A varied and thriving sex life does not always restrict itself to the bedroom so why not get out for some Public Sex. Many people admit to finding it quite thrilling to engage in sex in Public..
Womens health have a great article on the ins and outs of public sex – safely.
Public Sex
Lets keep in mind the legalities and whether you could be found liable for indecent exposure or worse. Make sure where you are intending to do it is safe, and do not subject anyone else toy your intimate public relations.
The Stairs
Stairs are great for a number of reasons, elevation, space, that feeling of not quite being able to make it all the way into the bedroom. The rush and the anticipation of being on stairs is all very exhilarating. It can definitely provide the added leverage to hit the perfect spots for stimulation.
The Shower
Steamy showers, a hand pressed against the glass, bodies slick with water. The shower is perfect for experimenting with play that can get messy. Shower walls also make fabulous anchors for suction toys.
On the Beach
Nothing is more romantic than the waves crashing against the shore, the sun disappearing or appearing along the horizon. With no one around as you fall into each other’s arms.
The beach has always been a great place to get away for public sex. Ensure that you bring a towel or something to lie down on. Maybe think about wading into the water. Sand tends to have a dreadful habit of getting everywhere you don’t want it to.
In the Car
Another popular choice that has always screamed anticipation and not being able to wait to till you get in a private place is the automobile. Whether it is pulling off to the side of the road or getting it on whilst you drive. Please remember safety first.
The Movies
Sitting in the dark while the movies are playing is much harder to pull off than you may first imagine. Pick a movie that has an early session that you know will not be packed out. Grab some seats in the back row and get into it. Hopefully, the ushers will not come in with a flashlight to check.
Change Rooms
Fancy a quickie? Slipping into the change rooms at the shops or local surf club. It is a great excuse to steal a kiss (or a little something more).
In The Wild
In a park or out on a hiking trail to truly bring you in touch with your primal side. The sky above you, the world at your feet and nothing but the sound of you and your lover for miles. Unleash your truly wild side.
Make sure you bring the aeroguard though.
Public Bathrooms
At a bar or a restaurant- might be out for the night or out at dinner or even brunch!
There is something about giving your soignificant other a suggestive wink and asking them to meet you in the bathroom in a few minutes. Just make sure you lock the door, and leave separately to avoid being kicked out by the bouncers.
At Work
Often portrayed in tv shows and movies, a quickie or steamy romp at work often springs to mind when we think of office romances or when your partner visits, or even an affair at work! It’s definitely more exciting than a coffee break.
In an Elevator
Imagine the doors closing, pulling your partner close, and doing truly wonderful things in between floors while no one is around. If you really wanted to, you could always stop the elevator, but that would raise some alarms.
We simply do not suggest that.
At a sex party/Club
Probably the epitome of sex in public. You can’t get more public than having sex in a room full of people also having public sex. There are several swingers and sex clubs available by private and public means for a thriving swingers scene.
At Your Service,
Tiffany
Adult Lifestyle Sales Consultant, Educator and Exhibitionist.
Sex In Public!
Sex Can Become A Chore
When we put a location to the word sex, automatically our minds gravitate towards a mental image of a bed. Single, double, queen or king sized, could even be a bunk bed.
What happens when you’ve been in a relationship for a few years, and you’re sick of the same missionary position?
The same routine when he begins to kiss you then moves to your neck. Then all of a sudden, 5 minutes later he’s finished, while you guys were in the same old missionary position.
Sex can become a chore and this will definetly lead to a decline in a lot of areas in you’re life. When your bedroom life starts to get stale, you need to think of ways to spice things up. Your house is where you spend the majority of your life and it needs constant work.
There’s always bathrooms to clean, washing to do, beds to make, dishes to clean. Maybe then, once you have done all of that – you might get to enjoy some solid sex in your bed. With the same position, the same surroundings, wearing the same clothes that your normally do.
Sex Effects How You Feel
Although it has not been scientifically proven I believe you’re sex life directly affects every other aspect in you’re life on either a positive or negative level. It sets the tone for you’re mood and you’re though process.
If you’re having a great sex you will notice that everything else around you will be positively uplifted from these experiences. Especially you’re relationship with you’re partner.
So how do you change you’re boring routine?
From pretty much going from missionary, to doggy style, without any cues from you’re partner. Just because you’ve become so used to his/her sexual patterns?
1 word. Spontaneity which is:
“Happening or done in a natural, often sudden way, without any planning or without being forced”
So that’s what spontaneous means but how can we apply this to our sex life?
Well its not that hard. It’s all about switching up the location. Location is the key to spontaneous sex! This is because most couples are used to having sex on a mattress, so the thrill of having sex in different places not only heightens the orgasm but increases the sensations. This applies for both partners because it takes them both to a new place in their sexual mind.
Their sexual mind expands. Changing the place of where you have sex with your partner can change things for the better. Allowing you both to become more adventurous.
New Places Will Stop Your Sex Life From Fizzling To The Mundane
With most couples having kids generally a few years into there relationship, this can fizzle out their sex life. There are a lot of places in the house that you can use to have fun and mix up you’re sex life. For example the kitchen sink, dinner table, lounge, the shower, the backyard, veranda (if you’re home has one).
Why not add a sex toy?
These are some of the places that you can use it in the house without leaving, for example if you have kids. Although some of these places are hard to do various sex positions. Some standard sex positions that could be used are doggy style, legs wrapped around the waist (if leaning on bench or table) and lifting and raising up against a wall (requires a lot of upper body strength).
Bring Spontaneous Pleasure – Public Sex
Now of course if you are a young couple, sometimes home is unavailable to be used as a sexual hub. There are a lot of places you can go and things you can do that will not only heighten you’re adrenaline, but also you’re pleasure with spontaneity.
For example; having sex in a new venue can bring a whole new world of experience.
Take for example having sex with your partner in an elevator. This is perhaps the most adventurous place where you can do it provided you don’t get caught.
Public restrooms are great places to start off with foreplay and possibly get into action once you find a rest room that is unoccupied.
What about in the office? After your boss and colleagues have called it a day and gone home.
Any of these are most exciting places to fulfil your sexual fantasies, provided you are careful not to be locked in the office or get caught.
Have Sex Under The Sydney Harbour Bridge
If you’re younger and still living at home, you may need to consider being adventurous. To spice things up and as you may not have enough money to get a classy hotel room. Whilst it’s perfectly ok to have some adventurous fun, you do need to be respectful and mindful of your surroundings.
Having sex in a park surrounded by children is not ideal. It’s really not okay to do things like that! So long as you’re aware and mindful of your surroundings, and the time,there is nothing wrong with some harmless outdoor fun.
There are some amazing stories out there from sex underneath the Harbour Bridge, to Blow Jobs on mountain trails with beautiful panoramic views. The world is your oyster and it’s certainly an awesome way to get some nature back into your lives.
Go Camping and Have A Nude Romp
You could even consider going camping, and having a playful romp in the middle of nowhere underneath the stars. Or, a quickie in a deserted underground car park late at night (watch out for the cameras!) Secluded rooftops are also an amazing place of having sex as well as on the road or in the swimming pool.
The common thing about all these venues is that they are able to spice and liven up your dying and dull sex life.
About the Author: Andrew is a sales consultant at the Adult Lifestyle Centre.
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