Beginners Chastity Guide

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When you buy a chastity device it is an extremely individual choice and it is imperative to issue some thought to various matters before you purchase. This incorporates the material it’s made of, penis and ring size, whether you’re circumcised, and how easy it will be to keep it new and clean for your Mistress or Master. This is a Beginners Chastity Guide which will help you learn the necessities of chastity.

 

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My First Time Experience

There are outfits with a leather strap joining a progression of metal rings which encase your penis in a subjugation touch. They generally have 5 rings (Gates of Hell) and the greatest goes behind your penis and balls to keep the outfit set up. This sort of penis tackle is economical in price and can acquaint you with the basics of a chastity device and of having your penis bound – they can be a decent prologue to chastity. In case you’re a bit worried about setting a metal ring around your penis and balls you can discover the Gates of Hell with elastic rings as well.

Material

Firstly, what do you need it to be made of? Basically the decision is leather, metal, silicone or plastic and your key decision variables are taking into account to what extent you wish to wear your chastity devices and how secure you need it to be.

Leather

Before the European and American markets got to be overwhelmed with cheaper Asian metal chastity, the main solid contender at a low cost was the leather Stallion.  At the time in the late 1990s to the mid-2000s the Stallion was THE entry level chastity device and an incredible prologue to full chastity. The Stallion style can be bought today and is perfect for introductory chastity play, it can be worn for a long time, however does need to be taken off for showering and cleaning. The Stallion Guard and comparable leather chastity devices alter around your balls utilizing a locking leather strap, the penis enclosure segment is normally a mix of leather straps and metal rings and a metal confine sort development toward the end. This outline doesn’t totally encase the penis, you can even touch yourself,  and it guarantees heaps of normal air to stream. Extraordinary for teasing as well!

Polycarbonate

Plastic Polycarbonate devices are discreet under trousers, light in weight and can be worn for months at a time so long as you adopt a good routine of cleaning and hygiene. This range caters for a variety of different cage lengths with the CB-3000 and the CB-6000 considered to be the average size, the CB-6000s is the smallest length providing a nice snug fit and has proved to be a very popular design. Finally the Curve chastity device – this is the longest cage length and allows for quite a bit of room to grow! This design has a different construction design being similar to a cage of bars (rather than a tube like the CB-3000/6000/6000s) and so it allows for a good natural flow of air. The CB-3000, CB-6000 and the CB-6000s have cages or tubes which completely enclose the penis, with a few air vents, and have a urination vent at the bottom of the cage – this design means you are less able to touch yourself. Security Level – In emergency situations the plastic centre pin securing the cage to the cock ring can be cut with side cutters or wire cutters.

Metal

There are many chastity devices available in metal, and a variety of different metals. In general Stainless Steel is amongst the best material and 316 Stainless Steel is the same grade as used by the medical profession, meaning it’s hygienic and body friendly. Metal devices may offer greater sense of confinement and security. They do tend to be a bit heavier than the polycarbonate devices, but some men prefer this extra weight reminding them that they are locked awaiting their keyholder’s permission for release. Security Level – Security is a major design feature of many metal devices. High level security means that metal chastity devices are much more difficult to escape from in situations other than authorised release. A bolt cutter would be needed to cut through the padlock. Escape from the “Houdini”, a chastity device based on a single handcuff, is another matter completely!

Silicone

Silicone chastity devices first hit the market during 2008/2009 with the Birdlocked device made in Switzerland, there are now at least two devices made of silicone including the BON4. The advantage of silicone is that it quickly warms to your body temperature and is far more flexible than any other material. Some designs are provided with separate back rings, whilst others are a one-piece component made with the ring attached to the tube. When silicone chastity devices first hit the market in 2009 there was hope that these might be the ultimate chastity device. All silicone chastity devices are lighter in weight than even the polycarbonate devices, although they can cause some soreness for a few men where the ring tightly grips the skin, this may be improved a little by using talc before putting the ring on. Security Level – In emergency situations the silicone devices and be cut with a pair of kitchen scissors.

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Ring Size

The size of the cock ring (sometimes called the back ring) of your chastity device is one of the most important measurements you must know before you buy a device. If the company you are thinking of buying from do not clearly display the chastity back/cock ring size do get in touch with them – you don’t want to unknowingly purchase one that only comes with a 40mm (1¼ inches) ring when you need one of 50mm (2 inches).

The cock ring of a chastity device is what keeps it on. If you measure incorrectly and purchase a ring that’s too large for you, the device is likely to pull down and eventually slip off. A ring that’s too small is hazardous to health: it mustn’t be so tight as to restrict blood flow.

