Gay Dady Dating – A Guide to Find the Perfect One for You

Gay dady dating is probably a term you have never heard before.  But if you are in the gay community, then surely you have witnessed a difference between the ages of partners in most gay relationships.

It’s becoming more and more common for young gay men to form mutually beneficial relationships with older gay men and wealthier gay daddies. If you have not noticed this concept today, it has already become famous about online gay daddy dating.

Gay Dady Dating – A Guide

Gay daddies seeking young gay men have always tried for a long time to find safe, and secure ways to create no strings attached relationships.

These days you can find dating applications and websites like Grindr and Tinder to find people quickly in their areas.  I have chosen this discreet and highly controversial way of meeting and arranging gay daddy relationships.

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How can I find a gay dady?

If you’re a young, entry level professional and sexy gay man, you should already know that there is more than just the financial benefit to dating older and wiser men.

Internet and technology is becoming the main way for communicating with the world today.  I have discovered that arranging dates with successful and older men leaves a better taste in the mouth and a wiser choice than after a quick booty call.

A Gay Dady Dating Site

Normal gay men dating sites seem more like selling meat in the market and not close to places that promise true love.  A gay daddy dating site has a professional, warm, sincere and honest look on this concept.

Perhaps it is the fact that older and wealthy gay daddies are looking for more than just sex.  Or the reason is because they are interested in helping to grow young men into successful adults.

These are just examples of why these types of sites give a sense of class not seen elsewhere in the internet.

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Why date rich older gay men?

Most of the young gay men on gay daddy dating sites are between 18 to 25 years old. They are fighting to pay their rent, college fees and most have a desire to explore the world.  And want to live a full life without having to worry about not having enough money to spend.

The reality is, this concept has been going on throughout the ages. You can read about the ancient Greeks.  Or more about the present day American relationships between an older gay male benefactor and a younger same sex lover that have found a common way without ties to get ahead.

You will have many benefits from dating a gay daddy.

He can pay you the rent and buy you presents.  You can explore the world and even buy anything you desire.  He gives you the freedom and the money.

The only thing that you need to make sure when dating is to be nice with older men.  Be nice, kind with them and sincere, offer them great sex and enjoy all the benefits that come with this concept.

You are still young and this is a fun way to explore life.

What are the Gay Dady Dating Rules?

Gay Daddies should make it clear how he will treat you.  Whether it’s with extravagant dinners, gifts and sex or whether sex was on or off the table.

Some gay daddies enjoy coaching young gay men to teach them about their long histories or provide them with helpful advice that would make their gay lifestyle easier or happier.

Gay daddies might like their young gay man to continue to keep up their professional sexual appearance and spend time with them.

You will need to define with him how readily available you’ll be through the week

Whether he will permanently always see you once a week or more than that to spend quality time together.   Gay daddies sometimes choose what clothes or style of hair cut you will have if that is the type of person they are.

There are many gay dating rules that differ between individual relationships.  It is important that these rules are made clear right from the beginning so your relationship will be as successful as possible.

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Organising A Blendr Gay Threesome!

The rise of social media and location based meet-up apps such as blendr, grindr mean people can have a gay exchange fast.  Or seek instant sexual gratification from a nearby ‘random’.

These apps are hugely popular, especially within the queer community.  It allows people to avoid the ‘scene’ to find partners.  Or simply find a sex partner that’s nearby without the hassle of drinks, leaving the house or going to a crowded bar.

My partner and I regularly engage in threesomes to add a new dimension to our sex life.  When approached in the right way, there’s no reason as to why you can’t have a threesome as well.


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Communication is Key

The essence of every relationship is communication.  Firstly, you’ll need to bring it up with your partner.

Whilst threesomes can be hot, they can bring forth insecurities as well jealousy and a disruption to the relationship.  You may need to address any insecurities your partner may have as to why you’d like to have threesomes.

Be prepared to answer their questions.

One of the hardest questions I had to answer was the ‘am I not good enough?’ question.  It’s not necessarily about you or your partner.  But it may simply be about being open-minded and an eagerness to try new things, new people and to learn.

Trust me, everyone fucks differently and we’ve learned many new things about each other simply by being with others.

Our Sex Life is More Fulfilling Now

I would strongly argue that our sex life is a lot more fulfilling now

But I will also admit the threesome road is not for everyone and it takes strong individuals and a strong relationship to handle it (communicate).

Find Someone That Thinks Your Both Hot

Your second task will be to find someone that is attracted to both of you.  This is sometimes harder than it seems.

Peruse through the apps.  Put up a photo (together or separately) and talk to people that you both find attractive.  Once you’ve found someone you both agree on, it’s up to you whether you want to talk to them.  Or get right to the point on fucking.

Making the Threesome Happen

If both of you have chosen you need to make a trio happen.  You have any already considered what is required from whom you choose be careful where you do it.

Many residential communities are not so accepting of strange people coming into their neighborhood.   Safety is a primary concern

Why have a Threesome

Perhaps you work so much you never have time for each other anymore. Seeking another person or persons will bring that spark back between you.

Personally, I prefer getting to know the people I have a threesome with first.  I get to know their likes and dislikes.  And eventually their sexual likes and dislikes so that we can determine their compatibility with us.

I also use this to weed out the creeps.   There’s no right or wrong answer to this.  But talking to them beforehand saves the embarrassment of any expectations they or you may have had prior to the sex.

Check Them Out

The last time we did this, the mature gay guy was new to threesomes.  It was organized by my partner, and so to suss each other out we went to a local public bar and had a couple of drinks.

The ice was broken pretty quickly and we all realized we got along well.  It wasn’t long before the guy turned around and said ‘Are we going to sit here all afternoon or are we going to go and fuck?’

Be Mindful During Your Threesome

In the threesome whoever you are be as mindful of the other two as you can.  In case you’re the awkward extra person or the dynamic appears to be off.  Or one part plainly wouldn’t like to continue make an elegant way out.

On the off chance that you told your partner they could kiss the other individual. But rapidly discovered you couldn’t stand the sight.  Let them know without blaming either party for doing the wrong thing.

Make sure your partner knows their importance to you.

The quest for sexual oddity isn’t a reason to treat another person meanly and if your relationship merits being in by any stretch of the imagination.  It’s not worth risking your relationship for a wild night of desire.

But if you are up for it, then go for it as it will bring unimaginable pleasures and enjoyment.  Needless to say, the scotch I was drinking disappeared very quickly.



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