Dildos Australia - Realistic, Fantasy, Glass, Steel & Silicone Penetrators

Dildos are penetrative devices designed for internal stimulation in varied styles including hollow, harness-compatible, strap-on, and monster designs. Constructed from body-safe silicone, glass, and metal, they deliver tailored sensations for solo exploration and partnered pleasure without vibration. Suited to users seeking hands-on control and diverse penetrative experiences. Adultsmart stocks Australia's most complete dildo range across materials, sizes, and body-safe configurations.

Dildos are non-vibrating sex toys designed for penetration and internal stimulation. Available in body-safe silicone, glass, and metal, they come as hollow types, harness-compatible styles, strap-ons, and oversized fantasy designs for solo or partnered play.

At a glance
  • What they are: Non-vibrating penetrative sex toys in silicone, glass, metal, or other body-safe materials
  • Best for: Internal, anal, and partnered stimulation without vibration or noise
  • Material options: Silicone, borosilicate glass, stainless steel, and other non-porous body-safe materials
  • Base types: Suction cups, flared bases for harness use, or standalone designs
  • Control: Manual, hands-on play; no batteries or recharging required
  • Sizing: Range from compact beginner models to large fantasy designs for advanced users
  • Condom safety: Condoms recommended with shared partners; check material compatibility with lubricant
  • Care: Wash with warm soapy water or toy cleaner; silicone and glass are durable and long-lasting
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About Dildos

Dildos are a core option for anyone seeking penetration without vibration. They work for solo exploration, partnered play, or couples looking to extend sensation during sex. Made from body-safe silicone, glass, or stainless steel, they're built to last and feel good against skin. Realistic Dildos mimic natural anatomy, while others offer textured or fantasy-inspired designs.

Each type serves different needs. Hollow dildos suit men managing erectile dysfunction or couples wanting extended penetration. Harness-compatible styles enable hands-free play and roleplay scenarios. Monster dildos deliver intense, filling sensations for experienced users. All are non-vibrating, so they're quiet, require no charging, and let you control pace and depth entirely.

What makes Dildos different

Unlike vibrators, dildos offer pure penetration without motor noise or power requirements. You control every movement, depth, and pace by hand. This makes them ideal for people sensitive to vibration, those wanting silent play, or anyone preferring direct, sustained pressure. Non-Realistic Dildos add fantasy, texture, and colour for roleplay or bold aesthetic preference. They're also durable—glass and metal last decades with proper care.

Types of Dildos

Hollow Dildos. These have a hollow core that slides over an erect penis, providing firm sensation and extended play for men or couples. They're popular with partners seeking to prolong intercourse or add girth during sex.

Harness and Strap-On Dildos. Built with a flared or wide base, these fit into a harness for hands-free penetration. Common in pegging, same-sex play, and power-exchange scenes, they let the wearer control depth and pace while their hands stay free.

Monster Dildos. Oversized and often fantasy-inspired, these deliver intense, deep stimulation. Textured surfaces and bold shapes make them popular with advanced users seeking maximum filling sensation and visual impact.

Standard or Standalone Dildos. Glass Dildos and smooth silicone models work for direct hand-held penetration. Many feature a suction cup base for hands-free use against a wall, bed, or sex toy mount.

How they compare

Model Material Best for Control or Base Safety
Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Hollow Silicone Couples, erectile support Hollow core, harness-compatible Body-safe silicone, washable
Tantus Bend Over Beginner Silicone Harness play, pegging Flared base, flexible shaft Body-safe, beginner-friendly size
XR Brands Creature Cocks Silicone Fantasy, advanced users Textured, hand-held or harness Body-safe silicone, oversized
Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Silicone Strap-on roleplay Locking system, realistic shape Body-safe, secure connection

How to choose a dildo

Start with your experience level and what you want to feel. Beginners often prefer smaller, flexible silicone models with a flared or suction-cup base—no harness required. If you're exploring harness play, a beginner strap-on offers a gentle introduction. Silicone Dildos are a safe, affordable entry point because they're durable, easy to clean, and warm to the touch.

For experienced users, monster designs and fantasy shapes deliver more intense sensation. Consider material: silicone is warm and forgiving; glass is firm and temperature-responsive; steel is dense and heavy. Think about how you'll use it—solo hand-held play, partnered penetration, or harness wear—and pick a base style that matches. Always use water-based lubricant with silicone and glass, and test compatibility if using silicone-based lube with silicone toys.

Tips from the Adultsmart team

Hard-won pointers from the Adultsmart team, alongside our panel of sexologists, educators, and adult-industry contributors. Meet our experts →

After years of helping customers with dildos, the biggest mistake we see is choosing size before trying depth and girth. A smaller dildo you'll actually use beats an intimidating monster sitting in a drawer. Start compact, especially for anal play, and work up gradually. You'll enjoy it more and avoid discomfort that puts you off the experience entirely.

Harness fit matters more than people think. A poorly fitted harness shifts during play and kills the vibe. Measure your hips or try one on before buying if possible. If ordering online, check the brand's fit guide carefully—some run tight, others loose. A snug, stable harness makes hands-free play genuinely pleasurable instead of frustrating.

Silicone and glass are the most forgiving materials for beginners. Metal is beautiful but unforgiving if you're new to depth play. Also, don't assume a larger dildo needs more lube—sometimes less is more, depending on the material and your body. Experiment with water-based lube amounts to find what feels best. And always clean before and after use; it extends the life of your sex toy and keeps you safe.