If you purchase any of AL Enterprises polycarbonate chastity devices (Curve, CB-3000, CB-6000, CB-6000s) you will receive several rings in varying sizes (currently 5 rings each with a different diameter), enabling you to find the best fit. Some silicone devices, such as the BON4, also come with the variety of ring sizes as do a few metal devices. With these devices it doesn’t matter too much about measuring for the cock ring size before you part with your money.

However, most other devices (particularly the top quality, handmade, 316 grade stainless steel are purchased with just one ring, and so measuring for this is very important.

Personal Hygiene

You need to ensure that the device you choose allows for good hygiene. Devices which are completely open at the end offer the absolute best option, keeping the head of the penis in a good flow of air as well as being easy to clean. Open tubes allow for a good, more or less uninterrupted, flow of urine and so have far less build up of bacteria than closed or partially closed devices have. However there are few of this style on the market and some men prefer their chastity experience to be more confined and their penis less touchable. Closed or partially closed tubes can allow for small drops of urine to deposit and gather, and so particular attention to hygiene is essential. Unless used for a play session avoid devices that are absolutely enclosed at the end. There are a few such devices which are closed and have no drainage hole. Some men enjoy these for occasional play sessions because they deny any touch to the penis, however they can only be considered as very short term wear.

Types of Chastity Devices

Completely Open End

These devices offer the best for natural air flow, urination and accessibility for hygiene whilst wearing the device. Included within this range is the “Houdini“.

Cage Constructed of Bars

An alternative to the above and just as good are devices such as the steel devices and the polycarbonate “CB-2000″ (unfortunately no longer made by AL Enterprises) which encase the penis in a cage of bars allowing for lots of natural ventilation. This type of design helps to prevent a build up of bacteria, and ensures good hygiene can be followed. Designs include “The Curve” (for the larger male) and the metal device of a similar style (see 3rd and 4th photos in the right column).

Partially Closed Design

Within this group are devices such as the CB-3000, CB-6000, BuddyLock and Gerecke’s Rondo. These devices have a tube completely encasing the penis with slots or holes for urination, and require good regular hygiene routines to keep bacteria, the build up of odour and the possibility of fungal infections at bay. The attraction of these devices this is your penis is more or less completely enclosed and untouchable.

Completely Closed

They are a few devices that are completely closed, they have no opening whatsoever. Any device similar in design is perfect for Chastity Play, a short chastity role play enactment, as it ensures your cock is completely denied any stimulation. But such designs need to be removed for urination.

Cleaning the Chastity Device

Equally important as personal hygiene is attention to the cleanliness of your chastity device. It needs to be removed regularly, inspected and thoroughly cleaned, keeping you and your device in peak condition, an asset to any keyholder! Chastity devices made of medical grade 316 stainless steel are the most hygienic as they can be boiled completely clean to remove any build up of bacteria. Devices made of polycarbonate tend to build up a particular odour if worn for several days at a time, regular removal and through cleaning with anti bacterial soap helps keep this to a minimum.

Natural and Circumcised Cocks

In general most devices will suit both natural and circumcised cocks, but some are more practical than others for the uncircumcised penis.

Some men with a natural or uncut penis may discover that their foreskin protrudes through the urination slots of some chastity devices and this can be uncomfortable. This tends to happen with designs that have a tube completely encasing the penis and a slot for urination, such as the very popular, light weight, “CB-6000″. These chastity devices prevent you from touching your penis and have relatively large vertical urination slot. Although this design feature is really helpful for allowing a good flow of urination, some men, but not all, find the constant rubbing of the protruding foreskin a nuisance, others find this situation even causes the foreskin to become inflamed if worn for any length of time. Whether this would happen to you depends on your choice of chastity device and your own personal dimensions.

If you are uncircumcised and the design of the best selling CB3000 or CB6000 particularly appeals to you experiment with pulling your foreskin back to expose the head of your penis as you enter the device. You may also find it helpful to carry a few Q Tips or Cotton Buds so you can gently reposition the foreskin back into the tube. A small amount of lubricant on the tip of the cotton bud really helps, or try a little aqueous cream like E45. Alternatively using the “Stocking Method” to put your chastity device on might help to prevent your foreskin from bunching up between the ring and the cage.

Your Keyholder

It goes without saying you must consider your cuckold or keyholder in your choice. Does she like your choice? Your chastity experience is hopefully a shared love-style and it’s vital you value your wife’s or girlfriend’s thoughts on the design of your chastity device.

