2 Products Designed To Delay Male Ejaculations!

Couple on Bed Disgruntled

“Are you finished already?”

she said, you could just see the disappointment in her face. Her whole body language changed. 5 minutes ago I could not get her to be quiet whilst my fingers were wondering around her soft skin, her chest raising and then crashing down hard like waves hitting a cliffs edge as she gasped with pleasure. Her heart racing as it shot blood to all her erogenous zones.  In just 2 minutes of inserting myself inside of her, I had unloaded. Carly had been my girlfriend for 2 years now and I thought she was used to it but this time I think it just pushed us both over the edge.

My first time was exactly the same, except I lied when I had cum and said that I had a cramp to cover up that I blew prematurely. She believed me the first time, but started to put the pieces together every time we had sex until she just came out and told me that she understands that I always prematurely ejaculate. That was a sad moment for me because I had to accept it myself and not just think it was because I had a beautiful girlfriend. I had searched up on the internet things I could do to last longer so at least Carly can get some more pleasure while we have sex; all the websites just pushed me onto ridiculously priced scams and methods to make you

“last longer”, or “go all night”.

I got sick of searching for ways to try better the situation; I thought it was like your blood type, you’re born with it and have it until you die. I couple weeks after giving up all hope on lasting longer in bed; I just came to terms that I have to make the most out of the 2 minutes of sex.

Premature Ejaculation Solutions

A few weeks later, I thought to myself that I would get Carly a cheeky sex toy, to give her something to look forward to when we have sex. I went into an adult store called Oh Zone, not what I had expected at all. When I walked up the stairs I was expecting to be greeted by a sleazy worker, in a dingy dark store that hadn’t been cleaned in 5 months. I was wrong. When I walked up the stairs I was greeted straight away by a young guy,.

“How are you mate” he said.

I didn’t know how to reply but I just gave him a happy nod.

“If there is anything I can help you with please let me know, I would be happy to help” he continued.

There was so much to choose from, half of the names and categories I had never heard of. I turned around to the guy and I just fired out as many questions that came to my head, “What’s a rabbit?” “Is this toy stimulating for her?” “What is the point of a cock ring?” I couldn’t control my curiosity and then… it slipped!

“How can you last longer in bed?”.

He did not look shocked at all when I asked him these questions; he was like a stone in a river, just letting the questions flow. He responded in detail to all of them but it was the last response I was particularly interested in. “Lasting longer in bed has been a lot of men’s desire. To last longer I can recommend two products, one is short term and one is long term benefits, use them both and you will take control of your destiny” he said while he laughed. “I mean your ejaculation” he continued to smirk.

The two products he decided to show me was a Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit and Pjur Superhero Spray both looked so complicated but he explained it to me in the simplest way. The Pjur Superhero spray was a numbing spray that you spray on the head of the penis and it temporarily numbs it allowing you to last longer. This was the short term method. The Fleshlight was the long term method, how it would work is you teach your body while you are masturbating to last longer, the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is a soft silicone sleeve with ripples and different textures in a hard discrete plastic case. Instead of using your hand to masturbate you use this and it replicates the real feel of having intercourse especially if you use a warming lube. I walked out with both of them in my hand and a new found confidence that when I use these products in 6 months I’m going to be at my peak sexual performance.

Here 7 months down the track I can honestly say I went from lasting only 30 – 40 seconds to now being able to last a solid 10 – 15 minutes. My confidence in myself and my relationship with Carly is so much stronger, and she is always cumming before me as I don’t cum so fast. If I didn’t have the confidence to first walk into that adult shop to see what I could do about my issue, I would still be a sexual mess today and most probably a single sexual mess. Best decision of my life!



Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

3 Major Events That Cause Loss of Libido!

Two People Sitting Looking Away From Each Other
It’s a shame we live in a society where no one likes to talk about sex. When it comes to talking about sex and male sexuality there’s an enormous amount of pressure when it comes to notions and discourses surrounding male performance, libido, penis size and the ability to induce orgasms in others. That’s not to say that there’s not pressures on female sexuality, but that male sexuality is something not spoken of often. It is little wonder then that few doctors like to talk about sex and sexuality especially in regards to illnesses such as cancer and depression.

