Bring Sensuality To Gay Sex

Everyone whether straight or gay, wants a passionate, exciting and rewarding sex life. Whether you are new to relationships or with a partner for several years, your sex life remains an important part of your relationship. Unfortunately over time couples lose their intimacy and their eroticism. Here I discuss few ways you can light up the fire in your bedroom. Many people guess that gay sex is fabulous and frequent because both partners are men. After all, holly wood movies are showing us gay men with high sexual pleasure and a big cock that barely can be kept in their pants. This stereotype has led us to believe that gay men never get bored in the bedroom. Of course, gay couples like all couples, will say that this is not true. Gay sex life is not different from straight sex life. Sometimes it can be amazing and unique, and other times it just needs work. By following these guidelines you are ensuring that you will improve your gay sex with your partner.

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If you feel sensuality is missing from your relationship, discuss the issue with your partner and discuss things you’d like to try. The more you say, and the more you know about each other, the more sensual sex it is. This is because, if you’re having sex often, you can be certain that you know what both of you like and you both trust each other. You can feel confident being more emotionally open and letting yourself explore each other each time that you have sex. Beyond this, you’ll also have had more of a chance to discuss and discover what really turns you and him on. With patience and an understanding of your partner, you both can focus on learning to give and receive pleasure in a way which is not initially sexual. With a loving partner, there won’t be the need or the urgency to have sex fast. You can take your time on sensual foreplay.

It’s useful to recognize that, for sensual sex, you need to be fully in touch with yourself. Many aren’t. You need to be sincere with your feelings.  Getting in touch with your feelings goes far beyond sex. Feelings can be shown with a relaxing massage, a day at the spa, a meal with close friends or a hot, scented bath with a glass of wine. It can be about relaxing and closing your eyes to the pace of life while you let your mind wander and discover what you feel. It may be you would like to create a romantic scene to make love in, perhaps just changing the lighting and scent in your bedroom or taking it outdoors. Or it might involve after play, stroking and massaging each other after sex and sharing a few intimate thoughts. With a little care, gay sex with a long-term partner can become better and better and more sensual. You will be able to experience the sensual feelings of the first time with your partner. This way you and your partner will not get bored.

It is also important to discover your partner’s body. Gay men have the benefit of already knowing their partner’s anatomy, since they have similar body parts. This doesn’t mean that your partner likes the same stuff that you like, but you can explore his body and find out what he loves. By knowing what teases your partner, you have the advantage of offering pleasure and stimulating his mind.

As a couple you should experiment with new positions. Gay couples having just bottom or top sex is a stereotype. Raise things to a higher level by changing your positions and getting creative. Let your primal instinct guide you. Try having sex in public or in a different room in the house and see how it goes. Maybe you prefer experimenting with sex in the shower or in the beach. Be creative and enjoy sex as it meant to be fun.

Sex toys are not just for single people. There are several ways you can use and enjoy a sex toy as a couple. Consider using a prostate stimulator while performing a 69 with your partner and experience how anal pleasure can improve stimulation and sex overall. You can also find several sex toys including dildos, prostate stimulators and vibrating plugs. There are thousands of amazing and erotic sex aids that can help people improve their sex lives. If you both enjoy masturbation, why not get masturbation sleeves? Masturbation sleeves can come equipped with extras or customized with your own designs, and can be truly enjoyed masturbation as a couple. If you went for a business trip and you don’t have your partner with you, then you both can use masturbation sleeves over the phone or the internet and have simultaneous orgasms. Gay men don’t love only toys. Other things that can improve your sex life are erotica and porn DVDs. Enjoy written erotic stories and receive pleasure from visual stimulus while watching a hardcore gay movie with your partner.

Sensuality when you’re having gay sex can be rely upon your feelings of comfort, openness, friendship and love for your partner and your willingness and ability to indulge in your own feelings of sensual and sexual pleasure. Your partner may be a complete mystery. It could be a one night stand or a casual encounter. Casual encounters can be some of the hottest experiences that you can have, because you’re clearly there for some good hard core sexy fun. The setting can help or destroy the mood. So too will how you behave and what you say to each other. Many find best to keep the words to a minimum. The more you or he says the more individual you and he become to each other. The mystery will then fade. With a partner you do know well, whether in a relationship or otherwise, things can seem to happen in other ways.

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PJ Weir was employed at the Gay Exchange for over a decade and was a regular contributor to the blog. He is a gay activist and an advocate for same sex marriage. PJ is proud of his aboriginal descent and has remained in a long term relationship with his partner Darren. PJ left work in late 2014 as his mother fell ill. He has moved to Queensland where he has become her full time carer. Unfortunately the iconic Gay Exchange, Sydney's first all gay adult store closed down in June of 2017 as the building was taken over by the State Transit Authority to build the new rail.

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