My Cock Trap Story

Cuckolded cleaner

Sheila was supposed to be his wife… and care for him.. for them to have a life together.  But soon he found out after getting married that she was a FemDom and only wanted him as a cuckold.  It wasn’t long before she had him in chastity and only let his ‘peewee’ out on special occasions.  How could he have known.    What was his life going to be like now that Shiela Set His Cock Trap….


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Jonas And Mistress Eve – CHAPTER THREE

Mistress of a cuckolded submissive

From Chapter One – Meeting Eve

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I needed no encouragement, she had become my drug and I could not get enough of her.  Looking at her, smelling her, being with her and she was not just ready to give me the dose that would bring me to heaven – that elusive love drug.  As I walked towards her and placed my hands on her curvy hips she began to sway in a catlike manner, like an untamed beast ready for action.  As I got closer I looked down the folds of her dress opened and I saw the top of her cleavage exposed and I had to resist the urge just to rip the whole dress she was wearing off.  Instead my arms went around her until the found the zip at the rear and I slowly undid it.

As the zip got lower I looked into those piercing blue eyes of her and saw amusement in them as well as a welcoming smile.  My cock had begun to get erect and her gaze slowly went to my bulge as she effortlessly stepped from her dress revealing a black low-cut bustier that pushed forward and upwards her more than ample bosoms.  She was wearing a G-String that had garters that were attached to her knee highs. Her amazonian physique was accentuated by these delicate lingerie pieces.


Beginners Chastity Guide

Chastity device in surgical steel

When you buy a chastity device it is an extremely individual choice and it is imperative to issue some thought to various matters before you purchase. This incorporates the material it’s made of, penis and ring size, whether you’re circumcised, and how easy it will be to keep it new and clean for your Mistress or Master. This is a Beginners Chastity Guide which will help you learn the necessities of chastity.

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There are outfits with a leather strap joining a progression of metal rings which encase your penis in a subjugation touch. They generally have 5 rings (Gates of Hell) and the greatest goes behind your penis and balls to keep the outfit set up. This sort of penis tackle is economical in price and can acquaint you with the basics of a chastity device and of having your penis bound – they can be a decent prologue to chastity. In case you’re a bit worried about setting a metal ring around your penis and balls you can discover the Gates of Hell with elastic rings as well.


Firstly, what do you need it to be made of? Basically the decision is leather, metal, silicone or plastic and your key decision variables are taking into account to what extent you wish to wear your chastity devices and how secure you need it to be.


Before the European and American markets got to be overwhelmed with cheaper Asian metal chastity devices, the main solid contender at a low cost was the leather Stallion.  At the time in the late 1990s to the mid-2000s the Stallion was THE entry level chastity device and an incredible prologue to wearing full chastity devices. The Stallion style can be bought today and is perfect for introductory chastity play, it can be worn for a long time, however it does need to be taken off for showering and cleaning. The Stallion Guard and other comparable leather chastity devices are normally adjusted around your balls with a leather strap that locks the device into place. The device itself is normally made with a mix of leather straps and metal rings. This outline doesn’t totally enclose the penis as you are able to still touch yourself which allows for airflow and makes it extraordinary for teasing!


Plastic Polycarbonate devices are discreet under trousers, light in weight and can be worn for months at a time so long as you adopt a good routine of cleaning and hygiene. This range caters for a variety of different cage lengths with the CB-3000 and the CB-6000 considered to be the average size, the CB-6000s is the smallest length providing a nice snug fit and has proved to be a very popular design. Finally the Curve chastity device – this is the longest cage length and allows for quite a bit of room to grow! This design has a different construction design being similar to a cage of bars (rather than a tube like the CB-3000/6000/6000s) and so it allows for a good natural flow of air. The CB-3000, CB-6000 and the CB-6000s have cages or tubes which completely enclose the penis, with a few air vents, and have a urination vent at the bottom of the cage – this design means you are less able to touch yourself. Security Level – In emergency situations the plastic centre pin securing the cage to the cock ring can be cut with side cutters or wire cutters.