 Three Major events that cause loss of libido are:

  • Sexual Depression
  • Prostate Surgery
  • Chemotherapy

What I often find in working in the sex industry is that we fill this need especially as stores move towards a sex positive attitude. Indeed our Oh Zone Penrith store regularly provides vacuum pumps to local urologists for post prostate surgery treatment. Depression and prostate cancer can lead to a dramatic decrease in sexual libido which can cause friction in the bedroom between partners. On top of that, many of the medications and treatments used to help with these two issues can actually further decrease sexual libido; chemotherapy and anti-depressants have, in most men, been a major contributing factor to reducing sex drive even further.

Aside from discussing it with your doctor and switching medications one of the most important things is to ensure that you are maintaining intimacy within the relationship. One can hardly be expected to go through such an event without the emotional support of their partner, and maintaining that relationship is essential. The inability to provide sex can cause many emotional problems and reducing the stress on both of you will assist in rebuilding that sex drive.  Whether this is through continual communication or whether it is through touching, cuddling and exercising together – it’s primarily about maintaining that intimacy. During these times, it does not even have to be about sexual intimacy, many men going through prostate surgery reported that simply spending time with their partner through regular date nights with no external interruptions (leave the phones at home) increased their levels of happiness.

Man Looking Down with Hand on Head

Prostate surgery is another serious issue that affects bedroom life – what many doctors don’t discuss is the potential to have a short-term or long term inability to have erections. I’ll go through some of the treatments and ideas surrounding this in a later post. This post is about supporting each other through the rough times.

Those undergoing chemotherapy sometimes report a decrease in sexual libido and this can lead to a vicious cycle of disappointment when it comes to sex. Depression develops, and the idea that being a man ties in with getting an erection can cause serious emotional trauma and dysfunction between couples. Sex after prostate cancer, is not going to be the same as it once was – that is an unfortunate reality. But that does not stop you from having fun together and still maintaining intimacy  even after

Sexual Depression and Prostate Surgery.

Nothing aggravates dejection’s sexual reactions like falling for myths about people’s sexual lifestyles. Sometimes the movies, tv dramas and romantic comedies tell of fanciful stories about sex that indent up the weight and make it difficult to perform. Here’s a rude awakening about sex:

Everyone you know is not having amazing sex constantly.

What’s more, a genuine sexual coexistence doesn’t mean you need to have a climax each and every time you have intercourse. If you are unable to orgasm each time your have sex, it may be best to take your time enjoying the sexual process rather than focusing on the outcome. Sometimes the outcome is not always possible, so if you change your personal perspective, you can be happier in the long run. At long last, recollect that for a great many people, sadness is brief and can be dealt with.

It is also noted that to achieve a level of  mental and physical health general practitioners recommended 20 to 30 minuted level of cardiovascular exercise 3 times a week to make sure your body is being kept active. Actually, practice can support both your passionate well being and your sex drive. Practice gets your blood moving, discharges a portion of chemicals that help to support the body, you will always improve your physical shape which will help your self-esteem.



Stephen is a cis-gendered gay male who spends far too much time with his two cats and eating tim tams. A self-identified sex-positive advocate he cares deeply about gender equality, disabilities, sexual education and social issues. Opinionated and bold he isn’t afraid to speak his mind and say what others won’t. With a yearning for knowledge and experience in all things relating to sex, he is a prolific writer that has developed the content for a myriad of informative Sexual Health and Wellness websites.

Stephen’s articles and writings tends to focus on social issues, sexual education, queer issues and all things fetish and absurd. He comes qualified with the completion of a double Bachelor degree in Social Sciences and literature, and a Masters in Education.