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

My Experiences With Chastity & Cock Cages

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Today I’m just going to talk about male and female chastity devices, they have been around for CENTURIES originally made so females were devout to their faith, and or to make sure ones wife was faithful when they went away for a war or mission during the Renaissance period they were rarely made for males (if ever back then) but this day and age they have come BOOMING back into the BDSM scene which is like what most people say “even if it’s not cool anymore it’ll come back around” just like when bell bottom jeans came back around for a brief 3 months ha ha.

The devices used today are generally made of a steel or hardened plastic type material and are used 99 percent for males and rarely for females except for some countries where rape is a serious daily event, which is abhorrent and even in some Asian countries so masseuses can’t engage in prostitution. I feel as though that is a tad sexist towards females but I’m not delving onto that subject.

These “cock cages” are generally worn for short to long period of times and some have extra attachments such as urethral tunnels so one can urinate through it.  It’s main use now a days is orgasm denial or being a submissive to whoever holds the key.  I wore one for two days as a test to see how they worked and let me tell you from first hand experience my partner has never tried harder to arouse me and it killed me slowly, so these cages do work, I wouldn’t use them long term because it’s like a dog with a muzzle.

 

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How the most popular cock cage works is by putting the balls through a ring followed by the penis, which in turn the ring sits around all the jiggly bits and then a cage goes over the head and shaft all the way down to the ring where it clips in and is padlocked together to make it nearly impossible to take off without the key (More than two days I would of gnawed through the cage) the testicles sit down between the ring and the cage that covers the shaft so you comfortably get blood flow but when you get an erection the cage suppresses the beast and the pain is like no other, you cannot orgasm or get off, the slightest bit of arousal and I was forced to think of chairs or any other object that isn’t sexual.

I recommend if you do buy this definitely have a long discussion with your partner to select the proper cage for yourself, the terms and conditions that go with wearing it if you’re planning on wearing it long or even short term, ground rules are important and please get one that you can urinate through! I cannot stress that enough, some are made with a bar across the front which makes urination impossible and I can only assume these are made for very very short term wear, it’s uncomfortable putting it on, once on it is easy to get used to, just don’t sleep on your stomach.

These cages are common in cuckold videos/lifestyles where the man shows complete submissiveness for the woman or “hot wife” where infidelity gets the husband off.  I’m sure we all know what a cuckold is.   As with any other fetish based item we stock, if I sell a few I’ll talk to the customers and eventually purchase it and try it myself to see if it is my cup of tea.  I recommend doing this with most if not all products we stock because it can unlock doors you didn’t know were there for yourself.

Female chastity belts are rare these days and so are full front covering male chastity belts, if you are quite a large fellow I’d suggest getting one made for your exact measurements which is not hard to do , there are a lot of companies that work only in this industry and the industry is somewhat booming. My own experience with it was it was good to get it off. But I understand why people wear them, I spent two days with my partner laughing at me and dressing provocatively and there was no way I could get it off, as I mentioned its like a muzzled dog ha ha. Definitely try it out though it was a lot more fun than I expected.

Author:  Nick is a sales consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Review: Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage

There are some natural feelings, which often are pleasant for a moment, but cause rather intense scenarios later on. The same is the case with erection of penis and various other activities associated with the penis. I also experienced the undue erection of penis in various scenarios, which not only embarrassed me in a public place, but also created uneasiness many a times. Many activities like Masturbation, erection, sex, etc., can just go beyond control for some people. I used to indulge a bit too frequently in these activities, which had an impact on my performance inside the bedroom with my wife.

Search for a product to control anxiety – I was desperately in search of a product, which could solve this very weird problem of mine. On researching over the internet, I found many such people who have similar problems. The intent of not betraying my partner for my sexual desire, which could pop up anytime anywhere made me research for some products that could help keep my feelings under control. After reading through a lot of articles and recommendations, I found out about Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage which ultimately changed my life. It not only helped my sex life, but ultimately helped me with my premature ejaculation as well!