There are many chastity devices available in metal, and a variety of different metals. In general Stainless Steel is amongst the best material and 316 Stainless Steel is the same grade as used by the medical profession, meaning it’s hygienic and body friendly. Metal devices may offer greater sense of confinement and security. They do tend to be a bit heavier than the polycarbonate devices, but some men prefer this extra weight reminding them that they are locked awaiting their keyholder’s permission for release. Security Level – Security is a major design feature of many metal devices. High level security means that metal chastity devices are much more difficult to escape from in situations other than authorised release. A bolt cutter would be needed to cut through the padlock. Escape from the “Houdini”, a chastity device based on a single handcuff, is another matter completely!


Silicone chastity devices first hit the market during 2008/2009 with the Birdlocked device made in Switzerland, there are now at least two devices made of silicone including the BON4. The advantage of silicone is that it quickly warms to your body temperature and is far more flexible than any other material. Some designs are provided with separate back rings, whilst others are a one-piece component made with the ring attached to the tube. When silicone chastity devices first hit the market in 2009 there was hope that these might be the ultimate chastity device. All silicone chastity devices are lighter in weight than even the polycarbonate devices, although they can cause some soreness for a few men where the ring tightly grips the skin, this may be improved a little by using talc before putting the ring on. Security Level – In emergency situations the silicone devices and be cut with a pair of kitchen scissors.

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Ring Size

The size of the cock ring (sometimes called the back ring) of your chastity device is one of the most important measurements you must know before you buy a device. If the company you are thinking of buying from do not clearly display the chastity back/cock ring size do get in touch with them – you don’t want to unknowingly purchase one that only comes with a 40mm (1¼ inches) ring when you need one of 50mm (2 inches).

The cock ring of a chastity device is what keeps it on. If you measure incorrectly and purchase a ring that’s too large for you, the device is likely to pull down and eventually slip off. A ring that’s too small is hazardous to health: it mustn’t be so tight as to restrict blood flow.

If you purchase any of AL Enterprises polycarbonate chastity devices (Curve, CB-3000, CB-6000, CB-6000s) you will receive several rings in varying sizes (currently 5 rings each with a different diameter), enabling you to find the best fit. Some silicone devices, such as the BON4, also come with the variety of ring sizes as do a few metal devices. With these devices it doesn’t matter too much about measuring for the cock ring size before you part with your money.

However, most other devices (particularly the top quality, handmade, 316 grade stainless steel are purchased with just one ring, and so measuring for this is very important.

Personal Hygiene

You need to ensure that the device you choose allows for good hygiene. Devices which are completely open at the end offer the absolute best option, keeping the head of the penis in a good flow of air as well as being easy to clean. Open tubes allow for a good, more or less uninterrupted, flow of urine and so have far less build up of bacteria than closed or partially closed devices have. However there are few of this style on the market and some men prefer their chastity experience to be more confined and their penis less touchable. Closed or partially closed tubes can allow for small drops of urine to deposit and gather, and so particular attention to hygiene is essential. Unless used for a play session avoid devices that are absolutely enclosed at the end. There are a few such devices which are closed and have no drainage hole. Some men enjoy these for occasional play sessions because they deny any touch to the penis, however they can only be considered as very short term wear.


Most cock cages will allow you to wear piercings whilst being caged up, though care should be taken to ensure that the piercing is not placed in a compromising position which will cause irritation. Some cock cages will also have a piercing ‘attachment’ which can be used to attach the piercing to the device, and keep it out of the way.

Types of Chastity Devices

Completely Open End

These devices offer the best for natural air flow, urination and accessibility for hygiene whilst wearing the device. Included within this range is the “Houdini“.

Cage Constructed of Bars

An alternative to the above and just as good are devices such as the steel devices and the polycarbonate “CB-2000″ (unfortunately no longer made by AL Enterprises) which encase the penis in a cage of bars allowing for lots of natural ventilation. This type of design helps to prevent a build up of bacteria, and ensures good hygiene can be followed. Designs include “The Curve” (for the larger male) and the metal device of a similar style (see 3rd and 4th photos in the right column).

Partially Closed Design

Within this group are devices such as the CB-3000, CB-6000, BuddyLock and Gerecke’s Rondo. These devices have a tube completely encasing the penis with slots or holes for urination, and require good regular hygiene routines to keep bacteria, the build up of odour and the possibility of fungal infections at bay. The attraction of these devices this is your penis is more or less completely enclosed and untouchable.

