What’s the Difference Between Romance, Passion and Sex?

Generally,  romance passion & sex are all interlinked in some way. As they are all vulnerable acts you experience with another human being. This article will explain the difference between romance, passion and sex.

Romance Passion and Sex

So, romance is a social type of foreplay between two people.  Romance is getting to know who your partner is.

Sometimes we have been with our partner for so long, romance can be away of  re-learning who they are now rather then who they were when you first met.

Romance provides a way of connecting

Create new moments together that will have ever lasting memories.

Spending quality time together creates a greater bond on an emotional level, as you take care of someone else’s needs or wants both physically and emotionally.

Taking care of someone, give’s them something without expecting anything in return.  Romance, is really providing emotional needs to someone, that no one else can because you are their only partner.

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Below I have listed the top 12 romantic ideas

  • Taking your partner on a date.
  • Providing them with a warming hug or rubbing their hands when they are cold.
  • Giving them your jumper when it is freezing whilst pretending you are warm yourself.
  • Going to the movies together.
  • Giving them a surprise, thoughtful gift knowing that it is a part of their hobby or an object that will make them feel loved, protected or safe.
  • Some people give, flowers to show how beautiful nature is.
  • Give chocolate as it deliciously stimulates the body to produce natural endorphin’s making the person who ate it, happier.
  • Some people buy jewelry and engrave it, to let their partner carry something with them.  So they can always read it when they want to be reminded of how much they are loved.


  • Let them know you are mentally and physically attracted by them.
  • Keeping eye contact with your partner to make them feel like they are the only one in the room.
  • Writing a letter or poem to your partner to share your inner thoughts.
  • Thoughtfully placing rose petals on the bed before love making.
  • Running a hot bubble bath with their favourite music playing in the background.
  • Buying them their favourite food when you are shopping even when you don’t have the same food taste.
  • Eating at your favourite restaurant or surprising them with a new one.
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Photo: Sensual Kissing


This is the amount of energy you spend showing your partner how much you love them, how you deeply take care of their physical needs as well as how much you want for their body sexually.

It is much more of an expressive act to help show them just how much you crave their body land heal their soul.  It’s a much deeper, physical level of emotion.

Really it is the display the amount of love and level of intimacy during sex. It is exploring all of their body, to learn every single part of them.  Below I have listed some ways you can develop your passion during sex.

Watch a passionate porn DVD and learn how the professional’s do it.

Watch the DVD with your partner or comfortably by yourself.

A colleague recommended this DVD series to me and now I recommend it to, which is “Girlfriend Films – Wet For Women” DVD series.  It is a good starting point to learn about how other people portray what passionate sex is.

If your partner doesn’t understand how to make passionate sex or love making, but you do understand how to.

Show them one day

Get them to do the same technique the very next day or directly afterwards. It’s a good way to build-up skill together.

For example, you place on some meditative music, use your favourite massage oil.  Turn on the heating blanket, dim the lights, put a scented candle on and layout some rose petals.

Give them a full body massage.  Kiss every inch of their body intimately, slowly and see where the passion takes you.  You’ll notice when your partner moans or when you massage a secret spot like the back of their neck or behind their knee, they may shiver.

Learn your partner’s body and let them do the same to you.

Stare deeply into their eyes during sex and do your best to not break eye contact.

As you have sex, you’ll look into their soul.  You’ll learn to reconnect as you are both in a very vulnerable moment and you’ll naturally feel a deep passion.


Known as many things including love making intercourse, sexual relations and includes sexual/vaginal/anal penetration.

Google defines sex as “(chiefly with reference to people) sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse.”  Sexual intercourse is when individuals have sexual contact where they typically reach orgasm or ejaculation.

From what I’ve heard there are over 400 sex positions.

Not just that, Adultsmart’s porn DVD collection has around 25 different categories to choose from. 

Even if you venture onto Adult Smart’s website they have more than 50 sub categories for their sex toys.  Sex is so vast these days that everyone and anyone is catered for.

These days with technological advancements the sex toy industry has reached a whole new level for couples sex toys.