6 Sexual Turn Offs for Men!

Man Licking Plate

There are some bloopers and blunders you do not want to do in bed. It all starts when your feeling romantic vibes with your partner, you both start to get into foreplay and then you accidentally do a sexual mishap! The mishap may accidentally turn off your partner when your in the sack ruining your sexual connection, sometimes even ruining your whole week! This is a massive problem if your partner has a lower sex drive then you or you both have limited amounts of sex. These mishaps should  be avoided at all costs if you want to keep your partner and keep them happy believing you to be the goddess you really are and should be.


Turn Men Off In Bed

The Sexual Mishaps include:

1  Crying In Bed

No matter if the sex was earth shaking or he was a dud in bed. Do not cry!!! Nothing turns a man off more than a woman blubbering onto his chest about insignificant matters that can be dealt with at a later time. Sure, the dog got run over by the car or you pranged your new Porsche – cry, but not in bed and certainly not after lovemaking.
Most men will be feeling the afterglow of sex and hoping you are too and for you to put on the waterworks will have him seriously questioning how good he was in bed and feeling he has left you unsatisfied.

2  Laughing When Your Getting In The Sack

Most men are insecure. It’s a fact! They will feel that their penis is not big enough, they don’t last long enough or they have love handles. That is why often they will spend hour in the gym trying to perfect that physique or chasing other women. It is insecurity in themselves and how they perceive they are viewed.
So when he is making the move on you laughing will deflate his ego and offend him. He will not see the funny side of it even if he can take a practical joke. Focus on the job at hand, flatter and stroke his ego BUT do not laugh.

3  Faking It

Most women believe that they can fake an orgasm and their lover not be able to tell the difference. This is not always the case especially when you are a pillow biting, banshee screaming faker – eventually he is going to notice you looking at your wristwatch or planning your shopping whilst faking it.
The other reason is that if you are a faker he is going to think he is pleasing you all the time so is going to make no extra effort to satisfy and get you off. So if you enter into a long term relationship you are going to suffer in the long-term as he will not know the ways to please you and you will never be pleased.

4  Talking About Your Day

Nothing turns a guy off more than when in the middle of an extra sensation session you start talking about your day, or remember what you forgot on your last grocery session. Concentrate on the lovemaking on hand and not what you left on your desk at the office.

5  Going Shy

So you have talked about it, even some kinky stuff and waited till the mandatory third date and now it is time to put out. Nothing turns a guy off more than a woman with a wicked tongue that when it comes down to action becomes a prude. Strut your stuff girl and deliver on all those dirty promises you spoke about that will have him begging for more and at your call.

6  Blanking or Being a Dud

A man loves a girl that knows what she want and that includes in the bed. Tell him what you want, take control so that not only does he get what he wants but you do too. Gone are the days when I only do missionary position will cut it. Experiment and have fun. You know your body better than he does so lead him so that you both experience ecstasy.

Acknowledge these sexual turn offs and remember them for the next time you are beginning to participate in foreplay. Sometimes it really is the simplistic things that can turn your partner off in bed. Let’s face it, we all do it from time to time by accident but if we always remain aware of our action’s we can prevent mishaps from ever occurring.


Rick is the owner of the Adultsmart, an online sex toy shop that stocks over 13,000 products. He has been involved in the adult lifestyle industry for more than 25 years. Rick is an active sex blogger who provides a wealth of information and experience. He is an advocate of equality for gender and sexuality.

The Truth About Indian God Lotion!

Long Lasting Man

Premature ejaculation often has only one major cause, the sensitivity is much greater than normal and severe sensitivity on the head of penis will cause premature ejaculation.  With sexual experience and age, men regularly figure out how to postpone their climax. It may happen when your having sex with someone or it might happen just in certain sexual circumstances or when it has been quite a while since your last ejaculation. Mental elements, like uneasiness, blame, or discouragement can likewise precipitate it. Now and again, it might be identified with a therapeutic cause. The therapeutic cause may be because of hormonal issues, harm, or a symptom of specific medications. Indian God Lotion can remedy this naturally. The Indian god lotion is sprayed directly on the head of the penis. It is used to treat and cure premature ejaculation that should never be a problem again with correct usage.

