Strap-On-Me Australia - Pegging Harness Sets, Strapless Dildos & Couples Strap-Ons

Strap-on-me is a French strap-on brand from Lovely Planet, making strapless and harness strap-ons, harnesses and silicone dildos. Its Bendable Strap-On won a Red Dot design award, and its harnesses look like lingerie.

About Strap-on-me

Strap-on-me is made by Lovely Planet, the French company in Gémenos near Marseille that also owns Love to Love and makes Marc Dorcel Toys. The brand grew out of one product: a bendable, strapless strap-on with a position-memory neck. After several years in development, it won a Red Dot Award for product design in 2019. That same year Lovely Planet launched a three-motor vibrating version through a crowdfunding campaign.

Since then the range has grown into one of the widest strap-on collections on the market. It now covers harnesses in fabric, lace and leatherette, realistic and semi-realistic dildos, dildo plugs and squirting dildos. The aim throughout is simple: a strap-on that feels like part of your anatomy.

Strap-on-me ranges

Strap-on-me sells under these named ranges and harnesses.

Bendable Strap-On

The Bendable Strap-On is the design that made Strap-on-me’s name, and it won a Red Dot Award in 2019. It is strapless: one end sits inside the wearer, and a flexible neck with position memory holds the shaft at the angle you set. It comes in four sizes, in plain and vibrating versions. The vibrating models have three motors and a remote.

Multi Orgasm

Multi Orgasm is Strap-on-me’s range of vibrating strap-ons for both partners. Each has three independent motors with vibration and flapping modes, and a remote so either partner can take control. There are bendable and realistic versions, from a 14 cm Small to a 19 cm model. They sit with our wearable vibes for hands-free play, and charge by USB between sessions.

Sliding Skin

Sliding Skin is Strap-on-me’s most realistic dildo range. A soft outer layer of silicone glides over a firmer core, so the skin moves the way real skin does. The dildos come in flesh, black and pink, from about 16 cm to 19 cm long, with a strong suction cup. They fit Strap-on-me harnesses and stick to smooth surfaces such as tiles or glass.

Metallic Shine

Metallic Shine is Strap-on-me’s range of dildos in a glossy metallic finish. The mono-density silicone is the same firmness all the way through, for steady, even pressure. The range includes harness-compatible dildos, the Curvy dildo plug and the Snaky double dong. Each has a base that fits standard harness rings. The shine makes them a striking gift, and the silicone washes clean with warm, soapy water.

Switch Plug-In

Switch Plug-In is a two-part system. A plug sits inside the wearer, and a dildo clicks into it, so the dildo can be swapped without changing the plug. It comes in realistic and semi-realistic versions, in black and fuchsia. The design suits people who want the closeness of a strapless strap-on with the choice of more than one shaft, without buying a new plug.

Rebel

Rebel is Strap-on-me’s sporty, universal harness. Made from stretchy nylon and elastane, it pulls on like underwear and fits most dildos with a suction base. It is machine-washable, comes in an XS size for slimmer waists of 64 to 70 cm, and suits first-time wearers. It is comfortable enough to wear for a whole session, and it is one of the easiest harnesses to put on.

Heroine

Heroine is a soft, stretchy harness with a lingerie cut. It is 75% nylon and 25% elastane and fits hips up to about 127 cm, with an XS version for 64 to 70 cm waists. The universal ring accepts most suction-base dildos. Its clean lines suit people who want a harness that looks like everyday underwear, and it washes easily.

Diva

Diva is Strap-on-me’s lace and microfibre harness, the most lingerie-like in the range. It comes in S/M, L/XL and XS sizes, and the lace front frames the dildo ring. Adjustable straps hold the shaft steady during thrusting. It suits wearers who want to look as good as they feel, and it pairs well with a Sliding Skin dildo. Hand-wash to keep the lace soft.

Strap-on-me categories

The rest of the range falls into two groups.

Leatherette harnesses

Strap-on-me’s leatherette harnesses add a firmer, more fetish look. Curious is a universal harness with adjustable straps and a reinforced O-ring. Desirous adds a padded back belt and three interchangeable silicone rings for different dildo sizes. Generous expands to about 150 cm at the waist, and Halo is a high-waisted microfibre and tulle design. Wipe leatherette clean with a damp cloth.

Dildo plugs and dual-density dildos

Strap-on-me dildos all have a suction base that fits a harness ring. Dual-density models have a firm core and soft outside, in four sizes from 17 to 20 cm. P&G Spot dildos curve toward the prostate or G-spot, in sizes up to 19.8 cm. Dildo plugs such as Snaky, Curvy and the Geisha ball models add texture or rotating balls.

Strapless or harness?

A strapless strap-on has one end that sits inside the wearer, so both partners feel each thrust. It needs some pelvic floor control to hold in place, and it suits people who want closeness. A harness holds the dildo against the body with straps, which feels more secure and lets you swap dildos easily. Our strap-on sex guide covers both styles. Many couples start with a harness, then try strapless once they know what they like. Browse our full range of strap-on options to compare.

Your first time

Our guide to first-time strap-on sex suggests starting slowly. Agree on a word to pause, use lots of water-based lube, and choose a smaller dildo than you think you need. Practise putting the harness on before the moment, so you are not fumbling with straps. Our article on shared strap-on pleasure explains how a vibrating strap-on such as Multi Orgasm can give the wearer pleasure too.

Positions to try

Different positions change the angle and depth. Our guide to strap-on positions covers the classics. Missionary lets you see each other’s faces, from behind gives deeper access, and the receiver on top controls the pace. A bendable shaft helps here, as you can set the angle to suit each position. Try a pillow under the hips for comfort.

Caring for your strap-on

Silicone dildos wash clean with warm water and mild soap, or a sex toy cleaner. Let them dry fully before storing them away from other silicone sex toys, which can mark the surface. Take vibrating models apart only as the instructions allow, and keep the charging point dry. Hand-wash lace and microfibre harnesses in cool water and dry them flat, while Rebel can go in the washing machine. Wipe leatherette with a damp cloth and store it flat to keep its shape.

How Strap-on-me ranges compare

Here is how the main ranges line up.

Choosing your first Strap-on-me

Start with a harness and dildo if you are new. Rebel is a comfortable, washable first harness, and a Sliding Skin or dual-density dildo gives a realistic feel. If you want both partners to feel it, try the Bendable Strap-On or a Multi Orgasm model. For prostate or G-spot play, choose a P&G Spot dildo with a curved tip. Check the size chart before you order, as harnesses come in XS to XL.

Who Strap-on-me suits — and who should look elsewhere

Strap-on-me suits couples of any gender who want to try pegging or strap-on sex, and wearers who want a harness that looks good. It also suits people who want a strap-on they can feel themselves.

It is not for buyers who want a very large or extreme dildo, as the range focuses on comfortable sizes. Strapless styles take practice to hold in place.

Why buy Strap-on-me at Adultsmart

We sell genuine Strap-on-me strap-ons, harnesses and dildos, sent from our Australian warehouse. Each product page lists the size, fit and material, so you can choose before you order. Shaped in Provence. Worn With Pride.