A First Timer’s Erotic Body To Body Massage

B2B massage

Adultsmart has partnered up with UK’s #1 erotic massage finder Xmassage to talk about the first time experience of receiving a body to body massage. The article will go into detail about what is a body to body massage, why get this type of erotic massage and what you can expect to experience from a body to body massage.

What is a body to body massage?

A body to body massage is an erotic or sensual massage which is also known as a body 2 body massage or a B2B massage. It is a type of full body massage that is often given by professional erotic massage therapists in order to sexually arouse and excite which may lead to the receiver experiencing an orgasm. During a body to body massage both people in the experience are often completely naked at the very beginning and the masseuse will use his or her entire body to massage the most sensitive areas of the receiver.

Why get a body to body massage?

A body to body massage is considered to be one of the bestselling types of erotic massages as it is incredibly sensual, passionate, intimate and hypnotic. Massages are given to both men and women for both physical and mental health benefits. A massage can help keep the skin feeling supple and boosts circulation throughout the entire body. The boost of circulation around the genitals can help the receiver experience greater amounts of pleasure.

During the experience, people often feel like they can leave behind and relieve any stress and pressure from their day to day life which in turn can help aid in sleep. The skin to skin contact can encourage the body to release natural endorphins. The endorphins help a person to feel loved and cared for which will build trust between the two people in the experience. All of these benefits are said to enhance a person’s well-being and can make the receiver feel rejuvenated.

Start off with a soapy massage

The event may begin with a soapy massage where the masseuse will bring the client to a shower and wash their body clean with soap. The shower will relax the client’s body and the warmth will help increase blood flow which may help men to experience stronger, harder and bigger erections. A soapy massage will set the tone of the rest of the erotic experience. If you do not want a soapy massage the masseuse may request that you shower privately before the erotic experience to ensure that everything runs as smoothly as possible.

The room will be soothing and calming

The masseuse may bring their things to their client’s apartment, house, hotel or have a room already setup for the experience to begin. Soft and relaxing music will fill the room for a soothing and calming atmosphere. Candles may fill the room with soft flickering lighting and a gentle scent. The masseuse will bring towels to clean up any of the oil and a massage mattress that can easily be set-up in any room.

Both bodies will be lathered with oil and lotions

The masseuse can put on a personal performance by lathering their body from top to bottom in front of their client or they may allow their client to help them do so. This will be incredibly visually arousing to watch and do. The next step of a body to body massage is to lather the client’s body completely in oil or lotion. The touch will be gentle and soothing as they work their way over their client’s body building up the anticipation for full body contact. Building the experience visually and then through touch can be extremely commanding as it will immerse a person completely in the moment. It will be like bringing to life your very own personal fantasy.

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The massage oils and lotions used can feel slippery and wet but will be absorbed into the body the more it is massaged, rubbed and touched. The masseuse will rub their body completely against the receiver. The receiver will be able to feel everything from every delicate curve of the body, the softness of the breasts to the hardening of the nipples. The sensations of the masseuse’s thighs, stomach, feet, calves and arms will all bring a different feeling into the experience. The masseuse may also use her hot breathe against the oil or lotion which may have properties that help it heat up. Some massage oils and lotions are flavoured and can be licked off the body. With every moment, the experience becomes more and more exciting as the pace, pressure, strokes and movements change.

For men who receive a body to body massage the masseuse will focus on the male genitals. For women who receive a body to body massage the masseuse will focus on the breasts and female genitals. When the masseuse is ready, they may rub their genitals on top of their customer which may lead to consensual sex.

How to get a body to body massage?

There are many different ways to get an erotic massage. There are physical erotic massage stores or you can find a tantric erotic massage masseuse online. It is important for customers to specify what is included in the experience so that they don’t miss out on something that could completely change the whole outcome. A body to body massage may include mutual masturbation but that depends on what the agreement has been made between the masseuse and the customer. Each experience will be different depending on the masseuse and the customer. To gain the amazing benefits of a body to body massage the recommended time frame is one hour.