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Not able to satisfy my wife and the uneasy public feeling just frustrated me a lot. I just decided to consider various recommendations and ordered this product, without informing anyone. I can tell you, it was one of the best decisions I had ever made. I was excited when I received this product and realized that it was a rigid cage that could prevent natural anxiety and restore it for 100% with my partner.
The Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage is made of metal but is still very light. There are various sizes of Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage, which can be selected based on the size of the penis. If you aren’t sure about the size, you can buy a medium size cock cage, which has a 5.5 cm outer ring and 4.5 cm inner ring. The external length of the curved portion is about 9.5 cm and the internal length of the curved portion is about 6 cm.  Honestly, I had never used such products before and had no idea about the sizes. But, I did purchase a medium size Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage and it perfectly settled for my penis size.
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The Experience
Initially, it took me a while to adjust, as it felt a little uncomfortable carrying a slightly heavier penis. But, later on in rather 2 or 3 days, I just got used to it. The Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage is just so nice that it does not create a bulgy appearance, which many people like me are very particular of. Further, the light weight of Silverado Double Barrel Cock impressed me a lot, as in spite of having a metal construction, it became quite easy to handle after 2 or 3 days.
Various other experiences that deal with urinating or walking, playing, etc., were not affected by this so called anxiety shielding equipment. I was pretty satisfied with this aspect, as many such products as reviewed by many previous users created a lot of problem when indulging in normal day to day activities.
The Principle
The Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage works on a principle of preventing erection. If the penis erects even slightly, the cage facility creates a pain sensation, which prevents further erection. Often due to excessive masturbation, erection, sex, etc., many people like me have to suffer various consequences. Slight pain during the erection process prevents all such problems, which follow up after a small moment of excitement. I am glad, I ordered it for myself as many women today are using this equipment to keep their men’s loyalty intact. But, after using this product for months, I was pretty satisfied and was able to give my wife utmost bedroom satisfaction, which was missing in my past life. I had no need or necessity to try another alternative for this Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage. With so much happiness and satisfaction, this product just changed my life. I am in a better space today and there is far more love in our relationship.
I suggest people try out Silverado Double Cock Cage, as it is great and will help you get rid of some common problems you might face with your penis!

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

I Love My Colorful Chastity Device!

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For quite a few days I was searching for something that can help me to stay away from sexual intercourse or other sexual activities. Though I tried several products, they didn’t work for me. I was upset and depressed because I was desperately in search of something to protect my chastity. But, finally my search got over when I recently came across a chastity device. I found it to be extremely useful because this fantastic device is specially designed for those men who want to abstain from sexual intercourse or other sexual fantasies. It is just perfect for me and is absolutely what I was in search of!! I love my Silicone Chastity Device and am fully satisfied with its role to abstain me from any kind of sexual act or intercourse.

What’s Special About It?

As the name suggests, it is a protector of chastity and helps to stay away from all types of sexual acts.   Coming in various colors and packed in an excellent way it made me stick my eyes to it for a very long time before I purchased it. It consists of a plastic lock which is numbered uniquely and a padlock made of brass which when locked with the plastic lock, the metal detectors are not set off.

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The advantage of the plastic lock is that it has a serial number which doesn’t allow me to cut the lock without the knowledge and presence of my friend having the key. In this case, the key holder has all the power and thus, it prevents me from sexual activities like sex, masturbation and erections. I found this extremely helpful as I wanted to stay away from sexual acts and after a lot of search and research I found this product.

Benefits of Using It are after using it for a few days, I observed that this device had the following advantages. It effectively helped me to stay away from all types of activities relating to sex. This device comes in a well-packed box which is very attractive. I found it quite comfortable to use as it is made up of high quality material. It is aided with all the necessary equipment required thus saving me from spending more time on adjusting and using it.

These are the disadvantage of using a chastity device. During desperate situations I had to struggle when I did not have access to the key in order to get rid of the lock. But, from other perspective this drawback greatly helps me to stay away from doing any sex act even in a desperate situation. Sometimes, it can cause allergy to the wearer but I did not have to face this problem. I am stating this problem on behalf of someone I chatted to on a forum who was complaining about this.

What I Loved about It is not only comes with uniquely numbered locks for the key holder which is the essence of this product. But it also comes with all the components like the Silicon Cock Cage and 5 rings measuring 25 millimetre, 37mm and 48mm respectively that are required for its proper functioning.

I personally love this product, not only because I found it after a lot of struggle to get rid of my problems and it helped me to reach my aim of abstaining from any kind of sexual activity, but also because it is very helpful in a lot of other ways. I used to suffer from an addiction to masturbate frequently and this chastity device helped me to get rid of that problem. It in turn improved my health and I also started gaining weight. All the side effects which I was facing due to frequent masturbation vanished after a regular use of this product.

Simply, I love my Silicone Chastity device and I greatly I recommend any one who is reading this review and wishes to abstain from sex to purchase this chastity device as soon as possible in order to enjoy a healthy life abstaining all kinds of unusual sexual acts like I did.