Completely Closed

They are a few devices that are completely closed, they have no opening whatsoever. Any device similar in design is perfect for Chastity Play, a short chastity role play enactment, as it ensures your cock is completely denied any stimulation. But such designs need to be removed for urination.

Cleaning the Chastity Device

Equally important as personal hygiene is attention to the cleanliness of your chastity device. It needs to be removed regularly, inspected and thoroughly cleaned, keeping you and your device in peak condition, an asset to any keyholder! Chastity devices made of medical grade 316 stainless steel are the most hygienic as they can be boiled completely clean to remove any build up of bacteria. Devices made of polycarbonate tend to build up a particular odour if worn for several days at a time, regular removal and through cleaning with anti bacterial soap helps keep this to a minimum.

Natural and Circumcised Cocks

In general most devices will suit both natural and circumcised cocks, but some are more practical than others for the uncircumcised penis.

Some men with a natural or uncut penis may discover that their foreskin protrudes through the urination slots of some chastity devices and this can be uncomfortable. This tends to happen with designs that have a tube completely encasing the penis and a slot for urination, such as the very popular, light weight, “CB-6000″. These chastity devices prevent you from touching your penis and have relatively large vertical urination slot. Although this design feature is really helpful for allowing a good flow of urination, some men, but not all, find the constant rubbing of the protruding foreskin a nuisance, others find this situation even causes the foreskin to become inflamed if worn for any length of time. Whether this would happen to you depends on your choice of chastity device and your own personal dimensions.

If you are uncircumcised and the design of the best selling CB3000 or CB6000 particularly appeals to you experiment with pulling your foreskin back to expose the head of your penis as you enter the device. You may also find it helpful to carry a few Q Tips or Cotton Buds so you can gently reposition the foreskin back into the tube. A small amount of lubricant on the tip of the cotton bud really helps, or try a little aqueous cream like E45. Alternatively using the “Stocking Method” to put your chastity device on might help to prevent your foreskin from bunching up between the ring and the cage.

Your Keyholder

It goes without saying you must consider your cuckold or keyholder in your choice. Does she like your choice? Your chastity experience is hopefully a shared love-style and it’s vital you value your wife’s or girlfriend’s thoughts on the design of your chastity device.




Cuckolded Man In Ropes!

Two Men One Woman

I am a cuckolded man in ropes. There are just some things in life that once you’ve started doing it, you can never undo it and worse, you will be willingly roped to it. You will want it again. You will search for it. You will seek for it. And you will do it again. You know you’re already roped to it, but you’re not willing to break those chains and escape from it – because you want it. In my case, I’m talking about cuckolding.

In the earlier part of history,

cuckold once referred to women who are adulterous.

Although the term is still used today for that particular definition, it now signifies a bigger meaning to everyone. Ever since the 1990s, the term cuckold now refers to a sexual desire or “fetish” wherein the “fetishist” is being inspired by a partner in commitment who willingly have sexual intercourse with someone else.  In simple words, cuckolding is a happening in which men like me watch my wife have sex with some other guys. I was familiar with that term many years ago but I never expected that I will come to a point that I will crave something like it. At first, I really feel it’s gross just by visualizing it. Imagine your wife having sex with another guy and worse is when she’s actually enjoying it or truly having sexual fun with someone that is not me! But as I have read other people’s experiences, I came to a realization that men who have been cuckolded have actually made their relationship more stable and in many cases, couples are actually being saved by having divorce because of this lifestyle. That’s what made me draw to a conclusion that a cuckold lifestyle might actually be good for our marriage.

I think the primary reason why partners ended up having an affair with somebody else is that they already become overly familiar with each other’s body, thus resulting to sexual dissatisfaction and boredom. Let’s admit it. I really think it’s the human nature. For me, the promise of having sex with only one person is like making a vow to only eat one food for the rest of my life. In the same sense, promising to have intercourse with only one person is definitely a “conscious decision” despite the fact that you know for yourself that it’s not in line with your nature as human. What made me even more eager to take the “challenge” of this lifestyle is knowing that my fellow men often solicit other men who are actually hotter, larger, and sexier, compared to themselves! And they actually allow that other guy to play with their wives.