A Twisted Fun Toy For Anal Plugging

Woman reading for anal play

Today, I will be talking about the new Gplug Twist! Firstly, I always notice the packaging being the anal retentive person I am (no pun intended). Packaging and presentation are always a huge factor in my decisions on a product, if a company goes to the lengths to manage their brand and image in such a way that always compliments their products then that’s a tick from me.

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Image: Gplug Twist

In this day of age branding is what people use to determine the quality of a product, no matter how much people want to argue, first impressions do count and we do judge books by their cover. Packaging can say a lot about the company, if a company is willing to put a significant amount of time into the quality of their packing then you can almost feel confident that the product is also up to that standard in material as well. It definitely sets the tone for any future purchases you will make next time you walk into any Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre.

My First Impression Of The GPlug Twist

My first impressions of the Gplug Twist was that I automatically felt confidence in the quality of this product, I instantaneously felt comfortable to use this product knowing this would be a sex toy would be made of quality materials and in fact it is! The Gplug Twist is made of premium class hypoallergenic silicone. There are generally three categories of medical grade silicone; non-implantable, short term implantable and long term implantable. Materials that are classed as class V or VI can be considered medical grade, most medical grade silicones are at least classed as VI certified. Being that the creators of the Funtoys London company, Jack Romanski and his wife come from a background in engineering and specialising in silicones for the space industry, this gives me confidence in the quality materials used for the brand’s products.

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Image: Gvibe Funtoys Logo

This Sex Toy Is Body Safe But Be Careful Of Other “Novelty Use Only” Sex Toys!

Before I worked at Oh Zone I didn’t pay overly much attention to materials used in sex toys, I was just lucky because I have a 5 star taste in quality and packaging. That is what I used to my advantage and nearly all the toys I had bought prior to working here were in fact body safe silicones. But the sad fact is that most toys on the market are not deemed to be used as sex toys and states on the packaging “novelty use only” this is to cover the legalities of misuse. I thought being in Australia meant that we already had all the strict laws on the use of materials and packaging in products but it shocked me that the sex toy industry isn’t regulated by the same safety laws. So the fact that some companies are putting the safety of their customers first and using only premium quality and medical grade silicone is a weight lifted off my chest, and companies I will definitely recommend to my customers. At the end of the day, if I don’t feel worthy of using a product myself I won’t sing its praises to my customers either.

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Image: Gplug Twist Packaging

The Silicone Makes The Sex Toy Super Quiet

Another benefit on using this particular quality of silicone is that as a material on its own it is used as a sound dampener, which means its super quiet!

Features And Specs Of The Gplug Twist

The features and specs of the Gplug Twist include:

  • New powerful yet quiet motor.
  • Ergonomic design.
  • Six vibration modes with changeable intensity – from light tremors to intense vibration.
  • Made of premium class hypoallergenic silicone, silky and smooth.
  • Intuitive controls.
  • Up to 4 hours of operation on one charge of the battery.
  • Size: 3.9cm (1.54in)
  • 100% waterproof.
  • Magnetic charger.
  • 1-year warranty.
  • Travel lock (press ON and hold for 2 seconds).
  • 6 modes (simply press the ON button and click through modes).
  • Switching off (hold ON button for 2 seconds).

Gplug Twist is compatible with the Gring

And as an added feature the Gplug Twist is compatible with the Gring, which is a no-cord controller (sold separately) and fits a finger perfectly enabling an easy switch to change the modes.

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My Personal Experience With The Gplug Twist

I haven’t had much experience in the art of butt plugging, but in my short time I have experienced a couple of little plugs. Although, I do enjoy anal sex, plugging is completely different to me and I find inserting a plug not always the easiest of situations to be in. Now, the main reason for using a butt plug isn’t for thrusting, or to be moved internally – the purpose for a butt plug is to make you feel full. It allows you to experience other sexual activities or even to go about your daily life, with the knowledge and feeling that you have a plug inside filling you up.