 

 

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

A Cuckolded Lifestyle Suits Me

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One thing I have always loved about the concept of evolution is that it always seems to bring out the best in us, and other species too. As time goes by, human beings tend to break free from the artificial social prisons imposed by their fellow human beings which prevent them from expressing their true natural selves.  You often hear of gay couples, lesbian couples as well other people of all sorts of sexual orientations speak of their sense of identity, release and freedom that they have discovered. Has the world has gone crazy? Is it moral decadence? Certainly not. The concept of ‘coming out’ is more of a resistance, a revolt or some kind of prison break. I am sure you have also heard of cuckolding couples talk of their newfound happiness, unbridled ecstasy and contentment. It is the same with me. When I explain to a few friends of mine about my cuckolding lifestyle, they react with shock and astonishment. Some say am crazy, but many are those who have come to appreciate me for who I am. And no, I am not judging. Far from it. I only beg your indulgence as I explain to you why a cuckold lifestyle suits me, and why I am perfectly happy with it.

My Partner is now happy.  Human beings are sexual beings. Women are just as sexual as men are, or probably even more. Many women talk of the sexual frustrations they endure at home. In most cultures, the needs of women are treated as secondary to those of men. And when they seek help, they are advised to ‘persevere’. Things are really changing now due to women empowerment and feminism. I am not willing to go into the merits or demerits of both, but I have come to appreciate that I must do the things that make my wife happy. Why should she, a high-flying, assertive and dominant leader at the work place switch personas when she comes home? I find that absurd. This is where many people, both men and women bury their heads in the sand and live their whole lives pretending and unhappy as a result. Most women are naturally insatiable, and for them having one partner is impossible. Some are wired to be dominant, and some men simply like taking a back seat in a relationship. This is why am happy with cuckolding. We don’t have to live our whole lives as one big lie. We are happy being ourselves, and I am happy when I see my wife happy. That doesn’t mean that I live a sad, miserable life. Nothing could be further from the truth. I know you are probably wondering how that’s possible, which brings me to the next point.

Surgical Steel Chastity DeviceI and my Wife Find it a Great Source of Pleasure.  Now most men will agree that they get both jealous and instinctively excited when their wives are given attention by other men. Numerous studies have proven this. Why is this so? The  answer is that men are wired to compete and chase women. It’s only a natural phenomenon, which makes a man fiercely determined to please his wife. The result is passionate intimacy for the couple, all depending on how both of them handle the situation. The wife derives happiness from the man’s constant drive and desire to please her and the focus is shifted to their marriage. Cuckolding has saved many marriages from collapse since sexual frustrations are no longer swept under the carpet. This openness cultivates trust and is one of the reasons a cuckolded lifestyle suits me and is essential to the happiness of a marriage. So cuckolding is a natural aspect of human life, and more and more couples are embracing it. This healthy competition is what drives me every day, giving me great pleasure in the process. Perhaps we cause ourselves unnecessary pain by fighting our instinctive emotions.

It feels natural to us.  We have always been taught that a man is wired to have as many partners as possible, and that it is perfectly alright. But perhaps what you didn’t know is that the same applies to women too. For them it’s a form of natural selection, the desire to get the best genes from the best male species. This is why monogamy becomes unsustainable and divorce rates are skyrocketing. More people are cheating on their partners, and yet they are in a monogamous marriage. Isn’t that a case of applying double standards? A married woman, after some time, will get used to the body of her husband and will want to become more adventurous. This is a fact which is true for men too, and that’s why marriages are breaking. But this shouldn’t be the case if we are honest about our true feelings. This is why I am perfectly happy with sharing my wife as long as she is happy. It sounds a bit excessive, but we have never been happier. A cuckold a day shields a marriage from divorce, and the earlier we realise this, the happier we will become.

If you have been keen enough, you will realise that I am trying to be honest with myself, and it has made incredibly happy and contented in the process. As I said earlier, I am not trying to judge anyone or any couple. All I am doing is stating the fact that men and women are probably meant to have many partners. I sometimes wonder how one can be married to one partner for say, 10, 15, 20 or even 50 years for those who are lucky to live that long. Life has got to be more exciting than that. That’s why people are defying the traditions and daring to find happiness by fighting boredom and seeking adventure, but marriages have unnecessarily suffered in the process. The sexual powers of men decrease with age, while the reverse is true with women. Again this is a way of nature pointing to us that we need to come out and live our lives to the fullest. The above reasons why a cuckold lifestyle suits me are only mine, but other cuckolding couples will identify with most of them. So the next time you might be tempted to judge cuckolding as abnormal or evil, take a deep look in the mirror. You may just discover that innate desire to be free and to be happy, and that life is too short to spend your days in make-believe.

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

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