When I first introduced this idea to my wife, of course she hesitated at first. But after weeks of trying to convince her, she finally decided to accept it. My wife already told me that she once had a hot boyfriend during her high school years and then we actually ended up inviting that particular guy. So I gave her permission to call him and we also set a reservation to a nearby hotel.

The day came. I was in the verge of questioning myself as to “should I really do this or not”. I know that my wife is also somewhat nervous but I know deep inside that we are both very excited. And we’re actually looking forward to it. For the first time in many years, there will be something more exciting than our first sex in that college party. I was really stimulated for what will happen for the next hours. Not to mention that it’s my first time to see this other guy. I’ve mentioned this because I’ve read some stuff in the internet saying that cuckolding is also associated with the man wanting to see another man naked. I know for myself that I’m straight but the thought added to the thrill. However, I was more preoccupied by the thoughts and visualizations of my wife having sex with someone else; for her private parts to be enjoyed by another, my wife sucking someone else’s, and other thoughts of the like.

Man In Rope Bondage

So we now met the guy at the lobby and went to our room. I sat on one corner and the other two sat on a bed a few feet from me. I can’t hide my sweat! There was a moment of silence for a while and then it happened. Little did I realize it would result in me being a cuckolded man in ropes.

We had already explained to my wife’s ex boyfriend what we wanted to try and he was all in for it and in the next moment I see my wife and the man snuggle up together on the bed like two total love birds. They kissed passionately as if they have been lovers for so long – which I guess they had been at one time. I really hoped that they were not

“sparking up”

the once failed relationship that they had. But it doesn’t matter, I’m the husband now and she should be grateful to me for allowing her to do this. That’s what I thought anyway. Soon their clothes are off and are doing things in front of me and I speak up.

Now comes the bit I was not prepared for.  My wife gets up off the bed and removes a set of hogtie restraints from her bag.  You know the zip lock type and says to me. ‘I am doing this for you so now you must do this for me.  It is the only way I will be able to totally let go.’

Doubts cross my mind but I nod my consent and with the help of her boyfriend they hogtie me and place me on the bed.  My wife then places a scarf in my mouth and all I can do is grunt and make illegible noises.  I am totally helpless.

All I can do now is to watch and experience both suffering and pleasure as they proceed to have sex on the same be I am hogtied.  Literally I am inches away from my wife’s love tunnel that since our marriage had been exclusively mine and her ex-boyfriend puts his hard member into her sex. It’s feels really painful on my insides but I actually like watching it and I couldn’t take my eyes off. It gets me so turned on. My wife then pulls his cock out of her and starts to suck his member and he was moaning with pleasure. A moment later, I hear my wife say cum on big boy and jismm spurts from his member all over her face that she cleans herself like a kitten, placing it on the back of her hand and licking it off.  Both her ex-boyfriend and I are charged and erect in moments watching this show and he proceed to mount her again with unbridled passion – I cannot take my eyes of this scene. She then let out a loud moan and it’s probably her loudest and she hasn’t done that moan with me ever before – I am jealous but still cannot pry my eyes away. My wife is totally wailing in ecstasy as the other guy is making aggressive and very hard sex with her.

She then again proceeds to suck his member and I was surprised when she asked me “Do you want me to do that to you honey?”

And then all I did was to nod yes. It’s like she’s teasing me and my body is just so aroused but in pain for the fact that all I can do is to watch

the “heaven” that’s happening in front of me.

And then they continued by doing it“doggie style” and I see my wife’s beautiful ass and rosebud and she is now so wet. I never expected her to “perform” like that with another man and she certainly had never to me.

It’s probably one of my best experiences ever, despite the fact that I haven’t literally “experienced” anything like my wife performed that time. In some ways I feel really worse than better. Of course I have to say I feel really good as I arranged this encounter and now its over I want to see more.  Is that strange that I am in two minds.   I have already started planning for another one but want my wife to try it with another man.  I feel that having my wife ‘use’ her ex=boyfriend is too close to home and prefer that she do it with random but handsome men. That my friends is how I became a cuckolded man in ropes.


My Male Chastity Story

Female Dom

I want to explain how I use my male chastity device and I want to inform you guys about the pleasures you will enjoy with your manhood being under lock and key and it won’t damage your marriage or relationship. When talking about the intricacies of Male Chastity strategies most guys out there claiming to be experts are really online liars. The fact there are many guys who like to have a cock and balls locked up indefinitely by their wives, girlfriends or male partner is astounding. The numbers of these kinky guys I believe are very small, and this article will explain what I have learned about male chastity devices.