I was slightly hesitant when I received the Gplug Twist to review for you all, being because I have never used a ribbed plug or one of this size (it’s not huge I’d say more small to medium sized but just not a size I have used before). However, it sat in my handbag for a few days, if anyone actually went through my handbag I guarantee they would be in for a shock. Eventually, I plucked up the courage to try this twisted plug, and I must say with the use of lube (which is always incredibly important when it comes to anal) it glided in fairly easy with only slight force needed. As per the website, I used their advice and I twisted the plug as I inserted it as a bonus instead of stretching straight away it slowly stretched which made for a much more comfortable and less scary insertion.

Once in the ribs were fantastic, your body molds itself around the ribs for added pleasure especially when the vibrations were turned on.

As for using the plug while having sex not only was it stimulating for me, but the fullness I felt was also pleasurable for my partner and the ribs were felt by him as well, and of course the vibrations didn’t go astray for either one of us.

Who Should Use The Gplug Twist?

Plugs are perfect for anyone who has wanted to experiment or has fantasized about double penetration, whether it’s the fantasy of two men pleasuring you or the pleasure of being filled up. The fullness mixed with the taboo nature anal play already has can be no only alluring but a major turn on.

Remember To Lube And Other Helpful Tips!

As a huge pointer LUBE, LUBE, LUBE, whatever amount you usually use double it! Trust me, it will make life so much more comfortable and only insert once you are already turned on, as that’s when your body is most relaxed.

And just for an added human anatomy lesson the anal cavity contains three muscle groups. If you were to gently push your finger in you will be able to feel the first one, insert half an inch more and you will reach the second one and finally the strongest muscle is a little over and inch inside. The last muscle is the one that causes the pain so this is where a lube applicator comes in handy to insert and reach all the way in! If when you insert the plug and it hurts remove straight away slowly try again and allow around 30 seconds for your body to come accustom to the sensation.

A huge thank you to Gvibe and Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres for bringing in the quality goods to the sex industry!

Morgan x

Author: Morgan is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

VIP Interview With Dr. Noelle Cordeaux CEO And Co-founder Of SHFT

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SHFT offers life coach training, online group coaching, and one-on-one coaching experiences. SHFT is based upon the concept:

“Rebuild yourself through others”

SHFT stands out from the crowd by offering all of their services online where people, communities and professionals are all able to interact freely in the virtual world. If you are looking for something more, they also offer life events where people can attend carefully constructed annual retreats. The retreats offer people the ability to participate in activities like workshops, meditation and so much more.

I think what is incredibly inspirational is that they have tribes which are online support groups. Where people can connect with other likeminded individuals to find further support within the community. The tribes are focused on individuals building up their personal skills to build their understanding and manage their ideas about self-confidence, purpose, calling, anxiety and much more. What is most vital in these support groups is that they provide everyone with a structured and guided curriculum that they follow with a life coach, videos and interactions with others through texting.

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Image: Online support groups

This is a VIP interview with Dr. Noelle Cordeaux CEO and co-founder of SHFT. This VIP interview looks into what inspired Dr. Noelle Cordeaux to become a sexologist and fuel her passion to create easily accessibly online resources for people from all walks of life to use.

Tell me about yourself

Noelle Cordeaux, CEO and Co-Founder of SHFT; Feminist Coach/Sexologist.  I am a feminist coach who happens to be the CEO of a life coaching company.  I went to grad school for coaching, social work, law, and finally arrived at a PhD in Human Sexuality.  I paused my PhD to take over my company.

What inspired you to become a sexologist?

A lot of things… First of all, the study of sex is fascinating.  Second, it is a rare field that lots of folks need help in. My clinical work was focused on body image recovery, positive psychology, and alternative relationship styles.

What is it like being a sexologist?

It is awesome!  Sexology is incredibly empowering work.  You work with individuals to move from wherever they are a to a place of celebration of themselves and their bodies. It is really beautiful.

What areas of a person’s life impacts their sexuality?

Oh god everything.  It’s how your brain is wired, how you grew up, who your lovers have been, what your hormones are like, the degree to which you like to be touched, your genetic makeup, your unique turn-on template, and so much more.  Not one of us are the same. We all have a completely distinct sexual makeup.

How can people explore their sexuality?

This is a really good question.  It’s not my area and I can only give my personal opinion.  My personal opinion is: go on a quest to discover yourself.  Decide for you what you like and who you like and why and honor yourself at every turn.