The world famous Indian God Lotion comes in an attractive pocket pack size for absolute discretion. The results are incredible, hundreds of thousands of men have experienced complete success around the world from premature ejaculation. Indian God Lotion for premature ejaculation has had huge benefits and popularity worldwide and is recognized as the best product available to prevent premature ejaculation in men. You will discover the infinite pleasures of sex without the embarrassments of premature ejaculation.

Indian God Lotion is an old remedy for the treatment of premature ejaculation in men. Its active ingredient is the herb Radic Asari which causes a temporary desensitizing effect to the penis when applied topically. It is sprayed directly onto the head of the penis prior to intercourse as a natural way to decrease penile sensitivity, helping to prevent premature ejaculation. Millions of men have used it worldwide. It comes in a spray bottle for easy application, and also included is an instruction sheet.


Pink Delay Spray

Directions (included inside the package):

  • Contains a potent combination of ingredients to reduce sensitivity in the penis head. No greasy desensitizing creams.


  • Step 1: Spray a thin coverage to the head of the penis. REMEMBER: A little goes a long way and you can always add more later.


  • Step 2: Wait a minimum of 30 minutes. Now you can have sex any time. It has been reported that the effects if preventing premature ejaculation have lasted for up to 12 hours.

With Indian God Lotion If you are getting oral sex it will not be felt or tasted. If the person you are sexually active with decides to give you oral sex whilst using the Indian God Lotion their mouth will not go numb. It will not numb or in any way make the vagina feel any different to you or your lover. For maximum effect, spray once, wait 30 minutes, apply another spray and wait another 30 minutes. After you have followed all the steps, you are able to have sex. It has been reported that the prevent premature ejaculation effects of the Indian God Lotion last as long as 12 hours even if you have a shower between. Indian God Lotion sustains your erection unlike many other desensitizes, which can deaden the erection and make sex less enjoyable. This product is ideal for individuals possessing the stamina to endure lengthy sessions of intercourse and sexual engagement. It is a unique and successful approach for regaining ejaculatory control without the need to take medicines orally or attach sex aid devices.

The active ingredient of Indian God Lotion contains a potent combination of ingredients to reduce sensitivity in the penis head. It is not like other greasy desensitizing creams and the main ingredient is Radic Asari. It is a topical spray and not meant to be ingested. One bottle contains on average 16 sprays.

Below we have included some of our online review in regards to the Indian God Lotion:


I just recently bought some Indian God Lotion and it is working great. Thanks. I would like to buy more. Good stuff! Thanks! TC — Croatia,

Dear sirs: thank you for your prompt reply to me and your sending the units of the Indian god lotion to me as i asked. they arrived not long ago and have made me a very happy man. thank you again for your product, your support, and your courtesy. AL-Baltimore MD

For maximum effect I used Indian God Lotion to  cure premature ejaculation issues I suffer. I Spray Indian God Lotion once, wait 30 minutes, and am ready to go. It has given me a whole new sexual confidence.. Paul B – Sussex Inlet

Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

Erection Problems Caused By Prostate Problems!

Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile dysfunction is just but one of the many problems that men are bound to face at a particular point in their life. It comes as a result of many things including stress, illness and other factors. Prostate cancer is one of those other factors. Although it is a rare to have the gland removed, I decided to have mine cut out to prevent the spread of the cancer. My wife and I were thrilled when the doctor declared me cancer-free after the operation. Wasn’t I a happy person? Little did I know that this excitement was not going to last  long unfortunately.

Soon after I had my prostate removed, that is when a host of erection problems paid me a visit all from that prostate gland. I think with the cancer leaving, I had to forget about having any natural erections again. My erections could not last any more than a couple of minutes. It was such a terrible time in my life although my wife understood my problem and stood by me. She tried to cheer me up every now and then. She would tell me to forget about it. She got me some pills from some shop that I have never heard of. The pills did help somewhat with the erection problem. But there came other problems- after the operation it appeared to have effected making me have premature ejaculation/leakage. I had a really hard time holding it in. I was embarrassed about the erection problems, you can only begin to imagine how I felt with this new problem. Two months without sex and I felt that I could not take it anymore. That is when I went hunting for ways to handle erection problems and premature ejaculation.

