Ask Oz June 2023: Your Questions Answered

Ask Oz June 2023 question have been coming in thick and fast.  Here’s some of them that might help you with your own questions!

Questions from Ask Oz June 2023

Hey Oz, My boyfriend keeps saying that I am a nympho and only want sex.  I explain to him that nothing feels better to me than having sex with him. Really he should appreciate that rather than complain about it.  It got me thinking though, what actually does feel better than sex?

A.  Well, that’s an interesting question!  Sex is often considered one of the most pleasurable experiences in life.  There are indeed a few things that some people might argue feel even better.

Here are five things that could potentially give you a similar or even greater sense of satisfaction

1. A deep and meaningful connection with someone.

While sex can be incredibly intimate, there’s something truly special about forming a deep emotional connection with another person.  It might be through a close friendship, a romantic relationship, or even a strong bond with a family member.

The feeling of being understood, supported, and loved on a deeper level can be the best feeling ever.

2. Accomplishing a long-term goal or dream

There’s an amazing feeling of satisfaction that comes from achieving something you’ve worked hard for.

It might be completing a challenging project at work, finishing a marathon or finally publishing that book you’ve been writing for years.

Reaching your goals can give you a sense of pride and fulfillment that can rival any physical pleasure.

3. Helping others and making a positive impact:

It’s no secret that doing good feels good.  Maybe volunteering your time to help those in need.  Donating to a cause you believe in or simply lending a helping hand to a friend or stranger

An act of making a positive impact on someone else’s life can bring immense joy and self satisfaction.

4. Engaging in creative activities:

Painting, writing, playing an instrument, or any other form of creative activity.  These types of things that let you tap into your creativity can be incredibly satisfying.

Creating something from nothing and expressing yourself through art can be a deeply fulfilling experience that provides a sense of purpose and joy.

5. Having a good laugh:

Laughter truly is the best medicine! Sharing a hilarious joke with friends, watching a comedy show, or simply finding humor in everyday situations.  Laughter has the power to instantly uplift your mood.

What feels better than sex can vary greatly from person to person.

We all have different preferences, desires, and experiences that shape our individual perceptions of pleasure.  The thing that matters most is finding what brings you joy, satisfaction, and a sense of fulfillment in life.

Sex is often considered one of life’s greatest pleasures.  But there are indeed a few things that can give you a similar or even greater sense of satisfaction.

From deep connections with others to accomplishing your goals, helping others, engaging in creative activities, and having a good laugh.

There are many ways to find fulfilment that doesn’t mean you have to jump into bed.

Hey Oz, does sex feel better for a man or a woman?

A. Well, let me start off by saying that it’s not as simple as picking one gender over the other.  The truth is, everyone’s experience with sex is unique and can vary greatly.

Now, there’s this common myth floating around that men want sex more than women.  But let me tell you, that’s just not true.

It’s important to remember that desire and enjoyment aren’t solely determined by gender.  People of all genders can have high or low libidos, and they can all experience immense pleasure during sex.

Let’s dive a little deeper into this topic.

When it comes to physical sensations, men and women have their own unique experiences.  For men, the pleasure often comes from the stimulation of their genitals, primarily their penis. This can lead to intense orgasms and a sense of release.

Women have a more complex sexual anatomy. With a wider range of erogenous zones, such as the clitoris, G-spot, and even the breasts, women can experience pleasure in various ways.

It’s important to note that women’s pleasure isn’t solely tied to penetration.  In fact, many women find clitoral stimulation to be the key to their sexual satisfaction.

Pleasure isn’t just about physical sensations

It involves emotional and psychological factors.

For some, feeling emotionally connected to their partner enhances the pleasure they experience during sex.  This connection can be different for each individual, regardless of their gender.

Societal expectations and cultural influences play a significant role in how we perceive and experience sex. These factors can shape our desires, preferences, and even our ability to fully enjoy ourselves during intimate moments.

So, to sum it up, there is no definitive answer to whether sex feels better for a man or a woman.

Pleasure is subjective and can vary greatly from person to person.

It’s important to embrace and explore our own unique desires and preferences.  Communicate openly with our partners to ensure a fulfilling and satisfying sexual experience for all involved.

The key to great sex lies in open communication, consent, and a mutual understanding of each other’s needs.

So, let’s celebrate the beautiful diversity of human sexuality and enjoy the pleasure it brings to each and every one of us, regardless of our gender.

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