t be worries about the head coming off while it’s in the butt! You could also use this head externally.
• Lastly, there is a head shaped a bit like many finger vibes are shaped, longish and pointy-ish. It has the soft nubs I was mentioning earlier. This is probably my favourite head.  I think it would be lovely for external massage anywhere delicate and sensitive.

In general, though I am not wild about the heads although I don’t hate them. More of a ‘meh’ response from me.

More Variety than a Plain Bullet

I like that Pipedream iSex USB Massage Kit has a bit more variety than their plain iSex bullet.

But again, it’s just not hugely my cup of tea.

Pipedream does have a large selection of sex toys available from vibrators, dildos, BDSM, massage oils, lubricants, games and lingerie just to name a few! We recommend having a look at our other reviews to see what other product are available.

Sex toys and products are so vast these days, there is definitely something for everyone.