Honestly, I did not expect to find anything of substance on the internet but I was to be shocked when I did a quick search on Google. There were so many methods of solving the erectile issues I was suffering from. I started out with the pills. They did help out with the erections but I hated the fact that I needed some medication to stimulate me. I wanted my erections to be natural. So I went back to the Google and that is when I came across the a Vacuum Pumping System that by the hype seemed to work.  So I ordered it online to try it out.

After trying it out I found that it worked and I would encourage any man who has erectile problems to look for a professional Vacuum Pumping System – not one of those cheap Chinese knock offs. When you get this device you can always be sure that you will never go wrong. It is a really powerful tool that provides more than just solving erectile dysfunction.   After further researching it I now know that the vacuum pump method of solving erectile problems has become extremely popular for men with erectile dysfunction due to prostate removal. Many doctors recommend it – I just wish mine had earlier.

Curing Erection Problems

At first I was hesitant to use this pump. It looked menacing and I feared using it on my penis. However, I considered the fact that my wife was almost giving up on our sex life and I had to make up my mind. Remember I had tried out the pills?   So this was my only other option. It is a really great tool, easy to use and produces great results. Using together with a penis ring or any other band, you can maintain a healthy erection without having to alter the body’s blood composition with pills. How the penis pump works

There are so many different types of penis pumps and each works a little differently but basically, there is the cylinder that you will fit over the penis and then there is the pump that will create a suctioning vacuum force.   What happens is that the as you pump a partial vacuum will be created around the penis and thus blood will be drawn into the penis. This of course translates into an engorged penis. As you increase the vacuum, there will be an increased different between your blood’s pressure and the pump pressure. Thus, you should use it moderately.

I had to learn to fight my greed to have a larger penis. When too much pressure is applied instead of a harder penis, you can damage the blood vessels. To be on the safe side I therefore recommend that you use a really high quality Penis Pump. One that guarantees results. A pump like that is perfect and great because not only well it be comfortable but it is also very safe for use. On top of that, these pumps can also be used to enlarge the breasts, nipples, clitoris and even testicles if you wish to incorporate it with other sexual play. There are different cylinders that are used to achieve this.

The pump however has one drawback in that it is not a permanent cure for erection problems because if you do not pump for a long time, the penis will simply revert to its normal size. This is why the penis/cock rings are used. The penis ring will prevent the blood from flowing back into the body after pumping. However you do not need to worry, it is not like the blood will flow back instantly. It will take several hours before the penis returns to its usual size and as you use it more frequently the results last longer sometimes up to days.

A bigger penis is always better when it comes to satisfying your partner. Luckily the penis pump is a two in one tool. Not only did it give me that superb erection I was looking for, but I have noted a significant increase in the size of my penis. I have been using the pump for about six months now and the increase in the size of my member is notable. I did some research and what I discovered is amazing. Honestly I had no idea that the penis is made up of muscles like any other muscles in the body. What would happen if you started going to the gym to exercise your biceps? The same thing happens to the penis. When you pump, the muscles increase in size and volume and thus are able to accommodate a larger volume of blood.

There are so many other ways of increasing the size of the penis and handling erection problems but I personally prefer the penis pump as it is natural and surgery option I did not really care for and was very expensive. Together with the penis ring I have struck the metaphorical two birds with one stone. The pump gives me that erection I need. The ring will prevent the penis from losing blood whilst controlling the semen. This allows me to last much longer without ejaculating and when it get to that, my orgasms can only be defined as body-shuddering. They are powerful and I love it. I am able to satisfy my wife and I also have my confidence back. I do not use the pills anymore and I do not have to go for surgery to get my blood flowing. Penis pump in my opinion is the way to go.


Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.