Dildos by Material Australia - Silicone, Glass, Metal & Rubber Dildo Guide

Dildos by material are non-vibrating penetrative sex toys crafted from silicone, glass, metal, jelly, TPE, rubber, or wood—each offering distinct textures, firmness, and temperature play. They suit all experience levels and work solo or partnered, with no batteries or charging needed.

About Dildos By Material

Dildos by material are non-vibrating sex toys designed for penetration, chosen primarily for how they feel rather than any motorised function. The material determines everything: silicone offers flexible comfort and body safety, glass delivers smooth firmness and temperature sensation, metal provides rigid intensity, and options like jelly, TPE, rubber, wood, and ceramic cater to specific textures and aesthetics. They work for vaginal or anal play, solo exploration, or partnered sex.

These sex toys suit anyone—beginners often start with soft silicone or jelly, while experienced users explore glass for temperature play, metal for intensity, or artisan wood and ceramic for aesthetic appeal. Non-Realistic Dildos focus on shape and sensation over lifelike appearance, while realistic TPE options mimic anatomical detail. Each material brings its own care routine and lube compatibility, so choosing the right one matters for both safety and satisfaction.

What makes Dildos By Material different

Unlike vibrating sex toys, dildos by material rely entirely on manual control and the physical properties of the material itself. Glass Dildos can be warmed or chilled for temperature play; metal offers unforgiving firmness and weight; silicone flexes with your body. There's no motor noise, no battery drain, and no learning curve—just direct sensation. This makes them ideal for people who prefer tactile control, want a quiet option, or need something compatible with all lube types.

Types of Dildos By Material

Silicone dildos. Silicone Dildos are body-safe, flexible, and easy to clean. They suit water-based lube and work well for first-timers or anyone wanting a softer, more forgiving feel during vaginal or anal play.

Glass dildos. Glass is smooth, non-porous, and firm. It suits temperature play—warm under running water or chill in the fridge—and works with any lube type. Popular for internal massage and G-spot or P-spot stimulation.

Metal dildos. Stainless steel is rigid, weighty, and intense. Metal dildos suit people who enjoy firm pressure and don't require flexibility. They're also excellent for temperature play and compatible with all lubes.

TPE and jelly dildos. TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) mimics realistic skin texture, while jelly offers a soft, pliable feel. Both need water-based lube and gentle handling to avoid tearing. Jelly is porous, so it requires thorough drying between uses.

How they compare

How to choose a dildos by material

Start by thinking about what you want to feel. Silicone is forgiving and beginner-friendly; glass and metal suit people who like firmness and temperature play. If realism matters to you, TPE or jelly offer lifelike texture. Check lube compatibility—silicone, TPE, and jelly need water-based lube, while glass and metal work with any type. Consider size carefully: longer isn't always better, especially for anal play, where starting smaller and building up is safer.

Flared bases are essential for anal use—they prevent the dildo from disappearing inside. Double-Ended Dildos offer partnered or solo versatility but require careful communication if using them with a partner. Think about care too: silicone and glass are straightforward to clean; jelly and porous materials need more attention to drying. Buy from a trusted retailer so you know the material is body-safe and phthalate-free, especially for jelly or TPE options.

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After years of helping customers choose dildos by material, we've noticed that first-timers often underestimate how much firmness they actually want. Silicone feels softer than it looks—if you think you might like a bit more structure, glass or metal will surprise you. Start with a mid-range size (around 150–170 mm) rather than the longest option available. Length matters less than girth and base comfort when you're learning what you enjoy.

Lube choice makes a massive difference with material dildos. Silicone and TPE absolutely require water-based lube—oil and silicone lubes degrade the sex toy and can cause skin irritation. Glass and metal are forgiving and work with any lube, but water-based is still the safest bet. Keep lube handy; unlike vibrators, dildos don't generate friction, so you'll need to reapply more often during longer sessions, especially for anal play.

For anal use, start smaller than you think and go slowly. A flared base is non-negotiable—it's not optional. Many people buy a realistic TPE or jelly dildo because they like the look, then find the material harder to clean or maintain than they expected. If hygiene is a priority, silicone, glass, or metal are genuinely easier to keep fresh. Buy the material that matches your actual lifestyle, not just the fantasy.

Care and cleaning

Wash your dildo with warm soapy water and a soft cloth after each use. Glass, metal, and silicone are non-porous and simple to dry; jelly and TPE need thorough drying to prevent mildew. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct heat or sunlight—silicone and TPE can degrade in extreme temperatures. Use a dedicated toy cleaner or antibacterial soap if you prefer, but plain water works fine. Never share a dildo without cleaning it thoroughly first.

Learn more

Material choice genuinely affects your experience—firmness, temperature sensitivity, cleaning demands, and lube compatibility all vary. Why My Sex Toy Material Is Better Than Yours explores how each material performs in real use and why the "best" choice depends on what your body actually wants.

Why shop Dildos By Material at Adultsmart

Keen to get this right the first time? Adultsmart stocks dildos by material in every popular option—silicone, glass, metal, TPE, jelly, wood, and ceramic—with clear descriptions of what each feels like and how to care for it. We use discreet packaging and billing, so your order arrives private and unmarked. Body-safe, clearly labelled, and chosen by people who use this gear.