Ask Oz October 2022: Your Questions Answered

Ask Oz October 2022 –  This month we have three tasty question and answers for you!

Ask Oz October 2022

Hey Oz.  My boyfriend and I have not had sex yet. However we rub up against each other having ‘dry sex’ as he calls it.  Sometimes he will cum and his pants get wet with his semen.  I cannot get pregnant through clothing can I.  I don’t mean to be paranoid, but just want to make sure.

A.  Chances of getting pregnant through clothing are very slim, even if he does ejaculate during ‘dry humping‘.  Sperm must enter the vagina to cause pregnancy.  It is not possible for sperm to swim through or survive going through clothing.

If its completely saturated clothing with semen and is in direct contact with a woman’s bare vagina, there is a very slight chance that sperm could enter the vagina and cause pregnancy.

Pregnancy can occur at any point in the menstrual cycle. It’s also important to take precautions against sexually transmitted infections during any sexual activity.  Regardless of the presence of clothing.

Hey Oz:  My boyfriend loves head but he likes to deep throat me.  Unfortunately, my gag reflex come to the front and I tear up and tell him to stop.  He gets upset as one of his fantasies is to cum with his cock down my throat. How can I stop the gag reflex and help him live out his fantasy?

Your gag reflex is a natural response to protect the body from swallowing something foreign.  But an overly sensitive gag reflex can cause problems with deep throating.

There are several ways to help reduce the severity of the gag reflex.

• One way is to use topical ointments or medications to control nausea and vomiting.
• Practice also makes perfect – so perhaps try practicing with a cucumber or dildo.
• Another way is to try different techniques.  Such as breathing exercises, acupuncture or acupressure, or changing swallowing methods.
• Relaxation techniques and desensitization can also help control the response.
• A temporal tap can be accomplished by tapping the front and back of the ear to suppress the gag reflex.

If the gag reflex interferes with day-to-day life or wellness, it may be necessary to seek treatment or interventions.

Here are some excellent resources for you to check out

 7 Proven Tips To Get Rid Of Gag Reflex

 Gag Reflex: Why We Have It, and How to Stop a Sensitive

How to Suppress your gag reflex in Seconds 

Hey Oz:  Why does sex feel good?  I mean other animals do it to reproduce – not for enjoyment. Why do us humans enjoy it and fantasize over it so much?

A.  Sex feels good because it releases chemicals in the brain that create pleasurable sensations. These chemicals include dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins. Dopamine is associated with pleasure and reward, oxytocin with bonding and attachment, and endorphins with pain relief and euphoria.

These chemicals are released during sexual activity, leading to feelings of pleasure, intimacy, and emotional connection.

Humans Have Sex For Pleasure

Unlike other animals, humans engage in sexual activity not only for reproduction but also for pleasure, intimacy, and emotional connection. Humans have evolved to prioritize emotional and social factors in sexual behavior. This leads to more complex and varied motivations for engaging in sexual activity beyond reproduction.

Cultural factors and personal preferences also play a significant role in why humans enjoy sex and fantasize about it.

Recent scientific evidence suggests that some animals do have sex for fun. But it is difficult to verify this with certainty as animals cannot talk about their experiences.  Some instances seem to indicate this pleasure, such as non-reproductive sex and high rates of sex among some animals.

Most mammals and birds experience sexual pleasure and have the physiological capacity for orgasm. Animals have sex not just for reproduction, but to ease high-tension social situations.

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