How can you develop self-confidence with your sexuality?

I think that the above concept of honoring oneself really applies here.  When you think about how many billions of people in the world there are and every single one of us has a completely unique sexual template, it makes it easier to understand that there is no such thing as normative and there is nothing bad about sexuality.  It’s a huge wacky part of human existence and everybody is on their own journey.  There is so much pressure out there around sexuality but you do have control over whether you succumb to the noise or not.  AND THERE IS SO MUCH NOISE: from body junk, to binary standards, to fat shaming to, LGBTQA rights, to fetish shaming, difficulty for poly folks, underrepresentation of diversity, lack of representation for disability, all of it, is utter and complete bullshit. The good news is that most people are just people, who don’t look like models and don’t have sex like in porn (not knocking porn, porn is great!).  So this was kind of a roundabout answer but you can build confidence by looking at the reality of the world and refusing to give into the BS.

How do people maintain sexual individuality when they are dating or in a relationship?

I think lots of people don’t really share their full sexuality with their partners actually.  Most people are too shy or don’t have the tools to talk about it.  This results in performative sex and dissatisfaction.  If you are in a place where you are totally in tune with who you are and what you want you can maintain that individuality by asking for it and finding ways for your needs to get met.

Why do some lovers end up becoming disinterested in sex?

This would take me a year to answer.  Every single scenario is unique.

What is a normal amount of sex?

There is no such thing as normal.  People exist on several different continuums from how much they like to be touched to the degree to which they are interested. Hormones are involved. Relationship is involved. It’s pretty diverse.

Do sex dreams mean anything?

I have no idea.

Are there any bad side effects to not masturbating?

Not that I know of.

What services do you provide? Where can people find you?

I am just a CEO these days.  I run a company that trains life coaches to work on our media based platform.  We give voice to progressive issues and are working to democratize the experience of behavioral health.  The company is called SHFT.  My training program is the Catalyst Life Coaching Intensive. You can find me at Shft.us

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Image: SHFT.us Retreat

Award Winning Long Distance Love Sessions

Couple kissing

Last week I learned a lot about the award-winning company from Amsterdam, Kiiroo. Kiiroo partnered with Fleshlight to create the inner sleeve of the Onyx and secured a worldwide distribution deal. I was told by a friend about these toys existence 2 years ago so had a basic idea of what they did but after asking a few questions and having everything shown to me by one of the brand’s representatives, I am now in love and have a few of their toys on my wish list.

Whether you are single, in a relationship or even in a long distance relationship these toys will work for you. To get the full experience with your product you’ll have to download the 2 free apps to your phone called FeelConnect and FeelVR. For Android owners, you will find the app in your play store and for Apple, it will in the app store. Once you have downloaded both of these apps the fun begins!

Kiiroo Products For Solo Players

The first thing you’ll need to do is purchase yourself a Kiiroo product.

Kiiroo Products For Men

Kiiroo Onyx2
Image: Onyx2

For men, you have the Onyx2 which is also compatible with the Fleshlight Launch and VR headset. The Launch is an automatic stroker for hands-free fun which can perform up to 180 strokes per minute and the VR headset is for the virtual reality porn you can download through the FeelVR app. Once you have purchased any Kiiroo toy you must let it charge before you can start using it, with the Onyx2 the initial first charge is 4-6 hours and every time after that is 2-3. Plug your charging cord into your toy and the other end into a wall dock. The light should go from blue to red and then once fully charged you should see a solid green light. While your toy is charging I would suggest downloading your apps and registering your product for the 1 year warranty. After all of that is complete, you now have an account and your toy is fully charged you can now start to play around with your new toy.

The Onyx2 has 10 contracting inner rings that can perform up to 140 strokes per minute, your toy has a touch-sensitive control panel for increasing and decreasing the speeds. Surprisingly, it is super light and quiet considering how much technology actually goes into to the toy. The sleeve is made out of body safe materials which are soft and easy to clean. Pull the sleeve out and spray down with your Fleshlight toy cleaner, leave the cleaner on for a few minutes then wash down with some warm water and once it has completely dried place some Fleshlight powder all over the inside of the insert and leave it there till you use it again. Be very careful with cleaning, the toy is not 100% waterproof.

