The Mystery Behind The G-Spot Revealed!

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While the G-Spot has always been there it is only in recent years that attention is finally being paid to this area of the female body. This article will explain the what, where and why of the G-Spot and will also recommend some specific sex toys that will pay special attention to this sometimes elusive erogenous zone.

What Is The G-spot?

The G-spot (also called the Grafenberg spot- named after German gynaecologist Ernst Grafenberg) is a particular position within a woman’s vagina with increased sensitivity that reacts when rubbed, touched, penetrated etc.

There has been much debate (since around the 1940’s) as to whether the G-spot is real or not. Scientists have had difficulty defining the G-spots structure and make up as well as what it could be connected or linked too. Many say the g-spot could be linked to the clitoris while others say it is a female prostate.  Another issue is the ability to “test” and “prove” the g-spots existence. Most “proof” available is known as anecdotal (meaning that it is individual stories and accounts not a scientific study that can be recreated to prove results.) This doesn’t mean that the G-spot isn’t real, it just means that scientists aren’t able with the current technologies to confirm its existence.

Side Note: Some studies using ultra sound have found physical evidence of the g-spot in women who can achieve orgasms through vaginal intercourse.

Now while it may only be anecdotal evidence I can say that the sheer number of women who came into our stores looking for products that focus on the g-spot an claiming not only its existence but how it has changed their sex life, is well… a lot, and that’s all I need to know. When it doubt I always trust the person who owns the equipment to best know how to use it.

Where Is The G-Spot?

This is the million dollar question that has everyone wondering. Generally (and I mean generally it may be different for you) the G-Spot is located about 50-80mm inside the front wall of the vagina. For those of us who don’t want to get a ruler out during sex that is roughly the length of a female middle or index finger (yes I did measure my finger to double check.)

If you are unsure where it is, the best advice is, with clean hands do some personal investigation. It is very important you become familiar with your vagina, vulva and where your G-spot is. If you don’t know how can you give directions to anyone else? Once you have located your g-spot find what is pleasurable for you, is it tapping and penetration? Is it gentle massage? Or is it something completely different? Take the time to learn what your G-Spot likes so you know where it is, so you can pick sex toys that work for you and give partners direction.

Why The G-Spot?

So you’ve read all this and are thinking “OK but what is the point of all this?” The short answer is it will make your sex life better. The stimulation of the G-spot can increase sexual arousal, give you more powerful orgasms and may even allow women to ejaculate (squirt). Now as we discussed earlier there is varying scientific proof but the anecdotal (stories from people who have experienced it) it is overwhelming and most people who have experienced G-spot stimulation agree that all this can happen when the G-spot is used.

Where the G-Spot is Located
Diagram: Showing the G-Spot

A case study in 1981 reported “that stimulation of the anterior vaginal wall (where the G-Spot is located) made the area “grow” by up to 50% and that self-reported levels of arousal and orgasm were “deeper” when the G-spot was simulated.” What this suggests is that stimulation of the G-spot increases blood flow to the area and the increased blood flow heightens sensitivity resulting in a more powerful sexual experience.

Side note: I do want to take a moment to say that some women are unable to find or claim not to have a G-spot. Without understanding the G-Spot completely it is hard to understand why this may be. However I do believe that every woman owes it herself to at least investigate your g-spot.

Sex Toys That Love Your G-Spot

OK now we know the what where and why of the G-Spot it is time to talk about some of the sex toys that will help you further explore this pleasure zone.

Nu Sensuelle G Massager Sex Toy Photo
Sex Toy: Nu Sensuelle G Massager

Brand: Nu- Toys for adults

Name: Sensuelle G

G-Spot Function: As well as being a vibe this sex toy has a rolling ball massager that creates intense G-Spot stimulation. With 3 speeds and 10 different functions this is a great sex toy for G-Spot beginners.

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Sex Toy: Svakom Trysta

Brand: Svakom

Name: Trysta

G-Spot Function: A beautiful sex toy that also employs the rolling ball massager function. The Trysta is a compact little gem that also has a clitoral stimulator and is waterproof. Great for those who know what they have and how to use it.

Gigi 2 By LELO
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Brand: Lelo

Name: Gigi 2

G-Spot Function: The Gigi has a flattened tip which is perfect for exploring the G-Spot. It is waterproof and can be taken in the bath or shower. The Gigi is for the G-Spot that likes some focused vibrations.

Lelo Mona Wave Photo
Sex Toy: Lelo Mona Wave

Brand: Lelo

Name: Mona Wave

G-Spot Function: Where the Gigi brings the vibrations the Mona brings the “wave” function. This function simulates penetration and is designed to rise and plunge like “lovers fingers.” The Mona is for the G-Spot who doesn’t mind a bit of pressure.

ShareVibe By Fun Factory
Sex Toy: Fun Factory ShareVibe

Brand: Fun Factory

Name: Sharevibe Couple Toy

G-Spot Function: Amazingly shaped and flexible the Sharevibe isn’t specially made as a G-Spot sex toy (nor is it specifically made as any kind of sex toy) but it will do the job. The beautiful silicone sex toy has the ability to work on many different spots and on many different people. The Sharevibe is for the couple who knows the value of the G-spot but doesn’t want to ignore anywhere else either.