Sex and sex toys really is a bit of everything.

You can really intertwine Romance, Passion & Sex into your relationship!

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Here’s a not-so-dirty little secret.

Sex is good for you!

It may lengthen your life, boost your heart health and immune system, reduce pain and stress and improve your sleep according to a report co-authored by Beverly Whipple, professor emerita at Rutgers University and co-author of The Science of Orgasm and The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality.

Add Romance with Couple’s Sex Toys!  As for sex toys, there’s no evidence yet that they directly improve health, but they can definitely help you express yourself sexually.

“For people who are comfortable using them, they bring a lot of pleasure to self-stimulation or stimulation with a partner” says Whipple.

More and more women are using vibrators these days

Especially those under 30.  And while it’s a good thing that sex accessories are allowing women to take pleasure into their own hands, it’s often a win-win for both partners.

Although some women worry that their partner will find sex toys threatening, they can actually help couples enjoy a more fun and adventurous sex life.

“Research shows that women who are highly sexual are more likely to be using vibrators. Couples who have a more playful attitude towards sex have a more satisfying sexual relationship.”

Says Edward Herold, professor emeritus in the department of family relations and applied nutrition at the University of Guelph, and co-author of Human Sexuality in a World of Diversity.

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Lelo Ida Clitoral Vaginal Vibrator

Not sure if your partner would find sex toys a turn-on or a turn-off?

With such a large number of sex toys available, it’s difficult to know which one she’ll like.  She may not know until she’s had an opportunity to investigate. In our examination, we’ve found that most ladies favour clitoral incitement.

But some appreciate vaginal incitement with their sex toys, as well.

Spend a night shopping online.

Ask her which ones she loves or is interested about and either make the buy together.  Try introducing the topic in stages.

Sarah Forbes-Roberts, co-owner of Come As You Are in Toronto, likes an idea she read by New York sex educator and writer Ducky Doolittle.

“Pick up a book about sex, bring it home, and you can each circle the parts you like. Have that conversation before you come into the store together and buy something.”  Ducky Doolittle, sex educator.

Once you’re ready to buy, check out female-friendly.

Plus, you can still call the store for guidance, and rest assured that your delivery will arrive in discreet packaging.

Consider going to the retail outlets of these stores, too.

“It’s empowering to touch the products that you’re considering using and to speak to a person who understands what you’re working to achieve” says Andrea Dobbs of Womans’Ware in Vancouver.

Sex toys that are good for beginners

These include egg-shaped vibrators, vibrating penis rings and a new product called the We-Vibe, which can be worn during intercourse to the delight of both partners.

You want a toy that can be shared, agrees Dobbs. She likes their exclusive products such as the Liberty Bell and the Swinger’s Pad. Lots of couples also swear by the Hitachi Magic Wand.

“Lots of men enjoy vibration, too.” explains Forbes-Roberts.

“Plug-ins provide a lot more intensity plus, it just looks like a regular massager.” says Herold.

Whatever your choice, be sure to buy sex toys made with safe materials

Like non-porous 100 percent silicone and phthalate-free rubber products, which can reduce your exposure to harmful chemicals.  But are still soft, unlike Pyrex or stainless steel models.

When in doubt, use a condom on the toy and definitely use one if you’re sharing it.

Washing sex toys with soap and a sex toy cleaner after each use also prevents the spread of sexually transmitted infections ensuring that you’ll be having good, clean fun for a long time to come.

“Do your research if the product you’re considering isn’t silicone, stainless steel, lucite, elastomer or food-grade vinyl” adds Dobbs.

Small vibrators are perfect for couple’s sex play as they can be used to pleasure a lady’s clitoris amid intercourse.

You, your sexual partner and the sex toy make an unbeatable combination.

Use a sex toy vibrator doggie style ‘s as there some more room for fun when she is on all fours.  She or you can hold a bullet to to her clitoris in almost any sexual position you are in.

Different vibrators like the We-Vibe or Lelo Ida, are intended for use amid intercourse.

This means you can penetrate her whilst the vibrator is inside of her so you can both feel the sex toy working.


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