Kiiroo Products For Women

For women, you have Pearl2 the G-spot vibrator, Fuse the rabbit vibrator and Esca the egg style vibrator to choose from. All 3 toys are made out of body safe silicone. You’ll have to charge these toys for about 2-3 hours before you can get started so again I’d recommend downloading your apps and registering your products for warranties during this time. Each one has a single control button, hold down for 4 seconds to start the toy up, the first setting will be a blue light which means you can connect your toy with the app or another Kiiroo product. Press the button again and you will start getting into your vibration speeds and patterns. Again, some of these products are not 100% waterproof so be careful when cleaning but the Pearl2 is completely waterproof so you can easily and effortless clean the vibrator. For G-spot stimulation the Pearl2 would be best for you. If you’re one of the many women in the world who needs clitoral stimulation the Fuse would best suit you. Esca would also be good for G-spot stimulation but this is a leave in toy, so you could even give it a go with wearing this toy out in public.

Kiiroo Pearl2
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Connecting These Sex Toys To The FeelVR App

With all of these products if you sync your toy up with the FeelVR app you can experiment with the virtual reality aspect of the toy if you have a VR headset. If you don’t you can still connect with the standard videos, you’ll feel vibrations that are in sync with whatever is happening in the video e.g. If the girl is giving a blow job, every time her head moves down you’ll feel vibrations up and down the multiple sensors in your toy. You can also connect live with your favourite cam girls and porn stars.

NOTE: With silicone toys you cannot use silicone lubricant or you’ll destroy the material.

Couples Play

Now, one of the questions I asked the Kiiroo brands representative was if the toys would also work for gay and lesbian couples. Their products can cater for all couples in the LGBTQIA+ community as they do offer different combinations for couples. This year, Kiiroo is also working with Pride in the USA.

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Image: Kiiroo LGBTQIA+ friendly
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Image: Kiiroo for all sexualities

Kiiroo Products For Straight Couples

For straight couples they can either purchase the set which comes with the Onyx2 and the Pearl2 or if the woman would prefer one of the other toy options you’ll have to purchase separately.

Kiiroo Products For Lesbian Couples

Lesbian couples can choose 2 of the female toys, I personally have my eye on the Pearl2 and the Fuse instead of having 2 of the same.

Kiiroo Products For Gay Couples

Gay couples could either purchase 2 of the Onyx2 or 2 of the Pearl2 and place an anal stopper on the end of each toy or mix and match.

Setting Up Kiiroo Products With Their Apps

One of the things I found whilst researching a bit more about these products is that they have a lot of videos on YouTube explaining how to set up and use the toys with their apps. I’ll post a link here to help people connect their toy with their partners, whether they are in the same room or on different sides of the world they’ll have to connect them the same way.

How To Connect Your Device To Your Long Distance Partner’s Device via FeelConnect

So basically once you have connected your toys to each other all you have to do now is start touching the toys to start the fun. They all have touch sensitive zones that starts up the vibrations in your partner’s toy e.g. if the female is running the tip of her Pearl2, her partner will feel vibrations and movement in the tip of his Onyx2. I’d recommend studying your products and learning exactly where the touch sensitive zones are so that you know where you need to be to target certain areas.

I hope this review has helped you understand how amazing these super advanced toys really are!

If you’re interested in purchasing one for yourself here is the link to all of our currently available Kiiroo products… These are some of the craziest high-tech sex toys in the world!

(Fuse will be available soon!)

Author: Elliana is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Four Foundational Life Keys For A Man Seeking Healthy, Enlightened Sex

Men exercising for sexual health

If you’re like many guys, you have experienced, at least to an extent, some sexual frustrations or hang ups that you’d like to get a handle on. And if you’re also like most guys, you have all of the above and aren’t even conscious of it.

Living the life of a sexually and spiritually healthy and fulfilled man is your birthright. However, it’s something that you have to cultivate.