My First Experience Wearing a Chastity Device

A few days before I was to get married I purchased a CB3000 which seemed to be the most popular of chastity devices on the market. This I presented as a joke to my wife as a surprise present before our wedding as she had expressed to me doubt that I could remain faithful to her after marriage. I actually wanted to find how seriously she took this as she had been cheated on earlier by previous boyfriends and always seemed to carry that distrust towards me.  She actually started experimenting with it and although the first time she insisted we try it and put the device on me it came as a bit of a shock – although silently and subconsciously I was pleased. We experimented and found out ways that the use of the device actually enhanced our pleasure. She started liking it so much – and I guess the thought of being in control – that after some time she would keep me bonded in my device for weeks at a stretch which gradually increased to months at a time.


Male Chastity Ring


The trouble was that I could not masturbate and I started missing this activity. I had to beg her to release me and let me enjoy my freedom for the bare minimum, just a couple of days but she begin to take great pleasure in punishing me and keeping me deprived from sensory pleasures without her permission. She is no longer afraid that I will fool around with other girls or guys. I have become more caring towards her as I shower her with more love and attention when my cock is locked up. I have actually caught her recommending a male chastity devices to her closest friend whose husband had been found to be cheating on her. She told her friend that she should to keep him locked up in one of these when you are not around and he will never cheat on you again. And if he refuses to wear it he is obviously going to cheat on you again.

The erotic denial a males chastity device gives is obvious. I first started with complaining profusely. But now I realise that I have actually started enjoying the situation and am now I am a chastity fetish fan. Having my cock locked up in a male chastity device actually has the effect of turning me on and I find it more exciting when my wife dominates me and I have to ask her to release me.

I wanted to know more about my kinky obsession and went to consult an urologist and know whether there would or could be any adverse impact on my health if I used these male chastity devices. He let me know that there is not even a single resource or place for doctors which gives information on this condition or in all the medical and urological writings.So I went and did a bit of research on my own and got my male chastity device customized so that there would be a reduction of the amount of compression on my organ when I had an erection. As I am not a newbie now in the game and I did not use it for short periods of time I wanted to make sure all would be well and my health would be taken care of.

I searched a lot of sites and finally found a male chastity device that was perfect for me. The chastity devices here have great names also! The names serve as a turn on. Some of the product names include Torture Puzzle, Tigers Cage, Hell’s Dungeon, Grinder or Exoskeleton just to name a few which I looked up. These are all sold by quality vendors and not only are much more safe but the cock cage also cannot be removed without the help of a key. I finally purchased a silicone cock cage which is made of flexible material and partly adjustable and can be worn for prolonged periods of time.

With my wife’s permission and after consulting with my doctor I selected an expensive chastity device which had no rings and did not have the cock rings which are the cause of tissue compression. The Doctor told me that erection was a natural process and night time erections may help the flow of blood and also exercise the erectile and vascular tissues to keep them healthy and ensure that the cock does not waste away, atrophy due to non-usage. The cock is just like any other muscle and if not used for protracted periods of time it is bound to wither away. So I am very alert as I hope to have many more healthy erections to live for.

But the fact remains that doctor’s advice, however frightening and scary like causing cancer and impotence does not stop the addict from smoking or stopping or my wife from locking my cock a male chastity restraint for protracted periods. I was scared about the Doctors warnings so I went and took some second opinion.

Male Chastity Devices are a Type of BDSM Foreplay

What I found out was that like all other sex toys the chastity device which I purchased was a much sought after bondage item which is not controlled nor certified as safe by the FDA or other regulatory bodies. Obviously there are little or no known complaints of guys becoming impotent due to their squeezed up cock and balls due to wearing chastity restraints, because nobody is unhappy when wearing them and everyone is enjoying the tightness and restrictive pleasure of wearing them. My Doctor also helped me by consulting with his friend who was a specialist on urological trauma and told me that the fact is that are not too many reports of people being injured by wearing or because of over use of male chastity restraints.