Loki Wave By LELO
Sex Toy: LELO Loki Wave

Brand: Lelo

Name: Loki Wave

G-Spot Function: OK hear me out! This is technically a prostate massager but just looking at this thing you know any G-Spot would love it. The Loki has the same “wave” motion as the Mona but also has a smaller vibrating shaft that would provide amazing clitoral stimulation. The Loki with a little imagination could be a great HIS AND HERS sex toy for those who want a little more luxury in their lives.

Author: Jamie is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Meet Lady Bonnd – Heaps Better Than James!

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Lady Bonnd Founded by Eric Kalen

Just when I thought my life was complete after finding my best friend in the Lady Bonnd Body Wand Massager, I have discovered the Lady Bonnd battery operated dildo vibrators on the wall of the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres and I think I have no choice but to open my friend circle to these great sex toys!! Lady Bonnd sex toys are created by the founder of Lelo, Eric Kalen, with the Lady Bonnd range being a low priced option for those who don’t have the luxury of being able to splurge $200+ on a vibrator.

The first thing that must be said about these vibrators is the affordability. It was by accident I stumbled across these toys as I had a customer seeking a vibrator for no more than $50. As soon as I took it out of the packaging, I could already tell the quality of these vibes is up there in the battery operated range. These toys are suitable for people on a budget as you are able to buy these vibrators at a low price from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres.

These vibrators come in a simple plastic sleeve that unfortunately is only worthy of being disposed of once opened. I would recommend buying yourself a gorgeous satin bag or box to store it in to keep clean in between uses. The Lady Bonnd Vibes are made from silky smooth body safe silicone which glides beautifully with a touch of water based lubricant (Pjur Woman Aqua is my go to water based lube!). A soft silicone is really important in a vibrator, especially when it comes to dildo vibes that will be inserted vaginally or anally. It results in a comfortable and more pleasurable experience compared to using a rough or grabby silicone toy.

I Do Not Understand Why People Want To Spend Hundreds of Dollars

The Lady Bonnd Vibrators are easy to use, with a single button controlling the power and vibrations. There are 10 vibration modes to choose from, with a level and pattern to suit everyone. Considering the price of this toy, the vibrations are very good. They are slightly ticklish as opposed to deep and rumbly but this correlates with the price tag. These vibrators require 1xAA Battery to function. It is important to understand that vibrations of battery operated vibes do not come close to the vibrations of higher end rechargeable toys such as Lelo, Fun Factory and L’Amorouse. I do understand that not everyone is willing to pay into the hundreds for a vibrator but just keep this in mind if you’re umming and ahhing about treating yourself.

 

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Photo: Lady Bond Vibrators Left to Right: – Lavi, Maisha, Teora, Jete and Moyo

 

The Lady Bonnd Range

The Lady Bonnd battery operated Vibes come in four designs whose names I cannot pronounce but I’ll let you figure it out for yourself:

  • Zycie: A ribbed and slightly curved vibe with added girth for greater fullness and pleasure.
  • Lavi: A half ribbed, half silky smooth straight vibe with a slightly curved and bulbous end perfect for g-spot stimulation.
  • Maisha: Another rabbit inspired vibe with a straight, skinny and ribbed shaft featuring a small clitoral stimulator.
  • Moyo: A ribbed, groovy, hexagonal shaped straight vibe for those that love texture
  • Teora: A rabbit style vibe featuring a girthy, slightly curved and ribbed shaft with a long clitoral stimulator. Great for those looking for an intense experience.
  • Jete: A life-like, smooth cock shaped vibe with a bulbous head perfect for g-spot stimulation. (My personal favourite!!).

All these Lady Bonnd vibrators have a flexible yet firm shaft. They are available in a funky purple or sophisticated black, with rose gold ring detail around the bottom. These toys are waterproof, however it is vital with battery operated toys that are not completely sealed to ensure that the end is screwed properly to avoid water getting in. If you are looking for a very affordable vibrator to introduce you to the world of sex toys, then I would highly recommend the Lady Bonnd battery operated range. They are easy to use, classy looking, have good vibrations and plenty of options to mix it up. A great toy for a first timer!!!

For those looking for an even greater and more intense experience with your Lady Bonnd vibrator, I have to recommend the Lady Bonnd kegel exercisers, Vita 1 and 2. Kegel exercises strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, leading to greater vagina health and most excitingly, more intense orgasms!!! Vita 1 feature 2x 25gram weighted balls in fully encased, body safe silicone with Vita 2 a step up, featuring 2x45gram weighted balls for the more experienced user. The kinetic balls shake around as they move which creates a subtle, vibration-like sensation in your vagina. As well as leading to muscle contraction which strengthens the pelvic floor muscles, this sensation is extremely pleasurable. I recommend to women investing in these balls if exercise is a burden because wearing these balls while running, dancing or moving about is such an incredible and pleasurable feeling, you won’t be able to sit still. For more recommendations on kegel exercises and vagina weights, there are some great sex toy articles on the adultsmart blog, do check them out.

 

About the author: Sophie is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle CentresSave

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!