To make sure that you’re not settling for sex that doesn’t serve the greater good for your life, you’ll need to apply four life changes that will help you out exponentially. Below we’ll dive into these four staples, so apply them and never look back!

Live Your Life Based On A Purpose And Mission

This might not seem like the sexiest topic on the surface, but it’s actually the glue that holds it all together.

Both spiritual experts and scientists assert that your sex life reveals who you are and is a microcosm of your internal life. In this sense, this part of your life requires you to get naked in both the literal, and figurative sense. It’s important to continuously work on yourself, because the hangups you have in your head will also manifest in the bedroom.

For instance, a person that is afraid to speak up and express their ideas may also feel stifled and shy during sex. Money problems, stress, shame and other blockages can also lead to hangups with sexual dysfunction.

So when you base your life on a higher purpose of living your dreams, becoming the strongest version of yourself and sharing that energy with the world, you’ll be sexually free and won’t have feelings of inadequacy and lack. David Deida, author of the bestseller “The Way of the Superior Man”, stresses a man living on his purpose, so that he can move past fear and into love, which he’ll then share with his sexual partner.

Spiritual journeys aside, science backs the importance of a healthy man to live his truth. Studies indicate that men who had heightened testosterone levels are less likely to lie, or if they do lie, get significantly less satisfaction or gratification out of it than men with lower testosterone levels. In a sense, not living your truth lowers your testosterone, which diminishes your virility and sexual energy.

When you’re on a mission to become the strongest you, it’s much easier to approach women with confidence and explore the depths of your sexuality in the bedroom, without fear and hangups getting in the way. Make sure that you know what you want out of life and that you carry yourself accordingly, and you’ve won half the battle of achieving a high quality sex life.

Get Your Ejaculation Under Control

This is another foundational key for taking control in your sex life. Studies show that some 30% of men deal with premature ejaculation. Dealing with this situation significantly reduces a man’s enjoyment with sex, since he either can’t last as long as he would like, or worries that he won’t.

There’s a certain level of punchline surrounding this issue throughout society, which can cause a man to feel shame, which is the emotional death knell for sexuality.

Because of this, it’s important that you solve ejaculation issues if you have them. There are many exercises you can practice, but also make sure to dive into the psychological and emotional contributing factors.

Ejaculation issues aside, consider practicing sacred sexuality by learning the ejaculation-free orgasm. By managing your ejaculation in this way, as practiced for ages in Eastern practices and religions, a man can achieve multiple orgams that are fuller and deeper.

This way, you can have sex for as long as you want, with a deeper and more meaningful connection.

Make Sure You’re Living With Peak Health And Physicality

If you really want to live your best sexual life, it’s important to pay close attention to your health and build. You need to maintain a certain level of muscle tone, so that your body continuously produces high levels of testosterone as you age.

There are many different trains of thought when it comes to health and nutrition, but a few basics can transform your life. Engage in any exercises that help you build muscle and strengthen your heart, four to five times per week. You’ll have more endurance, better erections and clearer functioning brain — all of which are key skills to have in your toolkit.

In terms of nutrition, make sure to eat lots of healthy fats, which contribute to the production of testosterone and heart health. Give yourself a cheat day, but make it a life goal to eat clean, so that your signal remains clear and so that you maintain your energy and passion.

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Control Your Mind And Feelings

Finally, it’s important for you to continuously live in the moment and feel the depth of your emotions.

Skill and technique are great, but a man that can stay present with his lover, while feeling and giving emotion, will also be great in the sack. This sets a man that lives and embodies his sexual energy apart from a man that just pulls off a few cheap gimmicks that he doesn’t really believe in.

This is easier said than done, since our minds are built to wander, and society has kept men from their emotions for so long. When you quiet your mind and own your emotions, you’ll wield them both with power and discretion, rather than letting them run you.

You can master this by using meditation in your life. It teaches you to be still and feel the present moment, so that you can act with authenticity, rather than simply being triggered by past trauma and future anxiety.

It builds a healthy brain as well, which enhances your sexual creativity.

When you build your life around these four tips, it’s much easier to own your sexuality and live a peak life as a superior man.