I was able to get hold of a blogger Metal who Incidentally told me that he was also a renowned consultant for cocks which had been locked up for years together. Bondage and Discipline coupled with Sadism and Masochistic leanings were Metal’s area of expertise. He reassured me that he had a lot of clients with locked up cocks who had no difficulty in getting an erection when their devices were removed. The pain of the erection in the beginning always turns into pleasure.

Metal advised me that play with my custom chastity device is a kind of foreplay, which is really, really long and prolongs the pleasure to give a kind of tantric euphoria which passes on to transcendence. But there are rules that are good and need to be followed. Maybe you must strictly not allow yourself to be unhooked before being chained to the bed posts. A second useful rule suggestion by Metal and endorsed by my wife is that if I am allowed to cum then immediately afterwards my cock would get a sound spanking for being naughty and would get locked up in my chastity device for long stretches to which I happily agreed.

I have finally come to the conclusion that wearing a male chastity device enhances my marriage and would recommend to my friends that this is how I use my male chastity device and if they want to live a less kinky sex life they could always do so too.

Chastity Device Rules

First we should get this straight a cuckold’s role in any relationship is that of a support person. His wife of better half needs come before all his own needs. So at the earliest time after the roles are determined and you choose to live a cuckold lifestyle he should be introduced to a male chastity device. The obvious reason for this is there is no place for him to waste time stroking off his own penis as it will deter him from the more important task of keeping his wife happy and serviced. It is my opinion that the chastity device be used even before marriage, whilst dating even so that the boundaries can be set early in the piece and the cuckolded man, if you wish to call him that does not take advantage of any situation especially when it comes to masturbation or sex.

As the key holder in my relationship I will not allow my cuckolded man to ejaculate at any time without my permission and this includes when I choose to take the chastity device off too. There is nothing more empowering to have his penis enclosed for a long period and then after release still deny him his release. It will only make the moment you do allow him to to be all the more exciting and rewarding. My husband begs me for sex that I permit him to have about once a month. To see how excited he gets when the time approached is in some way pathetic but in other a real turn on. Knowing that whenever I want it his cock will be erect and ready to service me empowers me and in most cases denies him. Chastity can be an important part of teasing and denial play. Teasing and denial is a form of Discipline where the wife takes pleasure in purposely teasing her cuckold both physically, verbally and even mentally. I love a cuckolded lifestyle and my husband does too!

Early on, before we got married, I let him know that I would be permitted to have affairs outside out marriage but that I would never cheat behind his back. In fact all the affairs I have had I have explained to my lovers the situation and I have brought them home for him to watch. For him to know his hot wife is desired by other men but that I choose to stay with him, as he is convenient for me. My husband kept pestering me to put him in chastity. He had one of the plastic belts from before we were married, which I didn’t like the look or design of so I went all out and got him a steel cock cage. I put him in under one condition: That he stays is going to stay in it for six weeks at a time, only being allowed out when I choose to allow him. He agreed although the first time he was only in one for a month. He constantly begs me to let him out and let him cum, but I won’t break our agreement now and I’m going to see to it that he doesn’t and keep my man in chastity.

I love the look of it on him, the way steel chastity cock cage contains & looks on my man’s big dick and he has mentioned to me that he loves the feeling of the cold steel around his cock and balls. I don’t get why men like to have that part locked up, but I certainly love it when he wants me with his whole being. It is great to be the key holder and in charge and certainly he is more receptive and kind to me. I also make his hands cuffed to our bed and legs shackled to the bed once or twice a week while I tease and shave his dick hair. This way there is no chance of escape of the chastity and I further enforce my dominance.

He only gets to have 10 sexual encounters with me per year. He is usually let out for 1 day for each encounter. Last night because he was really good I had him serve dinner to me and my 3 girlfriends who were in sexy short skirts and high heel sandals and he was stripped naked with only the cage on and out of his g-string that he always wears for me. We all grabbed his cage and his butt while he served us dinner. After we were done and he cleaned up we decided to only shackle his legs, free his dick out of the cage and he had to have sex with each one of us. He pleased each of us and to keep him horny we pleased each other too. He got drained good and when we were done he got locked back up in the cage for the next fun encounter.

My man loves being locked up in his male chastity device and it is great to know that if or when he is to see someone else it is at my command and will.  I love keeping my man in chastity and he loves it too.