Please read — safety first. Charge only with the supplied cable and keep the charging port dry unless the sex toy is waterproof-rated. Pair and update through the official app, and switch the device off fully between sessions so the motor and battery aren't left under load. Never share between partners, or between anal and vaginal use, without cleaning the item first or using a fresh condom. This information is general in nature only and is not medical advice; it does not account for your individual circumstances. If you have a relevant health condition or experience any persistent discomfort, discontinue use and seek advice from a qualified medical professional.

Care and cleaning

Wash your dildo with warm soapy water or a dedicated toy cleaner before and after use. Silicone and glass are non-porous and highly durable—they won't absorb bacteria. Dry with a soft cloth and store in a clean, cool place away from direct sunlight. Silicone can degrade over time if stored near other silicone toys or in extreme heat. Glass is virtually indestructible and won't stain or retain odours.

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Why shop Dildos at Adultsmart

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Dildos FAQ

What is the difference between a dildo and a dong?
The terms "dildo" and "dong" are often used interchangeably, but there is a subtle difference. A dildo is typically a non-realistic or stylized sex toy designed for penetration, and it may come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors. Dildos can be made from various materials and may include features like suction bases or vibrating functions. A dong, on the other hand, usually refers to a more realistic, lifelike sex toy that resembles a penis in both shape and texture. Dongs often have realistic details like veins and a defined head for those seeking a more natural feel during use.
Are vibrating dildos different from regular dildos?
Yes, vibrating dildos have built-in motors that provide additional stimulation through vibrations. These vibrations can range from gentle to intense, adding extra pleasure to the penetrative experience. Regular dildos don’t have this feature and rely solely on manual movement for stimulation. Vibrating dildos often come with multiple settings, allowing users to adjust the intensity and pattern of the vibrations to their liking. They’re popular for those who want both penetration and clitoral or internal stimulation.
What materials are dildos and dongs made from, and which is best?
Dildos and dongs are made from a variety of materials, including silicone, PVC, rubber, glass, and stainless steel. Silicone is considered the best material for its softness, flexibility, and body-safe properties—it's hypoallergenic, non-porous, and easy to clean. Glass and stainless steel dildos offer a firmer, smoother feel and can be heated or cooled for temperature play. PVC and rubber options are more affordable but can be porous, so it's important to check that they are phthalate-free and use condoms with them if needed. Silicone is typically recommended for its safety, durability, and comfort.
What types of dildos and dongs are available?
There is a wide variety of dildos and dongs, including realistic dildos, which closely mimic the look and feel of a penis, and non-realistic dildos, which come in abstract shapes and colors. Vibrating dildos offer extra stimulation with built-in motors, while double-ended dildos are designed for shared use between partners or for deeper penetration. Suction-cup dildos can be attached to flat surfaces for hands-free play, and strap-on compatible dildos are designed for use with harnesses. Textured dildos may feature ridges or bumps to add extra sensation during penetration.
What size dildo or dong should I choose?
Choosing the right size dildo or dong depends on your comfort level and experience. Beginners should start with smaller dildos, typically between 4 to 5 inches in insertable length and 1 to 1.5 inches in diameter, to ease into penetration. More experienced users may prefer larger options, with lengths over 6 inches and wider girths for a fuller sensation. If you're unsure, consider purchasing a set with multiple sizes or a dildo with a tapered design that allows you to gradually adjust to larger sizes.
Are dildos and dongs safe to use?
Yes, dildos and dongs are safe to use when made from body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel. It’s important to choose non-porous, hypoallergenic materials to prevent the buildup of bacteria. Always use plenty of water-based lubricant for comfortable insertion, especially with larger or firmer toys. Clean your toy before and after each use to maintain hygiene, and follow the manufacturer’s guidelines for care and cleaning. If you experience discomfort, discontinue use and try a smaller or softer toy.
Can dildos and dongs be used with a partner?
Yes, dildos and dongs can be great for partnered play. They can be used during foreplay, oral sex, or in conjunction with penetrative sex to enhance pleasure. Strap-on dildos are specifically designed for use with a harness, allowing one partner to penetrate the other. Double-ended dildos allow both partners to be stimulated simultaneously. Many people enjoy using dildos in combination with other toys, like vibrators, to enhance sexual experiences with a partner.
How do I clean and care for my dildo or dong?
The best way to clean a dildo or dong depends on the material. Silicone, glass, and stainless steel dildos are non-porous and can be cleaned with warm water and mild soap or a specialized toy cleaner. Some silicone and glass dildos can also be boiled or placed in the dishwasher for deep sterilization. PVC and rubber dildos should be cleaned carefully with soap and water, but avoid submerging electrical components if the toy is vibrating. Always dry your toy completely before storing it in a cool, dry place.
What is the purpose of a suction-cup dildo or dong?
A suction-cup dildo or dong features a base that can be attached to smooth, flat surfaces like walls, floors, or shower tiles, allowing for hands-free use. This type of toy is ideal for those who prefer to experiment with different positions or want to enjoy penetration without using their hands. Suction-cup dildos are also harness-compatible, making them versatile for solo or partnered play. The suction base provides stability and can be adjusted to match your desired angle of penetration.
Can I use dildos and dongs with lube?
Yes, it’s recommended to use plenty of lubricant with dildos and dongs for a more comfortable and pleasurable experience. Water-based lubes are the best choice for silicone dildos, as they won’t degrade the material. Silicone-based lubes can be used with glass or metal toys but should be avoided with silicone dildos, as they can break down the surface. Lubricant reduces friction and makes penetration smoother, enhancing overall comfort and enjoyment.

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