We have physiotherapists to help us get our body back into shape after an injury. Psychologists and counsellors are available to talk about any worries and concerns in our lives. We visit the doctor for physical and mental health concerns, ensuring thorough care for our well-being. Sexual health, often neglected, is gaining attention as sexual healing focuses on the well-being of all individuals.
Why would someone see a sex therapist/sexual healer?
Our sexuality often harbors trauma and unhealthy patterns, lurking in the shadows of our lives. These can come up in destructive ways that can but do not necessarily have to do with sex itself. We may feel stagnant in creativity, struggle with body shame, or continually attract “damaged” individuals into relationships.
A sexual healer supports the healing of our negative conditioning, sexual wounds, and traumas, enabling a more fulfilling life. Their support is essential for resolving deep-rooted issues and enhancing emotional, psychological, and physical well-being related to sexuality.
Who needs to see a sexual healer?
Just to be clear, no one NEEDS to see any kind of healer, however, if you feel like some of the worries or issues in your life relate to sex, relationships or love, you can greatly benefit from this kind of therapeutic work. People who have a history of sexual abuse or trauma commonly seek out this kind of support due to the nature of their trauma, people who are having unfulfilling, abusive or unhealthy relationships may be drawn to work through their issues with a sex therapist and people who are desiring more pleasure and satisfaction in their sex lives can also benefit greatly from this work.
Those suffering from any kind of sexual dysfunction such as low libido, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, and dyspareunia as well as low body confidence or self-esteem can gain a great deal of assistance from a sexual healer or therapist. This therapeutic approach aids in resolving deep-seated issues, enhancing sexual health, and improving overall well-being, making it valuable for anyone seeking to heal and empower their sexual self.
What can happen in a session?
No two people are the same so no two sessions will be. Sexual healing sessions are tailor made to each individuals unique needs. They can involve counselling & therapy, working on establishing healthy boundaries & communication skills and bodywork (i.e. massage and touch). Practical exercises might also be involved, such as guided imagery, breathwork, and body awareness techniques to help reconnect and heal the body-mind connection.
With a professional sexual healer or therapist, nothing will ever happen in a session that is not within your boundaries. I emphasize finding a professional renowned for competence and integrity, as it is crucial for effective support. This brings me to the next question…
How do I know who to go to?
Finding the right professional for such an intimate area as sexuality requires careful consideration and attention. There are male and female therapists out there who offer some incredible services in Sydney and across Australia. Women with sexual trauma may hesitate but can greatly benefit from working with a male practitioner. To have a safe representation of a man as you heal can be profoundly healing.
The same applies for men who may have a traumatic history with women working with female practitioners. Working with a practitioner of the opposite gender can be challenging yet profoundly impactful. What is important is you find someone who is trustworthy, respectful and competent.
Find What Works For You
Read testimonials, do your research and ask around. This can be work that is extremely intimidating to start so be kind to yourself and understand it can take some time before you feel ready to dive in. The Sydney Tantric Massage website for those in the area is a great resource for professional practitioners, as well as the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers Website (For Australia and worldwide practitioners). A good practitioner will answer any queries you may have prior to organizing a session – ask as many questions as you feel so that it is clear what it is that will be happening in the session.
Are You Not Comfortable Meeting In Person?
You can see a sexual healer online instead of in person. Many therapists and healers offer virtual sessions, providing the same range of services as they would face-to-face. This can be a convenient option for those who prefer the privacy and comfort of their own home or live in areas without easy access to specialized therapists for sexual healing. Online sessions can include counseling, therapy, and guided exercises tailored to individual needs.
Sexual Healing
The right to healthy expression of our sexuality is our birthright as human beings, with many in the world subjected to sexual abuse, discrimination, and suppression. From my experience, diving into healing my sexual traumas and reshifting my conditioning in regards to sex has changed every area of my life. My relationships have become deeper and more fulfilling, my body confidence has skyrocketed and in general, I feel more joy & pleasure throughout my days. I wholeheartedly believe that our sexual health deserves our care and attention just like any part of ourselves. By bringing our sexual shadows to light, we become a freer and more authentic version of ourselves in the world.
Sexual healing is vital for addressing the deep-seated traumas and patterns that can impact our most intimate selves. Just as we rely on physiotherapists, psychologists, and doctors to maintain our physical and mental health, a sexual healer focuses on nurturing our sexual well-being. This specialized care is essential for those grappling with sexual dysfunction, low self-esteem, or past traumas affecting their intimate relationships.
Engaging with a competent and ethical sexual healer can transform your life, enabling you to enjoy deeper, more satisfying relationships and a profound sense of personal freedom and joy. By prioritizing our sexual health, we affirm its crucial role in our overall well-being, stepping into a life marked by authenticity and pleasure.
Author: Stephanie Curtis – BA. Nursing., Grad. Dip. Sexology
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